All you need to do is get on top on him, and go with the motions.
But for a first timer or someone who hasn’t really been riding a man often enough, there are many things you need to know to make a ride feel sexy and look even sexier.
Riding a man can be messy at most times.
If you’re feeling all sweaty while riding a man for the first time, that’s the least of your problems really.
Your hair would be flying all over the place and sticking all over you, you’d get cramps in your knees and you’d feel more tired than a round of the Insanity workout.
But riding a man doesn’t always have to be this bad. If you know the right way to ride a man, you can actually make him more horny than ever, and look so sexy he’d want to eat you up! [Read: How to look better naked using 15 real life tips]
The good side of riding a man
Without getting into the positions and tips just yet, here are a couple of good traits about riding a man in bed.
#1 When both lovers take turns to be on top, it keeps the relationship exciting and fresh. It gives both of you equal control in bed while having sex and no partner feels dominated.
#2 Your man will actually think you’re a sexy, wild thing when you push him down and get on top of him. You’ll appear more confident, more powerful and more wild. And for a guy who’s used to being on top, he’ll be happy to just sit back and watch you take control while getting naughty. [Read: 12 foreplay moves for men that always work]
The best positions to ride a man
This is pretty simple. When you’re on top of him and letting him penetrate you, just sit in a manner that feels good. It’ll come naturally, and you don’t really have to memorize any names for it. After all, there’s a new sex position with a fancy name getting added to the list every single day!
Here are three easy positions you can use while riding a man.
#1 Facing each other. Make him lie down on his back. Sit on top of him and place your hands on his chest or on his knees. This way you’re facing him while sitting down. You’d look really sexy and your man will love the view he’s getting.
#2 Facing away from him. In this position, you sit down on your man who’s lying down but face away from him so your butt faces him while you look towards his feet. If your guy’s a butt guy who loves a sexy butt more than an eyeful of boobs, then he’d love this position. [Read: 20 things that turn a guy on sexually when he sees a girl]
The only negative with this position is that both of you can’t really kiss or do much with each other’s faces because you’re both not facing each other.
#3 Cuddling up. You can start off by sitting down on your man with your feet on either side of your man’s chest. But after he penetrates you, bend both his knees up so you can lean your back against his thighs. And get your boyfriend to sit up so it feels like both of you are actually sitting down and cuddling each other, while penetrating at the same time.
If you feel uncomfortable about showing off too much of your body while sitting on him, the cuddle can be a great sex position. It’ll cover your body up so you don’t have to feel uncomfortable, and at the same time, it’ll make the whole position feel more intimate. [Read: How to look attractive in bed when you’re with your man]
Riding a man and what your guy would think of you
Riding a man is a very dominant and confident position. While this may come easy for many girls, most girls still find the thought of shedding their inhibitions while watching their breasts gallop in midair over a man intimidating.
If you want to ride a man, make sure you’re not the only one doing all the riding. The one on top is always the one who controls the sex and orgasms. So switch places a couple of times so both of you can feel in control of the sexual escapade.
On one hand, getting on top takes the control away from your man, but your sexual confidence will end up turning him on a lot more. Push him onto the bed, let him know just how horny you are and sit on top of him. He’ll understand that you want to take the lead, and he’ll definitely be excited to see that he’s turning you on so much that you want to control the sexual act. [Read: Easy tips to make your boyfriend want you more than ever!]
And as long as both of you share equal time on top, he’d even enjoy just lying down and watching the sexy show while you sway and grind circles over his member.