Everyone has a very specific orgasm face. Some are amazing and some need a little work. Here’s how you can perfect yours and leave them wanting more.
A sexy orgasm face can mean the difference between a one-time romp and a steady sex life. If your face is very unattractive when you have an orgasm, it can be a huge turn off to the person watching you.
Your sex face should be really sexy. You should be conveying the fact that you’re feeling amazing through the expression on your face. However, some people naturally have an orgasm face that isn’t the most attractive. It looks more like they’re in pain than anything else.
Attraction doesn’t stop once you get into bed with someone
You may think you landed yourself the perfect hookup, someone you can have loads of sex with. However, it could end up less than satisfactory if they don’t like your orgasm face.
The truth is, attracting a partner doesn’t just stop when you finally get to have sex with them. Even if everything is perfect up until that point, the sex can alter it. Therefore, you want to make sure your orgasm face is incredible in order to get them to stick around. [Read: How to attract men in a way they can’t resist]
How to perfect your orgasm face and look amazing in bed
If you want to look incredible while having an orgasm, you may need to work at it. Sometimes people don’t naturally have a great O-face. These are some helpful tips to mastering a gorgeous orgasm face.
#1 Stay relaxed. If you’re really uptight about what your face looks like when you finish, you won’t actually be able to orgasm. You need to be relaxed and ready to have a good time. This way, your face will also look a lot less strained.
When you stay relaxed, you have an easier time orgasming. And if it’s an easy orgasm you don’t have to work a lot for, your face will look a lot more relaxed – which is also sexier. [Read: How to relax during sex and have better orgasms]
#2 Make sure you actually ARE orgasming. Don’t be so concerned with your orgasm face that you can’t finish. If you really want to perfect the art of a sexy face when you cum, you’ll have to actually orgasm.
Without it, you’ll just be twisting your face up. Believe it or not, doing that makes it pretty obvious that it’s not real. Which means it’ll be less attractive than a bad sex face even is.
#3 Pay attention to your facial muscles. Just be conscious of your facial muscles when you’re having sex. Are they relaxed? Are your teeth clenched? Do you raise your eyebrows really high?
Paying attention to what you’re doing can help you figure out what your face looks like normally. Realizing that your orgasm face is a little tight and painful-looking can help you alter it in order to have a great o-face. [Read: 15 painfully embarrassing things that happen during sex]
#4 Practice in front of a mirror. This is something I think most people do anyways. Everyone wants to know what they look like during sex – especially when they orgasm. So just look in front of a mirror to figure it out.
You can easily replicate the faces you make during sex if you’ve been paying attention to your facial muscles. Simply repeat those muscle movements to get a feel for what your face looks like.
#5 Practice while masturbating. If you want to take it to extremes, get a mirror and practice your sex face while orgasming. That means you’ll have to masturbate to make it happen. Simply place a mirror beside your bed or masturbate in an area that has a mirror already.
Then while you’re doing it, just look at yourself. Is your face attractive? Does it scrunch up a lot? If you don’t like the way it looks, keep practicing a more attractive face while you masturbate and it’ll help you make a great orgasm face when you have sex. [Read: 15 sexy benefits of masturbating]
#6 Ask your partner if they like your orgasm face. If you’re really concerned about what your significant other thinks, just ask them. Chances are, they’ll probably say something if it’s so bad they find it unattractive. However, if it’s still worrying you, just ask.
It’s really not that hard to ask if they like your face when you cum. To be honest, most people might find your orgasm face sexy simply because they know you’re having an orgasm – and that they caused it.
#7 Don’t fake it. Believe me when I say your partner will be able to tell. If you try to look like the people in porn when you orgasm, it’ll be super obvious that it’s not actually happening for you. Many porn stars – specifically the women – don’t actually finish. So if you try to replicate their faces, you’re just recreating a fake orgasm. Don’t do that. [Read: 10 surefire ways to know if she’s faking her orgasms]
#8 Don’t make ridiculous sounds, either. If you think making sexy noises is going to help your orgasm face, think again. Sure, you can make your normal sex sounds that are genuine but don’t go overboard and start moaning like crazy.
Not only does this sound fake, it’ll look fake and your partner will be insulted. Keep it real but keep it relaxed.
#9 If all else fails, keep it simple. If you really aren’t sure how to make your orgasm face super sexy, just keep it simple. Don’t go for anything crazy. Just stick to a nice, relaxed face. There’s no need to make it super complicated and contort your face in 5 different ways within a 30 second time period. [Read: 10 tips for women who want a mind-blowing orgasm]
#10 Try not to worry about it too much. Your orgasm face isn’t that big of a deal. Truthfully, most people are going to like it simply because they’re the ones making you cum. So don’t worry about it. Try to think about how great it feels and less about what your face looks like.
Have confidence in what you look like during sex. Push any negative thoughts about your sex face aside and focus on how great the sex actually is.