If you really want to make your lover melt, giving them a nice seductive tease will do the job. Here’s how to leave them dripping with desire.
There’s really not much sexier than a well-executed seductive tease. Whether you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom or just have a fun night with your significant other, performing a strip tease is definitely the way to go.
There’s just something super erotic and sexy about your partner slowly taking off their clothes specifically for you to watch. People get entranced by it. How do you think strip clubs gained so much popularity? It wasn’t because of the food or drinks.
You should always make an effort to turn on your partner
Life can get in the way a lot and before you know it, it’s been two weeks and you haven’t so much as made out with your partner. It happens. But just like anything else in your relationship, your sex life needs to be nurtured. It won’t just carry on naturally after a while.
You need to be making the effort to arouse your partner and turn them on. Show them that you still want to be sexy for them. Without doing this, you’ll end up having less and less sex and you’ll end up resenting each other more and more because of the lack of sex. [Read: 15 tips for turning on your boyfriend and making him hard and horny]
How to perform a seductive tease that’ll leave your partner drooling
There really isn’t a single way that’s better than another when it comes to seducing your partner. You know them better than anyone. That being said, there are certain things you should keep in mind the next time you want to perform a seductive tease for your lover and leave them begging for you. [Read: How to strip for your man like a pro]
#1 Know what they like. You know your partner better than anyone else and that means you know what they like in bed. In order to give them a really sexy strip tease, you’ll need to think about those things. You need to be able to play to their desires so it can be the most effective.
#2 Play up their fantasies. We all have them and your significant other definitely has them. If you aren’t sure what they are, just ask them. A lot of people get embarrassed about their fantasies for some reason so you may have to work for a little while before you get a straight answer from them. [Read: The black book of top male fantasies]
#3 Slip into something sexier to slip out of. I realize how contradicting this sounds, but just trust me. If you try to do a seductive tease while shimmying off really tight jeans, it won’t have the same effect.
For that reason, it’ll be way easier and hotter if you simply throw on something a little sexier. This can be anything from a sundress to some naughty lingerie. Anything that makes you partner’s eyes pop will do the trick.
#4 Make it a surprise. Can you imagine how amazing it would be for your significant other to walk inside after a long day to your standing there ready for a seductive tease? They’d be overjoyed. So make it a surprise. Don’t give them any clue about what they’ll get receiving when they get home. [Read: How to shock and awe your lover with surprise sex]
#5 Or sext them a preview. If you want to get the anticipation rolling earlier in the day, send them a naughty sext with a preview of what they’ll get later. Show them a little sneak peek of what’s under your lingerie. Doing this will immediately get them excited. They’ll be thinking about what you’re doing to do all day and they’ll look forward to that seductive tease when they walk through the door.
#6 Dim the lights. There’s nothing better than mood lighting. You can change the entire purpose of a room if you have the right lighting. And that means you’ll want to light some candles and turn the lights down. Not only does this immediate suggest something sexy, it’s very flattering and you’ll feel really confident in your seductive tease. [Read: Why bedroom lighting for sex is important]
#7 Turn up the tunes. Music is sometimes even more important than the lighting. If you have the wrong music playing, it can be really distracting and your tease won’t be as effective. So put together a really naughty playlist with some great strip tease music and make sure it’s playing while you go about your business.
#8 Sit them down. It’s hard to do a seductive tease if your partner is standing in the middle of the room. Get a chair and force them to sit down. Not only is this demanding behavior really hot, but the entire thing will be a lot easier for you. You can walk around them, sit on their lap, and even whisper naughty things in their ears from behind. All of that is a lot harder if they’re standing. [Read: How to give a sexy lap dance they’ll never forget]
#9 Slowly strut toward them while undoing some buttons. If you have buttons, that is. There’s something really hot about someone slowly inching closer to you as they undo their clothes.
In order to make this even sexier, wear your partner’s button up shirt. However, this really only works if a woman is using a man’s shirt. Otherwise, it would look a little silly if a man was wearing a woman’s shirt.
#10 Don’t let them touch you for a long time. Have a “hands off” rule. They’re not allowed to do anything but admire you with their eyes. This will not only drive them nuts, but they’ll be itching to get their hands all over you when they’re finally allowed to. [Read: 20 naughty ways to tease your lover in bed]
#11 Give them views you know they love. If you’re a woman and you know your man is a booty guy, turn around and show him what you’ve got. He loves it and wants to see it. If your man is a boob guy, wear something that accentuates your breasts to his liking and get really close to his face. It’ll be enough to tip him over the edge.
#12 Use your hands generously – on yourself. Don’t even touch your partner at first. Instead, use your hands on yourself. This is a fantastic way to make your partner jealous. They’ll see just how much you’re turning yourself on and this will make them ridiculously horny for you, too. [Read: 22 things men love and want more of in bed]
#13 Walk around them. As they’re sitting in the chair, get really close and just walk around them. The great part about this is that you can be really unpredictable. They don’t know what you’re doing or why you’re moving behind them. It’ll heighten that anticipation and make the seductive tease all the more attractive.
#14 Whisper in their ear. While you’re behind them, lean forward and very gently whisper in their ear. Let your lips linger on it for a second before moving away. This is a really great way to tease them and use some dirty talk at the same time. [Read: 10 sexy sweet nothings to whisper during sex]
#15 Strip off a piece of clothing with each distinctive move. If you’re walking forward, slowly roll off those tights. As you move to sit on their lap, take off your top. Each distinct movement should be accompanied with you taking off a piece of clothing. This will slow things down and really allow that anticipation to burn.