Naughty and sexy text messages are an integral part of every relationship. We’ve all been there, and we’ve all sent it to a naughty someone. But here’s something almost all of us have a problem with. A huge problem! How the hell do you initiate a sexy text conversation with a girl or a guy, without looking like a total pervert?!
Have you ever felt awkward to start a naughty conversation through text messages? Or at other times, does your mind ever go blank when your partner asked you to say something sexy in a text? Well, worry no more.
How to start sending sexy text messages to someone
Sending naughty, sexy text messages to someone is like having sex *or kissing someone* for the first time. It’s a pretty big deal, you’re excited but stressed, and as much as you want to do it, you just don’t know how to begin. But what if initiating sexy text messages doesn’t have to be as hard as you imagine it to be? What if you could just slip a subtle line into a text, and five minutes later, both of you are sexually excited, and horny, just like that?!
Using sexy text messages to seduce someone you like
Firstly, if you want to seduce a sexy friend or a new lover, or want to start talking dirty for the first time through text messages, you need to read these two features. They’ll guide you every step of the way, from the very first subtle text you need to send the one you want to start a sexy text conversation with, to the texts you need to send after turning them on.
[Read: 20 sexy questions to text a guy and seduce him]
[Read: 20 dirty questions to text a girl and make her wet in 15 minutes]
And once you’ve mastered the art of sending sexy texts to a girl or a guy, read on.
Sending a sexy text to a sexy someone should come naturally. You can say anything you feel like, and as long as you feel horny, chances are, you’ll say all the right things.
Things to know before texting sex
You can always text a naughty line like “I want you now… come on and f**k me!” It works and sends the message straight through. But it comes with a major flaw, especially if you two haven’t been sexting regularly already.
When you make a sexy text sound too explicit, or say a sexy line without any subtlety, your text loses its sensual appeal. It’s like watching porn every day. Yeah, it’s exciting. But somehow, it gets meh way too soon, and doesn’t arouse you slowly to the point where you lose your mind.
Sending a sexy text that screams “f**k me” is too direct. And as inviting as it seems, it’s still boring because you leave nothing to surprise. Your partner may read it, smile and just play along because you’ve initiated a sexy conversation. But in all probability, they’re not feeling a buzz in their loins, and they’re not even remotely turned on. [Read: How to have really dirty phone sex like a pro!]
Let’s face it, shocking sexual sentences don’t always work. They’re fun, but they cut the suspense and go straight to the end. And in a realistic world, how many times can you ask your lover to leave everything *and come and get you because you’re sitting naked and are horny AF*!
If you want to enjoy a sexy text conversation, you need to involve your partner subtly. You need to excite them slowly and you need to make them feel like they’re a part of the sexual buildup. And the best way to start a sexy text conversation is by starting slow and easy, and playing with the sentences to turn the person on one step at a time. [Read: 23 naughty lines to talk dirty and say the sexiest things!]
The subtle art of initiating a naughty conversation
Okay, honestly, if you two have been sexting each other already, just go straight to the wildest, naughtiest playful texts to keep things hot and horny. But if you want to be subtle and take it one step at a time, try to be discreet. With the right kind of texts, you can excite the person you’re texting, and make them want to sit up and ask YOU a few dirty questions, instead of just you spewing out lines of sexy one-liners and hoping one of them will turn your lover on.
25 sexy text messages to start a sexy conversation in no time
Keep your sexy text messages bordering on naughty, and mysterious. It makes the exchange of texts more exciting because your partner wouldn’t know what’s on your mind. They may know you’re flirting, but they’d have no idea that you have a naughty sexting marathon on your mind.
Instead, they’ll feel like they’re the one that’s building up the sexual texts by asking the right questions, when in fact, you’ll be the one who actually starts the whole sexy game by saying the perfect first line! You don’t have to initiate the conversation, all you need to do is slip one of these lines into the conversation, and see where it goes. [Read: Sexting tips to get you texting dirty like a real pro]
Are you ready to get naughty while texting sexy? Just use these subtle and sexy text messages while texting and go with the flow. And remember to think sexy, and talk sexy!
#1 Oh gosh, my fly was open all this while!
#2 I’m feeling so cold even though I’m under the blanket. Hold on for a minute, lemme put on my clothes.
#3 I’m so bored… I wish you could be with me now. [Read: 30 naughty questions for couples to keep the sexy spark alive]
#4 I’m watching a sexy video of a girl/guy who looks just like you *share a link to an explicit video with a really attractive person so they would be flattered even if there’s only a minor resemblance*.
#5 What are you wearing right now? [Read: How to look better naked using 15 real life tips]
#6 Can you guess what I’m wearing right now?
#7 It’s such a nice day to cozy up to someone, and spend all day in bed.
#8 I just bought new underwear and can’t wait to show it to you.
#9 If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?
#10 I’m watching porn. [Read: 16 sexting tips you MUST-KNOW before you sext anyone]
#11 My hands were busy, but they took a break to text you.
#12 I’m imagining you’re with me right now…
#13 I’m trying to sleep, but I can’t stop thinking about all the things I could do to you if you were with me right now. [Read: 10 fun sex games to play with your guy in bed]
#14 I’m looking for sex toys online…
#15 I had a naughty dream last night and you were in me… *I mean it
#16 Do you believe in kiss and tell? Cause I want you to kiss me and do things to me in your mind and tell me all about it.
#17 I’m lying in bed and bored. Do you want to play Never Have I Ever?
#18 What would you want to do with me after our date tomorrow?
#19 I can see two pussies humping outside my window. They’re meowing so much it’s hard for me to go back to sleep.
#20 Wanna play a game with me? [Read: 7 sexiest texting games you can ever play]
#21 I’m feeling so horny, and I don’t know why!
#22 You looked really sexy today… I can’t stop thinking of you.
#23 It’s been ages since I had sex…
#24 I just picked up this new dress/shirt today, and I’m trying it on right now.
#25 My body is so sore, I wish I could get a massage right now.
[Read: 16 fun emojis that make any conversation sound naughty]
Once you use any of these lines as your sexy text conversation starter, it’ll automatically get the other person’s mind racing into sexual overdrive.
All you need to do after that is play along and answer the questions keeping sex in mind. And before you know it, both of you will be all hot and bothered!
[Read: 50 more really dirty and sexy dirty talking examples!]
Use these naughty and sexy text messages the next time you want to initiate a text sex conversation. It’ll definitely work and leave one of you hard and the other wet!
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