Have you ever wondered why your woman moans and groans so much in bed? Is it just because you’re that good, or are there other reasons? Find out here.
If you’ve ever seen a porn video in your entire life, then you know what I’m talking about. It seems that no matter what the person is doing, the girl is basically screaming. And you know what? Men LOVE it… and we women know that. And there are specific reasons why women are so vocal about their pleasure.
Moaning, groaning—what gives?
Even if we don’t mean to, we are making all sorts of noises for many different reasons. Some are on purpose, while others are completely accidental. Either way, you’re probably wondering why exactly are there so many noises going on and what they mean.
Coming from a girl who often *okay, maybe not too often lately* makes these oh-so-sought-after sounds, we do have a sort of ulterior motive when it comes to why we do this. Now, don’t take this the wrong way. It’s not like we’re evil and looking to tear you down or anything.
No—we simply know what sounds to make and when to make them in order to achieve our goals. Or we just really can’t help it. But bottom line is that there is some mystery behind the noises we make and why we make them. [Read: The secret guide to moaning and sounding sexy in bed]
Sexy reasons why women moan and groan in bed
Our reasons for making such enticing noises are actually very simple: it’s for the sex appeal. We ladies have put our heads together and divulged the reasons we make obviously pleasing noises in bed and we felt that it’s time to let you in on the secret, too. Here are 9 sexy reasons why women moan and groan in bed.
#1 Because it feels good. Duh! This one should be a no-brainer, but it is something that has come up and needs to be addressed. Women make such noises while getting jiggy between the sheets because it feels good! It’s a response that whatever you’re doing—it’s working.
If your woman is silent in bed, then something probably needs fixing. We make these noises for you to know that we’re definitely feeling it. It’s pretty much an involuntary response to great-feeling sex.
#2 To give you a little confidence. Don’t hate us! In no way does this mean we’re faking anything. Not at all. This simply means that we’re looking to give you a little boost to make you feel better so you can feel good about your performance.
Everybody knows that a confident person in the sack is a good person in the sack. By giving you that much needed confidence, you can take the “good” sex to the next level and make it “mind blowing.” [Read: 10 surefire ways to know when she’s faking it in bed]
#3 To steer you in the right direction. Our moans and groans are not just to tell you it feels good and to give you the confidence you need, they’re also signals. If we’re quiet, then you need to change things up a bit. But if we’re increasingly making loud, ecstatic noises, then you’re heading in the right direction.
This is way easier than simply telling you that what you’re doing sucks and you should try something else, because that type of criticism will most certainly kill the mood and leave you feeling crushed and inadequate.
#4 For our own pleasure. Moaning makes us feel good! It’s true. Physically moaning, for a woman, can increase the feeling of pleasure. In a way, it sort of tricks our minds into feeling like there’s more pleasure than there really is.
Even if it already feels good, the more and louder we moan and groan, the better whatever you’re doing to us will feel. It’s kind of like smiling even when you’re sad; your brain thinks you’re really happy, so then you actually become happy! Same concept, here: moan as though the sex is great, and the sex will be great! [Read: 18 sex moves for men that’ll make your girl crave for more]
#5 For your pleasure. Yes! We have cracked your secret. Not that it was ever a secret at all, really. We know that sexy noises in bed turn you on. That’s exactly why all of those outlandish porn stars make over-the-top sounds. It’s because you love it.
It turns you on and helps you have a good time and feel more pleasure if we’re producing sexy moans and groans. And of course, we just love to please you. For your listening pleasure, we make wonderful sounds. [Read: 25 common porn myths that people still believe]
#6 To fulfill a fantasy. Whether it’s for you or us, there is a fantasy that involves screaming our brains out from how insanely amazing the sex is—and we all want to fulfill it! This is especially true of shy women; a shy woman loves the idea that she can be loud, be in charge, and release her inner sex-kitten. Mee-oow!
If your fantasy is to have a woman enjoying herself so much that she can’t help but make all kinds of delicious sounds, then we want to give that to you! It’s just one of the many reasons we release such pleasing sounds in bed. [Read: 16 signs you’re s sex kitten and loving it!]
#7 To feel free. When a woman moans and writhes in bed, she is letting herself go and enjoying the moment. Nothing can make a gal feel freer than just letting the noises naturally escape her lips.
#8 Stress relief. Just as we feel more liberated, we also feel more relaxed. Sex is a stress reliever in and of itself. You add some intense moaning and shouting, and that’s a recipe for extreme relaxation. Letting out all of the tension from the day/week is a reason we get so loud in bed.
Instead of screaming into our coworker’s face, or coming home and crying into a pillow, we can let all of that frustration out when getting freaky between the sheets!
#9 We can’t help it! It’s instinctual. Moaning when having sex just happens and we can’t help it at all! I mean, we can definitely control it if we need to. If our brother is staying at our place for the week and we need to keep things at a seemingly PG-13 level—even though he’s probably well aware of what is actually going on—you might notice a decrease in noise levels.
But those attractive moans and groans are a natural part of getting frisky with our significant others—or even some random person: no judgement here. It just comes out when we’re relaxed and feeling good—and who are we to hold any of that back?
The secrets of the universe *or just the secrets of Venus* have finally been revealed in the points listed above. And despite what you may think—that you’re just incredible in the sack, perhaps—women have other sexy reasons for letting loose attractive moans and groans in bed.
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Bella is a lifestyle writer, cheese enthusiast (Wisconsin native over here) and fantasy adventure author-in-progress who enjoys all things love, dog, p...