If you’re always having sex after arguing with your lover, it might be something unique. Find out if it’s hate fuck and why that might be a good thing.
There are a lot of different ways you can have sex with someone. You can even call it different things depending on how you actually do it. The one type of sex many people engage in but don’t even know they are is when they hate fuck.
If you’re not sure what hate fucking is, don’t worry. You’re not alone. Many people don’t actually know what this type of sex is or why they do it. Essentially, when you hate fuck someone, you’re getting all your rage toward them out via sex. It’s an outlet for your passionate dislike for them or something they did.
The different types of sex you can have
There isn’t just a single way to have sex with someone. And I’m not talking about just positions. When you’re in a certain mindset, you have different types of sex. There are different emotions felt during different types and you should know when to recognize them.
You could have very emotionally connected sex with someone you love and you’ll call it “making love.” You may also have pity sex with someone and even revenge sex. Having a variety of types of sex can definitely make your sex life more interesting. [Read: The hottest types of sex you can ever have]
The benefits of a good hate fuck
Believe it or not, this kind of sex can actually be very good for you. While you may not think sex of a negative variety could do you any favors, this kind can. Here are all the signs that you definitely engage in the occasional hate fuck and why it’s so great. [Read: How to have no string attached sex and make it work]
Signs of hate fucking
#1 You’re emotionally detached. When you hate fuck, there is very little emotion involved besides hate. You don’t feel very emotionally invested in the act or the person. So if you have sex like this, it’s possible that you’re hate fucking.
#2 It’s rough. If you hate fuck, it’s not going to be very slow and sensual. In fact, it’s often fast, rough, and rowdy. This type of sex isn’t the kind you can sit back and enjoy calmly. You will be heavily involved in the act and you’ll be working hard. [Read: 15 dirty ways to have the best rough sex]
#3 It’s selfish sex. Hate fucking is extremely selfish. All you’re worried about is getting yourself off. You don’t care if the other person has a good time. It’s all about you and having your needs met. If this is how you have sex, it’s possibly it’s a hate fuck session.
#4 Animalistic behavior. Hate is such a powerful feeling that it often brings out our animalistic side – especially when you add sex to the mix. If you feel very animalistic and just wild during sex with someone you hate, it’s definitely hate fucking. [Read: 12 reasons animalistic sex is so hot]
#5 You do things you normally wouldn’t. The difference with this kind of sex over other types is that you’ll end up doing things that aren’t what you normally do. You’ll get a little friskier, you’ll take more risks, you may even engage in something you never thought you would.
#6 It’s ridiculously satisfying. If you lie back after sex and you are just completely satisfied and relieved, it’s possible it was a hate fuck. Sure, this happens with normal sex, but not quite on the same level. Hate fucking gives such a different type of satisfaction and you’ll notice the difference. [Read: How to have satisfying sex every time]
#7 You end up exhausted afterward. This is a certain sign that you hate fucked someone. You’ll be completely exhausted. This will be mentally and physically. Having such hatred for someone and then taking it out on them is sure to leave you tired afterward.
How engaging in hate fucking is beneficial
This type of sex is so good for you. It can be great for all parties involved. Here are the reasons you should just get down with someone you hate and bang their brains out.
#1 It reduces stress immensely. Hate can wound you up. Having that powerful emotion can make you stressed and tense. The great thing about having a good hate fuck is that you’ll get rid of that easily. You’ll be relieved and stress-free afterward. [Read: Less stress and 13 other benefits of sex]
#2 Gets rid of aggression. I think we all have aggressive tendencies from time to time. When you can have a good hate fuck with someone you despise, it gets rid of all of that. Because you can be so aggressive during it, you won’t have those aggressive tendencies as often.
#3 It opens you to new experiences in the bedroom. When you’re getting hot and heavy with someone you hate, it’ll bring out a different side of you. You’ll be more open to trying new things and you’ll have a lot more experiences in the bedroom. [Read: 20 new things to try in bed at least once]
#4 You’ll find new things you like in bed. This is probably the best benefit of hate fucking. You may find new things you like. There’s always something in the bedroom that we’ve never tried before. When you hate fuck, it’ll bring about new opportunities to try things that you may end up loving.
#5 It allows you to release your frustrations. Tension and frustration run high. If you have to engage with the person you hate often, you may just want to hate fuck them. Get rid of it. It’ll release your frustrations with them so you can get back to your normal self.
#6 It heightens the pleasure. Hate is a powerful emotion. Some say it can be even more powerful than love. If you think having sex with someone you’re in love with is good, add in the animosity of hate and you have a recipe for some of the most intense pleasure you’ll ever feel. [Read: 17 ways to make sex more pleasurable]
#7 There’s nothing binding you to the person. Some may think this isn’t a good thing. However, when you hate fuck, you’re focusing on yourself. You’re more in tune with what you want to feel good and you don’t really think about the other person.
#8 It’s a great workout. All in all, this may not seem like the most important benefit, but it’s definitely on the list. When you hate fuck, you’re putting a lot of effort and intensity into it. This makes your body work harder and you can bet you’ll be sweating and breathing heavily afterward.