There are many ways to turn on girls with just a smile. Here are 27 non-sexual and sexual ways you can turn her on and make her melt in your arms.
Women can be hard to please and harder to turn-on. Often, it’s an all-day affair. You have to start right, start slow, have all the right ingredients, mix them well, and just let it simmer. But boy, when the heat turns up—it’s definitely worth it!
Non-sexual turn-ons for women
Whether she’s a colleague you’re crushing on, a woman you just met at a bar, or a friend you’re really attracted to, there are several surefire ways to turn her on and finally get her to bed.
#1 Call her pretty. Women want to feel special. Whether by calling her “Hey, beautiful” or “Hey, pretty” you could definitely brighten her day—and that’s a good sign.
#3 Talk about what she likes. Women like men who can carry on real conversations that aren’t only meant to get them in the sack. Find out what she likes, what you have in common, and talk to her genuinely.
#4 Be all-ears. Again, women like to feel important, so you make her your sole focus when you’re together. Be attentive to what she’s saying and be real about it.
#5 Active listening. Tell her you remembered she mentioned how she likes something, such as a food or a band, and bring it back up with some thoughtful gesture like buying her lunch or giving her concert tickets—maybe you can even go together.
#6 Work out together. To take things to a more physical level without it being too sexual, you can go to the gym or run together. This also gives her a good view of your physique, and she positively associates you with feel-good endorphins from the workout. [Read: 9 non-sexual turn-ons that arouse girls instantly]
#7 Touch her hair. If you want something physical, yet unassumingly innocent, touch her hair. Brush a stray strand back behind her ear or even just pretend you’re removing some stuff off her tresses.
#9 Be an example. Show her that chivalry is not dead, and that you’re a valiant example. Make her comfort, safety, and security your priority when you’re together or even when you’re apart.
#10 Touch her. Whether to guide her into a car or help her out, make sure you have body contact or that you are touching her in the right places: her waist, her lower back, her elbows, around her shoulders, or her hand.
#11 Look sharp. Nothing much can make her go ooh-la-la than seeing you dapper and snappy. Avoid wearing clothes that make you look lousy and keep those body hairs well-trimmed.
#12 Smell good. An often underrated feature men must maintain—smelling good. It can also turn women’s heads. Make sure you not only look good but smell good too.
#12 Be witty. Another turn-on for women are guys who can carry on decent conversations and can be smart and witty. You have to be widely knowledgeable without being too nerdy.
#14 Surprise her. Whether with a simple gesture such as a flower you picked or an extravagant one such as a vacation splurge, surprise her with things that make her happy.
Sexual turn-ons for women
To up the ante in the wooing ritual, you also have to know the more sexual ways for turning up the heat and turning her on.
#15 Be close and alone. Privacy is another turn-on if you’re in the early stages of heating things up. Going to a corner or just getting near her to talk to her one-on-one not only makes her more comfortable, but it also gives you a prelude for more wooing to come.
#17 Talk about sex. Throw in a few thought provokers that will make her imagine how you are in bed. For example, dance with her and suggestively comment how people relate dancing with how they move in bed.
#18 Triangle gaze. Many pick-up artists swear by this method they call the triangle gaze. Gaze for three seconds into her left eye, another three into her right eye, and then look at her lips. Subtly repeat this to make her think you want to kiss her.
#24 Know the spots. Kissing her on the lips doesn’t take you to her bed right away. Make the moment more intense by kissing her in her erogenous zones, such as neck, throat, collar bone, shoulders, and ears.
#25 Be VERY close. If you’re turned on too, make her feel your passion in more explicit ways by touching your bulge on her thigh. Even the slightest contact will send shivers of pleasure all over her body.
#26 Slowly undress her. You’re almost there. Remember to take your time and be consistent, slowly undress her and kiss her as you do so. The anticipation enough will make her explode.
#27 Tell her you love her. Of course, one foolproof way to turn her on is to tell her your feelings. However, don’t just tell her this to get into her pants—she’ll know it. Tell her this only when you mean it.
The first step to turning a girl on is to make her notice you. From there, you can build a connection. Make sure your intentions are clear, though. Don’t lead her on to a promise of a more serious relationship if you are just looking for a one-night stand. After all, you can master all these tips and still get slapped in the face if she starts to think you’re being insincere.