When thinking about the things you do in foreplay, sometimes you fall into routine. But it’s time to jazz it up with some new foreplay ideas for men.
Now, maybe you have a couple solid foreplay moves that you usually use to get things going. I mean, we all have our favorites that we revert to, there’s nothing wrong with that.It’s time you learned a few extra foreplay ideas for men to use in the future.
But if you find yourself going into robot mode, almost like you can predict every next move, maybe it’s time to add some new moves in there. You know, mix up the routine a bit. Life is about learning new things, right? [Read: 17 sexy foreplay moves to make anyone hot and horny]
Turn him on by turning yourself on with the best foreplay ideas for men
As much as men usually stray from foreplay, I don’t understand why they can’t see the importance of it. In all honesty, it’s probably more important than actual penetration. Without foreplay, you would basically be a car without an engine—nothing to warm you up.
Foreplay increases sexual tension, builds it up, and turns you on. It has less to do with sex and more to do with connection and intimacy. Penetration, at the end of the day, is really just a small fraction of the entire concept of sex.
So if you want to arouse your man and get him interested in foreplay, here are a few really good foreplay ideas for men that work like a charm. Heck, he may not even realize it’s foreplay because he’d be having so much fun!
#1 Start early. Here’s the thing, many women start foreplay when they get into the bedroom, but you don’t have to. In fact, build up the foreplay the moment you feel horny. If you’re at work and have a sudden sexual thought of him, send him a naughty text or photo. Sure, you’ll see him later tonight, but the point is, he’s now warming up for it, just as you are. [Read: How to initiate sexting and make your partner want you]
#2 Touch yourself in front of him. You’re a woman with sexual needs. Don’t be afraid to show him that you know how to please yourself. This isn’t the 1940s. In fact, men are highly visual and love watching their partner touch themselves in front of them.
#3 Lick those lobes. The earlobes are full of sensitive nerve endings stimulated by gently nibbling, sucking, or licking. So, it’s best you take advantage of them. Start by kissing him, moving away from his lips to his cheeks, slowly making your way up to his earlobes.
Now, don’t nibble or suck too hard. It’s supposed to stimulate his senses not make him feel he’s been through a wind tunnel. Take your time and be as gentle as you can.
#4 Get dirty talking. Now, remember the last point I gave about earlobe licking/sucking. While licking/sucking his earlobes, start talking dirty to him. Whisper naughty words or phrases into his ear, trust me, it’ll drive him nuts. You can say whatever you want, but if you’re not sure, try lines like, “I want you so badly,” or “You make me so wet,” or “I want you inside of me.” [Read: How to talk dirty to a guy and sound really sexy]
#5 Use your hands everywhere. Remember, our bodies are packed with sensitive areas stimulated by touch. These are typically our erogenous zones such as our necks, thighs, ears, breasts, etc. Don’t be shy, move your hands all over their body. Grab his arms or ass, run your nails through his hair or gently drag them down his back. [Read: The 8 secret zones to touch your guy]
#6 Use visuals to your advantage. Listen, I’m not telling you to dress up as a nurse. You can if you want to, but it’s not a necessity. But, remember, men are visual, highly visual.
Arousing them doesn’t take much work, especially if you know what visually turns him on. If he’s into tight dresses, slip one on and see his reaction. Trust me, that dress won’t be on for long.
#7 Play around with your kissing techniques. The reason why people don’t like foreplay is they become bored with just making out. But, it’s not boring. All you have to do is add a couple tricks into your kissing routine, and you’re good to go. Gently bite their lower lip, suck their tongue, kiss their neck and earlobe, suck on your finger. Play around with it. [Read: 15 kissing techniques for a heartbeat skipping kiss]
#8 Massage his scalp. Now, this shouldn’t turn into a one-hour massage—that’s not the point. But, this is a great move while you kiss or straddle and grind him. But don’t just scrape his head with your nails, that’s not a turn on.
Apply slight pressure onto his scalp and push your fingers through his hair either from the bottom up or vice versa. Then, at the end, use your nails to lightly scratch his head.
#9 Clothes on. Nothing drives a man more wild than foreplay with clothes on. Yes, it’s kinda like going back to high school days, but it was fun, right? So, instead of immediately getting naked or down to your undies, keep the clothes on for a longer period of time. Make him really work to take them off. It builds sexual tension. Sooner or later, he won’t be able to take it. [Read: 12 foreplay moves that work exceptionally well on men]
#10 Rub his thighs. That’s an area that doesn’t get a lot of attention but is highly arousing. I mean, his thighs are very close to his penis, so, rubbing them is a huge teaser. Rub them gently or firmly, getting all the way up and in, but, don’t touch his penis. Wait until you see his erection and then start rubbing his penis. [Read: 13 sensual massage techniques that’ll leave anyone wanting more]
#11 Eye contact works wonders. Many people feel intimidated by eye contact because it is intimate. However, eye contact is highly arousing, especially when both of you are completely in the moment and into each other. Look at him while you talk dirty to him or touching yourself.
If you want to kiss with your eyes open, do that as well. The point is, keep your eyes on him while arousing him. It only makes him more aroused.