It’s easy to impress a girl with words, but if you know how to attract women without talking to them, that’s an art form worth mastering!
So many men focus way too much on opening lines which is a bad idea. Sure, having a good line isn’t a bad idea. However, that line isn’t going to take you far. You forgot about body language! So, I’m going to teach you how to attract women without talking to them.
You’re probably thinking, “Ah right, body language.” Yeah, don’t forget about that since this is where the real communication happens. If you know the importance of body language and the right way to attract women without talking, ditch the lines and focus on nonverbal communication.
How to attract women without talking
Has a woman ever walked into a room and stared at you for a couple seconds? You probably felt a rush go up your spine. Well, that wasn’t because she said she wants to sleep with you. But her eyes said everything. So, you already know the importance of nonverbal communication. It’s just that you haven’t paid attention.
Now, it’s time for you to get back in touch with yourself and really see what attracts women. And it doesn’t have much to do with the words you use. Here’s what you need to learn when it comes to knowing how to attract women without talking to them.
#1 It’s all about the eyes. Eye contact is one of the biggest nonverbal communications between people. You see everything you need to see in a person just by looking at their eyes.
Her gaze tells you whether or not she’s interested in you. Your eye contact shows her if you actually like her or not. Eye contact also shows your level of confidence. So, if you really want her, make eye contact. [Read: 10 subtle eye contact moves that work]
#2 Pay attention to your appearance. I don’t want to say that people judge, but I’m not going to lie to you either. People do judge others based on their appearance. Now, you don’t have to look like a prince, but you need to get your basic hygiene practices covered. Wear clean clothes, shower, cut your hair and nails, you know, look presentable. [Read: 15 secrets to becoming Mr. Irresistible]
#3 Confident body language. If you walk into a room with your shoulders hunched and your hands in your pockets, you’re not giving off the right body language. What do you want to show people? What impression do you want them to have of you? If you want them to see you as a confident man, play the part. Shoulders back, hands to your side, and head up. Come on, man, you can do this.
#4 Your friends. You don’t have to use your friends, this isn’t what I’m saying. Your friends certainly help you out with your self-image. Chat with them, joke around with them. In other words, have a good time when out with your friends. If a woman is interested in you, she observes how you interact with your friends. It’s the best way to see what kind of guy you are.
#5 Nonverbal banter. Tease a woman without saying a word to her. If she’s across the room, shoot her a facial expression or a hand gesture. Remember, nonverbal communication is huge, so maximize on it as much as you can.
#6 Your energy. The energy and vibes you send out are extremely important. It’s also tied into your confidence. If you pout in the corner, your energy isn’t something many people want to be around. Now, you don’t need to be the life of the party but don’t show up to the bar in a crappy mood.
#7 Your social interactions. I know this sounds shallow as hell, but having good looking women around you isn’t a bad idea if you want to attract other women. It makes you look desirable which is the goal you should have. If you want a woman to want you, make yourself look like all women want a piece of you.
#8 Show your pearly whites. Smile, man! Women love a man who smiles. The smile is one of the most important features that women look for in a man. A smile puts down the initial guard women have when approached and this is what’s attractive. You look friendly, you look warm, and genuinely happy. But here’s the thing, you actually should smile like you mean it. [Read: How to make a girl laugh, smile, and like you instantly]
#9 Leaning into her when talking. Now, you don’t want to show too much interest by leaning into them right away. But halfway through the conversation, lean into her, showing her you’re interested.
If you lean back for the entire conversation, it shows you’re not fully invested in the conversation which is the opposite of what you want. Yet, don’t lean in right away, go slowly into the lean.
#10 Show your best self. If you want to attract a woman, show your best self because if you don’t think women watch, you’re wrong. Though we may not be directly staring at you, we watch you. So, when you want to attract a woman, show the room your best side because, trust me, we notice.
#11 Your physique. It’s not about the six-pack, it’s about self-care. Women are always attracted to men who want to take care of themselves and love themselves. This is what it really shows. It’s not about the abs, but how a man values himself. So, you don’t have to hit the gym for hours a day, but women are automatically attracted to men who take care of their bodies. [Read: The 12 benefits of exercise on your mind, body, and libido]
#12 Your shared interests. You’re not going to find out all her interests without talking to her, but if you’re going out to the bar she’s at, you already know one thing she likes. Or if it’s at a concert, then you already know she’s into that band. Attract women towards you just by the fact that you’re at the same place as them. It’s always attractive to see someone enjoying the same things as you.