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What do women fantasize about sexually? Super Fella reveals the top ten female fantasies and unveils the straight fact. Sexual fantasies for women are actually quite similar to what men fantasize about!

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The sweet damsels are more on the dreamy and romantic side of things, but they do have their own share of sexual fantasies for women.

And quite surprisingly, the top female fantasies are not very different from what men want in bed.

[Read: Top 10 sexual fantasies for men]

If men and women share similar interests in sexual fantasies, why do we really have to hide it and pretend like we’re all clean as a whistle.

After asking a lot of women, and of course, through my own personal experience, here are the top ten sexual fantasies for women.

The top ten female fantasies

Women may say what they want, but most women at least indulge in a few of these fantasies, if not all.

I’m really confused about a lesbian fantasy which many girls think is a hot one, but a few others were totally against it. But what the hell, I like it, so here goes the top fantasies for women.

#1 The rape fantasy

This might sound like something women aren’t really into. But many women do dream about getting molested by a man, or fantasize about a man walking in, carrying her onto a haystack and nailing her. Aww, come on, not literally! [Read: Date rape facts]

Women like dreaming about a man who rips their Versace overcoat, and her D&G tee, and her Victoria’s Secret lingerie and ravages her. But for all the men out there, don’t ever try doing this in reality, she’d snip your ding dong off before you can get past her Versace. But a woman wouldn’t really mind if her own man does that to her, of course, minus the ripping of her expensive clothes.

#2 Being a stripper

Which woman doesn’t want to be a stripper? Give her a few shots of Absolut, and she’d be all over the table, flinging clothes off one after the other. But most women don’t do that, even after they down an entire bottle. They’re just way too inhibitive.

So the next best thing, they dream about stripping for an audience. They especially love it when a man takes out a few notes and dangles them down her G-strings. Women do feel a tad awkward to talk about it with their man, but I really think they should. That would be two fantasies with one stone.

#3 Role reversals

Women wonder what it would be like to be in a man’s shoes. Or more precisely put, they wonder what it would be like to be in a man’s boxers. They dream about stories where they could wear his long trench coat and a cap with nothing inside and take the man in the front or back. [Read: Sexual roleplay tips]

The man’s obviously painfully playing the girl here in this female fantasy, and he may not really like this much unless he’s got some gay-like tendencies, or if he’s willing to walk around with a sore ass the next morning.

But what’s the one statement a couple who wants to make this female fantasy a reality has to use? ‘Medic! Lubes. We’re going to need a lot of lubes!’

#4 Group sex

This is a one of the bigger fantasies for women and men. Men love to dream about a good threesome when there’s a great looking exotic Asian or a Latina girl involved.

Surprisingly, women like to dream about the same thing too! But they don’t want an Asian or some far-fetched demigod (they might), they just want their man’s friend! Yep, most women would love to play the pony with their boyfriend’s or husband’s good friend. [Read: How to start swinging]

# 5 A gorgeous woman

Not all women accept this controversial fantasy for women. But many women secretly fantasize about having a physical affair with someone like Angelina Jolie or some other hot bombshell who always talks like she loves to have sex with women. Can you believe that?! Gasp!

Women fantasize about what it would be like to be with someone of the same sex, someone who knows just how she wants to be touched and what will make her orgasm. [Read: Girls kissing each other]

And just in case you haven’t thought about making love to Angelina, girlie, she’s stated that she finds a woman’s body to be the most attractive thing in the whole world (all men second that) and she loves to make out with women! Now, even if women haven’t given girl sex a thought, they might just change their mind.

#6 Exhibitionism

Many fantasies for women include showing off. A lot! They dream about walking down a beach and by the time they reach the waters, they’ve got almost all their clothes off. If not that, a woman fantasizes about having sex in public where people can see her performing her act. [Read: Public flashing girls confessions]

The closest thing that women do to get familiar with this female fantasy is flashing to unsuspecting loners walking along on a highway. Exhibitionism fantasies can be a great boost for sizzling sex, and can also have a woman talking about really, really dirty things in bed. Which does turn on both partners. Life is good! [Read: How to talk dirty in bed]

#7 Submissive mate

Women do like getting kinky once in a while. Men are usually the ones who are on top, but at times a woman fantasizes about a man doing more than just showing off his balancing act on top of her.

She fantasizes about being told what to do in bed. She wonders how it would feel to be called a slut or a whore in bed. It may even turn her on. Even though it sounds like a guy’s fantasy, what the woman does during this act is her fantasy. Some women say they would listen to their partner, while some girls said they would do the opposite of what their master orders and wait to be punished. Freaky lil’ minxes!

#8 Dominatrix

This is a role reversal of the submissive lover. Some women like to dominate men, instead of getting dominated all the time. They imagine what it could be like if they could indulge in all kinds of crazy acts with their men.

This includes tying him up and doing whatever she wishes to her man. Telling him to perform sexual acts on her as well as making him beg for what he wants, are just a few things that run along in a woman’s mind in this fantasy for women. And trust me, some acts are just way too crude to be put here. The least of it’s got something to do with peeing! Omigawd! [Read: Sexual fetishes]

#9 A stranger in the bedroom

Women may cringe when an unknown male touches them, but they do love it inside their head! The thought of meeting a stranger for one night of great sex, where she can do anything and everything she wants is just what can turn her on like a light bulb.

She could do whatever she wants, talk dirty, ask the guy to take her from the back, talk about another woman, whatever she wants. Many women want to talk about a lot of things in bed, but worry too much about what their man might think of their female fantasy. A meeting with a stranger, at least in her head takes away a lot of those inhibitions. [Read: How to start fantasizing about someone else with your lover]

#10 Come and get me, boys!

This fantasy is all about having several men touch a woman at the same time. She may even dream about being surrounded by several men kissing, touching and seducing her at the same time.

Every woman has her own favorite number in mind, varying from three to around ten men groping her! There’s something about just sitting back and being overwhelmed by sexual male attention that turns on women. Women don’t really dream of this all the time and hope it would come true someday, but they just can’t help but sit back and wonder, how it could feel like!

Of course, there are plenty more female fantasies and there are always unique fantasies for women that may turn some women on more than the others. But as long as you’re having fun and so is your man, go on and explore your mind.

[Read: 20 things about girls that turn a guy on sexually]

You may think your man doesn’t enjoy these female fantasies, but you’ll never know until you hint a few ideas to him. And in any case, the fantasies for women and men aren’t really very different, are they?


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  • Ginger
    June 5, 2012 | Permalink |

    Wow, that’s a sexy list, you guys. I actually didn’t realize how many of these fantasies I actually like until I read through the article. It’s really nice, and a turn on just reading it.

    I’ve always been curious though, why do girls like rape fantasies so much? It turns me on too, but in relaity, it’s such a scary thought. So what makes us girls like rape fantasies so damn much?

  • Zumi
    August 9, 2012 | Permalink |

    Ginger, it’s the power thing but experienced in the safe confinements of the imagination.. I like rape fantasies too.. They are in my opinion just experimenting to a higher intensity (in our imagination) the power we feel a man has over us sexually in bed sometimes (if we’re lucky lol!!)

  • Em
    August 10, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love all of these except 3 and 8 personally don’t suit me. I would definitely prefer if #1 weren’t called a “rape fantasy” because the nature of the fantasy makes it not rape…the fantasy is centered in being “irresistible” to a man who is basically telepathic. It’s kind of like “love at first sight” but sex instead of love

  • kinkyfantasies
    August 24, 2012 | Permalink |

    i feel so relieved for my dirty fantasy… so i’m not the only one imagining being overwhelmed by someone and abused in various ways, sometimes trying to cooperate while being abused and sometimes trying to resist in vain during some seriously kinky stuff. please rephrase the #1 fantasy i’m feeling awkward right now, it’s as if you named it “rape” intentionally to make people feel awkward.

    by the way role #3 sucks but i guess lesbians and people who are into something like that are probably dreaming about it a lot, i guess they imagine small man or a girl which they can abuse, but i’m not into that at all.
    and i’m not feeling good even for the role #8, i know guys like it a lot because it’s such a change for them because they are usually engaging first and they especially expect it from me because i’m a bit tallish but i love it so much more when someone else does it to me instead.
    it really sucks to be tall because of that, because people think you’re really into that domination stuff and they expect you to act accordingly, i wish to be small and have my man 8-12 inches taller for a change, to make me feel feminine and much more adaptive for my kinky role and my man having the duty to carefully make love with me. i’m more romantic than sexual predator, just with some kink fantasies in my free time xD

    P.S. i’m not uneducated housewife, i have an university diploma, i have a career and i have my own apartment without marrying at all and i’m not in a relationship for now so i’m not kind of a woman that fits any stereotype you may think of, i need to say this just to avoid someone getting wrong conclusion. most of the things that i imagine are things that i’d never wish to happen in reality for being too kinky or weird, but i just love fantasizing about it on rare occasions that i get when i have free time in my bed alone.

  • Shelly
    October 31, 2012 | Permalink |

    I find it hard to believe #1. Really? oh well not mine. Having multiple shot of cum in me is my #1. Love the feel of it.

  • n/a
    November 2, 2012 | Permalink |

    I agree with the lesbian fantasies, but overall my imagination can think of better fantasies than all of the above. Rape fantasies are not true whoever said that was a creepy sadist.

  • n/a
    November 2, 2012 | Permalink |

    I’m a hardcore feminist and i fantasise about lots of men with six pacs making me sandwiches in the kitchen.

  • Johnny
    November 27, 2012 | Permalink |

    The girl in the devil costume looks like she has a dirty sanchez

  • Rosey
    December 4, 2012 | Permalink |

    Sorry, but these are way off the mark. As a beautiful female I’m not at all buying into having my clothes ripped off or being called a whore. Stripper: no. Trashy. Date rape. Ew. That’s like a nightmare to me. All I want is sweet fairy tale style love and affection. A guy to want me, a guy to slowly take his shirt off and climb onto me, kissing me softly and telling me there’s no other girl like me before be drives his penis deep into me and I feel the tingle. Amen to that, sister. Women should be LIBERATED not opressed it’s the 21st century, we all are educated, have brains and speak English. C’mon people it’s not All about men anymore. :)

  • Michelle
    December 6, 2012 | Permalink |

    I agree with Rosey. My fantasy is of being shown love during sex. A man who kisses me all over, is gentle and makes me feel relaxed and makes me have multiple orgasms!! haha. Even better if their is lots of oral and squirting involved! Except this isn’t really a fantasy coz it happens all the time…….
    I have never fantasized about any of the things on this list. My number one fantasy is man on top, number 2 is me on top and number 3 is up against a wall! hot passionate sweaty sexy sex! Ha and the man in my fantasy is always my man who is all muscle and sex on legs! Before I met him, the man in my fantasy was always unknown. Fantasy of a stranger with the perfect body and perfect personality…
    Anyway I would call myself normal I suppose. Why fantasize about someone else when you have someone perfect right in front of you who knows exactly how to get those juices flowing ;) Love my perfect man! Cant wait to go home now ;)

  • Loving IT all !!!!!
    January 1, 2013 | Permalink |

    I think what some women are missing is that it is all fantasy. I would NEVER want to be raped but I love the fantasy. The difference is it is my loving, gentle husband who is getting all caveman on me. So that makes it safe, and consensual. As far as lesbian fantasies. Never have been attracted to women but I have thought about how it would be. Think about it…we know how we like to be touched, licked, etc….so in my fantasy it is a woman going down on me. She would know exactly what I want without having to give any direction. As a strong, controlled, college educated woman I don’t just fantasize but actually do love being submissive in bed. I don’t have to think or make decisions. I just have to do what I am told. It is very freeing. Again, with a trusted boyfriend or spouse it is very safe. I love playing sex with a stranger with my very muscular, yummy husband. A little planning. Go to a bar, meet YOUR handsome stranger and go home with him……And who knew, he has the same sheets on his bed that you have. ;) Or if you have kids then splurge and have this dirty stranger take you to his hotel. It is well worth the expense.

  • marley
    January 5, 2013 | Permalink |

    and rough sex + shower sex (;

  • Vicki
    January 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    #1. Hell will freeze over first. Especially not after what happened to me in Kindergarten. The teacher left the room for a few moments and the creepy boy nobody liked, who had an obsessive and unrequited crush on me, took the opportunity to pin me against a wall and try to kiss me in front of all our classmates. Another boy got him away from me and fetched the teacher, but I was humiliated and now that I’m nearly 21 I still can’t seem to get physical beyond hugs without forcing myself.
    #2. No. Just no.
    #3. Nope.
    #4. Just one guy for me please.
    #5. Only attracted to men, so not appealing. No matter what the girl looks like. Besides, I can’t stand to even be in a girls’ locker room and always change in a stall to avoid seeing or being seen. Same with the communal bathrooms in the college residence halls, but now that I’ve got a room to myself I change in there.
    #6. No. I tend to punch guys who tickle me in public or touch me inappropriately. I backhanded one of my guy friends in the face for tickling me when I was trying to talk to a boy I liked romantically (I didn’t actually intend to, but it suited my purposes and made it clear to the guy I liked that I won’t tolerate being touched against my wishes; he never touched me without permission).
    #7. No. Any man who thinks I’ll do this will get a chair thrown at him. I’m talking about the metal and fiberglass ones used in classrooms.
    #8. Hell yeah! That’s one of my more frequent fantasies. Not what people expect from a tiny person who’s usually super sweet. Until they find out how rough and competitive I can be and that I’m a feminist who likes having dominance over men whether it’s in academics or tackle football.
    #9. No way. I find the idea of sex with a stranger horrifying to the point that I can’t even fantasize about it because I’m too busy being logical (no wonder my brother-in-law calls me a Vulcan).
    #10. One man only. Again the idea of AIDS or another STD gets in the way. Sex Ed did its job well with one student at least.

  • Am I the only dude reading up on this?
    February 1, 2013 | Permalink |

    That bit about multiple dudes bums me out ’cause I’m too jealous a person to make it come true for my girlfriend… Unless maybe I could replicate myself or something.
    Even the bit about another girl sucks. It’s a hot idea, but I don’t like sharing.
    Perhaps I’d be more open-minded if I had begun my relationship knowing it was an open one. Or maybe emotional scars from past relationships will always get in the way of the group sex idea.
    I am surprised to see all these comments agreeing with parts of the list, though. Especially the fifth one. All the girls I’ve talked to seem to be against that – or even a bit homophobic.

  • No, your not the only dude reading up on this!
    February 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    i would do any fantasy with my girlfriend as long as it only involved me and her. no other man or woman is touching either of us. i think if it was to happen it would kill me seeing someone else on her. actually gets me angry thinking about it but that’s me, completely monogamous.
    however this gets me thinking… for those women reading this article, with whom have boyfriends/husbands, would you go though with such a fantasy? & if you weren’t allowed it, would you be fine about it?

  • Voltron
    March 12, 2013 | Permalink |

    My first thought at some of these fantasies is how they all involve violent sex crimes against women and thought that seemed sort of hypocritical or demented. But when i thought about the 10 men groping fantasy all I think about is how these things never happen without the police getting involved and women being traumatized for life. I can see the appeal for this fantasies, the problem is men (especially for the group stuff) take things too far and it turns from an erotic fantasy where no one is actually in danger or doing things no one wants, into the Accused. Blame men for taking things too far and ignoring women’s subtle communications.

  • Jessica
    March 15, 2013 | Permalink |

    The 1st one has always been one of my biggest fantasies. I want an innocent guy to turn dirty on me, pull me down alley and have his way with me. My partner and I participate in sexual acts such as this. And I always have been slightly sexually interested in girls. I would never want to be with one, but they are so different then men, soft gentle. Pretty. I admit im a girl who watches porn and i get off the most by lesbian porn. My boyfriendd is the most gentle sweet man you could ever meet. But will be the complete opposite for me in bed.

  • Sally
    April 5, 2013 | Permalink |

    1: No, I’m not into rape even pretend rape

    2: Not my thing

    3: It’s ok now and then

    4: I’ve had threesome and that’s as far as I’d ever go

    5: I have these a lot but Angelina doesn’t do it for me lol

    6: Not with my body unless it’s in private with my partner lol

    7: Tried it and I didn’t like it

    8: Tried it and I didn’t like it

    When it comes to sexual fantasies it’s all about communication, honesty and respect for one another.

  • Rutherford
    May 6, 2013 | Permalink |

    #3: I’m not crazy about the “gay-like tendencies” bit, as though gay men and straight men have different kinds of prostates,

  • Ashley
    July 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    I definately have all of these fantasies except for 3. I’m glad I’m not the only one who fantasizes about being molested and forced into sex. Of course, I’d never want it in real life, but the thought of being in a terrifying situation involving a man being so obsessed with me that he’s risk jail time. And I’m also glad it’s normal for women to fantasize about their man’s best friend being involved in the bedroom!

  • Phil
    July 20, 2013 | Permalink |

    I agree with Rutherford. I found #3 to be very ignorant, as though only men with “gay tendencies” would enjoy being submissive or receiving. And it’s not painful if you do it right.

  • sharon
    July 20, 2013 | Permalink |

    none of these are really womens fantasies.
    #1 yes,but its not rape we think about,its a man who is domante and takes us in a sexy way,not a rape way,i wish they would quite calling it a rape fantisy.

    also,95% percent of stright females DO NOT want a woman in a sexual way,not even in a day dream,gross.
    i think #10 is about the only one you got right for #1 but not in the rape way.
    you are so off the mark on what real stright woman day dream or want lol.i think its what you men want us to want

  • B
    August 1, 2013 | Permalink |

    So are rape fantasies a part of rape culture?

  • meryummyii
    August 5, 2013 | Permalink |

    yup all is true except for the groupies and public sex,,idk why but being raped by my bf is just soo damn good hehe. i just dislike the ” i will be gentle” verse.its annoying, come on.dont let me get bored ..and btw most women are instinctively a masochist.-submissive and get turn on by sound or words, not what they see.most not all of em

  • Johnnyboy
    August 20, 2013 | Permalink |

    Thats my girls fantasies and we have talked about so many more of her own fantasies and i listen she is a sexy female and unique, shes the best of my life and i love her. In the near future we might do one of her fantasies whichever she wants. I have my own fantasies n we match at ones, like having threesomes, an orgy and much more. One of the things is that she would never like me do a girl that is not her and its ok with that, i want to make her feel important all the time. Not like most men who think of themselves and not their partner. I just would still have fun whochever we do. We trust eachother so its always fun to act ourfantasies out.

  • scott
    August 27, 2013 | Permalink |

    I have found that as I have gotten older I have gotten more open to certain things. When I was in my early 20′s the thought of anyone else touching my girl would have driven me crazy. Now i would be very open to having another woman or man join us in between the sheets. I don’t want the role reversal thing although if this was her thing I’d let her. I mean I get her ass when I want it so fair would be fair. As for the dominatrix thing no thanks. I have found that for many of the women I have been with in the last few years most thoroughly enjoy a little rougher sex sometimes of being thrown face down on a couch and “taken” with a handful of their hair in my hands and just pounded. Like Johnnyboy above my gf doesn’t want to be with another woman and doesn’t want me to be with one. That’s okay with me too.

  • Anna
    September 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    My #1 fantasy is to be seduced by a male massager.

  • Ian
    September 28, 2013 | Permalink |

    I agree with scott..When I was younger the thought of someone touching my wife was bad..But now, I would love to watch her with another man..My son in law would love to have her.. He told me that him and his dad would love to nail my wife….

  • Normal Person
    January 18, 2014 | Permalink |

    None of these made my list AT ALL. The rape one is disgusting–also, not rape. If somebody just grabs you and you have sex with them, but you WANT them to, then obviously it’s not rape. Rape it when you DON’T want it and it’s horrible. It’s painful and disgusting and sad to think that people sexualize it. I fiind the stripper one a demeaning, and–ugh, I’m just done with this.

  • Adrian
    March 24, 2014 | Permalink |

    How on earth can you fantasize about being raped? Women are weird.

  • Mr Common Senseish
    April 21, 2014 | Permalink |

    So definitely down to opinion these fantasies. Apart from role switch my girl loves them all. To all you women that say we shouldnt be doing this for men. It is the 21st centure we should be allowed to have our say and not have it like this. You are all complete and utter idiots. Hahahah. I mean the fact that my girl likes it all an has the comfort to tell me it all means the opposite of me getting my way but that times have changed and women can have their fantasies too without men saying no do it my way. The whole point is that men dont just get what they like. Women get it too. And yes my girl does enjoy soft ginding sex but sometimes she likes other things and i am open to that. If thats what makes her happy. And the fact that some of you women are brave enough to say that shes weird or that she is getting used shut up. I mean so inconsiderate of what some women like. And i would rather my girl anyday at least then it never gets boring. Its not just normal insert pump finish that some of you may love. So before you comment next time maybe think some people do like it. And to all the women again who hate rape play (hate it calle that) my girl almost got rapped but she managed to get away. Now i never talk about it but the other day she said she wants to do it role play with me. And its her likes and i will do what she wants. Obviously she hatted the real thing but shes a stron independant women and is still not afraid of saying what she likes. And thats what i adore the ground she walks on. But again its down to opinion but dont say my girl is weird because she likes it. Your the self minded (stupid) people who are the ones who make her feel like shes not good enough.

  • Big John
    May 5, 2014 | Permalink |

    As a heterosexual male I found this list not only really sexist to men and women but also reinforcing the most ridiculous stereotypes. Sexual fantasies are very personal, so if you do have some of these then no judgement here but I think making blanketed statements about sexual roles for women and men is gross.

  • Tracy
    May 22, 2014 | Permalink |

    As a quite attractive woman, I have zero interest in sex with other women. It’s a figment of many mens imaginations and a collapsing society.
    Angelina Jolie wants women so bad…she keeps staying with a man.

  • Robert Steele
    August 8, 2014 | Permalink |

    my wife used to enjoy being the victim when she was younger her mother told her the man tries to push himself on you too hard that you should ask him if he thinks about you when he masturbates and when hesays yes tell him you want to see him do it that it turns you on .men spend their whole life hiding when they masturbate if a woman shows interest in it you think they hit lotto you will never pass up an opportunity to masturbatein front of a willing woman.when he has an orgasm can’t reallybecause you have un loaded his gun.once word got out that she would ask you to masturbate every single one of her parents fathers would trip over themselvesto drive herhome from a party or brothers the whole town wound up masturbating in front of her and she loved it hush step brother with fake that he was sleepwalking because he knew she would not stop him because it was dangerous I thought it was strange that she told me the story about a step brother while we were having sex so I took a shot in the dark as she was getting near orgasm I got her to admit that she knew her stepbrother was faking and once you finally said it out loud she has an orgasm so intense that her abdomen was vibrating

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