When it comes to sex, deep penetration is the best way to go. Here’s how going deep can really push you over the edge and give you the most pleasure.
If you’re not engaging in deep penetration, you’re missing out. While not everyone has a partner that makes deep penetration something special, there are always ways to do it. The truth is, there’s a lot of pleasure you’re not getting just because your sex isn’t deep enough.
When you vary your sex, you keep your body guessing
One of the best things about sex is that you can change it every single time. It never has to be the same. So how come many couples have their typical, go-to sex all the time? They never try something different and then complain about how mundane it is.
There are so many benefits to changing up your sex every time. When your body never knows what’s coming, it makes it much easier for you to get off. You never grow accustomed to a specific type of pleasure and that means you’ll finish much easier. [Read: 30 ways to get naughty and spice up your sex life]
All the ways deep penetration can push you over the edge
The fact of the matter is that deep penetration is extremely pleasurable – but only if it’s done right. Yes, that’s right. You can actually do deep penetration the wrong way and that will NOT be pleasurable at all.
If you really want to know how deep penetration can change your sex life, you’re in the right place. But first, let’s figure out how to do it correctly so you can start reaping the rewards of this naughty way to have sex. [Read: 20 hot sex ideas that’ll blow your lover’s mind]
How to do it right
Believe it or not, there’s definitely a WRONG way to do deep penetration. In order to get the most out of it, you’ll have to figure out how to do it right first.
#1 Build up to it. You really can’t just go into deep penetration right away. The reason for this is because it’ll hurt the woman. Her cervix is very sensitive and if you start hammering away at it right away, it’ll be painful.
You need to build up to deep penetration. And that means foreplay is not something you can skip. You also need to be moving deeper and deeper, but at a slower pace. The woman needs to have time for her lady bits to actually expand first. Otherwise, it’ll just hurt.
#2 Go slowly. In addition to building up to it, you need to move slowly. If you really want to make sure it’s pleasurable, the g-spot and cervix need to be warmed up. And that means using slow motions that’ll allow for gentle stimulation.
So ease your way into it. Then pause once it’s in at the deepest, most comfortable spot before coming out of it and doing it all again. This will stimulate those pleasure zones just right. [Read: 13 sexy reasons slow sex is the best ever]
#3 Wiggle around while he’s deep. Ladies, this one is essential if you want to make the most of deep penetration. Once he’s in really deep, make him hold it there. Then wiggle your hips and move them around.
This makes him hit all the good spots and stimulates you even more. If you do this every now and then when he’s in deep, you’ll find that your g-spot and even your cervix will feel extremely pleased.
#4 Change up the speed. Don’t just stick with one speed. While deep penetration does feel great really fast, if you slow it down you can appreciate other sensations. So make sure you’re not just doing one type of deep penetration. Change it up once it’s deep and feeling great in order to make the most of it. [Read: How to be great in bed all the time]
#5 Alternate between deep and shallow penetration. This may sound counter-productive, but hear me out. When you get really deep penetration and then it’s taken away, you crave it. It increases the anticipation and your body is just waiting to feel it really deep again.
It’s like the best tease of your life. So when he’s going very deep, have him ease off but not tell you when he’ll go deep again. Switching up the depth like this will only make it feel better.
All the ways it can push you over the edge
Sex, in general, feels great. But if you start implementing deep penetration regularly, you may realize there’s a huge difference. Here’s how it works to push you over the edge.
#1 More types of orgasms require depth. That’s right. There’s more than just your g-spot and clit orgasm. There are actually two more zones that can make a woman orgasm – and they’re located much deeper.
Even deeper than the g-spot is the a-spot, or the anterior fornix. This is located very high in a woman’s vagina on the front wall. That’s why it’s only hit with deep penetration. You also have a cervix orgasm that’s possible with deep penetration. [Read: How to achieve multiple orgasms]
#2 The cervix actually has many pleasure receptors. This is how you can have a cervix orgasm. Having an orgasm this way is actually very rare and that’s because most women don’t know they can do it this way.
Obviously, deep penetration is needed to hit the cervix in the first place. And if you hit it too soon or too hard, it’ll be painful. That’s why you have to ease into this deep of penetration. The cervix has to be relaxed and able to receive pleasure. But once you have it, it’ll feel like a whole body orgasm.
#3 You don’t usually have deep penetration. This is just the truth. If you’re not someone who has deep penetrative sex often, it’ll feel very, very different to you. And different can be GREAT.
Because your body isn’t used to the depth of penetration, it’s not accustomed to it. And that means it might be much easier for the woman to orgasm. When you have the same sex over and over again, your body grows accustomed to it and that means it takes longer to reach orgasm. [Read: 20 new things you have to try in bed]
#4 It allows for the most stimulation. When you have deep penetration, you’re potentially hitting 3 internal spots for orgasm. And if you’re stimulating your clit too, that’s 4 possible ways to reach orgasm. With those odds, it’s almost guaranteed that the woman will finish.
#5 It fosters a feeling of emotional closeness. And this is something that can actually make the both of you even more turned on. When the penetration is particularly deep, you’re connected with someone much deeper than you are otherwise. It makes you feel closer to them emotionally. And that emotional connection can help women – and even men – reach a much more intense orgasm.