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20 Sexy Text Messages to Start a Sexy Conversation

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Looking for sexy text messages to send to a naughty someone? Use these 20 subtle and sexy texts to set the mood for the naughtiest conversations. By Nicola Scholes

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Naughty and raunchy text messages are an integral part of every relationship.

We’ve all been there, and we’ve all sent it to a special someone.

But have you ever felt awkward to start a naughty conversation through text messages?

Or at another time, did your mind ever go blank when your partner asked you to say something sexy in a text?

Well, worry no more.

[Read: Easy ways to start text flirting with a friend]

Using sexy text messages to seduce your lover

Firstly, if you want to seduce a sexy friend or a new lover, or want to start talking dirty for the first time through text messages, you need to read these features.

[Read: 20 sexy questions to text a guy and seduce him]

[Read: 20 dirty questions to text a girl and make her wet]

And once you’ve mastered the art of sending sexy texts, read on.

Sending a sexy text to a sexy someone should come naturally. You can say anything you feel like, and as long as you feel horny, chances are, you’ll say all the right things.

Things to know before texting sex

You can always text a naughty line like “I want you now… come on and f**k me!” It works and sends the message straight through. But it comes with a major flaw.

When you make a sexy text sound too explicit or say a sexy line without hiding any meaning, your text loses its sensual appeal. It’s too direct and as exciting as it seems, it’s still boring because you leave nothing to surprise. Your partner may read it, smile and just play along with your mood. [Read: How to have really dirty phone sex like a pro!]

Let’s face it, shocking sexual sentences don’t always work. They’re fun, but they cut the suspense and go straight to the end. And in a realistic world, how many times can you ask your lover to leave everything and *come and get you*!

If you want to enjoy a sexy text conversation, you need to involve your partner. You need to excite them slowly and you need to make them feel like they’re a part of the sexual buildup.

And the best way to start a sexy text conversation is by starting slow and easy, and playing with the sentences to turn the person on one step at a time. [Read: 23 naughty lines to talk dirty and say the sexiest things!]

20 sexy messages to start a sexy conversation

Keep your sexy text messages naughty and mysterious. It makes the exchange of texts more exciting because your partner wouldn’t know what’s on your mind.

Instead, they’ll feel like they’re the one that’s building up the sexual texts by asking the right questions, when in fact, you’ll be the one who actually starts the whole sexy game by saying the perfect first line!

Are you ready to get naughty while texting sexy? Just use these subtle and sexy conversation starters while texting and go with the flow. And remember to think sexy and talk sexy.

#1 I can’t believe I texted you while I was peeing.

#2 I’m feeling so cold even though I’m under the blanket. Hold on for a minute, lemme put on my clothes.

#3 I wish you could be with me now.

#4 I’m watching a sexy video of a girl/guy who looks just like you *link it to an explicit video with a really attractive person so your lover would be flattered*.

#5 What are you wearing right now? [Read: How to look better naked using 15 real life tips]

#6 Can you guess the color of my underwear?

#7 My legs are missing you in between them.

#8 I just bought new underwear and can’t wait to show it to you.

#9 If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?

#10 I’m watching porn.

#11 My hands were busy, but they took a break to text you.

#12 I’m imagining you’re with me right now…

#13 I’m trying to sleep, but I can’t stop thinking about all the things you could do to me if you were with me right now. [Read: 10 fun sex games to play with your guy in bed]

#14 I’m looking for sex toys online…

#15 I had a naughty dream last night and you were in me… I mean, it…

#16 Do you believe in kiss and tell? Cause I want you to kiss me and do things to me in your mind and tell me all about it.

#17 I’m lying in bed and bored. Do you want to play Simon Says?

#18 What would you want to do with me after our date tomorrow?

#19 I can see two pussies humping outside my window. They’re meowing so much it’s hard for me to go back to sleep.

#20 Wanna play a game with me? [Read: 7 sexiest texting games you can ever play]

Once you use any of these lines as your sext text conversation starter, it’ll automatically get your lover’s mind racing into sexual overdrive.

All you need to do after that is play along and answer the questions keeping sex in mind. And before you know it, both of you would be all hot and bothered.

[Read: 50 more really dirty and sexy dirty talking examples!]

Use these naughty and sexy text messages the next time you want to initiate a text sex conversation. It’ll definitely work and leave one of you hard and the other wet!

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  • Mandy Lee
    June 23, 2012 | Permalink |

    LOL! This list is fun! While all the texts are really sexy and a nice way to start texting dirty, I couldn’t help smiling to myself when I read the first text, “I can’t believe I texted you while I was peeing”. It’s so cute and yet such an open invitation to flirt naughty.

    What I like most about almost all of these texts is how open ended and vague it is, and yet, how perfect it is to pave the way into so many interesting and fun conversations. xoxo

  • Lovely
    August 10, 2012 | Permalink |

    I am flirting with a guy and it is so fun. Texting is very adventurous and exciting!

  • cannos
    October 12, 2012 | Permalink |

    i just used the peeing one and she was like haha wtf? and i used the 2 puss. one on another lets see what happens

  • Amy
    October 24, 2012 | Permalink |

    I thought these were kinda corny :(

  • April
    November 12, 2012 | Permalink |

    Hahaha This is so Fun and its really working… I’m having such a blast!! Very interesting list 10/10 ;)

  • Um okay
    December 9, 2012 | Permalink |

    WHAT?! Who in their right mind would receive a text saying “I can’t believe I texted you while peeing” and thinks “Oh, I should sleep with that person”? If I ever got that text, I’d be getting the hell away from that relationship. Yeah, we all do it. But you don’t TELL THEM! And you certainly don’t use it as a seduction technique.

  • Lindsay
    December 20, 2012 | Permalink |

    I texted my boyfriend ‘my legs are missing you in between them’ and he totally flipped shit and said he was on his way to my house and told me he was gonna f**k me so hard id be screaming his name all night. omfg it works

  • Jennifer
    January 13, 2013 | Permalink |

    Oh my GOD. whoever wrote this, you helped me SO MUCH. I just sexted with my boyfriend, and turned him on soo bad. I dont think ive ever been this thankful. THANKS ALOT :))))))

  • Vandichamp
    January 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    #1 is straight up dirty… In a “I can taste what you burped” kind of way. The rest are funny and kind of fun.

  • F*cking hot
    January 24, 2013 | Permalink |

    Text my bf… Spent d night having sex!!

  • February 21, 2013 | Permalink |

    Thanks a lot this msg help me out to impress my boyfriend by this naughty conversation thanks a lot….. :-)

  • Lucy
    March 20, 2013 | Permalink |

    I only had to say “I wish you were here with me right now” And he said, I wish you were in the shower with me right after. This worked perfect!

  • A man
    May 7, 2013 | Permalink |

    This is lame. A woman can just ask for sex and any man would be there in a jiffy.
    I think guys need something to work with since a lot of woman are a bit more difficult, or even play difficult and things take a wrong turn somewhere.

  • May 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    i wish you were here so i can feel you inside of me

  • Candy
    May 28, 2013 | Permalink |

    I sexted my boyfriend saying I was lying in bed bored, do you wanna play Simon says and he flipped out. These are so helpful!

  • joy
    June 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    they are really cute and funny

  • Ivette
    July 18, 2013 | Permalink |

    They really work! Had my boyfriend worked up so bad ;)

  • *Jessi*
    July 20, 2013 | Permalink |

    I’m so glad I stumbled across this page… normally my fiancee Is the one who starts these messages so when he texted i miss you, I had to beat him to the punch lol so of course i had to start off with & text back i miss you in between my thighs… an he went crazy !!! I’ve never gotten him this worked up XD thank you sooo much !!

  • ~alissa~
    August 2, 2013 | Permalink |

    These worked so amazing!!! I had my boyfriend turned on to the extreme! He is out of town but he said when he gets back he’s “tying me to my bed and fu*king me till next week” Thank You So Much!!!!

  • BBMe
    August 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    How about trying “I have a fire burning between my legs… can you put it out with your hose.”

  • steve
    August 10, 2013 | Permalink |

    just had a nice hot shower lying in bed feeling very horny

  • Miranda
    September 26, 2013 | Permalink |

    LOL I’m going to have is much fun texting these to my mom!!

  • Jana
    October 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    These are really funny and my guys loves it. I once said ” I was a very naughty girl last night. What are you going to do about it”.

  • buck55
    November 24, 2013 | Permalink |

    trying it for the first time.we will see

  • nelly
    January 26, 2014 | Permalink |

    when boyfriend was very happy when told him, i’m lying in bed and bored do you want to play simon says

  • kim muchi
    June 18, 2014 | Permalink |

    omg…. that was awesome . he really came to putout the fire between my legs!!

  • krissy
    June 20, 2014 | Permalink |

    i sexted a guy friend and haha im laughing hard right now cos im not that naughty in real life,he was shocked and aaah turned him on right away.this really works!!!XD

  • haily
    August 12, 2014 | Permalink |

    Sex can be fun sometimes but not all the time

  • randy
    August 18, 2014 | Permalink |

    sex texting or phone sex: I had a few hot phone sex conversations with a lady who
    was in to oral sex she had lost her husband about 6 months before we hooked up
    via telephone calls she had always liked oral sex and had had 4 different men as
    her partners in person to satisfy her needs.She h ad never tried phone sex but after
    a few times she told me that one particular night she had to change the sheets because
    they were soaking wet from her cum and she wished I had been thee between her legs.

  • steven
    November 3, 2014 | Permalink |

    These are great lines to use to get it started. One of my go to lines is “So you think Niagara Falls is spectacular, wait until you see your waterfall”. That gets her nice and wet before I even start.

  • Bugs bunny
    November 3, 2014 | Permalink |

    Once my gf tried sexting on me she said she wanted a baby i was so turned on and confused didnt knew what to reply her back. . .

  • Boby
    December 20, 2014 | Permalink |

    Can I have ur pussy

  • Paigee Morris
    December 23, 2014 | Permalink |

    This so worked I messaged my boyfriend the “my legs are missing you between them” one and he flipped out, best night of my life due to this! Thanks so much I owe you!

  • deybey
    December 24, 2014 | Permalink |

    This is something we should do

  • Shauntay
    December 27, 2014 | Permalink |

    I used my legs are missing you right now & was told I’m not very good at this ????

  • diana
    January 3, 2015 | Permalink |

    I want a dirty man to text

  • diana
    January 3, 2015 | Permalink |

    I would please a man so good wanna find out

  • Moses
    January 7, 2015 | Permalink |

    Hi Diana My hands were busy, but they took a break to text you….can we chat

  • Moses
    January 7, 2015 | Permalink |

    As for me, talking dirty is an essential part of my sex life and one of the naughtiest things I enjoy. Dirty talk is the opportunity to really push back all the boundaries and stops. Being sweet and polite by nature, and expressing my dirty side in bed and blurting out sexy rude things is a lot of fun and gives a spice to my sex life.

  • mic
    January 7, 2015 | Permalink |

    You dropped the ball on #19…the rest aren’t that bad though lol

  • Ben
    January 10, 2015 | Permalink |

    I always enjoy reading your post. And I have to admit I also enjoy all the sexy pics in your post too. But are these examples really practical?

  • babybunny
    January 26, 2015 | Permalink |

    Omg… these phrases are so damn cool! I’m actually gonna try them on my crush!

  • babybunny
    January 27, 2015 | Permalink |

    they actually worked…u know what he did say? i cant stop thinking about u.. :)

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