Hot water, suds, and nudity—great, right? As it turns out, it’s not as easy as it may seem. Make your shower sex sizzle with these sexy, dirty tricks.
So, you and your partner have conquered every frontier in your house and have tried every sex position you both care to experiment with. However, there is just one domain you can’t seem to master: the shower.
Shower sex is not as sexy and fun as porn would have you believe. You have to worry about slipping, soap getting in your eyes, and the shower stall being too small for both of you. And on top of all of that, you have to think about water slipping into crevices you don’t want it to. It’s really tricky, but when you get it down, sex in the shower can be hot as hell.
Shower sex basics
We’ve set out on a mission to give you all the wet and soapy tips and tricks to achieve the steamy shower sex you’ve always fantasized about. Below are 7 dirty tips for sizzling sex in the shower.
#1 Spontaneity is key. Nothing can turn your partner on more than the sight of you suddenly showing up, in all your naked glory, while he is soaping up in the shower. Before he can turn around, stand behind him and press your boobs against his back. Reach around to get the soap or sponge from his hands and gently stroke him all over his chest, stomach, and upper thighs until you reach his package. Do this right, and he’ll be thinking of you each time he washes.
This time, use the art of “erotic bathing” *if there is such a thing* to flaunt to your guy how hot your body really is. First, make him sit from across the bathroom as you get into the shower. Then lather up your bath sponge with a sexy scented shower gel. Give him a show as you lather yourself up and let the foam from the soap cover different parts of your body as you let water run down his favorite spots. Make sure to arch your back and tease him. It won’t be long until he joins you, hard with anticipation. [Read: 20 naughty ways to tease your man and leave him horny]
#3 Pick your position. Now that you’ve steamed things up in the shower, you can get on with the dirty deed. However, since shower sex can be tricky, you have to pick the position that is comfortable and pleasurable for both of you. Some of the best ones are:
a. Leg lift. This is like a standing-up version of missionary, where you face each other in the shower. You lean back against the wall while he holds you in the crook of his elbow. Penetration can be fiddly, so he has to bend at the knee to gain access. You can choose to lean on the side of the bath with the showerhead so you can enjoy the sensual feeling of the water falling on your bodies.
b. Standing doggy in the tub. In this position, you should be bending over and holding onto the rim of the tub. Bend your knees a little to keep your balance as he moves inside you. Having the water on your back and trickling down his jewels can give you both added pleasurable sensations. [Read: 9 ways to make doggy style your favorite sex position]
c. Standing against the wall. This is another doggy-like position. Stand facing the wall, with your arms raised and pressed against it. Arch your lower back and thrust your butt out to receive him.
d. Take it to the edge. You can also have your partner sit on the edge of the tub as you present your back to him. Then, holding onto him, lower yourself gently with your hands on his knees for balance. You can control the tempo and depth as you move up and down his length.
e. Mirror, mirror. Another hot move is to have yourself lean on the sink in front of the mirror and allow him to enter you from behind. Arch your back to give him a full view of your breasts as they move with his thrusts. If you both like it rough, you can have him hold onto your hair as he watches the two of you in the mirror.
#4 Don’t forget oral. Since you’re both clean and fresh in the shower, you’d better take advantage of it and do all the dirty things you’ve been wanting to do to each other. Pleasure each other orally. Either one of you can drop to your knees and please the other. You can also take turns returning the favor. The feeling of the warm shower and the water trickling down your privates, added to your lover’s oral prowess, can be enough to make you gush. [Read: How to master the art of the perfect blowjob]
#5 Move through mountains. The wet and soapy shower environment can encourage you both to try things you may not have tried on dry land. Take, for example, breast play: you may try moving his member between your breasts to turn the heat up further. Just get your breasts all soapy and do the same to his manhood.
Then, kneel in front of him or sit on the edge of the tub *just make sure you have enough support and a foothold*. Then use the heels of your hands to push your breasts together, and make a bridge with your fingers as he moves his member inside. To make it even more slip-slide sexy, add some silicon-based lube.
#6 Mutual masturbation. You can also masturbate each other to get things going. This is great for soaping each other up, as well as prepping your places for penetration early on—AKA foreplay. The shower is the best place for mutual masturbation, because the suds and the water make it all the more sensual. Invest in a detachable showerhead and some lube so you can caress each other with your hands and up the sensual pleasure a few notches. [Read: 12 sexy, slutty moves to give the best hand job ever!]
#7 Invest in props. Aside from lubes and a plethora of shower implements, invest in some sex toys, accessories, and oils to make shower sex as pleasurable as you can. Get some scented candles and pair them with a bath or massage oil. You can enjoy a warm, aromatic bath together to start things off and relax your minds and bodies for the forthcoming hanky panky. You can also add some rose petals to make it romantic, or even have some music going while you soak.
Other props that you can use in the shower include lubes, vibrators, dildos, paddles, and cuffs *if you’re into roughing it up*. And don’t forget about footstools and handle bars for safety.
Safe shower sex. Those are the three words to keep in mind while in the bathroom with your honey. If you’re not careful, a lot of things can go wrong.
By following these tips to keep it steamy and trying out different positions, props, you can turn your next shower sex session into something epic—so epic that he’ll imagine you’re with him every time he showers alone!
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Tiffany Grace Reyes
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