Have you had sex with an uncircumcised man? I have, and let me tell you a few things about the uncut guy the regular American woman has no idea about.
There’s a lot of apprehension when it comes to an uncircumcised man.
If peeping down his shorts can scare you, the mere thought of having sex with an uncircumcised man can make your insides dry up.
There’s always been a lot of talk about how gross an uncut man really is, and how all women should stay away from him.
I’ve been in several relationships for most of my life.
And as a regular American woman, I had never witnessed a real life Greek god penis with his turtleneck covering his little head.
Well, until I fell in love with an Indian guy who worked in my office.
It was office romance after a few sights, and a few casual dates later, I found myself falling for him.
But somewhere in my mind, I wasn’t ready for a relationship with him just yet.
It wasn’t his ethnicity, and definitely had nothing to do with his spicy Indian curries. Deep inside, I just knew there was a big chance that he was uncut down there. And I wasn’t ready to slip my hand into tight shorts full of skin!
Sex with an uncircumcised man
Hearing from all the thousands of women online and all my *experienced* friends and women colleagues who say an uncut penis is gross, I was rather scared and nervous about having anything to do with loosening his jock straps.
I went on a few more dates with this guy, and eventually, after several weeks of finding ways to end the date with a kiss and a hand on my breast I decided to just get the fear over with. [Read: How to make out with a guy like a sex goddess]
I mean, really, I liked this guy and he liked me. I wanted to take this guy to bed, and I really shouldn’t let a little thing like a penis full of skin come in the way of prospective happiness.
One fine evening, I asked him to come back to my place. We got into bed and I apprehensively told him that I was rather scared to see him naked down there. I thought he seemed affronted at first, but he broke into a wide grin and burst out laughing almost immediately. [Read: Why men love a damsel in distress]
Was I sounding foolish or was he just being “cocky”? Fast forward a few hours, and guess what, it didn’t feel any different at all. Not one tiny bit!
Learning from an uncut experience
I’ve been with the same man for six years now. I’m completely happy, even fascinated, I must say.
There are a lot of myths and confusing theories about an uncircumcised man that I just had to clear the air. After all, I’m now the real experienced one for all my friends who are always curious to know how the sex feels like.
To tell you the truth, sex feels the same whether a man’s circumcised or otherwise.
The percentage of circumcised American men varies depending on their age, all the way from the flower power days to the days of the metrosexual man. But in a 2005 survey by the Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality, it was seen that only a little over half of male babies are circumcised in hospitals.
Jews and Muslims get circumcised for religious reasons. But guess what, more than two thirds of the men in the world are still uncut.
Science says what?
Most of us assume that a circumcised penis is the better alternative, but other than the myth associated with it, there’s really no scientific data to prove the benefits and your doctor will tell you the same.
Even the American Academy of Pediatrics has been changing its mind constantly over the decades. And after much research, they’ve concluded in 1999 that circumcision offers no conclusive benefits. Even the claims of the World Health Organization that circumcision has a lot of benefits have been proven false over the years.
So why do American men and women still prefer a circumcision?
Most parents cut the foreskin of male babies only because they assume the kids will grow up looking different down there.
Trust the way we’ve been built
Evolution created us this way for a reason, trust it. Back in the ages when there was no water or regular hot showers, people probably didn’t bathe often. And circumcision may have been a trend for the sake of personal hygiene. But now that we’ve all evolved, perhaps just leaving man the way he’s supposed to look may not be such a bad idea, after all. [Read: How to dress for sex]
Does an uncircumcised penis look different?
Of course, it does, but only by a centimeter! Women have pierced ears and noses. Does that make them look different? It does.
Odds are, the first time you look at an uncut man after sleeping with a bevy of cut men, it’s obvious that you’d notice a difference. But it’s almost insignificant really and nothing like the stories of loads of skin that we’re grown up hearing.
But if you still think it looks different, just hold his penis and move your hand towards his body. His skin will slide back and voila, it looks just like a your regular circumcised penis!
How to turn on a guy with an uncircumcised penis?
Just the same way as you would turn on a circumcised guy. Once they’re erect, all the penises look the same. One of my friends had told me to stick two fingers or my tongue into his foreskin first as it would turn him on more. Had I tried that, I would have looked like an idiot and would have hurt him too. Stop worrying that it’ll look different once you go down there. It really doesn’t.
The uncut foreskin is just a little bit of skin that covers a man’s manhood. When he’s not turned on and still small down there, his foreskin may stick out for about a centimeter. But when he stands in glory, his foreskin will slide back anyway. [Read: Tips to turn a guy on]
The sensitive side of an uncut penis
Uncircumcised penises are actually more sensitive to your touch. You really don’t have to bite or chew to make him feel like you’re doing something down there. As the little guy spends so much time covered in that skin, he’s more sensitive and delicate.
Circumcised penises rub their clothes and at times, the skin gets tougher and less sensitive over the years. But touch an uncircumcised guy’s little head and it’ll stand up almost instantly.
Uncircumcised penis Myths and FAQs
Now I’m not trying to convince you to stick an uncircumcised member down there just because I’ve got a story to share. But with all the myths and the confusions out in the open, someone’s got to let others know that there’s really nothing wrong with a man’s preference to go uncut down there. Here are a few things that could help you get friendlier with the uncircumcised member.
# Does an uncircumcised penis hurt you or the man?
No, unless you’re sleeping with an adolescent who still hasn’t learnt to pull his own foreskin back while having fun, it won’t hurt him. Any guy who’s aware of himself sexually would have pulled his foreskin back while playing with it once he learns to make it stand. So don’t worry about hurting an uncut guy, you really won’t.
# How to clean an uncircumcised penis?
Cleaning an uncircumcised penis, is done just like cleaning a circumcised one. It’s the same thing really. An uncut man just pulls the skin back and does the same thing a circumcised man would do.
# Does sex feel different?
Nope, sex with an uncircumcised man feels just the same as having sex with a circumcised man. If you think it’ll freak you out, just hold his penis and push your hand towards his body. The skin will slide back and look just like the familiar Mr. Uncut.
There are theories though that sex is more pleasurable with an uncircumcised man because the additional skin reduces friction during penetration, but since I haven’t measured the stark differences, if any, I can’t really vouch for that. [Read: What do men really like in bed?]
# Does he last just as long?
Yes, I’ve never really have felt any difference. An uncircumcised man may be more sensitive though, and that sensitivity may make it easier for him to orgasm faster. But then again, learning to control an erection and an orgasm is a mind game anyway.
# Is an uncircumcised man’s penis dirtier?
If a guy doesn’t clean himself, it’ll be dirty irrespective of whether he’s cut or uncut. Just like women. [Read: Why men really watch porn]
# Does an uncut man like a blow?
Theoretically, a man who’s uncircumcised will enjoy a BJ more because his tip would be more sensitive. So without relying on scientific experiments to test a man’s pleasure, I can safely say that a woman will have an easier time pleasing an uncut man.
# How to use a condom on an uncircumcised guy?
This may confuse a few girls who’re seeing an uncut guy for the first time, but don’t worry. Just slide his foreskin back with your hand and slip the condom on. It’s easier than you think, really. [Read: Interesting facts about condoms]
What about smelly smegma a.k.a. dick cheese?
Guess what, here’s a shocker. Smegma is produced by both men and women. Women produce it around the clitoris, and men around their little head.
Does that mean all women should undertake female circumcision? *It does exist in some communities though*. Of course not!
Smegma is just a lubricant that protects the penis and a woman’s clitoris from becoming too dry. It’s Mother Nature’s natural lubricant. She obviously didn’t intend humans to be using petroleum jelly each time someone decides to get aroused, did she? Smegma is regularly produced by both sexes in small amounts to make sex more pleasurable and can’t really be noticed in a hygienic person.
On the other hand, smegma a.k.a. dick cheese is only seen on men who haven’t washed their penis for several months or years. Gross! So if you ever do find it on any guy, uncircumcised or otherwise, stay away from his shorts.
It’s easy to be worried about something like having sex with an uncircumcised man, especially when you and your friends have no idea about it. I’ve been there too. But sometimes, getting a few uncut facts right can make all the difference.
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