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Flirting Guide for the Shy Guy

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How to flirt with women, and how should a guy converse with them? There are many types of flirters in the world of men, but not all of them know how to woo a girl in no time.

Click here to read the introduction: Wooing the Girl of your Dreams

Flirting Guide for the Shy Guy

The Outrageous Flirters are put off by two types of women when they approach women.

Type I: An unfanciable woman who says “In your dreams!”

Type II: A fanciable woman who says “Drop ‘em right here, big boy. Let’s see what you’re made of!”

And after scurrying out of the scene, the man sits in a corner and licks his wounds. He reminds and convinces himself that he could have got them both if he really wanted to.

The Slinking Shy Guy

The third type of guy is this one, and there’s not much you can say about these guys either. These men love camouflaging amongst the trees and the bushes along the corridors. They will never approach any woman, and just love taking a look through a pair of binoculars. I presume they grow older to become stalkers or necromaniacs.

Try to be Charming and Fanciable

You will always have to remember that women want men who are fanciable. So firstly, if you want to impress a woman, try to be fanciable.

Grooming Tips for the Typical Male

In a Womanless World, a man can walk around his house wearing a boxer. He can kick a beer can off the floor into the aquarium, if he’s ever going to have one. He can burp and fart and no one would even bother to give him a second glance. No one would ever say “Aren’t you going to shave?” and there will be no woman to say “Why is the toilet seat up?”

But since this is not the case, thankfully so, we have to groom ourselves to seem like we have a million bucks pasted all over us. So your first priority should be to dress smart. Stop dressing like your favorite celebrity or mimicking his dress sense. Instead, try to do something that would make you look better. And always look good, at least as good as you can. Go to a good salon and get yourself a new hairstyle, and pick up a few fragrances that would highlight your personality. Basically, do all the works.

Learn the Art of Conversing

A fanciable man knows how to talk. He is smooth and doesn’t slur or stutter. So be composed and clear when you talk. In simple words, be charming. If you have to approach a girl, or are being introduced to one, then speak pleasantly and courteously.

Most men think that popularity and charm depends entirely on the ability to talk tongue in cheek. You don’t have to be a great conversationalist nor do you have to be a standup comedian to woo a girl. The way a man talks tells a lot about himself. Listen to someone for a while, and you would be able to tell if he is boring, kind, selfish, open minded or pig headed! If you have to be charming and fanciable, learn to pay attention when she talks and reciprocate cheerfully. Let her know that you are taking in every word she says. Women like men who listen, and not drop their stare to a few inches below the face.

Click here to continue reading: The Ways of a Fanciable Man with a Woman


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  • barkerjen
    September 20, 2010 | Permalink |

    Men, don’t be shy when you want flirt wtth women coz they will like you back when you are good in flirting. Just try flirting and don’t be shy.
    “Do you have doubts about his turn on and turn offs, his likes and dislikes? Well, fortunately for you, ALL men are wired the same. If you didn’t know that, you’ve been working in the dark — and way too hard!”

  • May 1, 2012 | Permalink |

    Hahaha! The whole idea is funny, infact me myself is one of those guys that are very shy, but now that iam more mature i fixed everything, firstly make sure you cleaned up well and regain your self confidence, believe me it works. “THERE IS NO HARM IN TRYING”

  • mc
    December 6, 2012 | Permalink |

    Are you sure this article isn’t written by a woman pretending to be a man? No straight man would ever write “pick up a few fragrances that would highlight your personality”, not to mention other things in this article.

    “Stop dressing like your favorite celebrity or mimicking his dress sense. Instead, try to do something that would make you look better,” is also pretty ridiculous. Very few men would know what any celebrities dress like, let alone try to emulate them. Especially if they thought what the celebrity wore wouldn’t “make [them] look better”. These are things that women do.

  • elizabeth
    April 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    I agree with mc, those sentences were kinda off-putting. I still think that the advice is pretty good though. Guys who are friendly, talkative, outgoing, and confident are super-attractive to us girls. And guys who smell good are seriously irresistible. I can’t stand it when a cute guy sitting next to me is wearing a great smelling cologne, I have to use all my willpower not to spontaneously bury my face in his shirt :p

  • Peter
    May 7, 2013 | Permalink |

    The author calls herself “the Huggable Understanding Girl” in the previous part, so that’s another hint.

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