Some men take longer to cum while others it’s just a matter of minutes. But for the sake of your jaw or vagina, learning how to make him cum faster matters.
When you have sex with a man, watching them experience an intense orgasm is pretty rewarding. It’s like, that’s right, that was my mouth and vagina that made that magic happen. Sure, it could have been some other woman, but she probably doesn’t know the techniques that you do. Helping a man have a mind-blowing orgasm is not as easy as it looks. That’s why I’m here to tell you how to make him cum faster, harder and flop down in bed like a man who’s totally satisfied.
How to make him cum faster
The great thing about making someone have an insane orgasm is that they want you to experience that feeling as well. They want to make sure that you too have what they just experienced. So basically, it’s a win-win.
I mean, when the guy I was sleeping with helped me have an intense orgasm, I went wild. He made me literally lose my mind. So, knowing these skills doesn’t hurt. Now, these are skills we could have been learning in high school.
#1 You should enjoy it. If you’re not genuinely having a good time, he notices. The same goes for you. You should actually enjoy the experience if you want to make him cum faster.
#2 Find out what he likes. Whether it’s concerning blowjobs or sexual positions, if you want to make him cum fast, find out what really turns him on. Maybe it’s deep throating, anal play, or doggie style. Now, if you don’t like what turns him on, you don’t have to do it. Then it’s not going to be enjoyable for you and that’s not what sex is about.
#3 Mix it up. You don’t have to spend twenty minutes sucking his dick. Switch it up. You can give him a hand job, a blowjob, ride him, then go back to sucking his dick. You know, you want this to be enjoyable for the both of you, so don’t do something because you feel like you must. [Read: 20 really kinky things to do with your boyfriend beyond the bed]
#4 Dirty talk. Men love dirty talk. Okay, not all men, but a majority do. So, don’t feel ashamed to let your naughty side loose with some dirty words.
#5 Build it up. Build up the sexual tension throughout the day. Send him naughty texts and sexy pictures, spend some time in foreplay. It pays off when he’s having sex with you, since the tension built up inside of him all day.
#6 Try new sexual positions. Maybe you two are used to the same sexual positions, which aren’t bad, but it’s nice to switch it up. Don’t be afraid to try new things, if it doesn’t work, just switch to another position. For example, if you’re not used to cowgirl, straddle him and go for a ride. [Read: 16 hot, hot, hot sex positions you need to try]
#7 Tell him where to cum. Now, some men find this extremely attractive, when you tell them where you want them to cum. You don’t have to do this if you’d prefer them to cum in the condom, simply tell them you want them to cum inside *that is, if they’re wearing a condom*. But if you’re open to the idea, tell him where you want it, he’ll love it.
#8 Grab his ass. When he’s about to cum, grab his ass and pull him harder into you. Or while he’s fucking you, grab and smack his ass during sex. It shows him that you’re really into it and gives them a little extra boost. Maybe it’s an ego thing, but the point is, it helps him to cum faster.
#9 Try anal play. Test the waters and see if your partner is into it, as many men are scared or uncomfortable with the idea of anal play. However, if he’s down to try it, press your finger on his asshole just to start. You can insert a finger in his ass. But, you don’t want to do this right away, make him feel comfortable first. [Read: Erogenous zones for men – 8 secret spots that’ll make him cum in minutes]
#10 Moan. Moaning turns on anyone. It also shows that you’re having a great and pleasurable time, so why not let him know by moaning? So, if he’s fucking you and you’re loving it, feel free to express yourself. Moan, scream—whatever it is that helps you release your sexual energy and makes you feel good.
#11 Stay away from alcohol. Alcohol may give you both more liquid courage; however, it greatly affects sexual performance.
Plus, if you’re looking to make him cum faster, alcohol does the exact opposite. It makes him last for hours, possibly without ever having to ejaculate. So, if you’re tired of a locked jaw, tell him to drink water before seeing you. [Read: Alcohol’s effects on sex and your libido]
#12 Don’t forget the perineum. Ah yes, this little guy. It’s the forgotten spot in a man’s sexual anatomy, but it’s very important. It’s the space between his balls and his asshole. That area is very sensitive and when it comes to blowjobs and sex in general, it’s overlooked. Apply pressure to it if you want to speed up the process. It’s also a good substitute if he’s not into anal play.