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How to Tell if a Guy Has a Boner and is Hot and Bothered by You

how to tell if a guy has a boner

Knowing if you turn on a guy is great for a lot of reasons. Here’s how to tell if a guy has a boner – and if you’re the reason he’s so horny.

There are a lot of reasons guys would get a boner. To be completely honest with you, sometimes it has nothing to do with being aroused. It just happens. However, it does give you a little confidence boost knowing they have a boner when you’re around. That’s why knowing how to tell if a guy has a boner is a great skill.

It’ll help you not only feel great about yourself, but it’ll also allow you to maneuver around them in a way that’s not awkward. Knowing when a guy has a boner will also be really helpful in knowing if he likes you and is into you at all.

Guys aren’t the best at talking about their feelings

I think we all know this by now. While women are very good at voicing how they feel, guys aren’t as easy to read. Sometimes the only way to know if he’s into you is by figuring out how to tell if a guy has a boner.

That alone will tell you that he’s, at the very least, sexually attracted to you. All that’s left for you to do after realizing that is to show him how great your personality is, too. Putting those two things together ensures that he’s definitely into you. [Read: Why it seems like men just don’t care]

How to tell if a guy has a boner and is really turned on by you

If your purpose is to make a guy horny and turn him on, then it would be extremely helpful to know if you’ve succeeded. And since most guys won’t just blurt out that they have a boner – thank goodness – knowing how to tell if he has one will come in handy.

Just because their pants cover their crotch doesn’t mean you won’t be able to tell what’s hiding beneath. Pay close attention to these signs a guy has a boner and remember them the next time you’re curious if you’ve turned him on.

#1 He’s covering his crotch. If he’s got a hand or item or really anything over his crotch without having a specific reason for it to be there, he probably has a boner. This is particularly true if he’s wearing sweatpants or loose-fitting jeans.

#2 He’s keeping you away from his area. Sometimes having a boner is embarrassing for a guy. Therefore, he’ll try to do anything he can so you don’t know he has one. And that includes making sure there’s no way you feel it. So he’ll keep you at arms length and even move away from you if you’re getting too close to that area.

#3 You’re being physically intimate with him. Are you making out and rolling around in bed or on the couch with him? Then he probably has a boner. When a guy is being physically intimate, he’s most likely turned on. And if you feel horny, he probably does too and that means he’ll pop a boner. [Read: How to grind with your man and turn him on]

#4 He’s telling you how turned on he is. Guys won’t really tell you they have a boner. However, some will voice the fact that they’re really turned on by you. That should be enough to help you imagine how hard he is. If he finds it important enough to talk about, then he’s probably feeling it in his pants.

#5 You’re touching him more than usual. This doesn’t even have to be in a sexual manner. If you just started seeing him and you’re holding hands and even sitting on his lap and being touchy-feely in general, it may cause him to get a boner.

This is especially true for younger men, but it can happen to all. The excitement of someone new touching them – even in a non-sexual way – can be enough to get a boner. So be aware of your actions. [Read: Naughty ways to tease your man and make him hard]

#6 You can see a bulge. Some pants just can’t hide a boner no matter what – and that also depends on how big the guy is. You may just be able to see his boner in his pants even if he’s unaware you can.

When there’s a bulge in his crotch that wasn’t there before, he has a boner. Either that, or his pants have bunched up in a way that makes it look like he has a major boner. Wait for him to move around and see if it remains. If it does, it’s most likely a boner.

#7 He keeps adjusting himself. Believe it or not, boners aren’t really comfortable to have in restricting clothing. This will cause a guy to shift around and even adjust himself openy when you’re around. If he keeps fidgeting and adjusting his crotch area, he most likely has a boner.

#8 He moves to sit with his knees up. This is something a guy will do to hide the fact that he actually has a boner. When he randomly sits with his knees up, it could be because he’s trying to conceal something in his pants. However, some guys just find this comfortable. Therefore, you can’t solely rely on this sign.

#9 His hands are in his pockets. Another way guys try to hide their boners is by holding it down with their own hands. However, this would look far too obvious if he did it on the outside of his pants.

So in order to be conspicuous, they shove their hands in their pockets as a means to control their raging manhood. If he’s had his hands in his pockets for a while – especially if it’s become inconvenient to do so – he probably has a boner. [Read: 9 things you’re doing that might be giving him a boner]

#10 You can feel it against you. This happens mostly when you’re on his lap or even dancing with him. Boners are, well, hard. So it will be pretty obvious that he has one when you can feel it against you. If you’re that close to him, though, it’s no wonder he has one!

#11 He’s just woken up. This doesn’t happen every single time – especially for older men. But it still does every now and then. If a guy has just woken up, he could have a boner. The only way to know for certain is to put this sign together with more of them in order to tell for sure. [Read: 8 facts about his morning wood and why he gets it]

#12 You’re trying to give him one. If you’re being really flirty and sexy in general, the guy probably has a boner. This is especially true if he likes you and you know it. Depending on the guy, it won’t take much to get him going. Therefore, if you’re actively trying to turn him on and give him a boner, you probably have succeeded.

[Read: How to give a guy a boner instantly]

Knowing how to tell if a guy has a boner definitely has its perks. These are just a few of the most obvious ways to tell that you’ve really turned him on.

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Bella Pope
Bella Pope
Bella is a lifestyle writer, cheese enthusiast (Wisconsin native over here) and fantasy adventure author-in-progress who enjoys all things love, dog, p...

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