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Sexual Bucket List – 17 Fun Sex Ideas You HAVE to Try!

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You only regret the things you don’t try—especially when it comes to sex. Here are 17 fun sex ideas that are definitely worth trying, at least once!

Life is fleeting. Things happen so fast—and before you know it, the moment is gone. In all this chaos and madness, we can find ourselves letting go of things that we wanted to do and things we wanted to experience. Will you be able to go forward through life with all your shoulda-woulda-couldas following you around?

This is obviously where a bucket list comes in. But are bucket lists really enough for all the adventures you want to experience in your lifetime? What about the things you want to experience in bed; those raunchy, naughty, fun things that can make you say that yes, you have had a rockin’ good sex life?

Here, we give you a low down on some of the fun and sexy things that you have to try at least once in your lifetime.

Your sexual bucket list – 17 fun and sexy experiences that you simply can’t miss

Don’t go to your grave kicking yourself for missing out. Add these to your sexual bucket list and get ticking them off right away! [Read: 30 super sexy ways to spice up your sex life instantly]

#1 Look scandalous. Wear something you know you shouldn’t be caught dead in: The sexiest, raunchiest lingerie you can find. To give you a head start, try the classic combo of a cupless lacy bra and peekaboo crotchless panties—or even try those fancy nipple stickers with your sluttiest high heels.

#2 Come out to play. If you haven’t tried out an adult toy, then you’re missing out on all the fun. Playing with sex toys allows you to not only up the ante while you’re going solo, but also to explore your sexuality even more. But remember: Play nice! [Read: The vajankle and 10 other creepy sex toys newbies should avoid]

#3 Bring a toy for company. If you and your partner are used to having just the two of you do the tango, why not add some toys to spice up your sex life—even just once? If you’re feeling not-so-frisky about the idea, try some lubes first, or have your man watch you play with your vibrator. Even if you’re just playing by yourself, seeing you enjoy and gyrate is enough to give your man all the pleasure too.

#4 Porn it up. Just as your fantasies don’t have to just involve you, watching XXX-rated adult films can be an enjoyable couples thing. Make it even more titillating by watching porn together while naked. This can be a great way to turn the heat up and have you both express how you like to be stimulated in bed. If not, then you can just simply laugh at the ridiculous scripted moves and predictable storyline. [Read: 10 popular moves from porn men love and women hate!]

#5 Dabble in BDSM. Instead of welcoming home your partner with a whip and taking him or her to a bed tied with lace cuffs, start your adventure into BDSM very early in the day. Be treated by your partner *or vice versa* as if you are royalty with back massages and foot rubs, leading on to bondage or a little whipping if the mood feels right.

#6 Spanking. If more hardcore BDSM is not your cup of tea, then at least try to bring some spanking into your sexual repertoire. After all, many forms of rope playing involve spanking and power play. You don’t need to have any equipment, but be sure to do it right and aim for the fatty, full parts of your partner’s behind. [Read: BDSM guide, tips and tricks for first-timers]

#7 Sink your teeth into it. As weird as it sounds, another fun yet kinky way to express how you appreciate your partner’s body part is by biting it. You may have always had an urge to wrap your mouth around that wonderful ass anyway. Whatever you do, though, don’t take a chunk out of your partner—keep it sexy yet playful.

#8 Pleasure each other. Masturbate together—better yet, do it to each other. There’s nothing as intimate as watching your partner go solo. If you’re truly comfortable together, you’ll love to do it to each other and even climax from it, if you can stop yourself from getting too involved!

#9 Public space. We all have the fantasy of getting caught playing where we shouldn’t. So why not add a little spice to your sex life by taking it outside? Try the park at dawn, the library at noon, the rooftop of your building, or any other public space. It may be taboo, but that’s what makes it all the more exciting. Just be sure you won’t really be caught!

#10 Food foreplay. Bringing food in your list of sexual experiments can be tricky, but when done right, it is very fun and memorable. Use fruits such as strawberries, grapes, cherries or bananas. You can even add syrups such as honey or chocolate. Oh, and don’t forget the whipped cream! [Read: 10 naughty sex games for couples to feel really horny instantly]

#11 Beaching. There’s nothing like salt, sea, and sand to bring you right to paradise. Take your partner to heavenly bliss by having sex on the beach. Start with a picnic under some palm trees, bathe in the turquoise waters, and then slowly undress each other as you roll out your blanket on the powdery white sand and let nature be your audience.

#12 Shave it. Shaving each other can make you see your favorite body parts of your partner in a whole new light and even give you a deeper appreciation of each other. Shaving requires a lot of trust and you must also be comfortable enough with each other, especially if you are going to snip off those growing hairs in each other’s private parts. It’s a fun and sexy test of your relationship. [Read: Trim, shave or natural – The best looking bushes!]

#13 Role play. Role play is always fun. With the right props, back story, and build up of anticipation, role play makes it possible for you to have sex with different kinds of people but still be with your partner. Get it, get it? Good.

#14 Sexual scavenger hunt. It’s always fun to play games and solve puzzles. Think up a sensual scavenger hunt to tease and tantalize your partner. Have him or her wake up to clues scattered all over your place, and even extend the search to his or her office and have him or her running around for the ultimate prize: You. [Read: 10 really fun sex games to play with your boyfriend]

#15 Luxury love boat. It’s always a good idea to splurge—wisely—at least once in your life. If you can afford it, go to a luxury destination such as a private island or a five-star luxury hotel. Better yet, go on a cruise around the Caribbean—and if you don’t have a lover on the trip with you, why not open yourself up to meeting a billionaire along the way?

#16 Bathe together. Draw a warm bath and take out those aromatic oils to make the experience even more sensual. Then, lead your special someone to the bathtub as you both undress—and don’t forget the flower petals and tea light candles. Lather each other up and pretend you’re Julia Roberts and Richard Gere in Pretty Woman. Who knows where it might lead?

#17 Bring back the art of letter writing. Letter writing is indeed a lost art. So why not brush up on your handwriting and get some special stationery to pen something erotic to your partner? If you’re good at drawing, you can even give your partner an illustrated preview of what you will do to each other that night.

So there you have it: A short list for a relatively short and fast-paced life. From doing things you’ve never done before to throwing your inhibitions out the window, this list serves as a starter to remind you to always inject some fun into your life.

[Read: Top 50 dirty, kinky ideas that are worth trying at least once]

Create your own sexual bucket list by trying these fun sex ideas, and step just a little outside your comfort zone. That’ll add some spice to your bedroom, make you feel great about yourself, and give you a chance to grab life by the proverbial balls!

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Tiffany Reyes
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4 thoughts on “Sexual Bucket List – 17 Fun Sex Ideas You HAVE to Try!”

  1. Aphrodite says:

    I have never considered a sexual bucket list though I have started to make a general one. When I read this article I have to say I thought hmmmm interesting. I like the idea of a romantic cruise to an exotic locale that can be on my list. I also like the idea of letter writing as I love to write any way. Also a beach romp sounds like fun especially if it is a private beach. I think I may even have some firsts that are not on this list that I look forward to crossing off one by one.

  2. Vincent C. says:

    I’m a big believer in porn in the bedroom. No, it’s not demeaning in any way and yeah some guys can make me feel a bit insecure (it’s what they’re paid for, right?) but ultimately I know it’s turning both me and my current girlfriend on, so what’s the big deal? If it adds that little bit of extra excitement, then I’m all for it. It just makes things that much better in the end, which is what it’s all about for sure, right?

  3. Stuart says:

    I’m not entirely sure why the whole public sex thing is such an intense fantasy for so many. Having done it before, it’s not the most thrilling experience when you’re actually into it. I found myself looking over my shoulder a whole hell of a lot and didn’t really focus on what was going on in front of me. I dunno, but I think this is one of those things that people want to try once and the majority don’t try it out again after they experience the logistics of it all. There’s a couple other things I wouldn’t mind trying out though.

  4. April says:

    I like this article, but I’m not one for public sex. I do like the idea of having a sexual scavenger hunt. I think that you could make it fun and it could be just around the house. There can be fun and sexual clues that both of you could really get into. You can take a piece of clothes off after certain clues then they could lead up to the bedroom or the place where the two of you will have sex.

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