Getting a little tired of the old routine? Well, it’s time to get a little cheeky. What I mean is, it’s time to learn how to eat ass.
After a crazy one-night stand with this sweaty Brazilian guy I met inside an after-hours club, I was introduced to the world of rimming. Had I been eaten out before? Yes. However, no one went near the anus. It’s not because I wasn’t clean, it was more because I was sleeping with guys who were too scared to try anything other than missionary. Anyways, after him, the standard had been set: they must know how to eat ass.
I mean, when I used to think about analingus, the idea of it grossed me out. How could someone ever want to know how to eat ass? But, it was only after my ass was eaten that I could appreciate the art of rimming. Of course, if they don’t know what they’re doing it could be awkward, but after a couple tries, they’ll get the hang of it. If you want to be one step ahead, well, then it’s time you learned how to eat ass.
This is how to eat ass
Because… yummy! Okay, maybe not to everyone – at least not at first. But you don’t know what you’re missing until you try it. Trust me. So, don’t go grossing out on me just yet. I have your guide here on how to eat ass. [Read: The curious guy’s and gal’s guide to first time anal sex]
#1 Do it if you want to. If you’re curious about rimming, then you should explore the idea of it and give it a try. But really, if you’re not into it, don’t do it. You won’t have an enjoyable experience if you’re not into it. Like who wants to have their head being held in someone’s ass? Exactly. Do it if you want to, and if your partner is pressuring you, then get a new one.
#2 Make sure your partner is down. If you’re into eating ass, that’s great, but you also have to make sure your partner is down for it. It doesn’t matter if they’ll be the giver or receiver, not everyone wants a tongue in their ass. Consent is key. Just have a chat about it with your partner and see if they’re down to try.
#3 Hygiene is key. I feel like this is the most important point. You should be keeping your genitals clean anyways, however, before having sex, make sure that you’re clean.
#4 You’ll need to tame the hair. Now, usually, you have some options when it comes to pubic hair. You can leave it, trim, shave, or wax it. And most people are fine with whatever you choose to do with your hair.
However, it’s a little different when it concerns the ass. You want to keep the ass back there as low as possible. Tonguing a hairy asshole isn’t fun. So, shave it, wax it, or trim it.
#5 Bring on the spit. The anus isn’t self-lubricated, so you’ll need to make it wet. This means you’ll be needing a lot of spit. Make sure that you lubricate the anus before inserting your fingers or toys. Don’t rush this part, you want your partner to enjoy the experience. [Read: How to prepare for anal sex – A beginners’ fantasy guidebook]
#6 Go crazy with your tongue. There are no “right” ways to use your tongue while rimming. You can make a variety of shapes with your tongue. You’ll just have to find out what turns your partner on the most.
#7 Get in there. After some time, the receiver’s anus will eventually relax, it may take some time depending how comfortable they are. When this happens, you’ll be able to use your tongue to dig in there. Don’t forget about the spit!
#8 No double dipping. You can’t double dip, I repeat, no double dipping. If you put something into your anus, you cannot use that same item and place it into the vagina. The anus contains bacteria which can be harmful to the vagina, causing infections and cystitis. So, keep this in mind… you want your partner to be healthy after analingus. [Read: The risks and dangers of anal sex – What to watch out for]
#9 Rinse your mouth after. You can use a dental dam while eating ass. This is essentially a barrier in between your mouth and the anus. That way, you won’t spread bacteria, viruses, and infection. You can use an unlubricated condom or a glove. However, if you don’t use a dental dam, then you’ll want to make sure you use mouthwash to sanitize your mouth. [Read: The bottom of it – 10 misconceptions of anal sex]
#10 Use your hands. You can use more than your mouth when it comes to eating ass. You can use your fingers and hands to stimulate the frontal genitals and/or insert them into the anus. You can also grab your partner’s breasts while rimming. Point is, you have some options.
#11 Mix it up with toys. I wouldn’t use toys during my first time, however, if you feel confident then why not. You can incorporate butt plugs, anal beads and dildos by inserting them into the anus. It’ll help stimulate the male prostate, and for women, it’ll increase pelvic orgasms. It’s a win-win for everyone.
#12 Spread them cheeks. Use your hands to spread the cheeks apart so you have more room to dig in. You want your tongue to be able to move freely. However, don’t spread them too far apart or else it’ll cause pain. You’re not trying to part the Red Sea.