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8 Sneaky Ways to Know a Girl’s Feeling Horny Around You

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Can you ever tell if a girl is horny while hanging out with her? Well, if you know the right signs to watch out for, that would just be as easy as pie.

Ever heard of the popular saying that goes “When it comes to sex, men are like light switches while women are like car engines?” It implies that men would always be reliably ready for sex at any time of the day while women, on the other hand, need to get warmed up first to get things going. Well, when the opportunity presents itself when a woman is indeed horny and ready for action, men would be ironically oblivious to the signs of a golden opportunity.

Contrary to popular depiction of a sexually-aroused female, which entails ripped clothes and a ridiculous amount of dirty talk, the telltale signs of a horny girl are sometimes subtle and not readily recognizable to the rest of the observing world.

Remembering the playboy aphorism that “a horny girl is a good girl,” here are several behaviors displayed by a woman in the heat of passion for you to use to your advantage. [Read: Times when women are at their horniest, and what you can do about it]

8 signs she’s feeling horny around you

Of course, we’re all aware of the physical signs of female horniness like getting wet down under and perky nipples even if she’s not cold. But in a casual setting, you can’t just approach her and feel her undies and peek through her blouse to check unless you’re asking for a sexual harassment case and a restraining order.

Instead, learn to detect her subtleties when she’s letting you know that she wants you to explore the bed sheets with you. Here we discuss the ways in which she subtly lets you know that she’s game. [Read: 10 ways to build the sexual tension slowly with a girl]

#1 She looks at you like a piece of well-done steak – otherwise known as “eye sex” or “eye f*cking,” this type of flirting is her long range strategy to let you know that she’s horny, or at least she’s willing to let you make a move on her.

You will notice that she will keep stealing seductive glances at you, wanting you to look back. And when you do, she’ll let herself get caught, blush, and she’ll then flash her “come hither” smile topped with the occasional lip bite. When this happens, don’t be an idiot. Get up, approach, and talk to her. [Read: 13 lusty signs of sexual attraction when a girl likes you]

#2 She’s flirtier than usual – okay, in this case we assume that you’ve established at least a neutral type of relationship with the said girl. You do the usual things that friends or acquaintances do, like hanging out and a little casual talk every now and then. And then, for some reason, you notice that she’s flirtier and more teasing than her usual personality would otherwise show.

Your suspicions would be further confirmed if she singles you out from the rest of the males around her. Flirting is an obvious sign that she’s aroused and that she wants your undivided attention. If that’s the case, you should reciprocate her flirting and go get into her game because you know, flirting could only escalate into something better.

#3 She’s touchy and feely – another sign that she’s horny is when her hands travel to places where they usually don’t, and with it comes the distinct blurring of the lines between normal and unwelcome touching. But who are we kidding right? There is no “unwelcome touching” for girls in the male vocabulary. This doesn’t mean that she’ll grab your crotch immediately though. Her touching could be subtle yet a ritualized invitation for you to do the same to her, and she’s telling you that she won’t mind.

The several ways she can do this are by deliberately getting her face or body close to you, hugging, wrapping her arms around your waist or arm, the usual foot rubbing against your legs, or at times, whispering way too close to your ear for comfort. [Read: 6 ways to accidentally kiss a friend and get away with it!]

#4 Your conversations are kinkier than usual – if she’s asking way too personal questions or leaving suggestive remarks in the middle of your conversation, it could be a sign that she’s into you sexually. Verbal teasing is a dead giveaway that she’s horny because females are really notorious for using subtle and indirect signals, meaning that her needs are so urgent that she’s being direct.

She might do this by making sexual double entendres in the middle of an otherwise normal conversation, mention her preferred sexual positions and past sexual encounters, or ask you about your own past sexual experiences – intimate topics that girls wouldn’t normally open up to. The best way to respond is by keeping up with her talk one step back using only the right amount of sexual content to make her hornier. [Read: 20 dirty questions to casually ask a girl and leave her wet]

#5 She’s complimenting how good you look – in a normal situation, this behavior could be passed off as mere flirting, but if she’s sexualizing everything you do and objectifying you, then it’s another story. Being sexually objectified is normally frowned upon, but in every man’s subconscious, it’s a secret fantasy to be chased and hit on by lots of women.

Okay, maybe not that extreme, but women could do the same to the subject of their desire all the same. She could do this by mentioning how well developed your arms, chest, or shoulders are, or by complimenting how your new pants fit those buttocks perfectly, or oftentimes, ask you if you work out often so she can mention how she would want to sud you up and wash her thongs on your well-cut abs.

#6 She’s uneasy in your presence – female arousal comes with various biological mechanisms in her body like increased heart rate and heavier breathing, creating a certain degree of discomfort, and hence, the reason why she says that she feels “hot.”

So let’s say that you’re on a date and she constantly shifts about in her seat while keeping her gaze at you, playing with her hair, or keeps going to the ladies room to freshen up, it could only mean that she’s into you and wants to get the best of your attention. [Read: 20 things you can do to get a girl in the mood]

#7 She flaunts her best assets to you – you’ve seen this before: the untying the hair clip, stooping down when talking to you to let you see her cleavage, wearing that V-neck with a push up bra, yoga pants, or fixing herself up for you even in a casual meet-up could only mean that she’s locked in to you.

If guys are the type to just to wear a shirt, pants, and sneakers, females, especially if she wants to get you, would present herself in her most attractive form in your presence. This means that every detail is carefully considered, from her dress down to her perfume. So appreciate her effort and make a move. [Read: 20 signs of attraction in the very first conversation]

#8 She lets you touch her – this could be described as the dead giveaway prior to the point of no return. Girls, even the most flirty ones, are very sensitive to unwelcome touching. So if you’re the daring type and would want to confirm if she really wants it, and she lets you touch her, then there is no need for further explanation because you know what comes next.

Be careful though, and start easy and carefully. Don’t just slide your hand inside her blouse. Make it more romantic and ritualized in order to build sexual tension for the both of you. Start with your hands around her waist, up to her arms, and caress her neck. Take note of the parts that she likes touched as she guides you further.

[Read: How to get a girl horny and wet while casually sitting next to her]

Women, even in the state of arousal, would prefer their men to act up and take the lead. The reason why she gives off these signs like a trail of rainbows is to let you know that she’s horny and wants you. So what are you going to do about it?

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Paul Mangay
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9 thoughts on “8 Sneaky Ways to Know a Girl’s Feeling Horny Around You”

  1. Charlie says:

    Yep, one of the most clear-cut signs she’s going to be up for it is she’s amping up her own flirtiness. When my girlfriend and I first started going out, I’d instantly be able to clue into what was going on just by seeing how responsive she was to my own flirtatious signals. Whenever she’d purposely try to outdo me, then it was a clear sign to close the deal! It’s an absolute rule to live by and has yet to let me down over a year later. Take a hint, guys. Good read.

  2. BlingyRed says:

    So you basically just let our secrets out :)! There are just some things that guys are not supposed to know. How are we supposed to play hard-to-get now? Everything in this article was the truth. I mean if the guy is experienced in sexual behavior, it probably wasn’t much of a secret in the first place. I love this read, hopefully whoever I date next will read this, then we can skip all of those awkward moments and just get right to it.

  3. does it kill says:

    I feel it right now that I’m reading this article. I had this girl in class that would let met touch her pussy every time and she doesn’t even complain. I do it as if you were just poking somebody. I would always feel her ass and she wouldn’t say anything but just give me a nasty look. One day, we were together in the same room alone and I locked the door. I let her touch me first. She got rid of her shoes and she wore stockings, she rubbed her toes over my pants trying to jack me off with her foot. I really got turned on. I would then rub my hand over her thighs almost touching her puss . I was really feeling it that point and was about to bust a nut but I kept calm. I didn’t love her. I don’t have sex with somebody I don’t love. I was sure lusting on her though. Apart from that, I didn’t feeling anything for her. She proceeded though in getting my zipper open and put my member in her mouth. She gave me those blow job eyes. We didn’t know we were making so much noise. We were caught by the other students passing by and made a video of us. Good call though even though we got caught, they didn’t report us. Spread a lot of rumors but it’s better than being expelled. I saved myself from getting it inside her though. After everything, I apologized for the way I acted towards her. I didn’t mean to get her turned on like that. There was nothing between us and we kept it that way.

  4. Fred says:

    Yeah, when she’s getting flirtier than usual, then that’s a surefire sign you’re in the clear and she’s ready for whatever it is you have in mind. Really, this is a huge missed opportunity that a lot of guys don’t jump on board, so it’s always best to seize the opportunity when it arises because it may not come back anytime soon in the future if they let it pass up. That is, unless a guy wants to drive his woman into the arms of another man. If that’s the case, then more power to you, but it’s a real brutal finish to any relationship.

  5. Tish says:

    I think it’s pretty apparent to my fiance when I am extremely horny. I am already pretty touchy with him, but it does get a lot worse when the mood strikes me. We have a great sex life, but there are times when I am hornier than usual. Just yesterday, I was texting him all day at work and he straight up asked me how horny I was. He knew just from reading my texts that something was happening.

  6. Dafuq says:

    much thanks !
    i’m feeling more depressed now ………

  7. Devin says:

    Hey! Look! A feminist that tries too hard!

  8. Mizu Miko says:

    What a bunch of crap. Speak for yourself, don’t push your non-existent sex drive onto the whole female populace.

    You wouldn’t happen to be the “Alice” person who keeps making similar comments but under a different account would you?

  9. Missy Clark says:

    Girl here,never felt horny in my life and have never met a fellow female who has.Article writer needs to grow up and talk to a real woman and take their white privilege elsewhere.

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