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Top 50 Kinky Ideas for a Sexy Relationship

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Looking for ways to kink up your love with a few naughty tricks? Here’s 50 of the sexiest kinky ideas and kinky-er ideas for a sexy relationship.

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Lust is fickle.

You could enjoy the best sex of your life this month.

And the very next month, you may find yourself bored with the to and fro motion.

Sex is always exciting and frisky at the start of a new relationship.

But that doesn’t mean older relationships don’t have the pleasure of passionate sex.

[Read: Sexy tips to be great in bed all the time]

As a matter of fact, older relationships can actually have much better, more fulfilling sex lives.

Just as long as you know what both of you want in bed.

Kinky ideas for sexy relationships

When sex starts to get monotonous over time, all it needs is a little spark to ignite the sexual passion and ecstasy you shared at the beginning. And once you find ways to bring back the excitement into your bedroom, you’ll be able to experience the best sex of your lives, no matter how long you’ve been in the relationship. [Read: Top 10 fantasies for women and top 10 fantasies for men]

Are you having a hard time getting wet or hard down there? Just try something new, chances are, you’ll enjoy it a lot more than you can ever imagine.

Bringing kink into love

Getting kinky in bed can mean different things for different people. What can seem explosive to one couple could seem tame and boring to others.

So we decided to come up with the top 50 kinky ideas for all lovers, be it the new ones or the seasoned professionals of lovemaking. [Read: How to sound sexy in bed]

Still new to the kinky party? Try a few tips from the kinky list.

A kinky veteran? Well, we’re sure there are a lot of tips here that you still haven’t tried, you horny bunny! Try it, you may just like something with a twist.

But just a word of caution, while we do suggest you try these kinky ideas with your partner, we’ll still have to be a buzzkill and tell you to know the laws of your state before indulging in a few of these rather kinky ideas.

After all, it’s better to be safe than sorry. We’ve all heard that phrase, never do anything that you can’t explain to the paramedics or the cops, haven’t we?

The best kinky ideas for sexy loving

#1 Grind and grope each other or other people while clubbing.

#2 Have sex with each other while someone’s watching. Or watch someone else having sex.

#3 Have sex with a full length mirror next to your bed.

#4 Bring food into bed. Nothing beats whipped cream!

#5 Make out on a rooftop or under the stars. Romantic, adventurous and scary!

#6 Role play with each other by dressing in character or as other people in your daily lives. [Read: Role play guide for first timers]

#7 Fantasize about different scenarios and sexual situations. [Read: Tips to talk dirty in bed]

#8 Skinny dip with each other or involve a few friends. [Read: How to skinny dip for the first time]

#9 Give a road head or have sex while travelling or on a road trip. [Read: Road head confessions of a good girl]

#10 Take off on a sexy vacation with another couple or have a sexy drunk double date at home.

#11 Get naughty on the beach with each other. [Read: Sexy fun on the beach for couples]

#12 Make out or have sex in a public place like a restroom or in a dark corner of a club.

#13 Flash in public. [Read: How to flash in public the right way]

#14 Shower together and play with the hand shower or have soapy sex in the bathroom.

#15 Pick up a copy of the kamasutra and try unique sex positions that both of you might enjoy.

#16 Get a couples’ sensual erotic massage with masseurs of the opposite sexes. [Read: Happy ending massage confession]

#17 Make out on someone else’s bed. Weird, awkward and oh-so-sexy.

#18 Watch porn videos while having sex and turn up the volume for some sexy background music. [Read: How porn saved my sexless marriage]

#19 Make a sex video or take nude photos of each other. [Read: The right way to take nude pictures of your lover]

#20 Have sex with another couple in bed with both of you.

#21 Grope or make out in transportation, be it on a flight, a train or an overnight bus.

#22 Have tantric sex all night long. [Read: The art of tantric sexuality]

#23 Role reversal.

#24 Spanking and nibbling, and a furry cuff can be a great turn on for controlling sex.

#25 Have sex in a changing room when there are very few people around.

#26 Using edible body paint can make eating in bed so much more tasty.

#27 Pretend like you’re sleeping while your partner slips in, turns you on and has sex with you.

#28 The world can get dark with blindfolds, but it’ll open up your sexy imaginative mind. [Read: 7 sexiest types of sex]

#29 Bondage can be scary, but a few scarves, ropes and clean bondage can turn out to be sexier than you think.

#30 Anal sex. If it hurts, use lubes. If it still hurts, try something else.

#31 Finger her under a restaurant table. Just make sure the tablecloth’s big enough to cover your indecent act in public.

#32 Have sex with the curtains open and get comfortably close to the window. [Read: Public flashing confessions]

#33 Scratch each other and use your nails. Sometimes, pain can bring more pleasure.

#34 Leave the hotel room door open for the waiter while having sex.

#35 Have resistance sex and pretend like you’re being groped and molested.

#36 Have sex in water, be it a pool or in the ocean.

#37 Bring in a few sex toys to bed.

#38 Play naughty truth and dare and strip poker with friends. [Read: 30 truth or dare questions for a horny night with friends]

#39 Have drunk sex after a wild night of partying.

#40 Imagine having sex with someone else and talk to your partner about it. [Read: How to fantasize about someone else]

10 Kinky-er Kinky ideas

#1 Are you bold enough to try swapping and swinging with other couples? [Read: How to start swinging with your partner]

#2 Ropes and bondage can be awkward for beginners, but they’re a lot of fun for the seasoned kinky lovers.

#3 Clamps and whips can hurt, but at the right places, even pain can be a huge turn on.

#4 Like being the dominatrix? Try playing submissive to the kinkiest of commands with your partner.

#5 Have sex in risky places. [Read: 7 sexiest places to have sex]

#6 Like peeing on each other while having sex? Golden river fantasies were made for you.

#7 Watch your partner having sex with someone else.

#8 Use a double dildo with your man and penetrate him while getting penetrated yourself.

#9 Have a threesome with someone both of you admire or like. [Read: Guide to having a threesome]

#10 Have sex and flaunt yourselves on your webcam to other couples. Just remember to keep your face out of the camera though.

Remember, all of us have our own preferences when it comes to kinky ideas. See what you like and try what you want. Like something bolder or milder, just improvise.

[Read: 30 would-you-rather questions to find out which kinky act turns your lover on]

Try these 50 kinky ideas in your own relationship and you’ll see how much more exciting sex can become with a few simple twists in the routine. Want a sexy relationship all the time? These 50 kinky ideas can show you the way.


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  • Megz
    September 7, 2012 | Permalink |

    I don’t find this suitable for SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS. Relationships involve commitment. How is groping other people, having sex with groups of people, getting naked with other people.. Have anything relationship based? Most of this is with other people and not just about you, your partner and your private sexual relationship together. I find this kind of slutty in fact.
    And not everyone goes clubbing, not everyone gets plastered and stupid. Been there done that and I made the most mistakes and didn’t find anything good about it. not everyone wants to sleep around with a bunch of people thinking it will enhance sex with their partner, in fact it would make it all the more unspecial and not a committed relationship.

    Some people would like to have some kinky fun with JUST their partner.

  • @ Megz
    September 16, 2012 | Permalink |

    Well, if you read the entire list you’ll realize that most of the SUGGESTIONS didn’t involve other people at all. Maybe I’d understand your complaint if they only listed things like swinging, voyeurism, exhibitionism etc but that’s just not the case. You mean to tell me that out of 50 SUGGESTIONS you couldn’t find some that applied to you in some way? This wasn’t a list designed specifically for you so I don’t understand your whining at all. Personally, I’m not into bondage or watersports but I’m not going to complain that they included in the list. Grow up.

  • Craving
    September 22, 2012 | Permalink |

    I found the information to be enlighting, it gives a choice for whatever a person fancy. Whether with other people or without, this is very helpful. I’m in a very serious relationship, however, I’m looking for something to help spice our sex life a little. We’re already kinky and have enjoyed most of these suggestions, (outside of including a third party) we just need a boost.

  • October 7, 2012 | Permalink |

    I think it is a fun read, informative and sexy. Unfortunately, judgemental statements and degrading others for their sexuality, is what has kept women from expressing their sexuality for so long. Is it really any wonder why only about of third of woman orgasm through intercourse, when sexy ideas are termed slutty or implied that any relationship that engages in these sexy ideas are less than committed.

  • Girliegirl
    October 8, 2012 | Permalink |

    I would NOT tolerate or enjoy watching my partner having sex with someone else. Complete turn off.

  • Me
    October 17, 2012 | Permalink |

    @Megz shut up.

  • Spikey
    October 21, 2012 | Permalink |

    Meg, you’re ignorant.

    LOT’S of people in a serious relationship are comfortable enough and MATURE enough to know their own boundaries. I am in a serious relationship, and I suppose I’m more on the kinky side of human nature. One of these tips that got me most was watching my partner fuck someone else. It would be a complete turn on, and it’s not cheating because if I’m watching, obviously it’d be a consensual act between partners. I can’t explain it, but people to weird things in the bedroom. It’s a personal preference and at the end of the day, it’s all just a bit of lustful fun before snuggling in bed with your partner who you trust and KNOW can trust.

    Doing these kinds of things do not suggest an unhealthy relationship. In fact, it would bring you closer together knowing how much trust you can put into each other.

    Great article! These are very saucy tips and I’d be happy to try out most of them :)

  • Smiley
    November 5, 2012 | Permalink |

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    Im in a serious relationship and i never in my LIFE would consider involing a third party, mingling, threesome, etc. not even clubbing. Your sexual relationship is SACREDDDDDDD! i dont understand why people would even considering other people in your sex lifee. I thank GOD me and my partner think exactly alike when it comes to thiss :) <3

  • Connie
    November 17, 2012 | Permalink |

    Wow, Lovepanky, you guys have seriously turned around my sex life with my husband. I understand that some of these kinky ideas may be out there, especially the ones involving other people. But to the people who are against it, it’s the way you see sex. If you think your relationship is important and both of you love each other, then involving someone else isn’t always bad. I mean, you can have dinner with your lover or you can have dinner with your lover and another friend. It all depends on how you see sex and what you expect from it.

    My husband and I have been married for 10 years and our sex lives are just too boring. It just happened gradually over time. To turn things around, on our trip to Thailand two months ago, we got a girl into bed with us and ever since, our sex life has just come alive. We’re having sex almost every night, and we can’t keep our hands off each other when we undress before going to bed.

    I know, this is obviously not something everyone would do, but if your marriage is important, sometimes, you need to learn to make sex exciting by doing different things too, even if it seems over the top. The points here gave me the inspiration, and now I’m a happily married and sexually satisfied gal!

  • craig . l .
    December 28, 2012 | Permalink |

    My wife and i Are deeply in love and share the desire to continually Up the anti or raise the bar.We are very fit and active.
    We are a very private couple which involves Just her and me. We are a very satisfied couple. We often make love all night which includes all positions and penetrations , all areas of the house including in the back yard on the grass, and sex toys . Upping the anti is fun she seems to be on top at the moment . We often use ice cubes and penetrate which sends you into a shiver. She also up the anti with taking turns weeing on each others private parts (on the toilet ) and sometimes on each other (Very stimulating and warm). She has vowed to continually up the anti and does good at it . Iam her Prince chalming and I,am in search to compete with her as we are both Pisces for new and stimulating erotic ideas. Your site has confirmed some of what we do . Can you suggest any links that will keep me in the bonding ????

  • craig . l .
    January 19, 2013 | Permalink |

    Well its been 3 weeks since my say on the Desire to up the anti , and raise the bar and true to our emotionally connecting relationship we have continued our stimulating quest . Our deep connection has thrived and been lots of fun. The mountain we climb seems to be never ending but we now have many places to revisit .
    My Beautiful wife is well ahead she has totally engolfed my pleasures including a spontaneous phone Sexting day (while at work & not busy, me at home) were she text some 71 times how wet and how and what she would do to me when she raced home . It was that stimulating over the 3 – 4 hours i felt uphoric . She told me to masturbate (but not come) and text her How i felt and send the odd pic (about 10 ) to which she would slip her hand inside her panties for a quick up date to relay to me . By the time she run in at home she had text me to be ready to which I was . We went animal , the anticipation was through the roof literally .
    A week later we stayed in a hotel room and both pre readied ourselves for something very special. No Love making a night before one condition ( Yes that makes it all the better)and cleanly , smoothly shaven for the feel. We both had the best night of our life (mind you I,am 48 & Kerri is 43) . We started slowly peeing on each other on the bathroom floor (& 4 times later), then in the warm bath where she insisted on slow but tingling Back to front anal sex ! orgasms come quite easy we connect to the maximum . She then insisted on probing me which i give her full trust ! Wow ! not that it makes me orgasm (never but the tickle is great) but we feel as ONE . We spent 45 minutes in that Bath i will never forget it ….! We used ice cubes , sex toys and all those new positions and places you find in a hotel room or different surround . We are one im so sure of that . We place our connection as the most spiritual important binding thing in our marriage SO TRUE. We still search for ideas , but that mountain we climb is not scaled yet , and the memories of the places we experienced we can always & will go back to .

  • happily married
    February 12, 2013 | Permalink |

    I thought many of the suggestions are fantastic, many my husband and i have done already! WE like to experiment, try new things; don’t know if you like it till you try it! There are a few things on that list we will be sure to try!
    For those who think it isn’t right, keep your opinions to yourselves, it doesn’t make us any less of a happily married couple. If you don’t like it, then go to a different sight!

  • Smokie Ember
    February 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    I’m in a committed loving relationship with my boyfriend. We both have come to realize that sex is just that,..sex. It’s not love. We share a deep and committed love, but have found that having sex with other people (when our partner knows about it, or is present during) is highly enjoyable. We are mature enough to realize the difference between love and sex, and for this our relationship is stronger and more fulfilling then ever. We’ve tried most of the tips listed, and found that they did heighten our enjoyment.. Playing with a third or a couple has been extremely enjoyable without the jealousy. We are both confident in our own skins (even though we are both of more then average weight). I love watching my partner pleasure another woman OR man with his tongue, and he enjoys watching me have intercourse with another man. It’s not for everyone, that’s for sure! but for those who are open-minded, and confident in their love and relationship with their partner, the benefits are fantastic.
    I have a ‘date’ tomorrow night with another man. My boyfriend will get me ready, and be home when I come home from that date. My date knows about my boyfriend and knows that I will be going home to him after and telling him about my playtime.
    If you are open minded, have good self esteem, understand the differences between sex and love, and both you and your partner have talked extensively about this and agree, then there is nothing wrong with going outside the marital bed for sex.
    Enjoy!

  • March 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    HMMMM interesting

  • Angela
    March 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    @Meg i agree with you….most content is very inappropriate…..

  • Not them
    March 27, 2013 | Permalink |

    @megz
    I am proud of you for your stance. You are correct and many others are just haters needing to hate. Sorry they are. See the thing is, there are many in this world and we all have different likes and dislikes. Some need to have more excitement and it can come from others outside of the relationship. This is obviously not for you and there is nothing wrong with that. I know someone like you and they do not want to bring anyone else into the relationship in any way because their significant other IS what they desire in all ways and is turned on and fulfilled by that one person. Nothing is wrong with that. It is beautiful to be honest, but not found by many. If you have that do what is right and best for you. There are other suggestions that do not involve others (outside of your relationship) and they can be invigorating too. Sex in the woods is a lot of fun and no one is watching, but there is still a feeling of danger and that is the part that makes it kinky.

    A lot of times we just have to use our minds. Then again there are those that have done that and became bored and want more. For those people watching or participating with others might be the step they take. You bashed no one and that was kind of you. You offered your opinion that was different from others and that should be respected as much as the original authors writings are, even if you are polar opposites.

    For those of you that feel a need to tell others they are wrong and need to shut up, f*ck off you loser.

  • Cat
    March 27, 2013 | Permalink |

    I’m so glad I’m not the only one who finds grinding on others in a club sexy! After dating the same man for 5 years, there’s nothing hotter than pretending to be strangers and winning each other over with our sexy dance moves (on others.) My boyfriend and I like pretending we’re strangers hooking up in a club restroom. It’s got most of the thrill of being naughty without the guilt or betrayal. TRY IT!

  • Sally
    April 5, 2013 | Permalink |

    I’d be very careful when it comes to suggestions 1, 2, 8, 9 and 10 as they involve other people as not all couples are into that and there are couples who wouldn’t even consider being open to things like that however they are great suggestions for those who are into that sort of stuff.

    I’d also be very careful with suggestion 19 too as this could a lot of problems especially if the couple breaks up and some people are not comfortable with being photographed or having videos of them having sex so it definitely has to be mutual respect and a lot of trust involved.

    I really like suggestions 5, 14, 15 and 36!! They’re great and I think even in serious committed relationships these could help a lot and there is nothing wrong with broadening one’s range of sexual activities providing both people are comfortable and open to it.

  • lana
    April 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    anal sex? no thank you

  • craig . l .
    April 26, 2013 | Permalink |

    Well for all you that are really interested in becoming ONE with your partner and keeping it that way , we want you to know that we are still at it . upping the anti Or raising the bar . Yes some things we have done drop off but we can honestly say that everything we have done we will definately do numerous times more , (go back to it) .
    We just spent 2 weeks in Bali and everything ive expressed before we done and more .
    The flight from Australia (6 hrs.15) was amazing …! My wife took her undies off seated under the blanket and layed her lgs over my lap . She grabbed my hand and shoved it down to her wet slippery pussy (The holiday excited us ). I put half my finger in and she cum at least 5 times…! WOW. We stayed in a Villa and boy did we use every place posible . Peeing squirting and of course orgasming with her toys , Greeny & purply to which i carefully packed to avoid confiscation. Be adventurist , Be One , Be stimulated , Be orgasmic . We love everything thats put on the table , together only though . Till next post Get to it it gets better

  • kelly
    April 30, 2013 | Permalink |

    While I am all for doing edgy, dangerous, sexy stuff I feel like some of these go a little too far into, well, being illegal. I am pretty sure the hotel waiter (or anyone else who happens by the open hotel door) wouldn’t be consenting to being part of a couple’s kinky play. Things like bulldozing someone’s right to consent are generally considered, well, sexual assault.

    It is generally frowned upon to encourage people to sexually assault other people, or sexually assault people in the first place. At least where I’m from.

  • May 30, 2013 | Permalink |

    I think your list was fantastic. Sure there were a few ideas that did not interest me (or not my cup of tea). But then, thats why there are 50 Ideas.
    Just a thought for those negative comments…, that’s why there are 50 Ideas. I think it’s being read because we are looking for just that… “Ideas”. I’ve found myself being pleasantly surprised at some of the ideas that I had never tried, but gave it a try and really liking it.
    Thank you for the variety. Different strokes…

  • Daniel
    June 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    Your list was amazing. Going by number 9 on your list, I have done this with my partner of four years and we found it truly amazing.

  • hippiefrog
    July 12, 2013 | Permalink |

    A lot of these turn me on just reading them, lol. And although I’m not entirely open to sec with others, talking about it and fantasizing makes things very hot in the bedroom. Maybe one day… But until then, fantasizing will work. Great list of ideas!

  • susan
    July 26, 2013 | Permalink |

    My husband and I are swingers and we love it.

  • S.A.
    August 6, 2013 | Permalink |

    I have nothing against the prefferences of others but a lot of this would be a massive turn off for me. I am a jealous girl, and my fiance is as well. If either of us were to sleep with another it would honestly hurt us more then turn us on. We have tried a few of what is listed, but seeing him with someone else or if I would be with someone else would strain our relationship, no matter how strong it is. Yes we wouldn’t see it as “Love Making” but even if we were to watch, it would be cheating in our eyes. I do enjoy a lot of the things listed, as does the fiance, but some just made us cringe.

  • Holly
    October 2, 2013 | Permalink |

    Also, girl-on-girl with the guy watching. Did that with my FWB… So much fun. I really suggest tribadism. UGH. Feels so good. Especially if you trib with her and he does you in the butt. MMMM. Best sex ever.

  • Lady Twilite
    November 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    My husband and I have tried about 40 of these, and sometimes they get stale. We’ve tried changing it up with different positions from the kamasutra, different locations, and we’re nudists in our own house, but it still is just too much effort some days. We’re swingers, too, so that’s a bit different of a mix-up when needed. Any suggestions for when things get, well, boring?

  • kitty joy
    December 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    Trying some of this sex move on my man might help us stay in love longer.

  • Les Davis
    December 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    WOW some HOT ideas………for those of you who say NEVER may not be totally in love with your partner OR maybe you don’t trust yourself.

    However I would get a BIG turn on to see my sexy little wife playing with another female. I trust my wife 100% and if she enjoyed it I want her to go for it. I just watch and wait until she is alone with me and she will get all she wants.

  • Ladybug
    December 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    So. I am a married woman. My husband and I are kinky people and i love this kist. We will probably try everything on here. We are comfortable with our marriage and our sexuality so bringing someone else into the mix is always a favorite of mine. People say watching their partner have sex with someone else is not a turn on but me, i love it. Its actually my favorite. I know my husband loves me and him being my fantasy is amazing. Going to get even more adventurous with this list. I love sites like this, where people can be real about sex.

  • moody blue
    January 13, 2014 | Permalink |

    Why does sex have to be kinky at all, why can’t people just be happy to have someone to have sex with in the first place! As for the list it is just plain gross in every aspect. I would kill my partner if they ever cheated on me just to get laid, they know flat out I will not tolerate anyone else in my bedroom period! If you do not like the sex you get from me at home then you can leave me but I refuse to get into kinky demoralizing sex just to please your gross needs. Half the time I wish I was not even a woman as I am forced to wear skirts as that is what he says a woman is suppose to wear. As soon as he leaves I am back to jeans as I much prefer. He is a rather gross man never happy with the sex he does get from me, no he wants kinky sex, he wants to wear my clothes, just plain sick. Men are just gross. I can’t stand them requiring me to be their freaking Barbie dolls to get off, and always wanting it kinkier, take the sex I give out or go the freak away! I refuse to be kinky, slutty, trashy, whore, for anyone!!!!

  • israel aston
    January 16, 2014 | Permalink |

    i love this site

  • Steve
    April 2, 2014 | Permalink |

    For the love of God, do not pee on me

  • open-minded
    April 18, 2014 | Permalink |

    Love the ideas. My hubby and I have tried a lot of these. Our love life is great. We have talked about swinging and threesome’s but havent tried ityet.

  • Lyric
    May 28, 2014 | Permalink |

    I am married and re sex has become stagnant. I tend to fantasize about other women and watching my husband with both men and women. I love sex and I feel that experimenting is a great way to explore your own desires.
    My recent development: I want to buy a strap on and swap roles.
    I have done almost everything on the list except bring others to bed with us and that is only because he won’t allow it.
    So finding other ways to enjoy sex is sometimes challenging.
    Thank you for the post. Those of you who don’t like it, open your mind!

  • Alessio Ventura
    July 23, 2014 | Permalink |

    Really. Grope other people? Have sexvwith another couple in bed? Have a threesome? Try swinging? You have got to be kidding. These are sure fire ways to END your relationship. Expose yourself in public? Wow, that is a perversion and will land you in jail. How the hec were you given permission by your editors to keep this article as is? Your list romotes cheating and public indecency for crying out loud. Disgraceful.

  • SpicyWife
    August 3, 2014 | Permalink |

    What a great list of ideas! My husband and I have tried many of these ideas, not all of them. There’s no judgment on our part about anyone’s opinion. You’ve provided a very healthy list of things that people in loving, committed relationships can try if they’d like. The key is that the items on the list ARE optional. If someone doesn’t like any of the choices (i.e., groping others, swinging, etc.), they don’t have to try them. But, for others who do try them and it works for them, then “more power to them.” We’ve found that when we try “kinkier” ideas together, it draws us closer because we are doing them together. That works for us. It may not work for others, but that doesn’t deserve condemning remarks from anyone. Live and let live. Thanks for a great list!

  • Miles
    August 6, 2014 | Permalink |

    I found this the best actual advice. Thank you for posting it. If people are insecure in not sharing their partner with other people its their choice. However there are many who find it highly erotic. This is a post about spicy filthy ways to do new things sexually. Having the same old attitude without any courage and plenty of closed mindedness actually causes boredom. Safe mundane boredom. The first thing people need to change is their attitude to what is acceptable before they ccan hope to break their routine boring repetitive sex.
    Personally if my gf secretly flashed her twat to a stranger in a bar as part of a kink role playing seamy game I’d love it. I’d also get off on her taking a penis larger than mine and have tried swinging and strap one too. I recommend people delete what they previously decreed was taboo and with trust and communication go out and live on the wild side a little.
    Same old repetitive sex can become worse than simply having a wank. That’s what’s in store for those conservative boring people.

  • One0fAkind
    August 7, 2014 | Permalink |

    Nice list alot of these sound very exciting!!!!!!!! theres a couple things on this list i would love to share with my partner but do anyone know what are some ways i can test to see how open her mind is to these ideas without her thinking im weird?

  • One0fAkind
    August 7, 2014 | Permalink |

    Nice theres a couple things on this list i would love to share with my partner, but does anyone know what are some ways i could test my partners open mind without her thinking im weird? or should i say how can I walk her into some of these things that would be nice to do..

  • Dee
    August 9, 2014 | Permalink |

    My husband and I have been married 24 and together for 28 years (we are 50 but are in great shape). Last October we both started discussing swinging. We love each other very much but are not jealous people. We absolutely love this new lifestyle we have found which has completely changed our whole life. We swing alone also as husband works away a lot, but we tell each other every encounter we have and it is a big turn on for both of us. We have sex with like minded people and have made some amazing friends – we swing with younger (youngest 26) and had every possible encounter you could have. All have been professional people like us – but also with very high sex drives with no inhibitions. We have tried most things and our sex life is the best it has ever ever been! It’s not for everyone – but it is for the thousands of people who are already on the site!

  • Jennie DiMarco
    September 3, 2014 | Permalink |

    This is a really fun article. While swinging and kink isn’t for everyone, there is a whole world out there for those who want to dip their toe in that water. I just found it 3 years ago, and don’t ever want to turn back. My husband has no interest in it, but gave me the green light to go and play (safely) as I want. I has dramatically helped our marriage. I go out, I play with a few of my usual partners, and I come home happy and satisfied. Sometimes it doesn’t involve sex; it could be a flogging or just some naked time with a caring man (or woman). I’ve now got the freedom to explore my sexuality and not have to just read about it wanting something that otherwise would never happen in our bedroom. And, BTW – if he wanted to find a partner, no, I would not mind. I know that we will be there for each other for the rest of our lives.

  • steph
    November 5, 2014 | Permalink |

    LmAO at the people saying swinging is a sure fire way to ruin a marriage. HA!!! It has done nothing but STRENGTHEN my marriage. I LOVE watching my husband fuck a woman and bring her the pleasure he does me…not to mention helping him take care of her!!!

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