If you have never given road head to a guy, there is more to it than you can think of. Read this road head confession to learn all about it – good and bad.
For as long as I’ve been sexually active, I’ve never been one to shy away from an adventure. Now I’m not someone who’s into nasty fetishes or bondage. But I like the little dirty things. For me, road heads are hot. Whips and canes are not.
When it comes to sex, I like playing with my mind more than involving pain or different apparatuses.
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What is road head?
There are so many different places where people can give and receive oral sex. Usually, it’s in the bedroom, but sometimes people get more adventurous. It could happen in the shower, on the kitchen counter, or anywhere else for that matter. But one of the ways that is the most exciting is in the car on the road.
That’s what road head is – a person receives oral sex while driving a car. This term usually implies that it’s the guy who is driving and simultaneously getting a blowjob while he does.
When doing road head, there is a certain element of danger that comes with it. There is a thrill that makes it very enticing for some people. They like taking the risk of getting caught or causing an accident *which is a very bad thing*. So, you do have to be careful while engaging in road head. [Read: Slow blowjob – how to blow a guy in slow motion and leave him quivering]
Do guys like getting road head?
You would think that all guys would like to get a blowjob regardless of where or how they got it, right? Well, that’s true for some guys, but not for all.
As you can imagine, it can be quite distracting for the driver to get a blowjob. It’s not easy to concentrate on the road and the pleasure you are receiving. So, for some guys, it can be a little scary. It might be a lot more enjoyable if they are on a road with no traffic. Because when you’re on a crowded street or on the freeway, the risks can far outweigh the benefits.
However, it is an individual thing. Some guys love it! It really just depends on how adventurous they are, and where they are driving. But you will never know if he likes it until you try it, right? [Read: How to give good head – the biggest guide and 50+ blowjob secret tips]
The good girl’s clean side
Now I may love a few experiments on the wild side. But frankly, no one sees this side of me unless they’re dating me.
On the outside, I’m demure, sweet, and more cute than sexy. I’m the damsel in distress and the sweet girl who seems like she knows nothing about sex or the male species. I’ve even dated a tough guy who told me he thought he’d dirty me if he touched me, whatever that meant!
But date me and take me, and boy, you’d see a wild side you would never have known existed. I’m quite proud of this dual personality I can portray to the world. It’s an exciting high that always surprises any guy I date.
But now that you know I’m not weird or way too dirty, let me get to my road head confessions.
My tryst with road heads
I’ve given a LOT of road heads.
I gave my first road head when I was 18, and ten years down the lane, I haven’t stopped doing it. There’s something about a road head that excites any guy, even if he’s a cowardly chickenhearted geek.
But once you’re done with a deed, guys like you a lot more. Probably because you just made them feel more daring and macho, who knows!
I like going on long drives and taking off on road trips now and then. Perhaps my interest in road heads just grew along with the boredom of road hypnosis. I’ve given a road head to almost every boyfriend I’ve ever had. [Read: How to plan a couples road trip]
My first road head
The first time I ever gave a road head was on a freeway. I was scared, and yet, it excited me. My boyfriend had such a tough time driving, and watching him have such a *hard* time driving the car turned me on even more.
I just wanted him to lose control of the wheel. Somewhere inside me, I knew that was stupid, but I felt more powerful and sexy. I could control a man with his shaft in my mouth. It was an exhilarating and empowering experience really!
Stares from other drivers
One of the most exciting aspects of a road head is the fear and excitement of getting caught. If you’ve given a road head a few times, there’s a good chance you’ve been seen by other drivers with your mouth near a gear shaft.
Getting caught is fun. The other driver almost always looks shocked and awe-struck. If there are a group of guys in the other car, you’re always going to hear a lot of hoots and catcalls.
I’ve never had a bad experience with road stares though, but I have heard a few stories from my friends where other cars try to trail you wherever your car goes just to get a better view. Creepy… and scary AF!
Topless road heads
Sometimes, I’ve intentionally gone topless with the windows down when we’re on a road trip.
It’s really embarrassing if another car stays parallel to yours for more than a second, but if it’s a quick zip past each other, it’s a sexy rush that just can’t be explained! [Read: More sexy public flashing confessions]
My only road head crash
One time with an ex-boyfriend of mine, we ended up driving over the curb because he lost control of the wheel. It was a dark evening, and we were cruising around a lazy suburb to while away a bit of time. Thankfully though, it was a just little scratch on the bumper, and there was no damage to my head or his!
As we were recovering from the minor crash, a dad who was walking with his two daughters rushed to help us. And after seeing what we were up to, he turned to his teenage daughters and said, “Look, this is why I tell you not to go out with guys!”
I guess he saw my boyfriend zipping his pants up as he came near the car. Both of us burst out laughing and sped away before we could hear anything else! It was so funny, I feel like laughing just thinking about it now.
Getting watched
There was this time when I did something I thought was unthinkable. I gave my boyfriend a road head while my best friend was sitting in the back seat.
My boyfriend was shocked, my girl friend was laughing hysterically, and I had a wild time doing a crazy thing I never thought I could. And at the end of the day, there were three horny people driving back home! [Read: 28 secrets to a sexy threesome you won’t forget for a lifetime]
My first date road head
My funniest and most exciting road head was one I gave a guy on a first date with him. He was a great guy, and I didn’t care whether it would end up being a one-night stand or a long-term relationship.
After the date, I just wanted to have a bit of fun and thank him at the same time. We finished dinner and got into the car in the parking lot. He was trying to make a conversation with me before starting the car. I didn’t care to listen to him. I reached out, unzipped him, yanked his trousers down, and gave him a head. He was shocked, surprised, and looked down at me with a wide, giddy smile!
I asked him to start the car and drive. Shocked and awed, he excitedly drove back to his place, and after a good time in bed, thanked me for the best date of his life!
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Road heads and the experiences
Are road heads hot? Are they really sexy? Well, they definitely are. Road heads are hot for the same reason why having sex in front of someone else or in public is hot.
It’s what you’ve always done, but you bring a new twist to a regular job. And that makes it more exciting and memorable. If you can create unique memories of the same chore, it’ll always stay fresh and exciting, don’t you think?
How to give road head – The do’s and don’ts for girls
Know the road before you go down on him. Is the road safe enough for a road head? A guy can seem reckless at times, but you’ve still got to have your presence of mind. [Read: How to please a man with your mouth – 13 lip-smacking blowjob tips]
1. Don’t keep bobbing your head up and down, it may embarrass the guy. Remember that other drivers can see you from the back.
2. Don’t bite or hurt him just to experience more emotions from him.
3. You may try your best to make him lose his focus, but instead of trying to make him hit a tree, just focus on the fun.
4. Don’t ever get carried away and sit on his lap or do something stupid.
5. Don’t hold anything else in your hand like a cigarette. It’s kinky, but one mistake could do a lot of damage.
6. Communicate with him, but don’t intentionally try to distract him.
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Road head do’s and don’ts for guys
1. Pick a lonely and familiar road. Don’t indulge in a road head when you don’t know where you’re going.
2. Road heads are thrilling, but don’t let the passion and adrenalin get to you by driving fast or recklessly.
3. Don’t close your eyes to experience the pleasure better.
4. Stay focused on the road even if all you want to do is drop your hands from the steering wheel and hold her head.
5. Remember that the focus is not on the pleasure, it’s on the excitement of doing something wild and memorable.
6. Never allow a girl to give you a road head when you’re drunk.
7. Slow down completely if you’re having a hard time controlling the wheel and your mind. Better wild and safe than wild and sorry.
Is road head illegal?
You would think that this is an easy question to answer, but it’s not. The reason is that it is dependent on where you live in the world. Different countries – and different states – have different laws. [Read: Real life dirty sexy public flashing confessions]
However, with that said, there are some places where it is illegal because it falls under the category of “distracted or reckless driving” and that can be a serious offense.
Just as texting while driving is dangerous and distracted, receiving a blowjob isn’t any better. There are huge dangers associated with it, which is why it’s illegal in some places.
What are the dangers?
The most obvious danger is getting caught. But there are many other dangers too.
For example, there can be physical dangers to the man’s penis. Just imagine if you accidentally hit a pothole or a bump on the road and the woman’s teeth happen to clench down accidentally. Ouch! That might not be very pleasurable. *understatement!* [Read: Sexy exhibitionism – how to get naked in public]
You also need to consider the fact that distracted drives are the biggest killers on the road. The law has tried to crack down on cell phone use on the road, and that may be less of a distracting situation than having an orgasm on the road.
Just think about the loss of muscle control that most guys experience when they have an orgasm. It doesn’t really equate to being a safe driver.
Another thing to consider is that road head could be considered having sex in “public.” Yes, you are inside a private car, but being on a public road where anyone can see into your vehicle isn’t exactly private. Someone will notice! So, this could fall under the category of public indecency.
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If you want to experience a road head, pick a deserted road, stay safe, and be quick. It’s fun once or a few times, but tick it off your sexual bucket list and move on to something else!
Road heads are fun and very memorable. But always remember that any distraction of this sort is against the law. Have fun, get naughty but never compromise safety for sexual pleasure, not when you’re on the road.