Get naughty and dirty, and help your man open up to you by asking him these 20 simple and yet very revealing sexy questions to ask your boyfriend. By Jana Snow
Together times are fun.
But when you run out of things to talk about with each other, a few hours of boredom in a closed room can feel like a lifetime.
If you’re in a seasoned relationship, it won’t feel so stressful because quiet times can be rather relaxing and comfortable.
But in a new relationship, even a few minutes of silence can seem awkward and scary, like both of you are suddenly losing your compatibility!
One of the first things new couples want to do is get to know things about each other. But have you ever wondered how you could get your boyfriend to open up and talk about his softer feelings and his dirty and naughty side if he tenses up each time you interrogate him about his feelings?
Naughty and sexy questions to ask your boyfriend
Funny questions are by far the easiest way to get your boyfriend or husband to open up.
After all, it removes the threat of seriousness and at the same time, makes the whole conversation seem more light-hearted, sexy and even intimate.
But then, there’s the awkwardness of talking sexy for the first time, even if you’re trying to ask him a question or two. [Read: 60 fun get-to-know-you questions for a new romance]
You know you want to talk about all those dirty things, you know your guy would love it, but you just don’t know how to say those naughty things without curling your toes in awkwardness.
But sex questions don’t have to be awkward.
Just as long as you slip the questions in nice and easy, you won’t feel awkward about it, and your man, well, he won’t even see it coming until he starts to feel stiff in his shorts. [Read: How to make any guy really horny just by sitting next to him!]
20 sex questions to ask your boyfriend
The next time you’re lazing in bed or texting your boyfriend, ask him these 20 sex questions. It’s easy and relaxed, and even as he laughs about it, he’ll have a hard time stopping himself from feeling horny at the same time.
And the best part is that he’ll actually open up to you and feel closer, without ever feeling threatened by your questions at any point of time!
#1 Before we started dating, did you ever fantasize about me or take a peek at me when I wasn’t looking? *You’ve always wanted to know just how badly he wanted to hook up with you, didn’t you?*
#2 If I had to dress up in a sexy outfit, which character or attire would you want me to dress up as? [Read: Sexual role playing ideas for couples]
#3 What do you think should be our next step to make our sex life more exciting? *If your sex life is starting to get predictable, this is a great way to get your boyfriend to talk about new things he’d like to try in bed without feeling awkward.* [Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas that are worth trying at least once!]
#4 If you were with me right now *if you could do anything to me right now*, what would you do? [Read: 7 unique and naughty texting games to have fun all night long!]
#5 If we were just friends and I got drunk with you, would you take advantage of me? *There’s a good chance that just asking him this question will sexually arouse him.*
#6 Do you like it when I’m coy-and-sexy or bold-and-sexy? *Some guys like it when their girl is dominating in bed and in control, while most guys love it when they’re making out with a girl who’s more shy and bashful in bed.* [Read: 12 bad girl traits every guy craves to see in his girl!]
#7 Tell me about the sexiest dream you’ve ever had about me. *Conversations like these make for fun sexual conversations while making out with each other. It’s also a great way to get your guy to talk about his sexual fantasies while using his dream as an excuse*
#8 If we were having sex on a vacation and you realize that someone’s watching us from the next room, would you stop having sex or continue having sex? *Find out how wild and naughty your boyfriend is when he’s horny!* [Read: 30 dirty would-you-rather sex questions to ask your man]
#9 If I ever caught you masturbating, would you be embarrassed by it? *Let’s face it, just because your boyfriend’s having sex with you doesn’t mean he would never ever masturbate. Instead of making a fuss about it or confronting him about it, just let him talk about it in a light hearted environment. You can always ask him to give you the details as he answers this question.*
#10 Before we met, what was the sexiest thing you’ve done with someone else? *Most guys pussyfoot about their past, even if their girlfriend is extremely inquisitive about it. Use this question to know how sexually adventurous your boyfriend is.*
#11 If you could have a threesome with one other girl and me, who would you pick? *This question would help him see that you’re a real wild cat and not as coy and shy as you pretend to be on the outside!* [Real life confessions: My hot, sexy threesome experience!]
#12 What kind of a vacation would you prefer, the romantic mountainside where we can be locked up in our room all day, or a beach party destination where you can grind and make out while clubbing?
#13 Tell me a secret sexual fantasy of yours that you want to try with me.
#14 Do you think some girl has a little crush on you right now? *This question will boost his ego and help him open up to you about his own personal life beyond your relationship.*
#15 If we ever played truth or dare with another couple, do you think you’d do something naughty in front of them? [Read: 30 dirty truth or dare questions for a sexy night]
#16 What do you think is the sexiest part of my body? *Once you know this, all you have to do is use that part of your body to arouse your guy and turn him on!*
#17 Who would you prefer, a girl with a pretty face and an average body, or a girl with an average face and an awesome body?
#18 If you had to kiss a girl on any part of the body other than her face, which part would you kiss first?
#19 If you accidentally saw a girl undressing and she doesn’t know you’re looking, would you look away or would you continue watching? [Read: Sexual voyeurism and why it's such a sexy rush!]
#20 Do you like dirty taking while having sex? *Most men and women who enjoy dirty talking are too embarrassed to reveal this deviant secret. And the easiest way to get them to open up is by asking them about it when they don’t feel the pressure of being judged about it.* [Read: 23 tips to dirty talk and say the sexiest words to a guy]
If you have some alone time with your boyfriend, use these 20 sex questions to ask your boyfriend and talk to him about it. It’ll definitely bring both of you closer, and it’ll make your relationship a lot sexier too!
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