Arousing a guy is an art, and one that can be perfected with the right words. Use these dirty, seductive lines to turn a guy on and leave him hard.
From the thrill of seduction to budding love to restoring a long-term relationship’s sizzle, it’s always nice to inject some well-placed dirty talk with your partner here and there. When we say “dirty talk,” however, we aren’t talking about swearing and using those slang words you can only find in Urban Dictionary.
Dirty, naughty talk can be as simple as a witty innuendo or a suggestive phrase. It’s really up to how you say it and how you know your guy will respond to what you say.
There are many seductive things to say to your guy, and maybe you have said a few without really meaning it. However, if you really want to turn the heat up, we have prepared a long list of dirty things to say to make him instantly get the hots for you, whether through text, in public, or while you’re in the bedroom.
But before we get into the sizzling stuff, let us give you some tips on how to turn your guy on with just your words.
6 steps to turn on your guy with your mouth
#1 Be genuine. Think about what keeps you attracted to him. Whether it’s by the way he smiles, his firm butt, his strong arms, or the smooth moves that sweep you off your feet, the best seduction trick is to mean what you say. So whether you want to compliment him or just show your appreciation in a sexy way, make sure that it’s real, and your words will really do the trick. [Read: 25 compliments for guys they’ll never ever forget]
#2 Tease him. You can definitely turn your man on by teasing him with just a few well-said words. You can give him a sneak peek of what’s in store for him or describe what you’re going to do to him later. Pair this with a wink or a sexy smile, and you can definitely turn the heat up.
#3 Tell him how he turns you on. Whether it’s by the way he touches you or how he kisses you in intimate places, you can easily turn on a guy by telling him what turns you on. By being vivid and descriptive about it, you can excite him and get his imagination going. Just remember not to give everything away, though. Leave some details out to make him anticipate and look forward to more. [Read: 40 naughty, playful texts to keep things hot and horny]
#4 All about timing. As with anything, timing is important. There will be moments, such as when your guy is stressed at work, when dirty talk will not just cut it. He may even think you’re being weird *and not in a good way*. Be sensitive about timing and appropriateness if you don’t want your man to give you a cold shoulder in the end.
#5 Know what to say. There are also such things as soft-core and hard-core dirty talking, and you should know which one you and your partner are comfortable with. Soft-core dirty talk is more like teasing, but you can build it up and go all-the-way hard-core with slang and even swear words, especially when you’re already doing the deed.
#6 Be natural. You can be genuine and all, but if you feel awkward or uncomfortable, it will translate with how you say it. When it comes to talking dirty to seduce your man, it’s actually not what you say but how you say it that matters the most. The secret here is not to sound forced, but rather natural and spontaneous. [Read: The art of talking dirty to a guy and sounding really, really sexy]
60 dirty, seductive things to say to turn on your guy
#1 Meet me at the parking lot after lunch. I want to make out and say hello to *insert your pet name for his dick.*
#2 You have such a dirty mind and it just turns me on!
#3 Where do you want to touch/kiss me later?
#4 I’m not really horny, you’re just so sexy.
#5 I can’t forget how good your tongue feels down there.
#6 Show me where you want me to put my hands on you. *You can make him send you a picture of a part of his body.*
#7 I’ve been thinking about what I’m going to do to you tonight…
#8 You make me think such dirty thoughts…
#9 I wish we were just lying in bed and cuddling all day long.
While you can’t get into your man’s mind and find out just what exactly he wants to hear or what turns him on, knowing these dirty, sexy things to say is a good way to start and have him want to get into your pants. These examples are great starters, and you can always tweak and customize them to suit your mood, your man, and any situation.
Words are powerful. They can brighten up a day, tease, or even hurt. They can also start a life-changing relationship. By knowing just what to say and how to say it, you can easily occupy your man’s thoughts and seduce him, and leave him feeling turned on all day!
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Tiffany Grace Reyes
Tiffany is a wordsmith who has played with words ever since her letter-to-the-editor was published nationally at the age of 9. Since then her writing has gone f...