Not sure if you should make the first move? Well, you should do it anyway, but, if you’re nervous just look for the signs a woman is attracted to you.
To be honest, I’ve approached guys maybe three times and all three times I was drunk, so I don’t know how it feels for you guys. After a couple drinks, the liquid courage did most of the talking for me, but I’m still single so it obviously didn’t go well. But what I do know, it’s nerve-wracking to approach someone that you’re unsure likes you back. Rejection sucks, I know that. But if you’re confused and want to know if a girl likes you before you approach her, these are the signs a woman is attracted to you.
Must-know signs a woman is attracted to you
So, if you’re really hesitant to approach a woman, gauge your odds of success by seeing if she’s giving off any indicators. Now, this doesn’t mean you two will end up together, but this does means that you won’t be rejected the minute you approach her. So, that’s something. Trust me, we’re not as complex as you think.
#1 It’s in the eyes. Okay, it’s not going to have “I’m into you” literally written in the eyes, but it might as well since it’ll be so obvious.
#2 She’s checking you out. You see her eyes scanning you from head to toe. Maybe when she’s talking to you, she grabs your arm and gives it a squeeze. Sure, it’s flirty, but she’s also seeing the muscle action that’s going on underneath that shirt. Just like you guys check us out, we do the same to you.
#3 Look at the body language. One of the clearest signs a woman is attracted to you can be seen in her behavior around you. Is she sitting close to you? Touching you when she talks? Licks her lips while you guys are having a conversation?
She’s not trying to eat her lip gloss. She’s into you. Like, to the point where she wants your tongue down her throat. Of course, some women will not be so obvious. However, if she’s touching her hair, sitting towards you—she’s into you. [Read: 15 body language cues a girl gives away if she’s into you]
#4 Is she lingering around you? Listen, when I’m into a guy, I’m there. Like, if he’s at the bar, I’m at the bar. If he’s on the dance floor, well, would you look at that, I’m on the dance floor. We’re hunting you. We’re maybe not so aggressive as you guys are, but the point is, we’re making ourselves available for you to approach us.
#5 She makes low-key conversation. She’s scared of being rejected so she may try to start a conversation in a low-key way. Maybe she’s at the bar and says something that could pass like she’s talking to herself. But that’s your opportunity to grab onto the conversation and get it rolling.
#6 She can’t speak properly. I actually just experienced this. I went on a date with this guy and I literally could not speak. I fumbled my words, I stuttered, it was actually a disaster. So, if she can’t speak, cut her some slack, she’s nervous.
#7 She wants to know everything about you. How many siblings do you have? Where did you go to school? What do you do for work? She wants to know your entire background. Why? Because she’s interested in you, but she wants to know what type of person you are. It’s normal, you’re probably just as curious. [Read: How to tell if a girl is flirting with you: 18 telltale signs]
#8 Casually invites you out. She may drop some hints how she’s interested in watching the new Fifty Shades Darker film, or that there’s this hip-hop night next week that you have to go to. If she doesn’t like you, she’s not asking you to go out anywhere. You’re lucky she even gives you her name.
#9 It’s all about you. Did some other guy come up and hit on her? You probably didn’t notice because she didn’t even blink at him. She focused on you and that’s really the only thing she can see right now. I mean, the girl is willing to reject other guys for your company, that must mean something. [Read: How to tell if a woman likes you: 21 subtle signs most men ignore]
#10 She likes to be close. If we’re not into you, the last thing we want you to do is to touch us. Seriously, that’s not our goal. If a girl really likes you, though, she’s going to find a way to have her hands on you. Maybe when you tell a joke, she laughs and touches your arm, or sits close beside you. Point is, she wants to feel you.
#11 Low-key (aka high-key) stalking. Haha, low-key stalking, don’t make me laugh. By the time we introduced ourselves to you, she already found you on Facebook. I’m sorry, but you know, we want to know what you’re about and if you’re a good person. Trust me, after a one-night stand, I already know the guy’s Instagram and Facebook just by his first name. [Read: How to approach women: 15 tips you absolutely need to know]
#12 She mimics you. Now, I’m not talking about her becoming a theatrical mime. But, she will mimic your movements subconsciously. If you pick up your glass to drink, she probably does the same. It’s called interactional symmetry, and its based off attraction. So, look at her body language and the words she uses.
#13 She’s all laughs. You’re just the funniest guy to her. Even the crappy jokes you pull somehow make her giggle. Sure, maybe you are actually funny, but maybe you’re not. If she’s into you, though, she wants to show you that she appreciates your humor and company, so she’s going to laugh.
#14 She opens up. She tells you something personal about herself, maybe her parents are divorced, or she had a bad breakup. Whatever it is, it’s personal. People don’t advertise their private lives to anyone, unless, they’re attention seekers, but you’ll be able to differentiate the two. If she shares something personal with you, she’s trying to build a connection.
#15 Her voice changes. Now, she doesn’t turn into a low-baritone, but when a woman is attracted to a man, their voices do tend to drop. You may be thinking how the hell are you going to figure out that her tone of voice has dropped. But it’s something you’ll just notice. [Read: How to woo a woman: 17 secrets to sweep a girl off her feet]
#16 She tells you. If she just straight up tells you she’s into you, well, then this is the best scenario. You don’t have to look at the signs, you don’t have to weigh your odds. She’s into you, the cards are already laid out for you. Now, you just need to get her number and get the ball rolling.