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How to Get a Girl to Like You Over Text So You Can Make Her Yours

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Flirting and charming someone in person is far easier than over text. However, knowing how to get a girl to like you over text is essential nowadays.

With online dating taking over the traditional way of finding love, knowing how to get a girl to like you over text is crucial. If you can’t turn on the charm over the phone as easily as you can in real life, you might want a few tips.

Because if the traditional way of dating just isn’t working for you, then moving it online is probably your best bet. You’re able to find people you have way more in common with and that you’d never actually meet otherwise. But if they can’t see the allure in you, they won’t want to take it further.

Online dating can be easier and harder at the same time

It’s kind of weird how this works. You think it’ll be so much easier to meet people and it is. However, being able to connect with someone on a deeper level and actually flirt with them over text and messaging is way more difficult.

This is mostly because you really don’t know anything about them. You’re not sure if you have chemistry and you have no idea what their personality is like. For that reason, you end up getting nervous and can’t seem to make yourself sound good over text. [Read: 15 tips to start a text conversation with a girl and impress her]

How to get a girl to like you over text so you have a shot at love

Being great in person and being able to show someone your good sides over text aren’t remotely the same. Knowing how to get a girl to like you over text requires a lot of knowledge and strategy.

Yes, you’ll still be showing her who you are and you’ll still be acting like yourself, but there are certain guidelines that’ll help you like that person. Here’s how you can go about getting a girl to actually like you when you’ve only been messaging.

#1 Make her laugh. Girls all want to laugh. If you can make us laugh, we’re definitely going to move you up on our list of guys to like. You’ll score some major bonus points. That being said, don’t just copy and paste lame jokes from the Internet. You especially want to avoid dirty jokes that are overly sexual. This just makes you look bad and like all you want is sex. [Read: How to date a girl by making her laugh out loud]

#2 Use the clues in her bio to make meaningful discussion. Don’t just start asking boring questions. Make them meaningful. When I met my boyfriend online, he asked me about what I liked to do outdoors and why I liked being outside. This not only showed he paid attention to my profile, but they were also things I loved talking about.

#3 Don’t interview her. Most people who text and try to get girls to like them sit there and ask question after question without ever actually having a conversation. It’s like an interview instead of actually getting to know her. You can ask questions, just make sure they lead into meaningful discussions. [Read: 140 fun and random questions to ask a girl]

#4 Use GIFs. These little animated photos are basically a gift from somewhere magical. Not only do they make everything more fun, they can convey your personality way easier than a message.

#5 Use emojis. Using emojis is a fantastic way to add some fun to your texting. No girl wants to date someone who’s boring. Make her laugh with a few nicely placed emojis and she’ll like you more for it.

#6 Don’t take forever to reply. Playing hard to get in this sense will not work at all. Girls get really annoyed if it takes a guy forever to text back. It’s like she’s not a priority to you and she won’t like that. If you’re genuinely busy, that’s fine. If you think you’ll seem desperate, don’t worry about this. [Read: What you need to do when she’s playing hard to get]

#7 Tease her a little bit. Teasing has been a great way to get a girl to like you since you were little. Bring out that inner child and tease her a bit. Just make sure you’re not poking fun at anything sensitive or it’ll have the opposite effect.

#8 Tease yourself. This levels the playing field a little bit. It also shows her that you’re willing to make a fool of yourself for her attention, which can often work in your favor. It’ll also open the door for her to pick on you and that’ll create some nice chemistry. When she realizes there’s chemistry, she’ll start liking you. [Read: How to tease a girl over text and get her to flirt with you]

#9 Don’t text too much. You don’t want to bombard her with messages all the damn time. That’ll be annoying and reek of desperation. Just send a simple text and wait for a reply. If you don’t hear back from her by the next day, just send another. Any more than two unanswered texts and I’m afraid she probably isn’t interested.

#10 Be open about what you like about her. Saying something like, “Wow, I really like that about you,” can get you a long way. People tend to like those who like them. If you make it clear that you like certain qualities about her, she’s more likely to respond positively. [Read: 40 questions to ask your crush to open up and subtly flirt with them]

#11 Make her feel special. The best thing you can do to get a girl to like you over text is to make her feel special. This is especially true if you met on an online dating app. She might think you’re talking to other girls, which will make her less than thrilled.

Making her feel special and showing her that you’ve only got eyes for her will make her like you more. She’ll be more comfortable opening up to you and that kind of bonding always brings about feelings.

#12 Separate yourself from the other guys. Don’t act like other guys. By that, I mean stop dropping pickup lines and asking the same questions everyone else is asking. If you’re unoriginal, it’ll be boring. Make her remember you and you’re definitely a step closer to knowing how to get a girl to like you over text.

#13 Get out while you’re ahead. This might sound like a bad idea but hear me out. When you give a girl a taste of something she likes and then take it away from her, it makes her want it more. That means if you’re really charming and can make her laugh and then tell her you need to go for now, she’ll be waiting on the edge of her seat for a text later. [Read: 18 casual things to text a girl and leave her addicted to you]

#14 Show her you have something in common. Girls need to be able to see a possibility of a future with someone. We need that in order to like them. If you show her you have things in common, the picture of the two of you together will start to form and she’ll start liking you.

#15 Just face the fact that some girls aren’t going to like you. Not everyone will like you. That’s just the way the world works. No matter what you do and how hard you try, sometimes it just won’t work. You can force someone to like you. Just move on and find someone else who does!

[Read: 18 really obvious signs that a girl really likes you over text]

With technology advances and less and less people going out in public to find love, you’re just going to have to learn how to get a girl to like you over text if you ever hope to find love. These tips will help immensely in that endeavor.

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Bella Pope
Bella Pope
Bella is a lifestyle writer, cheese enthusiast (Wisconsin native over here) and fantasy adventure author-in-progress who enjoys all things love, dog, p...

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