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How to Get Horny Fast: 13 Quick Tips for Instant Horniness

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Getting horny is all part of the sexual experience. Here are some top tips on how to get horny fast, and hopefully have mind-blowing sex at the end!

Getting turned on is an important part of sex. You need to feel ‘in the mood’ not only to make sex physically more pleasurable, but also to feel more connected to your partner and to enjoy it time and time again. Therefore, learning how to get horny fast means you better please yourself, and encourage your partner to do the same. Leading to a physically satisfying, mutually beneficial, and downright awesome sex life for the pair of you!

13 hot tips on getting horny fast

There is nothing quite like being turned on. Those moments where you can’t get your mind off a certain someone and what you would like to do to them. Your blood is pumping, all your thoughts are occupied by the idea of getting hot, sweaty, down and dirty, and you feel a certain tingling downstairs.

When you try to get horny fast, the anticipation of what is to come can often lead to seriously great sex and incredible orgasms like you have never had before! So, with that in mind, here are 13 great tips sure to get you hot and horny in no time at all!

#1 Set the mood. If you want to start preparing for some romance, instead of sitting under bright lights slobbing out and watching TV, why not set the mood so you feel prepared and totally up for it when your partner comes home?

Take a long, relaxing bath, light some scented candles, open a bottle of wine. Knowing you are doing all these activities because of what’s to come later keeps your mind on it and certainly starts to get you in the mood. [Read: 13 small changes that greatly improve your relationship]

#2 Listen to some music. Music has a powerful affect on our emotions. Only you know what kind of music gets you in the mood for some serious lovin’. You may be more of a romantic type and get your sexy groove on to Jeff Buckley. Perhaps you are more of a smooth mover and prefer greats such as Marvin Gaye. Or maybe you just want to get your freak on in which case R. Kelly’s “Bump and Grind” is surely going to work it for you! [Read: The absolutely sexy playlist that’s perfect for lovemaking]

#3 Change into something sexy. If you want to feel the part, you’ve got to look it. There is nothing sexier then preparing and pampering yourself for a night of hot love-making. Slip into new underwear or an outfit that makes you feel super hot. The confidence it gives you will make you want to take charge in the bedroom and rip your partners clothes off as soon as possible!

#4 Watch something hot, hot, hot! There is probably no quicker way to get in the mood than sticking on a sexy movie. You might be into hardcore porn, or prefer the lighter touch of a romantic movie with plenty of steamy scenes. Whatever floats your boat, you are sure to find something that gets the blood pumping to your sensitive parts in no time at all. [Read: Get in the mood with these 15 movies with a lot of sex]

#5 Read some erotic fiction. The obvious one is the world-famous 50 Shades of Grey, but there is actually a huge range of erotic fiction out there. You can be sure to find something that suits your tastes. If you are with your partner, you could take it in turns to read passages aloud to one another, or simply dive in by yourself.

Reading about steamy sex between two characters is a great way to let your imagination run wild, and is sure to get you pulsating with desire. It will give you some great ideas for the bedroom too!

#6 Write something sexy. Be it a racy love letter or a writing an erotic story yourself can get more than just your creative juices flowing. Let your imagination run wild. Keep them just for you or read them aloud to your partner, who is sure to appreciate your sexy efforts!

#7 Take some steamy pictures. The sexy selfie is a surefire way to get you and your partner feeling seriously hot under the collar. You can go full frontal and seriously dirty, or leave something to the imagination. Either way setting up your very own sexy photo shoot, getting into different sexy outfits and posing for the camera is going to make you feel gorgeous, confident, and ready to romp! [Read: How to take nude pictures of your lover]

#8 Send sexy text messages. Sexting is something you’ve all probably heard of, and it can be a great way to build up sexual tension throughout the day and really get you feeling horny. Start off mid-morning or around lunchtime and send a simple but suggestive text, something like ‘I can’t wait to see you later’ or ‘I have been thinking about you all day.’

This gets the ball rolling and, assuming your partner responds well, you increase the flirting until you are sending downright dirty messages about what you are going to do to one another later, and be aching to get home and straight to the bedroom. If you even make it that far that is! [Read: 30 hot sexting examples to start a naughty text marathon]

#9 Shop together for sex toys. Sex toys are a great way to enhance your sex life and can be a fantastic way of bringing you closer together as a couple. There are a huge range of sex toys out there these days so why not take yourself down to the nearest sex shop and pick out a few that look good to you?

Do this as a solo treat and learn how to get yourself off, or go with your partner and pick out some together. Just buying them in the knowledge that you’ll use them together later can be a major turn on.

#10 Go out. Getting horny shouldn’t just be all about sitting at home and waiting for sex! You can get horny by heading out for a great night on the town, either on your own, with friends or with your partner.

Taking care of yourself and treating yourself is all part of self-loving so why not head to your favorite restaurant or go to a concert or bar that you love? Get dressed up, flirt outrageously, and have a great time. [Read: 9 sexiest foreplay tips you can use for instant horniness!]

#11 Act out your fantasies. Telling each other your fantasies is sure to give you that warm fuzzy feeling in your nether regions. If you trust each other to share them, this brings a new level of intimacy to the relationship too! [Read: 12 arousing sex fantasies to try in real life]

#12 Masturbate. One of the oldest, simplest, and most effective ways to get you in the mood can be masturbation. The great news is you don’t have to wait until you are feeling horny to do it. Even if you don’t think you are in the mood, simply get under the covers, start off slowly, or use that great sex toy to help you. Think sexy thoughts and soon you’ll realize just how horny you are! [Read: Going Solo: The 15 sexy benefits of masturbation]

#13 Try some aphrodisiacs! If all else fails, why not give nibbling on some sexy foods a try? Oysters, dark chocolate, red wine, olive oil, and even avocados are just some of the foods supposed to be great at increasing arousal.

[Read: 10 sexual conversations that’ll get you both horny instantly]

These 13 tips are perfect to try if you want to get horny fast. So next time you are feeling in a bit of a sexual slump, why not give them a try and see if you can get hot, horny, and ready for action?!

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Bethany Locke
Bethany Locke
Bethany was born and raised in Scotland and now resides in Brighton where she lives with her partner and rather disobedient cocker spaniel pup. She works as a f...
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  1. Michael Wilhide says:

    Text message? What a cell phone addict.

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