Give your girlfriend a night she won’t forget! If you want each night to be unforgettable, you need to know how to pleasure your girlfriend just right.
Whoever said relationships were easy, they’re probably single. In fact, relationships come with a lot of work. Including the bedroom, because nothing in a relationship should be ignored. These 16 ways on how to pleasure your girlfriend will rev you up to spice up your bedroom activities.
How to pleasure your girlfriend – 16 golden moves
A great area to invest in is the bedroom. If things aren’t going well there, your relationship won’t be getting any better. So if you’re not sure how to begin, this is how to pleasure your girlfriend, the right way!
#1 Bring out the massage oil. Everyone likes having a massage, I know you want one too, but you can’t be thinking about yourself right now. So, get some oil, lay her on the bed and give her a sensual massage.
#2 Start the foreplay in advance. You don’t have to be naked for foreplay. In fact, you’ll make her go crazy if you keep your clothes on. Men like foreplay, they like penetration even more. However, foreplay for women is what makes them horny. The longer you spend in foreplay, the crazier she’ll become.
#3 Ask what turns her on. If you’re doing something and not getting the reaction you’re hoping for, maybe it’s time to switch up the routine. You know what’s even better than trying to put the pieces of a puzzle together? Simply ask what makes her horny. That way, you know, she’ll be satisfied and everyone’s happy. Don’t make it a guessing game—just figure out what gets her off and go from there. [Read: 18 sex tips for men that’ll make her crave for a lot more]
#4 Compliment her. In the beginning of relationships, everyone compliments each other. She looks stunning, he looks handsome. As time passes, the compliments dwindle and become a rarity. Don’t let that happen.
Compliment your girlfriend and let her know that she’s beautiful and gets you horny. Don’t overdo it with the compliments, but every now and then, tell her how you feel. This makes her feel good and gets her sexually aroused. [Read: 19 sweet compliments for girls that’ll make them go “awww”]
#5 Know the female body. You must know the female body. Educate yourself on it, because there are so many parts of the body to turn a woman on. Breasts, clitoris, neck. Know what areas are super sensitive and what areas aren’t.
#6 Surprise her. Everyone loves surprises! Why not have a surprise quickie? Before you’re out the door to head to work and give her a surprise wake up call. Surprise quickies are fun and show her that she turns you on, no matter what time of day it is.
#7 Crazy 8. If you’re giving oral sex, try out the “crazy 8” with your tongue. If you’re not sure what a crazy 8 is, it’s exactly how it sounds. With your tongue, make an eight shape. It drives women crazy, trust me, your girlfriend will love it. [Read: Cunnilingus pro – 16 ways to use your tongue and blow her mind]
#8 Kisses, kisses, kisses. Women love kissing. We love it. We love making out, we love sensuality—we love it all. So, don’t be so fast to move past the kisses. Take your time and have an old school, make out session. It’s fun, it’s intimate. Plus, women take longer to sexually arouse, so this is a great thing to do while you’re warming up.
#9 Be romantic. If she likes a little more romance, be romantic. Take her out or make her a romantic dinner, light the candles, do the rose petals. If she’s into that, she’ll be automatically turned on. Plus, it shows your girlfriend how much you care about her and that’s also a huge turn on. [Read: How to make love to a woman, as told by a woman]
#10 Lead her. Sometimes we like to lead, but when we’re in bed, nothing gets us off more than a man who takes control. Want to know how to pleasure your girlfriend right? Flip her, lift her, move her around. Take control and give her a roller coaster ride.
It turns us on for two reasons: firstly, we can’t control you, and secondly, it looks like you know exactly what you’re doing and that’s hot.
#11 Do her favorite positions. Okay, you make love doggy style, but she’s not a big fan. You don’t have to completely cut that position from your sex life, but if you’re aiming to please her in this moment, perhaps focus on sex positions that she’s really into. When you see her enjoying herself, you start enjoying yourself as well. [Read: Hot sex from behind: 16 mind-blowing ways to do it right]
#12 Get wild. Every girl loves romantic sex. However, we also like it when we get the chance to get a little wild and out of control under the sheets. It’s okay to get rough. Pull her hair, spank her, talk dirty to her. These things drive her crazy and make her explode.
#13 Invest in the cuddle session. After you guys are finished, take the time to lay beside her and relax. Don’t be one of those guys that just gets up and leaves to go watch TV. If you want to truly pleasure her, you’ll spend the time with her after to cuddle. Women like to cuddle, we like the intimacy after the fact, so invest your time in that. [Read: How to cuddle: Cuddling positions to be a loving cuddler]
#14 Talk dirty to her. Want to know how to pleasure your woman even before you meet her? Well, don’t forget the dirty talk. You can do it before you come home, sending dirty texts and pictures to each other until you arrive home. Women love flirting. And she’s your girlfriend, so you don’t have to worry about your nude picture leaking online.
While you’re having sex also engage in dirty talk—some girls like that and some don’t so you’ll have to see what she enjoys.
#15 Use her imagination. A woman’s brain is the largest sex organ. Women are highly imaginative and everything starts in the brain before it becomes physical. So, work her imagination. If there’s a fantasy she has, if she wants to role play—do it. [Read: What women want in bed but are too ashamed to ask]
#16 Be in the moment. There’s nothing worse than having sex with a guy who’s clearly thinking about something or someone else. If you had a tough day at the office, while you’re having sex try to put those thoughts to the side and just enjoy the moment. The sex won’t be good if you’re not fully involved.