Well, you can be all that and more, if you understand what dirty talking is all about.
So why do you think you’re having a hard time talking dirty in bed?
The only thing that stops you from screaming dirty lines in bed are the subconscious rules that are embedded deep in your mind.
Your subconscious mind doesn’t want to think dirty or talk dirty because it finds the whole idea weird, awkward, and socially unacceptable.
And if you truly want to enjoy talking dirty, you need to open up your mind and accept sexual thoughts and fantasies as natural and just as normal as any other thought. [Read: Easy dirty talking examples to warm you up]
Speak your mind if you want to talk dirty
Speaking your mind is the easiest way to talk dirty. Bring out the raw, sexy animal within you that isn’t restricted by social norms and rules. Say the dirtiest thing you can think of when you see your guy undressing in front of you.
And before you know it, you’ll find that dirty talking isn’t hard. In fact, it’s as natural as the horniness you feel!
There are so many ways to talk dirty to a guy, and so many different circumstances to be a really naughty, dirty minx. Depending on the situation, here are list of ideas, questions and things to say that can get his heart racing within seconds.
Before you go any further into the lane of dirty talking in bed, you need to know your boyfriend’s opinion about it. Remember, not all guys like dirty talking. Some guys just cringe the very instant they hear you say something crude or dirty.
If you’re dating a guy who isn’t into dirty lines, don’t fret. You can still use your words to stimulate his mind by fantasizing together in bed or talking about something that arouses both of you like the first time both of you made out, or the last party where both of you did something naughty.
The next time you’re in bed with your boyfriend or over the phone with him, use any of these dirty lines to arouse him.
But remember, talking dirty isn’t just about mouthing a series of naughty lines in random order. Follow up each line you say with something you feel. It makes the whole dirty talking game more personal and sensual.
If you say something dirty like “you’re my sex slave”, don’t follow that up by saying something completely different. Instead, describe how you feel when you say that. Tell him why you think he’s your sex slave, or what you’d want him to do if he was your sex slave.
Doing this gives the dirty talking continuity, which makes the whole experience a lot sexier and a lot more arousing!
And now that you truly understand how to say something dirty, use this list of 50 sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend, and give him a sexual explosion that’s beyond his wildest fantasies! [Read: The top 10 sexual fantasies for guys]
#1 I’m touching myself right now.
#2 Meet me for lunch. I want you to grope me in the car.
#3 I’m not wearing any underwear.
#4 I can’t wait for you to put it in me.
#5 I want you here right now.
#6 I woke up wet this morning.
#7 You have such a dirty mind, and it works on me!
#8 Tell me where you want to touch me first. *get naked and stand in front of him*