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How to Make Up with Sexy Make Up Sex

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Arguments may be bad for relationship, but not if you end it with passionate sex. Find out how to make up with make up sex and feel better too! By Jana Snow

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When you’re in a relationship, differences are inevitable.

After all, both of you are two individuals with unique ideas and approaches to life.

If you don’t have differences, chances are, one of you is more accommodating than the other, or worse, suppressing your anger.

Differences in opinions don’t have to create arguments, but at times they do, especially if the difference in opinion is a rather annoying one like excessive shopping or spending too much time in front of the telly.

While arguments may not increase passion in a relationship, making out or having sex in the middle of the argument definitely can.

[Read: The 7 sexiest types of sex you can ever have!]

What is make up sex?

Have you ever had an angry argument with your partner recently?

Sex may be the last thing on your mind while arguing, but at times, when both of you are clasping each other or standing really close and in each other’s personal space, the angry surge and heavy panting may suddenly turn into a sexual rush.

Many couples have never experienced angry sex, but there are enough of them to vouch for angry sex and the incredible turn on it gives.

If you ever ended an argument abruptly by throwing each other into bed, chances are, you’ve had an enjoyable round of angry make up sex. [Read: 30 sexy ways to spice up your sex life]

Why does make up sex feel so passionate?

To your mind, pleasure, pain, fear and almost every other intense feeling releases chemicals that make your heart race and make you feel breathless.

When you turn all that rage into sexual arousal, you’re redirecting the intense passion of the argument into lovemaking which can end up making make up sex feel a lot more passionate and animalistic than romantic lovemaking.

But as passionate or confusing as make up sex may be, avoid creating conflicts just to have make up sex. While an unintentional romp in the middle of a fight may be a fun way to end the fight, it’s not going to be so much fun if it’s a repeated affair. It could end up upsetting one partner, or worse, tearing the relationship apart because you need to live in a constant state of crisis just to feel any passion between each other.

How to have make up sex

Don’t initiate a fight just to make love. But if you find yourself feeling tingly down there in the middle of a fight, just keep these tips in mind to turn an argument into passionate make up sex. [Read: Top 50 kinky things to try in a sexy relationship]

#1 Get really close while arguing. You may be in a mad rage, but force your mind to get into each other’s personal space. Even the thought of getting close to your angry partner may annoy you at first, but a few weak moments of angry words could turn the argument into an arousing experience.

#2 Hold your partner firmly. Is the fight getting out of control? Is your partner slapping your arm or pushing you away? This is probably a good time to hold your partner firmly and get even closer. And if you feel the surge of anger turn into arousal, you’re probably ready for angry sex.

But remember this, kiss your partner only if your partner partially reciprocates within a couple of tries. Sometimes, one of you may be too upset for make up sex, especially if you’ve gone and slept with someone else.

#3 Your partner reciprocates. If your partner responds to your kiss by kissing back angrily, or even with passionate silence, don’t wait. Take your partner right there. Make up sex is usually a quickie, and not a romantic bonding bang.

#4 Apologize. Apologies come easy when you’re passionately locked in a sexual embrace. It doesn’t matter if you’re in the wrong or right, apologize in the heat of the moment and your partner will soften up or apologize back to you.

When you indulge in passionate make up sex, it’ll feel a lot easier to forgive each other or put things aside to talk about at a later, calmer time. And passionate apologies are more of a turn on while having sex, just like dirty talking. [Read: How to talk dirty with your partner and turn them on]

#5 Talk about your feelings. When you and your partner have passionate sex after a fight, your defenses are down and so is your ego. You’ve apologized already. Now talk about your differences or about your deepest, happy feelings. Have sex, don’t slow down, but don’t stop talking either. Say whatever you feel like to each other, and soon you’ll learn that sex makes truthful communication feel like a walk in the park.

#5 Take out your anger. If you’re still angry with your partner, get angrier. Slap around, claw each other and do whatever it takes to release the tension and the anger that’s built up inside of you. You’ll feel more aroused with each angry push, and yet, feel better with each thrust. [Read: How to sound really sexy while having sex]

After the make up sex

Make up sex can help both of you open up more and connect better on an emotional level. You’ll be more truthful and more easily forgiving, which makes communicating with each other so much simpler and easy.

Don’t wait for a fight to test this. The next time you’re making love, talk about your feelings with each other. You’ll realize how much closer communicating in bed will bring both of you.

Making up by making love shows that your relationship matters more than any petty arguments to both of you. So it’s definitely a good thing as long as you know the right time to make love and the right time to avoid it. [Read: The correct way to fight fair in a relationship]

Times when make up sex is a good thing

# You’re fighting over something that has no clear answer

# When a petty difference blows out of proportion

# Bursts of jealousy and insecurity

# Both of you are fighting with each other because of a series of little annoyances that built up over the day

Times when makes up sex won’t end well

# You’ve cheated [Confession: I cheated on my boyfriend and feel so much better!]

# Your relationship is falling apart [Read: 7 secrets signs on a bad relationship]

# You’re disrespecting your partner or playing the argument with amusement

# You create conflicts just to have angry make up sex

[Read: 12 tips to be a happy couple that's envied by all other couples]

If you’re one of the lucky couples who enjoy a good round of make up sex to conclude an argument, good for you. For those of you who haven’t had angry make up sex, try it. You’ll see how good it can be for your relationship.


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  • gugu
    October 26, 2014 | Permalink |

    well i want to try out ‘make up sex’, my boyfriend is faithful to me and i’m also faithful but i’ve been flirting with other guys on social networks and he caught me and now he is super dissapointed, thats why i want to try make up sex when he comes back. I hope it works

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