Tons of guys think they know what they’re doing in the bedroom, only to have their woman fake it… again. Here’s how to hit the g-spot and please her.
Finding a woman’s g-spot has been something men have needed help with for a very, very long time. Sure, they know the general idea of it, but they don’t seem to know just how to hit the g-spot the right way in order to bring their women immense pleasure.
If this sounds like you, have no fear. We’re here to explain just how you can find it so you can please her like no one else has been able to. It won’t be very easy, and you’ll have to communicate with your partner in order to be successful. And you’ll have to practice if you want to know how to find the g-spot… a lot. Though I’m sure you have no arguments with that.
The female anatomy
The annoying thing about women is that while our body parts are all alike, they’re actually not. Sure, we all have the same parts and they’re in the same place, but they don’t all respond to the same stimuli, and that is why men have such a hard time finding the g-spot.
It’s not that they have no idea where it is, it’s that they’re not taking the time to get to know a woman’s body distinctly. Just because you should be hitting the g-spot doesn’t mean you actually are. [Read: How to tingle her g-spot without using a flashlight]
Here’s how to hit the g-spot and blow her mind
It doesn’t take a genius to know how to hit the g-spot. Instead, it takes some effort and a dedicated man in order to make their woman feel amazing. You have to want to find the g-spot for your girl’s sake. And if you really want to know how to drive her wild, you’ll find the g-spot.
It’ll take some time and practice before you’re able to know what to do to hit the g-spot every time, but eventually, it’ll become easier and easier – both for you to find it, and for your woman to finish. With these tips, you’ll be able to find it in no time.
#1 Learn the female anatomy. This is a given if you want to learn how to hit the g-spot. If you don’t know where the hell the g-spot is supposed to be, you’re never going to find it. Therefore, in order to hit the g-spot, you’ll have to do some learning and figure out where it is on the female body.
For those of who you don’t want to look in an anatomy book or even just look it up online, the g-spot is on the inside wall of her lady bits. AKA, if you go in her, it will be on the front side of the wall just a few inches in. So yes, you should be able to hit it. [Read: 15 things women wish men knew about the female body]
#2 Use your hands. If you want to find a woman’s g-spot, you’re going to have to go looking for it. Which means you’ll have to use your hands. Now, I’m not saying you should dig in there and poke around. Make it a foreplay moment, and use that time to consciously locate it without her knowing.
Inserting your fingers into her and then making a “come here” signal with them will help you find the spot where it should be. Keep in mind that every girl is different, so you may have to work a little before hitting it. When you do find it, it’ll feel different than the tissue around it. [Read: How to finger a girl – Fingering techniques to make her orgasm]
#3 Get familiar with your girl. Just play around with her. Spend some extra time on foreplay, and really get to know what she likes and dislikes. She’ll definitely make it known when she’s feeling like you’re hitting the right spot. And she may even make a point to tell you that you’re actually hitting the right spot.
#4 Talk to her. Communication is really, really important. You have to talk to your girl about what she likes or what you need to improve on. If you feel like maybe you’re not doing enough to please her, then just ask her what she wants from you!
You can even do this in a sexy way if you’re not up for a serious conversation. Just whisper in her ear during foreplay, “What do you want me to do? Anything, and I’ll do it.” And see what she says. Chances are, she’ll steer you in the right direction. [Read: Female confessions – The feeling of oral sex for women]
#5 Make sure she’s warmed up first. The thing about the g-spot is that the more stimulated it is, the better it’ll feel for her. Therefore, if she’s not at all in the mood or “warmed up” in any way, she won’t feel it as much when you actually do hit the g-spot.
So, if you want to hit it and make sure it has the most effect, you have to get her going first. Foreplay is obviously the best way to do this. Never skip foreplay if you really want to make sure you’re pleasing your woman the best you can. [Read: 10 foreplay moves every guy needs to do to their ladies]
#6 Don’t be lazy. Knowing how to hit the g-spot, and making sure you’re actually hitting, it isn’t easy. In fact, it takes some effort to make sure you’re doing everything right in order to hit it. So, you really can’t be lazy if you want to make sure your girl finishes.
If you just try to hop on her and get going, you probably won’t actually do much to stimulate her g-spot – especially if you’re not in the right position, or you didn’t even do foreplay. So, you can’t be lazy when trying to hit the g-spot.
#7 Try doggy style. This position has been known to help guys learn how to hit the g-spot. Because of the angle that you’re entering her, it’s much easier for you to go right into the g-spot. It also gives her the ability to move her hips any which direction to help you hit the right spot. If you’re not utilizing doggy style as a means to hit the g-spot, you’re doing it all wrong. [Read: Hot sex from behind – 16 mind-blowing ways to do it right]
#8 Put a pillow under her butt in missionary. Missionary is also a great way to hit the g-spot, but it has to be modified a little bit in order to really have the most effect. To make it even better, put a pillow under her butt when you’re in this position.
#9 Repetitive motion is best. In order for a woman to orgasm from penetration *aka, hitting the g-spot*, it has to be stimulated repeatedly. Meaning you have to hit it over and over and over again until she gets there.
This can be difficult, because many guys think that variety is key. And while changing speeds can help get her to a place to finish, the speed and motion has to be pretty constant to get the job done. So, you can’t just keep switching it up every few minutes and expect to please her. This is a must for knowing how to hit the g-spot.
#10 Trial and error. Overall, it takes a lot of trial and error to find out what will make your woman feel the best. Try different positions, talk to her and see what she likes best. And then throw in a few new things here and there to see if she likes them better.