Have you ever experienced a full body orgasm? If not, you’re missing out big time. Here’s how to turn up the heat in the bedroom and achieve one.
That’s right! In addition to the other orgasms women can have, we’re also capable of having a full body orgasm. If you’ve never experienced this or never even heard of it, you’re in the right place. We’ve got just what you need in order to achieve this level pleasure.
But don’t think it’ll happen right away. In order to have a full body orgasm and feel that intense pleasure, you need to practice. You also need a partner that’s willing and able to work with you to get there.
The different types of female orgasms
Many women complain about the fact that it takes us longer to get off than it does for men. But truthfully, we’re lucky. We have multiple different ways we’re able to achieve orgasm. Men only have two ways.
There’s your usual g-spot and clitoral orgasm, but those aren’t the only ways women can get off. We can also orgasm through our nipples, through kissing, anal orgasms, the anterior fornix orgasm, and more. But the one all women should aim to experience is the full body orgasm. [Read: 40 interesting, fun quotes about the female orgasm]
How to achieve a full body orgasm that’ll leave your body weak
In order to get to this level of orgasm, it’ll take time. There are certain things you have to master first in order to have a full body orgasm. But believe me, they’re worth it. Here’s how you can an orgasm you’ll never forget.
#1 Relax. You just can’t have a full body orgasm unless you’re relaxed. You can’t really have any type of orgasm unless you let go of your stress. Without being able to relax your body, your muscles – especially those involved in this type of orgasm – won’t be able to let go.
It is essential that your entire body is loose and relaxed. Do whatever you need to in order to feel fully relaxed and ready to have a full body orgasm. Get a massage. Go work out. Just do what you need to in order to de-stress. [Read: 10 tips for women who want a mind-blowing orgasm]
#2 You can only do this with someone you are very close to emotionally. If you expect to have a full body orgasm with some random hookup, it won’t work. You can’t fully let go and relax when you’re not connected to someone emotionally.
You have to feel fully comfortable with the person you’re having sex with. Only then will you relax and be able to work with them to make your full body orgasm a reality.
#3 Have slow, steady sex. This type of orgasm is not one that will happen quickly. In fact, it’ll take a long time to get there. You have to have slow, steady sex so it can build up. That build is extremely important if you want a fully body orgasm. It’ll take some time to get there, but if you just let go and enjoy the sensations, it’ll happen. [Read: 13 naughty reasons slow sex is simply the best]
#4 Make sure it’s deep penetration. A full body orgasm stems from your cervix and less from your clit or g-spot. That’s right, it’s basically a cervical orgasm. And that means the penetration has to be very deep.
The trick with this is having someone that’s big enough to hit that spot. If they’re too small, it won’t work. However, you can also use a long dildo for the same purpose. So long as it’s deep, you’ll get there.
#5 Breathe deeply. In order to have a full body orgasm, you almost have to be in a meditative state. This means you need to close your mind and practice deep breathing. This will not only get your body in the zone for an orgasm, it’ll also help you relax fully.
#6 Squeeze and relax those Kegels! You don’t just get to lay back and take it if you want a full body orgasm. The truth is, you need to put in the work, too. So although you’re relaxed, you need to be able to squeeze and relax your Kegels during sex.
If you’ve never done this before, just think about squeezing your vagina from the inside. Then relax it. Do this repeatedly and the clenching of your muscles will help you build up to this type of orgasm. [Read: Why both men and women need to do Kegel exercises]
#7 Make some noise! But only if it feels natural. The fact of the matter is that if you’re making noise, you’re relaxing more. The sounds we make during sex aren’t just for our partner’s validation.
#8 Get lost in the pleasure. While you’re concentrating on squeezing and relaxing your Kegels, you also just have to get lost in the pleasure. Close your eyes and just let go. Relax into the rhythm of your body and the feeling of your partner in you.
Don’t worry about anything else at all. You should be able to just let your body and mind drift to peace. Forget about any chores you need to do. The only thing you should be focusing on is the pleasure.
#9 Focus on each sensation. And while you’re doing that, you can then bring your mind to each sensation. How does every move feel? Close your eyes and feel everything deeply. Each thrust, every move your partner makes in you, and the feeling of their body against yours.
#10 Tell your partner what you need. If you’re just not feeling the effects at all, you need to speak up. Tell your partner if they’re not doing something right. Point them in the right direction. The goal here is to make you have a full body orgasm and I’m sure your significant other only wants to help make that happen.
#11 Really believe you can do it. A lot of what a full body orgasm is has to do with where your mind is. You need to be thinking that you can actually achieve this pleasure in order to get there. Thinking positively is your best bet going into sex if you want to orgasm this way.
#12 Practice makes perfect. Truth be told, you probably won’t achieve a full body orgasm the first time you try. It may take a very long time for you to get into the habit of everything listed above.
But the good news is that you can practice and practice. The more you engage in this type of sex with the mindset of having a full body orgasm, the easier it’ll become. So go hit the sheets and try it out!
Having a full body orgasm isn’t always about feeling it sexually. With this type of intense pleasure, your entire body and mind have to be ready to receive it. Now get out there and make it happen with these tips!
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