So, you wanna give your partner little surprise the next time you two have sex? Well, then it’s time you learned how to make yourself squirt.
Sure, it can be a little messy, but the feeling of an extremely wet pussy is every man’s dream. Is it a rarity in the sex world? Yes. You’ve obviously heard of squirting, but you probably don’t know many women that can actually squirt. Well, it’s no myth, in fact, squirting is very real. And if you’re one of those people who want to know how to make yourself squirt, then you may be able to teach yourself how to do it.
How to make yourself squirt
Maybe I’m moving too fast. Do you know what squirting is? Squirting is female ejaculation. The squirt comes from the Skene’s glands behind the G-Spot. Antonia Hall, author The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life, says that when your Skene glands swell, they fill with fluid which gives you that feeling that you need to pee when close to an orgasm.
#1 You may not be able to squirt. You should definitely give it a solid try, but some of you simply won’t be able to squirt. Sure, you may be totally relaxed and have everything ready to go, but your body simply doesn’t work like that.
#2 Go pee before trying to squirt. If you worry that you’re going to pee, then pee before squirting. Empty your bladder, so that way when you feel that “I need to pee” feeling, you know that it’s not because you actually have to pee. Usually, this is the feeling we have when close to an orgasm.
#3 Sex is mental. Sex is completely mental for women. Men don’t necessarily have to be in the mood to have an erection but for women, in order for us to get wet, we have to be relaxed. You need to mentally relax before trying to squirt.
#4 Know your G-Spot. If you want to try to make yourself squirt, you have to know where your G-Spot is as it’s very important when squirting. To find your G-Spot, look for it when aroused as it swells during that time so it’s easier to find.
You’ll feel a spongy area that’s ribbed when you touch it. That’s the G-Spot. Think of the roof of your mouth, it feels like that, only much softer and squishier.
#5 Get comfortable. If your partner stands next to you while you try, but you can’t relax when they’re there, get them to leave. You need to be completely comfortable because you need an environment that allows you to relax and give you time to explore yourself. So, whatever you need to make yourself comfortable, do it. [Read: 11 sexy move to try out on yourself]
#6 You’re going to need to get aroused. Well, this one is an obvious point, but I have to say it just in case. You need to be sexually aroused in order to squirt. There is no way you’ll be able to do it if you’re dry.
So, get yourself in the mood. Watch porn, read something erotic, use a sex toy, fantasize, touch yourself—whatever turns you on, do it.
#7 Try a variety of techniques. There are so many different ways to touch yourself and make yourself squirt. The way that works for me may not work for you. Try various techniques until you find the one that works. Then again, you may not be able to squirt, but never mind, you never know until you try.
How to make yourself squirt – The techniques that help
#8 The Hook. If you’re alone, this is a great technique to try out with your hands. You need to lie down on your back and have the palm of your hand facing your stomach with two fingers in your vagina. Try using the middle and ring finger.
#9 The Come-Hither technique. This is one of the best techniques to use for squirting. With your middle finger, you run your finger back and forth across your G-Spot. Test out the amount of pressure that works for you as everyone’s different.
#10 The Arm Shaker. This one is a bit complex, and you need some arm strength. Keep your fingers pressed on your G-Spot *make sure you find the right amount of pressure that stimulates it*. Then, you’re going to use your entire arm, this is when working out comes in handy. Keep your arm stiff and then shake it up and down very quickly. Listen, this one, this one makes you squirt.
#11 You can try it out with a sex toy. If you’d rather try to squirt with a sex toy, that also works. You can use a dildo or a vibrator to do the same techniques that you would with your hand. There’s no actual set way to make yourself squirt, so test out all your options.
#12 Let your partner try to make you squirt. Sometimes two hands are better than one. With my boyfriend, he wanted me to squirt, so he helped me by being the one to make me squirt. I didn’t know how to do it, but he took his time and tried various hand positions until one of them worked. If your partner really wants to help you, then let them give it a try. [Read: How to finger a girl to orgasms – 10 easy techniques that work]
#13 If you can’t squirt, it’s okay. There is no scientific evidence that proves all women squirt. Some of you may be able to do it on the first try, others after months of practice, and for some not at all. But that doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you, it’s simply that our bodies are all designed differently.