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16 Ways to Get Your Girl to Give You Head and Like It!

16 Ways to Get Your Girl to Give You Head and Like It!

Are you disappointed by the little nothings you’re getting down there? Use these 16 ways to get your girl to give you more head, and see the difference! By Tsvetelina Georgieva

Men enjoy getting blowjobs.

Men really, really enjoy getting blowjobs!

They love it. They crave it. They need it.

But why is it so hard for men and women to find common ground when it comes to giving head?

How come something one gender so desperately wants is often unpleasant or downright appalling for the other gender to provide?

How to get your woman to give you more head

The reasons for this lack of interest in women vary widely.

A few women find it humiliating, and others are afraid they’re not any good at it and will only embarrass themselves.

And then, there are, of course, those who are not at all prejudiced, but just don’t like giving head.

Dozens of possible explanations exist, yet most of them seem to focus on women, because obviously they are the ones with the problem, right?

No. In fact, a closer look paints a picture where men are equally to blame for the unsatisfactory experience or complete lack of fellatio in the relationship.

16 ways to get more head!

Luckily, the very reasons that point out a man’s flaws also reveal clues to understand how how you can fix this. Read on!

#1 Talk to her. This move is the relationship equivalent to aerobatics and all our hats are off to you, if you pull it off. If you think you aren’t getting head *or enough head*, talk to your woman about it.

You should approach the subject in a non-threatening, non-accusing way, so you can assure her that whatever she has to say will be met with understanding and respect, and will not change how you see her, without actually saying any of those things. Does this sound impossible?

There are so many ways it could go wrong and force her further back into her shell, but if you think you can brave up and communicate with her about it, then go for it! But if you’re worried you may say the wrong things and just upset her, fortunately for you, we have more cards up our sleeves. [Read: 12 bad things guys do that makes girls want to fake it in bed!]

#2 Hair. Some women like a man bush, others find the thought of hair on their tongue and sticking between their teeth revolting. If you’re not sure about your lady’s preferences – ask her or try both ways *clean-shaven or neat-and-groomed* and observe which one she reacts to better.

#3 Keeping it clean. If you aren’t getting enough head, your hygiene could also be an issue. It’s no secret that privates, despite being hidden to the outside world, are among the dirtiest parts of the body. And while there are women that don’t mind or even like the sweaty, salty, and often combined with hints-of-urine-taste in their mouths, there are also those who upchuck at the very thought of it.

The solution is to take a shower or a bath together. This will not only convince her you’re squeaky clean, but it also has the potential to grow into a fun and terribly exciting foreplay for the both of you. [Read: 9 wild tips to enjoy foreplay and have sex in the shower!]

#4 Watch your mouth. Dirty talk is not for everyone, however, it does wonders for those who enjoy it. Which category is your girlfriend in? It makes a ton of difference.

If she’s not into it, all that talk about f*cking her in the mouth, ramming your cock down her throat till she chokes on it, having her suck you off like the naughty little bitch she is, is probably making her feel humiliated or worse – like a rape victim.

Again, she might be too embarrassed to tell you, so it’s your job to pay attention and change the words you use, if needed. Switch from the dirty to cleaner lines like how good her tongue feels down there, how it feels when her lips kiss and lock around your member, or talk about how good it feels when her hands caress you down there. You don’t have to sound like a character straight out of an erotic romance novel, but just clean your act up and treat her with respect. [Read: The right way to talk really dirty to a girl without turning her off!]

On the other hand, if dirty talk is what gets your woman all hot and bothered, and you’re not letting her have it – step it up! [Read: 23 sexy tips to talk dirty and say the dirtiest things in bed]

#5 Give her a head start. Or in this case – a hard start! Welcoming her mouth with a standing ovation will let her know how sexy and desired she is.

You’d be surprised how many women are not sure they can get their men hard all by themselves, and that number only grows when it comes to bringing them to ejaculate. Seeing you *almost* erect is like half the job already done, which means the rest can’t be that difficult.

#6 Start off small. If your girl is not up to giving you a BJ right off the bat, play it smart and include oral sex in your foreplay. Don’t wait for her to finish you off, instead, after a short while, switch again or move on to intercourse.

Knowing that sucking you off is not necessarily the only way for you to orgasm eliminates a lot of the pressure and makes her feel more confident and in control. She will be more comfortable with having your penis in her mouth and more open to experiment. With time and encouragement, those shaky 20-30 seconds can and will turn into full-on blowjobs for both, yours and her pleasure! [Read: 18 sex tips for men to leave your woman craving for more all the time!]

#7 The law of giving and receiving. And how are you in bed? A tad too selfish? Don’t answer that straight out, think long and hard about that question.

Is it possible you simply don’t deserve the crà¨me de la crà¨me? Maybe you don’t spend enough time down on her either, or perhaps you make her do most of the work? Think it through and remember that a grateful and horny woman is far more generous than just a horny one. And more inventive. And dedicated. And basically everything you want her to be. [Read: 10 things all women want and need in bed to feel sexy and loved]

#8 69. Let her be on top. Simple as that.

#9 Don’t just lay there, but don’t force her either. Sucking off a lump of wood *we don’t mean your penis* is boring and unrewarding.

Then again, having someone thrust it into your mouth like he wants to make a puree out of your brain is not a dream come true either. Find that golden middle where you’re active, yet letting her do her thing.

#10 Make it fun. Try squirty cream, edible lubricants, tasty toppings, body paint, or even ice cream. It works great as long as both of you are feeling adventurous.

Suggest that she uses a vibrator or dildo on herself while playing with you. Who says BJs are all about your pleasure? Make her feel good too.

#11 Try role-playing. It’s amazing what a little role-playing can do for your sex life. So many of the borders we wouldn’t normally cross seem to erase themselves the minute we get into someone else’s skin. [Read: The complete sexual role play guide for beginners]

#12 Help her improve. And by help, we don’t mean giving her a long boring lecture on how this-and-that must change. We mean giving her small suggestions while she’s at it, or doing something you really like. Do this right and the simple realization of how much your pleasure can increase by changing her technique will no doubt make her a star student.

#13 In or out? This should be obvious – if she doesn’t like it when you come in her mouth, don’t come in her mouth. Don’t try to sneak one in! A – it’s infantile, B – she won’t forgive you for it.

Work on your self-control, so you can warn her when it’s time to slide you out of her mouth *and possibly finish the job with a few hand movements*.

Explore alternative places to ejaculate – her breasts, belly, face *if she’ll allow it*. Ask her about her favorite spots. [Read: 20 easy ways to last longer in bed and control your ejaculation]

#14 Ewww, gross! Bad tasting cum is a huge turn off. H-U-G-E! If a girl lets you come in her mouth, it’s your job to make your sperm not taste like a septic pit.

What’s been known to give semen a funky flavor? Too much protein – meat and dairy, alcohol, coffee, broccoli, nuts and seeds, greasy and deep-fried foods, beans, onion, garlic, cigarettes and the absolute champion – asparagus.

How to fix this? The fastest way is pineapple – lots and lots of pineapple and pineapple juice. Also, drink a lot of water, eat melons, apples, celery, cinnamon and fresh fruit. There are also sperm taste supplements available on the market if you want to go that way!

#15 Spare her the embarrassment if things go south. If you start to lose your erection when she’s giving you a blow, take action and change the plan completely. Switch positions, go down on her, have sex, do whatever it takes to stay in the game and most importantly – not let her know she’s dropped the ball.

Think of this way – how do you feel when you can’t get an erection? Believe us when we say this, it’ll be worse for her if you lose it while she’s in charge. Not only that, she may not want to try it again, out of fear of reliving the same failure. [Read: Dirty and naughty road head confessions of a good girl]

#16 Say “thank you”, seriously! A little gratitude goes a long way. She’ll be more likely to repeat the good deed if she knows she’s appreciated for it.

Of course, it doesn’t have to be all magnanimous or meek, it doesn’t even have to be verbal, you just need to show her that what she does for you is not taken for granted.

[Read: Does size matter? – The secrets you didn’t know from the Kamasutra]

So if you want your girlfriend or wife to give you more head, we’d say these 16 tips are more than necessary to get you on your way to a happier, more satisfied you! Now off you go, to your new and fab life full of sexual pleasures!

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4 thoughts on “16 Ways to Get Your Girl to Give You Head and Like It!”

  1. Jim says:

    If she is having a hard time convincing herself to do it a possible crutch might be to wear a condom for the first few times. It will be a bit messy in the aftermath, but it could be worth it, especially if she enjoys the control of bringing you off and the physical feeling of you coming.

    You might also remind her that she has already decided to allow you to ejaculate into a far more personal part of her body (assuming you have advanced tto unprotected sex), so the only difference will be to introduce the sense of taste into the equation. Taste can be largely negated by her allowing the semen to land at the back of hr throat and then swallow immediately. It will hop right over her taste buds.

    Another gradual approach would be to ask her to put a dab of your precum on the tip of her tongue. When she finds out that it’s not as bad as she thought it might loosen her up. Also, get some literature that will show her that semen does not contain urine (or very much of it).

    Also, you might settle for her best hand job and let her decide that she wants to get a bit closer to the action. Odds are that in due time, she will.

    Most of her girlfriends are giving their boyfriends head and if you think they don’t compare notes you have no business being in bed with a woman. So, the thought definitely has occurred to her, no matter what she says.

    But, above all, it had to be 100% voluntary. She should never feel physically or emotionally coerced to do any sex act that she doesn’t want to do.

  2. Dave says:

    Ugh. I can’t stand articles that are written this way – condescending, talking down to me like I’m an idiot. Women aren’t the only ones who want to be spoken to with respect.

  3. boytoy says:

    I really can’t tell you how I get most girls I meet to give me head and like it. It only takes me like 5 minutes to talk to her into giving me head. It can be any random girl, even your mom. LOL. I don;t know. Maybe you just have to be straightforward with it and just say what you want from her. Return the favor by asking if she wants head too because no one wants a selfish person. I’m not in anyway joking btw. I am serious when I say i can get your mom to give me head because my friends were furious when I asked their moms to do it.

  4. listin says:

    I like giving head to my partner and I like the way he gets off from my blow jobs. I always give him the most mind blowing blow jobs on earth, I do deep throat and I make him cum on my throat, He likes using my mouth and I enjoy it. I really love it when he pounds on my mouth like he would on my pussy.

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