If you’re looking for naughty and sexy things to say in bed that’ll make your significant other roll over in blissful astonishment, look no further.
When it comes to spicing things up in the sack, dirty talk is right at the top of everyone’s list. But when you’re in the moment, coming up with the sexiest things to say in bed can be harder than you think. Your brain seems to get all flustered. And you probably end up saying something that’s the opposite of hot and steamy.
This ruins the mood and might even make things awkward for the duration of a time that should be fun and sexy. So what’s the solution? Having some phrases up your sleeve for just that moment! You’ll be able to just remember a few sexy things to say in bed and won’t feel worried or pressured. [Read: Dirty talking in bed with your partner]
I know firsthand thinking of something really sexy on the spot isn’t all that easy. And the pressure is ON when your partner is feeling frisky, and deliberately tells you to, “talk dirty to me.”
How to talk sexy in bed
Now, you can’t just start spewing out these phrases. If you don’t use the right tone of voice, they’ll just come out rehearsed and maybe even a little uncomfortable. And your partner will definitely be able to tell if that’s the case. [Read: How to talk dirty to a guy and sound really sexy]
Here are some tips on making dirty talk sexy and not weird.
#1 Fully commit. You can’t half-ass dirty talk. Either you’re going to say something ridiculously sexy, or it’s going to sound ridiculous. So really commit to what you’re about to say, and say it with confidence. Don’t hold back. Saying sexy things in bed leaves no room for being shy. If you feel something, chances are, that’s probably the best thing to say at that moment.
#2 Keep your voice low and quiet. Don’t use your everyday voice to say something really naughty. It just won’t sound right and will take away from the moment. Keep your voice very low and quieter than normal. It opens up the entire phrase for translation. Really, you can say just about anything with a sultry whisper and it will sound sexy.
#3 Lean in close. Since you’re keeping your voice on the quiet side, you’ll have to lean way in so they can hear you. There’s nothing ruining perfect dirty talk like having to repeat yourself because you’re way too quiet for your significant other to hear. So lean in close! A bonus tip: whisper your words into their ear for an added sexy benefit.
#4 Say what’s on your mind. One of the best things to say in bed is just to give them directions. Tell them exactly what you want and what’s on your mind. It will come out more natural and easy. [Read: How to talk dirty in bed — dirty talk examples]
#5 Keep it subtle and infrequent. Don’t spend the entire time saying different things. First, it won’t seem genuine, and, second, they’ll actually get bored of it. So keep things on the subtle side. And don’t use dirty talk every time you have sex.
The sexiest things to say in bed
Now that we’ve learned how to talk sexy in bed, you need some key phrases to keep the ball rolling. With these, you’ll have a little something extra up your sleeve when they request something a little out of the ordinary. [Read: 10 sexy text messages to start a sexy conversation]
Here are some of the sexiest things to say in bed, and amp up that desire and lead to the most satisfying night ever.
#1 I want you now.
#2 I’m so ready for you.
#3 You feel so good.
#4 Your body feels amazing on mine.
#5 I want to taste you.
#6 When you do _____, it drives me crazy.
#7 Keep doing exactly what you’re doing.
#8 I want you to _____ right now.
#9 I love watching you go to work.
#10 I want you to lay down and not move a finger. Let me do it all.
#11 You’re turning me on so much right now.
#12 That’s exactly what I like.
#13 Grab my hair and make me love it.
#14 I love it when you’re rough with me.
#15 It’s so hot when you grab me.
#16 Don’t stop!
#17 Is that all you’ve got?
#18 Show me what you can really do.
#19 I’ve been waiting for this all day.
#20 Get over here and pleasure me until I say you can stop.
#21 I want you on me now.
#22 Your hands make my body ache for you.
#23 Do you remember how much I screamed last time? Make me do that again.
#24 If you really want to turn me on, just touch me here. *Guide them in the right direction*