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How to Make Yourself Horny: 12 Powerful Ways to Get You There Fast

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You may be complaining that your partner doesn’t know how to turn you on, but at the end of the day, you need to know how to make yourself horny first.

So many of us get stuck into this mindset where we believe that we need to find a partner who knows how to turn us on. Now, this isn’t wrong, you want to find someone who will arouse you and make you orgasm, but you also want to know how to make yourself horny too. How can this person turn you on when you don’t know what actually turns you on? See where this can become a problem?

How to make yourself horny

You want to be able to know your body and know how it reacts when your fingers are in a specific position or if you’re more likely to orgasm when the lights are on. See, these are things that you need to discover on your own.

This is why finding out what makes you horny is so important. It will not only bring you to a place where you’re comfortable with yourself, but it will also help you be comfortable with your partner. Before anything, you need to know how to make yourself horny.

#1 Give yourself time. You’re not trying to rush through this, there’s no point. What you want to do is allow yourself the time to basically meet yourself. Becoming aroused when you have someone in front of you is easy.

However, it takes more work when you’re on your own. You need to make yourself aroused which will take time, especially if this is new for you. [Read: 13 quick tips for instant horniness]

#2 Create the atmosphere. If you want to make yourself horny, then you need to put some effort into it. When you’re alone, create the ideal atmosphere that makes you feel comfortable and safe. You want to feel like you’re able to do whatever you want while you’re making yourself horny.

Light some candles, put on some sexy music, wear clothing that makes you feel hot. Create a vibe that will allow you to lose yourself. [Read: 12 safe and natural ways to increase your libido]

#3 Masturbate. Well, becoming aroused is one thing, masturbating is another thing. Once you’ve worked on creating the scene and feeling sexual, try masturbating. Most women are able to masturbate by focusing directly on the clitoris. So, the best advice would be to focus firstly on your clitoris. Test out the different strokes you can do and the pressure you apply onto the clitoris. Everyone is different.

#4 Experiment. Listen, if you’re trying to make yourself horny, you need to experiment with your body. Don’t be afraid to use sex toys or anally stimulate yourself. These are all factors which can make yourself horny. The only thing is, you need to test it out for yourself. [Read: 15 incredibly arousing ways to get and stay horny]

#5 Use more than your hands. Yes, you have two hands and believe me, you should be using them to make yourself horny. But, you also have sex toys which are available to you. Don’t be afraid to use a vibrator or a dildo. In fact, these toys can help you in discovering what can make you horny. [Read: Homemade dildos for when the moment strikes unexpectedly]

#6 Focus on other areas than your vagina. Many people think that in order to make themselves horny they just have to focus on their vagina or penis. Which isn’t completely wrong, but you have other areas which are erogenous zones. Grab your breasts, your ass, pull your hair, suck on your finger, use the rest of your body and find out which areas stimulate you.

#7 Tease yourself. Everyone loves a good tease. Just before you’re about to climax, tease yourself by refraining it. This will also make your orgasm stronger, so, deny yourself the orgasm at least a couple times before allowing the orgasm. The more you tease yourself, the stronger your orgasm will be.

#8 Make yourself feel sexy. One part is learning about your body, the other part is to make yourself feel sexy. Wear clothing or lingerie which make you feel sexy. Style your hair, put some makeup on, allow yourself to look and feel amazing. Of course, you need to feel sexy if you want to arouse yourself. [Read: How to feel sexy and desirable all the time]

#9 Take sexy photos of yourself. You don’t have to send these photos to anyone, rather, these photos are for you. Set up the lighting and pose for the camera. If you want, you can take these photos yourself or have your partner take them for you. Boudoir photos allow you to show off your sexual side.

#10 It’s all about the breathing. You’d be surprised at how important breathing is when you’re trying to make yourself horny. You can control your arousal and energy by practicing your breathing. While masturbating, focus on your breathing and how it affects your body. While breathing, clench your PC muscle to increase pleasure.

#11 Watch a hot movie. Of course, if you want, you can watch porn. But you can also watch a romantic or steamy movie which will also do an amazing job of turning you on. Try watching movies such as “Showgirls” or “Wild Things,” you won’t regret it. But if you want to watch something that’s more direct with sex, then you can always opt for porn. [Read: The naughtiest borderline porn titles on Netflix]

#12 Relax. If you’ve tried these things and they’re not working, you need to take a deep breath. Of course, if you feel that you need to see a doctor, then, of course, you go see one and make sure everything’s okay. But perhaps you’re just overthinking things and need to take a step back and chill.

[Read: Going solo: The 15 sexy benefits of masturbation]

Now that you know how to make yourself horny, it’s time you took the time you needed to learn about you and your body. Trust me, you need to know your body if you want someone else to turn you on.

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic
A serial dater, Natasha Ivanovic knows a thing or two about men and the dating scene. Much of her writing is inspired by her encounters with men - and for good ...
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