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  • Graham
    July 6, 2011 | Permalink |

    This article does have a lot of good points, but I think there’s one thing that really matters if a guy has to charm a girl. Great looks!

    I know for a fact that American girls like to only be charmed by good looking guy. In the article, it’s written that if a guy charms a girl well, she’d want to kiss him. But I don’t think a good looking girl would want to kiss an ugly guy.

    So how can a guy charm a girl? Girls are shallow, and care only about looks. I’ve been there and no matter how good you are or how funny and smart you are, girls don’t care unless you have the money for their bling, and good looks.

  • charley
    September 16, 2011 | Permalink |

    I disagee with prior posters comments. Although a man having good looks helps, it’s NOT a requirement for geting a babe.

    If you have enough other attrubutes, good looks aren’t necessary.

    Some of the ugliest men on the planet have some of the hottest women.

    Examples: Most rockstars are ugly. Some are extremely ugly. Yet they date very hot women (often several at a time).

    Billy Bob Thornton is so ugly he makes my eyes bleed, yet he had Anjolena Joley craving his touch, and I’m sure he’s had plenty of other hotties.

    I personally witnesed saw a little man (midget) get one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen. The little guy was not rich or famous. He is charming and brave. He charms her, and when her X (full size bully) gave her problems, the lil guy kicked his butt. Then lil guy comforted her.

    I’m not much to look at, but I know two very beautiful women who love talking with me. One also loves when I touch her. I know I’m not imagining it because if I rub her back a little, soon she’s sitting so close she’s pressed up against me. Soon after that she rubs her body on mine like a friendly cat. Why do these girls like me? It’s not my looks. I do make a point of having good hygiene and being clean and smelling good. Beyond that, I make them feel good. I make them happy, whisper compliments occasionally, and generally I make them feel safe and happy.

  • FelineGrace
    January 21, 2012 | Permalink |

    These are great tips, and I would know cause I’m a woman ^_^

    A tip I’d like to give men is that you CANNOT underestimate the power of SMELL. For many women, and men as well, someone’s smell has A LOT to do with getting a date or partner. If your clothes smell like your dog sleeps with you, your breath smells like you haven’t brushed in weeks, and/or your hair smells like your dirty socks…..you won’t get far no matter HOW charming you are!!!
    Those commercials on t.v. about smell and perfume and deoderant really are right on the spot if you think about it. Women won’t mind getting close to you or letting you hold and hug her if you smell clean and healthy. If a man has average looks but smells GREAT….I’m all over him ^_^ But if there’s a sexy looking man that smells like he doesn’t wipe very well…the whole time I’m with him I want to tell him to get into the shower but can’t because it’s not polite XP

    Also, don’t over do it with the axe and body spray either!!! It makes our eyes sting and throats burn. <3 Peace!

  • ethan
    March 23, 2012 | Permalink |

    well i like this girl but i dont know what to do her older sister likes me a bit and i look average and smell clean. people say we are perfect for each other but i get nervous when thinking of making any move on her. also her friends like me as a friend plz help :]

  • david
    April 26, 2012 | Permalink |

    that is true what peolpe have to say that girls go for the pretty girls if it was an unattractive boy trying to charm a girl the girl will get disgusted and avoid them it is like a waste of time girls are too judgeble no offense but its true girls wouldnt mind if a pretty boy likes them at all and tell her how they feel about them trust me i been there for example there is no girl that likes me thats because im unattractive there was this girl that i like that i know for so long and guess what she likes someone else lucky person that she likes and dosent even know it and there was this girl that like but then as it was middle school and she was shocked that like and told me that i wasnt attractive at all and then six years and last month i saw her with her boyfriend when i was at the bus and i saw them kissing and he was good looking for her to like for me it was just terrible which i learned from now love dosent really exist at all only for the attractive men or boys and for the ugly ones like me are pretty much screwed its like a burden

  • Michael
    June 30, 2012 | Permalink |

    Here is the interesting thing about touch differences between men and women; women show/arouse interest by the small touches; touching your forearm or upper arm when talking, sometimes the knee etc. One thing that always works to at least demonstrate interest it to invade personal space. I don’t mean leaning in too close. I mean alpha male taking up space. If you’re at the bar your leaning with your arm in her arm space etc. It sounds creepy and does NOT work if you haven’t established some prior connection through talking but it immediately establishes your interest and ‘dominance’. Call me crazy if you want but try it and watch guys who are successful with women at bars. They are NOT leaning away.

  • Jayce
    November 27, 2012 | Permalink |

    Teasing a girl is also a good thing. I mean not when your introducing yourself but after you have gotten to know her. I know it works from experience.

  • Pelham
    December 9, 2012 | Permalink |

    I don’t know… Reading this stuff is easy. The implementation is a lot more challenging.

  • Bobsuruncle
    January 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    @Charley …. rockstars such as Billy Bob Thorton might be ugly as an elephant’s arsehole but they’re sticking rich so hot and attractive women are litteraly crawling over them 24/7 .

    I found this article great, gave me some good ideas for when I pop to Paris to see this amazing girl I’ve tried hooking up with for 2 years … wish me luck ;)

  • Anonymous
    January 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    As a woman I will tell you what kind of man women really want:
    - kind
    - handsome
    - honest
    - faithful/loyal
    - funny (at least to her)
    - intelligent
    - caring
    - thoughtful
    - stable
    - easy to talk to
    - genuine

    These are the characteristics and things that women do NOT like:
    - arrogant
    - rude
    - shallow
    - cheater
    - liar
    - disrespectful
    - violent
    - selfish
    - too lazy
    - sleeps around a lot or things he can get any girl
    - big egos are a vig turn off… Bragging isn’t cool
    - dirty old men who try to hit on much younger women – trust me these younger women feel grossed out, creeped out, and embarrassed when you do that. They’ll either find you disgusting or scary, or they will just laugh behind your back. If they date you just for money then don’t ecpect them to really respect/love you and don’t expect them to be loyal in many cases.

    Basically, just be a nice genuine guy! You don’t need cheesy pick up lines and you don’t need to show off. Those “how to pick up attractive women” websites and books are not gonna work & land you a supermodel unless you’re a young Brad Pitt. Girls just want a guy who has a good personality and is attractive to them personally.

  • Tiko
    May 29, 2013 | Permalink |

    Im in love with this girl for about two yrs now she was into me but about a year ago
    She started dating another guy.. Im in my final yr of high school n will prob never see
    her again.. Were really close like super tight but she thinks of me as one of her best
    friends. We flirt occasionally but at a friend level and not so much recently but i cant
    stop thinking bout her n i kno shes the one because since her (dated in middle school n she moved then came back for the last two yrs) ive never been able to like another girl after we hook up its like my brain switches n all i think about is her…
    i dont kno wat is left to do ive only got about a month left but some better advice would
    soo much appreciated… Pls help.. :/

  • Don classic
    June 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    @tiko, she takes you as one of her best friends, to me, that makes it 99percent easier for me to let my mind known to her asap

  • mike
    June 9, 2013 | Permalink |

    Great advice. I need to pass this on to my friend Bill. He doesnt know how to treat a girl. He blows farts in the girl’s faces when he dates them, thinking he has a sence of humor. This really turns the girls off and he needs to realize that.

  • chinx
    July 20, 2013 | Permalink |

    These are really awesome tips, they have really changed me into a charmer. Keep it coming guys, you can really change the world.

  • harydasiva
    July 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    Hi all, I really need your support on this issue.
    I am married, but I never had sex with my wife for the last 10 years. I am getting bored. I joked her saying I would look for a rubber toy to enjoy as you don’t give me.
    She is suspecting that I may have a girl friend.
    Recently, I visited a massage parlour where I met this wonderful , beautiful girl I have been looking for. We were together two times, the first time I met her I liked her very much and gave her a brand new cell phone as a gift.
    She was happy and thanked me. Later, on the same day we talked about us , and I told her all most all about me and showed her that I am a genuine guy looking for a very kind caring girl. Sha said about her parents and that she studies law at Uni. third year.
    I asked her whether we could meet in the different place to build up trust between us.
    She was very happy about this suggestion.

    Shall I proceed with this girl as I see She as a Genuine girl?

  • Godwino
    August 1, 2013 | Permalink |

    @harydasiva you had better stick to your God given blessed wife….I have so many reasons but I would like to give you one of them.
    1..My dad is already a victim of what you are planning to do and it has affected his life so badly that he had to start life afreash.You better be afraid of God…A word is enough for a wise.

  • Dan
    August 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    I had to say something for that guy that hasn’t slept with his wife in 10 years.

    Firstly, if your a older guy, just stick with your wife, your near death anyway.

    If your a 30′s-40s age guy…10 years?!??!?! I’m sorry, I would’ve left a long time ago. If the problem wasn’t resolved in 1 year, I would’ve left. Unless of course something bad happened to her and it makes it hard for her. Then sticking with her through the hard times is what your there for. But if shes just not giving it up, or no passion. Whats the point of being married? Sex is part of passion. No passion? No point being married.

    Other than that, great article.

  • Leon
    August 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    This works like a charm.

  • Jeremy
    November 21, 2013 | Permalink |

    no one has to flatter a girl with just comments about her style or looks, i met a girl at a rock climbing gym, and commented on how strong her hands were while touching her fingers. She got all giddy with excitement!! all this stuff does work. And yes i am overweight.

  • Leo
    January 1, 2014 | Permalink |

    I have a friend who is practically a goddess. I mean, in the street, sometimes people stop and stare. She considers me one of her best friends, but I have loved her for a long time. I am a little timid, so touching is off the table, but I really want her to become interested in me beyond friendship. We are exactly alike (except for looks), and she is so fantastic that I can’t afford to lose any ground in our relationship. I just don’t know how I would get out of the friend zone. She likes strong guys, so I went from benching 45 to 150. I always try to look good in front of her, and we always have a great time together. I just want to know how to get her.

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