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How to Ride a Man and Look Sexy Doing It!

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Riding a man isn’t just about getting on top. There’s a lot more to it than that. Find out how to ride a man properly and look sexy at the same time.

Making love with a special guy feels like sinking into a soft pillow.

It’s sweet and romantic, and it’s so full of love.

But every now and then, you need to take a break from the romantic kisses and slow penetration and do something more exciting.

And for a girl, there’s nothing more exciting and empowering than taking control of a man and riding him like a rodeo bull!

[Read: 10 ways to make long term sex feel like a one night stand]

How to ride a man and look sexy at the same time

Riding a man is easy.

All you need to do is get on top on him, and go with the motions.

But for a first timer or someone who hasn’t really been riding a man often enough, there are many things you need to know to make a ride feel sexy and look even sexier.

Riding a man can be messy at most times.

If you’re feeling all sweaty while riding a man for the first time, that’s the least of your problems really.

Your hair would be flying all over the place and sticking all over you, you’d get cramps in your knees and you’d feel more tired than a round of the Insanity workout.

But riding a man doesn’t always have to be this bad. If you know the right way to ride a man, you can actually make him more horny than ever, and look so sexy he’d want to eat you up! [Read: How to look better naked using 15 real life tips]

The good side of riding a man

Without getting into the positions and tips just yet, here are a couple of good traits about riding a man in bed.

#1 When both lovers take turns to be on top, it keeps the relationship exciting and fresh. It gives both of you equal control in bed while having sex and no partner feels dominated.

#2 Your man will actually think you’re a sexy, wild thing when you push him down and get on top of him. You’ll appear more confident, more powerful and more wild. And for a guy who’s used to being on top, he’ll be happy to just sit back and watch you take control while getting naughty. [Read: 12 foreplay moves for men that always work]

The best positions to ride a man

This is pretty simple. When you’re on top of him and letting him penetrate you, just sit in a manner that feels good. It’ll come naturally, and you don’t really have to memorize any names for it. After all, there’s a new sex position with a fancy name getting added to the list every single day!

Here are three easy positions you can use while riding a man.

#1 Facing each other. Make him lie down on his back. Sit on top of him and place your hands on his chest or on his knees. This way you’re facing him while sitting down. You’d look really sexy and your man will love the view he’s getting.

#2 Facing away from him. In this position, you sit down on your man who’s lying down but face away from him so your butt faces him while you look towards his feet. If your guy’s a butt guy who loves a sexy butt more than an eyeful of boobs, then he’d love this position. [Read: 20 things that turn a guy on sexually when he sees a girl]

The only negative with this position is that both of you can’t really kiss or do much with each other’s faces because you’re both not facing each other.

#3 Cuddling up. You can start off by sitting down on your man with your feet on either side of your man’s chest. But after he penetrates you, bend both his knees up so you can lean your back against his thighs. And get your boyfriend to sit up so it feels like both of you are actually sitting down and cuddling each other, while penetrating at the same time.

If you feel uncomfortable about showing off too much of your body while sitting on him, the cuddle can be a great sex position. It’ll cover your body up so you don’t have to feel uncomfortable, and at the same time, it’ll make the whole position feel more intimate. [Read: How to look attractive in bed when you’re with your man]

Riding a man and what your guy would think of you

Riding a man is a very dominant and confident position. While this may come easy for many girls, most girls still find the thought of shedding their inhibitions while watching their breasts gallop in midair over a man intimidating.

For a few girls, they need to be in a relationship long enough to actually get on top and feel secure about it. [Read: How to make out with a guy like a sex goddess]

If you want to ride a man, make sure you’re not the only one doing all the riding. The one on top is always the one who controls the sex and orgasms. So switch places a couple of times so both of you can feel in control of the sexual escapade.

On one hand, getting on top takes the control away from your man, but your sexual confidence will end up turning him on a lot more. Push him onto the bed, let him know just how horny you are and sit on top of him. He’ll understand that you want to take the lead, and he’ll definitely be excited to see that he’s turning you on so much that you want to control the sexual act. [Read: Easy tips to make your boyfriend want you more than ever!]

And as long as both of you share equal time on top, he’d even enjoy just lying down and watching the sexy show while you sway and grind circles over his member.

Now that you know the basic positions on how to ride a man, read the rest of the tips on how to look sexy while riding him in 18 girl on top tips to make your riding sex a lot sexier!


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20 thoughts on “How to Ride a Man and Look Sexy Doing It!”

  1. Bernie W. says:

    Refering to “Facing away from him”: The disadvantage not to see the face of each other can easy be solved by some mirrors, at the wall etc (just be carefully that they cannot fall down and may hurt you) — and if one don’t like to have a penetration in this position, you may note, that it is also very exciting just for petting / stimulating, maybe keeping on soft pyjama shorts, etc… even up to a big orgasm.

  2. Alex says:

    I’ve always wanted to ride my boyfriend but I’ve been apprehensive to do it. I’m attractive and good looking, but just the thought of my boobs losing control of themselves on top of him makes me feel awkward. But these steps and positions are an eye opener. I really think I can do this now! it just doesn’t seem as hard as i believed it to be.

  3. kt says:

    During the begining of my sexual relationship with my boyfriend I didn’t get on top too much. I was afraid of how I looked, and I was afraid that I would chaif his thighs. Also, and this is complete honestly, I enjoyed laying down and seeing his body thrust into me too much to try to change the normal routine. However, after a couple of months, it became obvious that he wanted me to be on top more. I have to say, I love it! When I’m on top I can control the movements, I can make it go faster when I’m close. When he sees me get turned on riding him, it only turns him on more.
    I agree with this article 100%!!!!

  4. CR says:

    I’ve never rode a man before, actually I’ve just started having sex but my boyfriend always trys to get me to ride him but I’m scared I’ll do it wrong & embarrass myself. . . I really want to try it the idea of embarrassing myself always stops me

  5. Jenna says:

    The ride shoud and always follow a few throat thrusting moments on his penis. Every man lasts longer and bigger after good oral pleasantries. This also allows you to take care of your business with more efficacy.

  6. Sky says:

    My boyfriend wants me to ride him, but Im scared since I don’t feel exactly confident in my body. I feel that he won’t really get much of a ‘show’. My boobs are really small and I don’t want him to see my ‘jelly rolls’ either. Plus, I don’t even know any ‘moves’ to do on top really.

  7. Angie says:

    Since day one of our relationship my boyfriend controls my movements on top, he pushes my hips back and forth and down to get deep penetration. I do feel its quite one-sided although I do enjoy it, but ive never had control on top. It can make me quite wary of taking the lead now as I feel it wouldn’t be the same for him :o/ .

  8. Joann says:

    Once you girls try it you’ll love it! I love my tits all over the place my husband sucking on them, my wild long hair all over! Enjoy it ladies cuz your man will get off big time!!!

  9. Brittany says:

    When I’m on top I feel as if the top half of my body is lying down on top of my boyfriend as it feels uncomfortable to sit up on him, I almost don’t feel strong enough whilst sitting directly up and I don’t know why, it works but I feel as if I’m doing it wrong, and would embarrass myself if I ever had any other partners :/

  10. Kiara says:

    My boyfriend and I have been together for a month now and ever since we were dating he’s been sex talking me. Most of the time the only thing he wants to talk about is sex. He asks me to make his dick hard and asks me if my pussy is wet. I’ve never had sex before and neither has he. I am a virgin. I know sex feels good cuz I play with myself but I think I’m just way to scared and uncomfortable for sex right now.

  11. Annaperrone says:

    I only come on top. Hahah I need to ride the man. I really like it and enjoy it. My boyfriend get so turn on by it that he can barely hold on… My experience tells me that all the guys get turn on by a woman on top. Yes give him all the other positions that he wishes and you are comfortable. But please try riding your mam. I don’t think you will ever let it pass again. Good luck!

  12. Emily says:

    Good article but please can we not refer to females as “girls” when males are referred to in the same paragraph as “men”. It needs to be “women”, not “girls”. Let’s stop infantilising women.

  13. missionary rider says:

    I like to be the rider. I let my wife ride, if she needs it…..not crazy about it though….but I love it when she’s just lazy and lie back, with my arms wrapped under her back lying on her

  14. Jim says:

    What the article does not state is that woman on top is much more effective for clitoral stimulation than man on top.

  15. sassy says:

    My man is average to big, I just love making love to him any position but I have noticed that once in awhile he drags me on top of him.When I mount his hard and erect penins I just cum!he continus pushing into me by holsing my waist and spanking me.woman on top and great especialy if you are backing your man.this article really helped.

  16. Cbeard says:

    The thought of being on top turns me on and I always used to want to go on top to learn and be the best at it.. But it didn’t happen that way.. I’ve been with my guy for 7 years and I hate going on top with him. I’ve only been able to make him cum a couple of times and the other times it looks like he’s just waiting for me to finish, so he can actually enjoy sex. He only watches porn with girl riding reverse cowgirl and I mean they are crazy good at it. He never even asks me to go on top. I’ve become so insecure about it that I hate having sex bc I never go on top and I feel like I should.. But why bother when I clearly can’t satisfy him? Idk I also feel angry at him for making me feel Inferior to porn girls and girls he’s been with before me. Ugh..

  17. sarah says:

    I was scared about getting on top because I am leaning a little on the heave side. My man is slim and I though I was going to break him. Thank God I didn’t. The first time I got on top I blindfolded him so his eyes couldn’t see how scared and worried I was. Also blindfolding him made me feel more confident. After that, we no longer need blindfolds

  18. Mitchy says:

    The article is an eye opener… I always wanted to learn how to take the lead but my ex boyfriend pointed it out that an pathetic at that …..l don’t want to mess things up in my current relationship…. If only l had a clue then …..as a matter of fact sm going to try that today…… I believe it’s going to be refreshing…

  19. Christynn says:

    Don’t be scared. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years now. When we first got together it was my first time sleeping with someone with the light on and I am very insecure with how skinny and tiny I am. I am not big breasted or have a plump butt. But he still loves my body and tells me repeatedly that it is perfect for him. We have had quite a few weird and very embarrassing things happen during sex. Like if he pulls out too fast and I have a vagina fart (queef). Just ignore it. The first time I rode him I went up too high and he slipped out and I bounced back down on his dick without him in me. I thought I hurt him but he said he was fine even though he was immediately turned off and went limp. I was so embarrassed I did not want to do it again ever. But I started to do it more and go slow. Then I found my rythym. We found more positions and now we do it hard and all the time. You just have to take it slow. I would start out with you on top and just laying on his chest and pushing yourself up and down his body. Not only is it more comfortable with you he will love the feel of your breasts sliding up and down his chest. Give his neck a kiss, lick, and bite. Also talk dirty in his hear. Say his name a few times. They love to know that they are the ones making you feel good. I hope that this helps

  20. shay says:

    Know that is not true lolll every guy doesn’t last long after a blow job..cause I gave my boyfriend a semi blow job just before riding him and he bust so quick..I was PISSED loll

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