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Reverse Cowgirl: 13 Reasons Why it’s the Best Sex Position

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You can’t skip the super-hot reverse cowgirl position in bed. Here’s why it’s been dubbed one of the best, and why you should add it to your sex arsenal!

When it comes to getting freaky in the bedroom, this is the position you don’t want to leave out. I think I can speak for every woman out there when I say that reverse cowgirl is among the best of all the positions. And I also believe I can speak for every man out there when I say that they LOVE it.

Because this position pleases both men and women so much, it’s unmistakably the best. Personally, it’s one of my favorites and, for obvious reasons, my partner’s as well.

Reverse cowgirl in a nutshell

For those of you who—unfortunately—have never been able to experience or even know about this great position, I’ll break down exactly what it is. I’m sure most—if not all—of you know what cowgirl position is. It’s when a woman is on top, straddling her partner, and they’re facing each other. [Read: 19 ways to own the cowgirl position and make it way hotter]

Reverse cowgirl is basically what it sounds like. All you do is take the woman who is on top and turn her around so she’s facing away from her man, while still straddling him. The only thing that would make this position more accurate for its name is if she threw on a cowgirl hat—but that’s whole other article!

Why reverse cowgirl is the best

Everybody has their own personal tastes on what they like best and what feels best for them. However, reverse cowgirl is absolutely among the top sex positions that the majority of people seem to enjoy. Here is why this sex position has been dubbed one of the best and why so many people perform it on a regular basis.

#1 It feels AH-mazing. What more could a woman or a man want in bed than a position that makes both of them feel incredible? Reverse cowgirl has the power to create incredible *physical and visual* stimulation for men, but it also gives women a great angle to the G-spot, making it feel truly great! [Read: How to tingle the g-spot to perfection without using a flashlight]

#2 Women feel more confident. When you’re a woman in reverse cowgirl, you will feel worlds more confident. Since you’re on top, literally, you’ll feel on top emotionally, as well. If you’re someone who doesn’t exactly feel comfortable about her body *even though you should be proud of it* reverse cowgirl allows you to face away from your partner, only giving him the amazingness that is your behind.

#3 Women get to take the reins! What makes a gal feel sexier than being the one in charge? In reverse cowgirl, women get to take the reins and control the situation. They can decide just how fast, slow, deep, and at what angle the sex will happen. It also gives them a sense of empowerment that they don’t get in other positions, making them feel sexier—which will make for even better sex!

#4 Women have great frontal access to themselves. The majority of women need some form of clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm. In reverse cowgirl, not only do they have total control over penetration, they also have control over touching themselves, in order to get where they need to be! [Read: 10 pleasurable ways to stimulate your clitoris when you’re on top]

#5 It’s a fantastic workout for women! Sexual pleasure aside, this position is an outstanding workout! If you ladies have ever been on top in any capacity, you know that it gets your thighs and butt burning! The motion of continuously going up and down works some muscles that you might not normally work. The bonus? While your man gets an awesome view of your behind, it’ll look better and better each time you get into this position!

#6 It gives men a view they’ll never forget. All they get to see straight on is the view of your booty moving up and down. Honestly, what more could a guy ask for? Not only do they get the joy of that, but women get the joy of knowing their men are enjoying it to an extreme.

#7 Men get to sit back, relax, and let their women work. Let’s face it: men do most of the work, the majority of the time. I’m the first to admit that it’s easy to be lazy with sex, because there are so many positions that cater to women laying there and letting their men work.

With reverse cowgirl, men just get to sit back while their women please them both. They get to really relax and not worry about pumping their hips for once! [Read: 18 girl-on-top tips to look really sexy when you’re riding your man]

#8 It’s not super emotional. Those of you looking for a one-time fling and wanting to avoid the hassle of making a deeper connection, this position is calling your name! With women facing away from men, it’s not too intimate a position.

It also doesn’t have too much touching—other than genitals. There’s not much body-to-body contact, and that can get pretty emotional and close. In this position, you can easily hit it and quit it—if that’s what you’re into, that is.

#9 It gives women a lot of options. Since it puts women in control for most of the time, they can really navigate their bodies in order to get the best pleasure out of the experience. Women can lean forward, back, and even gyrate their hips if they really want to—leading them to mind-shattering orgasms.

#10 Access to some ball play. This position not only gives women the option to play with themselves, but also to play with their partner’s manhood. If a woman’s partner is into it, she has full access to give his balls some added stimulation that is otherwise hard to reach. [Read: 8 naughty little moves every guy wishes you’d do in bed]

#11 It’s a great transitioning position. Not only does this position have all the perks mentioned above, it’s also a great position to transition into another one. It makes it really easy for your man to sit up and get you into doggy style, without having to maneuver around too much!

#12 It changes the “normal” routine. The ultimate benefit of this position has to be that it gets you away from your normal sex routine. It gives you different options and views that you don’t normally get in more “typical” positions, and this has the power to spice things up-a lot!

#13 Everybody gets the best of what they want! All in all, this position will give each person exactly what they want. Women get the control they’ve been wanting and men get to enjoy the view while doing minimal work! It’s a win-win for everyone!

Game changer bonus!

To get even more out of reverse cowgirl, take it up a notch and try a variation! When you are in reverse cowgirl, lean back, and prop yourself up, with each arm beside your partner. This will increase your pleasure greatly, while allowing your man to take control of your hips and get to work.

An even better way to spice up this already smokin’ hot position is to do it in front of a mirror. Not only do you get to feel all the effects of it, you get to watch yourself in action! [Read: 12 smutty ways to take your sex life from vanilla to OMFG in one night]

Reverse cowgirl is not a position you should miss. Next time you hit the sheets, whip this out of your arsenal for a truly unforgettable time!

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Bella Pope
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  1. Garnelia says:

    Me and my boyfriend just love the reverse cowboy. I love how It goes really deep and makes me get the big O faster. It’s more satisfying to say the least!

  2. Mark H. says:

    It definitely does give guys a view they’ll never forget and it’s exactly why I like it so much. However, it does go quite a way in showing a woman’s fitness levels. I hit the gym quite regularly, so those who aren’t able to hold themselves in the position for a very long time immediately reveal that they’re not in the best of shape to begin with. That’s not necessarily a dealbreaker in my eyes, but it does go in the back of my mind that they’re not going to match me on that sort of level. Still, it’s not my only compatibility question and I have a few other points in mind that I’m looking out for.

  3. bigbelly says:

    IF you have a big belly, see if you can find a place and position where you can get some leverage with your hands. With a few women, I’ve pulled the bed away from the wall so I can let my legs hang over the edge of the bed below the knee, and she can still reach the wall while in reverse cowgirl. That’s a bit iffy and might not wok if you can’t reach without leaning, but you get the idea. One plus size woman I see occasionally is so very clever – she lays her pilates mat on the floor, partly under her kitchen table or under her desk in her bedroom, then has me lie down with my legs underneath the table and my core area out from under it. When she’s mounting or we’re in reverse cowgirl, she grabs the table or desk to steady herself or push back whenever she likes. It’s a little unusual, but it gives her total control over her body positioning and reduces the physical effort required. Reverse cowgirl is her thing, and trying something different like that is very sexy. Any object that gives you leverage will do. One partner used a sawhorse once while we were in the garage.

  4. redman says:

    To be “really good” on top, you have to know that it’s not just about fuc*ing. Don’t just focus on riding him. He’s got a fantastic view so take advantage of it – give him a show. Vary the pace, speed up, slow down. Often while I’m on top I’ll just stop the movement for a minute and sit there, look at him, give him a sexy smile. Gather my hair up and hold it up against my head. Rub my hands lightly on his thighs. Take one of his hands, kiss the palm, suck his fingers. Sometimes I’ll lean forward and put a breast in his mouth. There’s SO much you can do in this position, and you’re in control. Take your time and enjoy it! You’ll want to get the basic movement down — it’s a rhythmic grinding/twerking move while on your knees. I like to lean a little forward, pushing down on his chest while doing this. This is my favourite; I can ride really hard this way. But there are different positions too: leaning all the way forward resting on your elbows so your face is close to his, and letting him take control leaning all the way forward and stretching your legs out straight between his, and just moving forward and back (nice for slowing things down) leaning back, resting your hands on his calves and rocking your hips (very inviting view and allows him access to stimulate your clit) sitting up on your feet and bouncing reverse cowgirl – make sure to look back over your shoulder once in awhile and give him a smile Other things you can/should do: lots of eye contact play with your breasts play with your clit reach back and play with his balls/put a finger inside of yourself kiss his chest/neck/ears/lips squeeze his biceps suck on his fingers rub yourself, then put your fingers in his mouth intertwine your fingers/grab his wrists and push his arms out to the side or above his head grab the headboard and ride him hard Your partner is a huge part of this equation. If you aren’t with someone who makes you feel good, you shouldn’t be having sex with them, period. Simple as that. Your partner should make you feel desired and relaxed and…just plain happy to be there. Sex is supposed to be fun! And your partner should be doing everything possible to allow that! A mature partner will not make you feel judged or silly or pressured about anything. Trust your gut on this. Don’t bother being with someone who doesn’t make you feel like s/he appreciates you and wants to be fu*king you at that very moment. For sex to be really good, it has to be collaborative. You have to be willing to give, and you have to bring something to the table, too. I never think of any position as specifically for one party or the other. When I am on top, I’m doing lots of different things because I enjoy them and my partner enjoys them. But he’s doing things too. He’s pinching my nipples or raking my thighs with his fingernails or pulling me down for a passionate kiss. Sometimes when I’m hot and sweaty and need a break, I stop moving for a bit and he’ll blow on my torso to cool me off (yeah, he’s awesome). The point is, it’s very much about playing together and appreciating each other. As for approach, here’s how I see it. Sex is one of the greatest joys in life, and if you’re partaking in it, you should allow yourself to let go. You are there for pleasure. Give in to it. Be present in the moment. You don’t have to be in a deep, committed relationship or be making slow, sensual love for sex to be meaningful. You just have to own the moment you’re in. You could be with a one-night stand and fu*king like jackrabbits – but sex should always be a JOY. When I’m on top, I’m enjoying every minute. Because I’m happy to be there, and because my partner is happy too, everything else falls into place.

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