Shower sex is exciting but it can be very uncomfortable if you don’t know the right way to do it. Find out how to have sex in the shower and enjoy it! By Jana Snow
Shower sex may seem like a lot of fun.
But anyone with a bit of experience would know just how uncomfortable it can be.
Having sex in the shower is definitely sexy.
But it’s only fun when you keep a few things in mind and avoid the things that can make having sex in the shower uncomfortable.
How to have sex in the shower
Having sex under the shower is a lot more than just a new way to have sex.
Shower sex is intimate and can help both of you feel closer and bond better.
When you’re under the shower with your partner, you don’t always have to think of sex.
Both of you can lather each other up with a loofah and spend a while talking and relaxing after a long day at work.
As turning on as having sex under the shower can be, it also creates an emotional connection between you and your partner.
Now and then, both of you may not be keen to have sex after a tiring day. At times like these, getting under the shower can be the best thing to rejuvenate yourselves and feel grateful for having each other.
So are you ready to have a wild time under the shower and feel connected at the same time? [Read: 30 sexy ways to spice up your sex life]
9 things to know to enjoy sex in the shower
Having sex in the shower can be an unpredictable experience. It can seem like fun when both of you are horny. But a few wrong moves on a slippery surface is all it takes to make shower sex uncomfortable and not worth the while.
Use these 9 tips on having sex in the shower, and chances are, you’ll start to love shower sex all over again. [Read: Things that turn a guy on sexually when he sees a girl]
#1 Lather up. Don’t think of sex just yet. Get under the hot shower with your lover and lather each other up with soap, shampoo or even a slippery conditioner up to the neck. Just hug each other and relax in each other’s arms as both of you use a loofah on each other’s backs.
The woman can also sit on the guy’s lap for a while and wrap her arms around him if there’s enough space. Both of you will feel good in each other’s arms, and at the same time, the slippery bodies will start to make everything feel more sexy.
#2 Give each other an oral. Even if you’re not too comfortable with giving an oral to your partner at the end of a hard day, don’t worry about it when both of you are under the shower. Running water always makes things feel moist, supple and fresh. And the best part, it won’t be a one sided pleasurable activity anymore! [Read: Tips to make him go down on you without a push]
#3 Clean each other up. Lather up and run your hands over each other, paying more attention to those special regions. Before long, all the scrubbing and fingering will arouse both of you. Additionally, you could also use a hand shower or stand under running water and stimulate each other sexually.
#4 Share enough shower time. Don’t hog the shower just because the water feels so warm and relaxing. Stand under the showerhead and make sure both of you get enough time under running water. Get this wrong and one person will end up feeling more cold and uncomfortable than the other.
#5 Foreplay in the shower. Watch yourselves in front of the mirror while fondling each other, with or without lather. Watching yourselves naked will always turn both of you on. It’s like watching a sexy couple make out in front of you and making out in front of another sexy couple at the same time. Who wouldn’t get turned on by that? Kiss each other under the shower as the water runs along your faces. The kisses will be wet, passionate and sexy. [Read: Top 10 sexual fantasies for men]
#6 Use a towel. Spread a towel on the floor. When you’re making out in the shower, you’d want to feel comfortable and avoid slipping. And even if both of you get on your knees and cuddle under the shower or have sex, a wet towel can give your knees and butt the cushioning it needs to feel comfortable. And you won’t have to deal with the cold floor too.
#7 The best positions. There are no best sex positions in the shower. What works for one may not work for another, depending on your own flexibility and the space in the bathroom. But some of the most comfortable positions under the shower include the doggie style where the girl gets on her knees and palms while the guy stands behind the girl, and when both of you stand facing each other and the girl places one leg a little higher on a wall or a firm rest.
Additionally, the girl can also lie down under the shower with the knees bent if there’s enough space, and the guy can get on top like in the missionary position. Another safe position to use is when the guy sits on the towel with his legs straight in front and the girl sits on him and faces him. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter which position you choose as long as you avoid those cramps and slippery situations. [Read: 50 sexy kinky ideas to try in bed]
#8 Hold on to something. Always make sure you’ve got a firm footing. It’s very easy to slip on a watery surface, especially when your mind’s occupied with sex. Don’t rest your foot on anything you think may not take your weight. In fact, it would be best to avoid resting your foot or body against anything that’s not as safe as a wall or the ground. And always remember to keep any slippery objects like soap bars away from your feet. It’s better to be safe than twisted and sorry.
#9 Don’t change positions too fast. Having sex in the shower is meant to be exciting, not comfy. Just like a quickie, it’s something that’ll give you a sexual high but not the cozy warmth of your bed. Enjoy the sexual high, but avoid constantly changing positions. Stick with one unless one of you get a cramp or feel uncomfortable. Don’t fidget around or move about a lot. Pick a position and spend a few minutes at it in the shower. You’ll enjoy having sex in the shower a lot more this way. Try too many things and you’ll kill the mood. [Read: The complete guide to having sex on your period]
Take it slow and easy. Pick a comfortable position. Use these 9 tips on how to have sex in the shower. And you’ll definitely experience better shower sex and want more of it too!
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