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  • August 7, 2012 | Permalink |

    THANK U !!!

  • John
    August 19, 2012 | Permalink |

    This sounds like a relationship with a girl i had, and i’ve done everything on your list. but she’s just a really complicated girl.

    Will see how things go in a few days as we have planned to go out for a drink.

    Thanks for the advice though!

  • nick
    November 2, 2012 | Permalink |

    Exactly i think has happen with me. Always had signs she liked me. Things were amazing. She always made time with her busy scheldule with class work and child to come see me or talk. But i think i may have smoothered. Maybe even seemed emotional and availably easy. So noticed she would stop calling as much. Stop coming to see me at work to make out. But will still ask what im doing or talk to me. Shes been stressed also! So recently herd feelings change and shud be friends. As any man tryed looking for reasons and hold on. But let go as best thing to do and gave like week worth of space n backed off. But to not seem weak. Ane build my self up back to that confident guy she liked. But do more for my self. Im going to try this to see if she gets attracted again. Hopefully.

  • Jake
    November 17, 2012 | Permalink |

    Ya this girl said that she liked me and when i asked her out she said maybe… So i waited (a couple of hours) then she said she dint want to date me and we dint even go on a first date ! If anyone can tell me whats going on i would be very happy cause im lost…

  • Sultan
    December 9, 2012 | Permalink |

    Thanks that made me feel much better

  • December 9, 2012 | Permalink |

    Same thing is happening to me. We had the best three weeks. She was really into me and then one night I got a little to drunk in front of her. Told her about a thousand times how beautiful she was and then I was seeming to needy. Always cooking for her and being to sweet. I’m going to try this and see. She is worth it. I think.

  • December 9, 2012 | Permalink |

    Any other advice would be great thought. A friend told me I should just ask her to lunch because then it isn’t so much like a date. She also told me she just wanted to be friends and I got real angry and told her to get the F out of my house. I have since apologized and have talked to her casually while walking into school. Is there any chance at all that I can get her back??????

  • MNickJ
    February 9, 2013 | Permalink |

    You chased this girl for months and only got a few kisses… You should have manned up and made a real move… Any girl will loose interest after mints of friendly hang out “dates”…

  • Student
    February 20, 2013 | Permalink |

    Keep in mind that is only works for single women. It will NEVER work on a girl with a boyfriend. I made that mistake so I know!

  • abc
    March 28, 2013 | Permalink |

    if she is into another man then what can i do?

  • nt me
    March 31, 2013 | Permalink |

    Should I continue chat wif her everyday I use to do? Should I start convo wif her? If no then how can I contact her?

  • MS
    April 19, 2013 | Permalink |

    What to do if she doesn’t work at the same place as you?? what if you only see her like..mmm.. what? once every 3 monts if you are lucky??? what if you only can talk to her by phone or whatsapp?? and what to do if she from one day to another suddenly stop calling you and writing you every day and you ask her why and turns out that she has a boyfriend now?
    Why does nobody anser the previous comments?? here are some man that need an advice! like me!! anyone?? please!!!! desperate man in love!!!!! :S

  • SnapCrackle&Pop
    July 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    Yeah there’s this girl I started talking to a couple of months ago. We got to know each other and then we were attracted to one another. So we started dating, sending each other love messages, call each other and talk all night. Then one week, she disappears on me. She didn’t call or text for one week. I started to get worried so I would message and call her to see if everything was ok. She would message me back here and there. One day I went to the hospital and I messaged her, she didn’t reply. I texted her the next day and I finally reached her and told her that I was in the hospital. She wasn’t really sympathetic when I told her. So at that time, I felt that she was losing interest. Then one day, she messages me on fb saying that she doesn’t have time for a bf right now. I asked her if we can still be friends, she never replyed. I come to find out she’s friend with her ex on fb, after she told me she blocked him. Two days after that she blocks me on fb. I was heartbroken. Didn’t eat for two days straight. Yeah I was in love. I really hope this 10 step plan works for me and everyone else who loves that special person. Good luck everyone…..

  • Frankie romero
    August 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    Thanks this made me feel so much better thanks again hopefully this will work because she has been talking to this one guy but hopefully she doesn’t fall for him

  • Deva
    October 2, 2013 | Permalink |

    AS My story is unique from this case I’m Telling it in detail,
    I have this angel of mine who jus trespassed into me like anything .. We went for an Inter family tour, and thats the heaven where I met her. I was astonished ,bewildered seeing her beauty. The first day I was totally not with me ,I felt idiotic ,Coz I’m a sort of a person who gives advices about relationships with people to my friends. I could not do anything without thinking about her, and each time i saw her , I felt nothing was around me. I tried to speak with her the second day when we were out for cycling, I did get an opportunity to talk with her but the virus attack in me(crush) jus made me stand staring at her beauty . I know its shit.. she proved me wrong that I’m a matured person in relationships.I realised that when I saw her again and again. Her dressing ,hairdo,eyes,everything were beyond my expectations.
    The Trouble starts here,
    She opened up the first conversation between us “You are a dancer right? Can you enact a step and show me?” This was the question she asked me. I did,she smiled and said thank you. I was on cloud nine that i have at last opened up a line with her after a tough two day struggle. Then I bought her a roadside fancy item that she was starring at, she was undoubtedly contented but seemed frightened before her family. After that we got a temporary private area where she thanked me with an impressed face. Everything seemed good. The next day in the train we played cards,monopoly and mind games together. Thats were I got my platform to prove myself to her. I found myself aspired when I did a magic trick with her in front of all the people in the train. She was so impressed that she was jumping to speak with me after that. At the end of the tour we too were so impressed with each other ,that I felt like proposing her, but the family environment held me back. While leaving home she was having a lot inside her to speak with me I read that from her face, I went near her to say good bye coz she resides far from me. She asked me “So….when will we meet again?” , Smiling I replied “God Knows” and told her we’ll stay connected through facebook.That night, She sent me a request. After a long convo. for a month she gave me her Mobile no. Everything seemed pleasant.

    We texted each other with Full attraction for the first four days, I proposed her in four languages that she Partially knows. But she pretended as if she never knew. Cloud nine! Everything was Perfect. Suddenly started the problem.. She started to slow down her replies,then no reply for a day/week/weeks… I felt the loss of attraction fading out from her through her behavior. One day in a mood I told her everything I felt about her, But the reply was “nice” .. I just couldn’t accept that.. I asked her why.. But she never replied.. I was frustrated to the core. “A man can bear anything But the silence from a loved one kills him alive” that too without a reason.
    After a week She sent me a forward message and told “Don’t waste your time”!
    I could never take this because we discussed everything about our marriage , our babies etcc.. And now an end for all this ! How can I? I just want her for my life! Her character is an exact fit for me.
    Like in the above article I did not loose my self respect in any case.. But she is drifting away. WHAT COULD BE THE REASON?I tried asking her , but no response.I could not even see her. I could not live my life without knowing this I’m dying every moment!
    Help me..

  • Ryan
    November 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    I know how it is met this great girl and i could tell she liked me and then she met all these other people and now i’m here

  • Rahul Sane
    December 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    These tricks fucking worked everything changed in two weeks.!! Thanks alot for post.!!

  • Rose
    December 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    This “playing games” behavior is soley based on the egoic mind/narcissistic desire and shows no honesty and no heart. As soon as I see this behavior I am immediately turned off because manipulating another’s emotions through “acting” really only shows you are a two year old pretending to be a man, with no authentic ability to communicate on any real heart-to-heart level. Grow up and learn to be an honest and honorable man. A woman’s heart is not a toy so stop playing games and get real.

  • soothsayer83rc
    December 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    I dated a girl for a month.. We cuddled often kissed the next few dates.. She told me how ecstatic she was from the kisses. She left for a couple weeks and seemed distant with texts, so i didn’t try for a while.. She came back and we have been hanging out for about a week straight, but I’m not sure she is looking at me the same. physical contact moments seem to be gone.
    What should i do? Assume she isn’t interested?

  • Miki
    December 5, 2013 | Permalink |

    I hate texting period. Girls are so out of reach nowadays it’s imossible to get to meet them in person and to actualy have a conversation face to face. Instead after texting for a week and asking “hey let me take you out and meet in person” they seem to be shocked at the mere thought of it. How can you judge someone off their text messages when “I” for example am completely different in person.. I’m fun, outgoing, energetic, and just a friendly guy. But through text I seem dry and my texts are long a drawn out.. So some girls in the past think that I’m a boring sap which by far I’m not…. I’m into modeling, my parents are well paid and I have my own luxury car, but still I find it hard to get girls to want to go out because they are intimidated of being with me Face to face or think that because of my texting style I’m dry sorta speak… Why I’m saying all of this is because I was texting a grorgous girl and she was flurting with me and I was flurting with her back and everything was going good and then she just stopped replying… She even agreed to find a way to see me and let me take her out… I was just thinking about letting her know that I’m different in text than in person and that I’d like to meet her in person to see how things go… Idk if that’s reasonable

  • Orlando J Figueroa
    December 12, 2013 | Permalink |

    Well yesterday i met the girl that i have crush with my friend told her that i like which i think was a bad move, but we met we started talking and i think we had fun conversation but when my told if she was interested in going out she said she wasnt interested and i m just wondering why did she said that if she only talked to me one day?

  • Jay
    December 15, 2013 | Permalink |

    Been turned down by this girl once. Apparently I’m ‘not her type’ Gonna try something like this and see If I can change anything.

  • Patrick
    January 15, 2014 | Permalink |

    This is pretty much exactly what happened to me. I hop it works! Thank you so much!

  • Fred
    March 27, 2014 | Permalink |

    Sweet, sweet revenge.

  • micheal
    March 28, 2014 | Permalink |

    THE GIRL IS SITTING BESIDE ME AT WORK

    guys please advise me !

    i have the same thing which is happening right now .)

    she told me i like you , she hugged me , kissed me on check , she told me i am happy with you , we did not get into a relation , we were talking alot on phone 3-4 hours a day …..

    after 2 months i have changed i become so cheap and annoying …..she told me a lot stop suffocate me ….yesterday she told me i do not love you i even i do not feel anything for you but i will miss you my friend .

  • Anonymous
    March 28, 2014 | Permalink |

    Dear Micheal, unfortunately, there are some things in life that you can’t control or change, even though it hurts like hell.

    We’re all individuals, and we have to understand that all humans are different. You may choose to behave a certain way or feel a certain way about a person, but you can’t expect them to behave the same way towards you. It sucks that you’re being tossed by a girl who behaved like she really liked you. And the truth is, she could have a million reasons why she could be behaving this way. Perhaps, she liked you as a person, but now has second thoughts about it? Or maybe, she liked you, but as soon as you showed her just how much you care about her, she lost interest in you because you were too easy and predictable…

    The only thing you need to do now is give this girl a lot of space, or she’ll just make you feel worse! It hurts, but it’s the only thing you can do. The more you try to get her to show interest in you, the more she’ll push you away. Some humans suck, and they may be too self obsessed to care about others or the feelings of others. It’s sad, and it’s unfortunate that you had to leave you heart in the hands of one such person. But your only option here is to move on, or you’ll be the only one hurting because she may not even care what you think.

    There’s a quote “The worst feeling is when someone makes you feel special, then suddenly leaves you hanging and you have to act like you don’t care at all.”

    Remember this line, because as much as it hurts, you have no choice but to pretend like you don’t care and move on. It may take you a week or more, but if you try hard and keep yourself occupied, you’ll look back a few weeks from now and ask yourself if this girl was even worth the pain and the tears she caused you.

    I hope I could help, but remember, you are the only person who has the power to move on.

  • The suck
    April 6, 2014 | Permalink |

    Met this girl working in a club, celebrated my birthday for me and stuff. She seems interested at first but now she is just showing signs of being irritated around me. Maybe i am too boring for her. Don’t know what is the real reason behind.

  • Noah
    April 7, 2014 | Permalink |

    Well it’s weird this girl found out I liked her then she never talked to me, I guess you can see we liked each other but we could never talk there were messengers and stuff it was kinda bad … I wish we talked more…. I feel horrible

  • john
    April 15, 2014 | Permalink |

    Met a woman and we were attracted and the first thing she said is well we can be honest. Red flag!… i should have never gave her a chance. Then she started talking about her divorces and i listened and told her i had been divorced. She suspociously opened up pandoras box and got way past info from me about my past divorce. We were polite and we still enjoyed our first sit down visit. But she rushed into things way to fast. We were suppsed to go out one evening and then she canceled because her daugter had an emergency 45 mins after set the time to meet. And then she kept leading me on and telling me how sorry she was and she would have more time next week. And then she would not return txts. And then she sent a txt saying so sorry ive been so busy. And so i didnt talk to her for two weeks and i asked her to join me for an event and she txt me back and said how nice that would be to go to that and she set the date and then she canceled that date because she was sick. One week later i sent her txt to see if she was better and said it would be nice to see her when she had time. I dont know why i was so attracted to her other than she was intrested in me through our first few conversations but i did find out that she has not been devorced that long and her ex and her are good freinds so say and they still are setteling ownership of a past home. Shes very confused. But she abused my feelings for her. She liked me because i was gentel with her. Now can anyone understand why she behaved like this. I cant iether. She missed out. I didnt. Ive had plenty of girl friends and they all played games. Many women are confused in this day and time because they feel they will never be secure with one man even if hes rich and the most loving man in the world. So we men should always look out for personality dissorders and by almeans dont give into what we want so bad because we are atracted to. I treated her with all respect and if she decides to contact me and apolagize and wants to realy see who i am then thats her choice. Not mine. Its hard to let go but this teaches me to make the right choice for the next time even if it is the same woman. I have never gone back to an ended relationship and if that was to happen then it will make me a believer in all i have read about get a woman back. But usualy it is a waste of time. Funny thing to add. All of my exes are after me and some of them from years past. Why so many women want to waste time when they could have had a great life with a great guy that they threw away and then they realized later what they had. I just dont get it. Oh well. On to the next one… Maybe. It is realy hard to find the right one this day and time because of one factor. We have to many choices. Men for women and women for men. The saying theres plenty of fish in the sea is like never making a comittment to the one you care about because of a stipulation possibly. Men and women need to learn how to become sole mates and love each other to etenity. Btw datting is not a search. Its find and keep and live happily ever after attitude.

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