It’s easy to make a girl like you if you understand these 15 tips on how to text a girl you like and text her the right way at the right time. By Keith Brown

Ever wondered what you have to say to a girl to make her like you?

When it comes to impressing a girl, timing is everything.

Unlike guys, girls rely a lot on emotions and feelings to fall for a guy.

Guys fall for a girl at first glance as long as they find her attractive.

But for a girl to like a guy, her feelings definitely play a bigger part than her eyes.

[Read: How to make a girl like you without asking her out]

Sometimes, it’s easier to text a girl and get her to fall for you rather than wooing her on dates and impressing her with gifts.

As long as you create the perfect balance of emotional connection and infatuation, you can make any girl like you back with just a few well timed texts over a few days.

How to text a girl you like

If you want to learn the right way to text a girl, just use these 15 tips on how to text a girl you like and you’ll see how easy it really can be.

But remember to take your time and make your move only after watching her reciprocation.

#1 Night time is the best time to text a girl. If the girl you like is comfortable with texting late into the night, you’ve already got the edge you need. Start by texting her late in the evening and look for ways to keep the conversation going when she slips into her bed. There’s something so sexy and romantic about a quiet night that’ll only work in your favor. [Read: How to flirt with a girl by behaving like a friend]

#2 The right time to text a girl. Avoid texting her or calling her up when you know she’s occupied or busy with her friends. She needs to feel excited to read your text, not get bugged because you’re constantly interfering with her happy time.

#3 Pick a time to text her. Don’t text a girl you like all day long. If you know her routine, text her only when you know she’s free to text you back. Within a couple of days of texting her, you’d see that she’s warmer and indulges in longer text conversations at particular times of the day.

Once you figure the happy time to text this girl, text her every day during the same time. It’ll make her expect your texts and her anticipation for your texts everyday will make her like you more.

#4 First text tip. If you want to know how to text a girl for the first time, don’t think too much of it. Just keep it casual and simple. “Hey! Just thought I’d say hi!” is simple and just one of several ways to initiate a first text with a girl you like.

There’s never a wrong way to text a girl. It’s what you do after the first text that always matters. [Read: What do girls look for in a guy to fall for him?]

#5 Always start with a very short text. If you’ve been texting each other back and forth for a few days, you really don’t need to look for reasons to text her again, nor do you need long elaborate introductions.

Start with a warm and simple line that feels good to read. It leaves the conversation open and you’ll be able to know if she’s free to chat too. “Hi”, “Hey, what are you doing?” or even just a smiley face should work perfectly to start a conversation and bring a smile on her face. If she’s busy, she’ll tell you or respond when she has the time. There’s no way you can go wrong with that.

#6 Keep it short and simple. Try to keep the texts short if you want to keep the conversation going. Your focus is to get her to keep all her attention on you when she’s texting. And to do that, you need to keep the beeping texts going back and forth as soon as you can. Long texts can leave her bored when she’s waiting for you to respond. Or worse, she may occupy herself with the television or do something else that’ll leave her distracted while waiting for your text.

#7 Be interested in her and her daily life. Ask her about her day. Be interested in her life and let her know that you’re always interested in knowing more about her while texting each other. It’ll help her open up.

#8 Give her a pet name. Pet names are very personal and unique. If you want the relationship to take the next step, you need to create a personal bond between both of you. And the best way to do just that is by giving her a pet name. Personalize the relationship both of you share and it’ll bring both of you closer. [Read: How to choose a perfect and unique nickname]

#9 Don’t flirt all the time. Even if she knows you like her already, avoid flirting with her on every single instance. It’ll just bore her if all you do is flirt with her. Text about everyday activities and let her see that you’re interested in knowing more about her and her life.

#10 But flirt when you get the opportunity. Every now and then, you’d find the perfect opportunity to flirt with her. Wait for that moment and use it to tease her or pull her leg, especially when she makes a compliment about herself or talks about how good she is at doing something. A good excuse to challenge and flirt with her will always work in your favor.

#11 Get naughty now and then. But always be vague unless you already know what she wants to hear. You can play it safe or get naughty depending on the way she texts back.

You: “I wish I was with you right now”

She: “Yeah? Why?”

You: “For a lot of reasons I can’t say right now / You did say you’re in bed, right?”

#12 Use emoticons. Unless the girl you’re texting specifically says she hates emoticons, make sure you leave a few kisses and a smile when you’re texting her goodbye. Even if she makes a big deal of it, you can always joke about it and say it was a goodbye kiss on her cheek! [Read: How to make a girl want to kiss you by arousing her]

#13 Get dirty when you can. Border on dirty texts with her now and then, and watch how she responds. If she texts you and asks you what you’re doing, tell her that you were up to something naughty. Make her think of you in the nude or give her occasions to talk naughty. A good way to initiate a naughty conversation is by telling her that you just stepped out of the shower, or by telling her that you’re trying out a few new clothes you picked up last week at the mall. [Read: 20 dirty questions to text a girl and make her wet]

#14 Create personal memories. Always look for ways to create a bond between the both of you. Tell her about your favorite song, movie or place you like. Each time she comes across something you’ve talked about, give her a reason to think of you.

#15 Get mushy before saying goodbye. Compliment her appearance, her personality or say anything that makes her feel warm and fuzzy inside. But focus on these texts a few minutes before both of you say goodbye. If you want her to fall for you, she has to get sexually excited by you and then has to feel romantically attached to you. That’s the way love and infatuation works. [Read: Tips to subtly touch a girl and turn her on]

By flirting with her, you’d be able to arouse her. And by talking about how special she is or by complimenting her for her personality at the end of your texting conversation, you can make her feel romantic. It’s the perfect balance to make a girl like you while texting her. [Read: How to compliment a girl the right way]

Keep these 15 tips on how to text a girl you like in your mind while texting her. And you’ll see how easy it can be to woo a girl through a few late night texts and well timed lines.

Do girls like shy guys or confident guys? Find out what girls want in a shy guy and what you can do to be the perfect guy for the girl you like. By Erica Patterson

Shy guys are loveable.

And almost all girls feel safe, and dare I say it, even confident around them.

Shy guys are every girl’s dream conversationalist.

They hardly talk, and they’re really good at just listening to the girl.

Girls like that.

We definitely love a cute shy guy who can just watch us, smile to himself and listen to everything we have to say.

[Read: How to make a girl like you without asking her out]

Do girls like shy guys?

Girls definitely like a shy guy.

But almost always, girls fall for a shy guy when they’re still in school or college, and definitely not in a workplace.

Girls get crushes on cute shy guys because they’re so mysterious and different from all the other guys who try to behave like bold smooth talkers.

But as soon as a great guy starts to pursue a girl, she forgets about the shy guy because, well, he’s just not doing anything to reciprocate.

If you’re a shy guy, learn to use the opportunity of first impressions.

Girls are intrigued by a shy guy. And even the smallest gesture by a shy guy can make a huge difference to a girl, especially if she likes him already. [Read: What do girls look for in a guy to fall for him?]

When are shy guys better than confident guys?

# Shy guys make better friends. They’re good listeners and they’re very considerate. But you obviously don’t want to be her friend, so this isn’t a good sign. If you want to date a girl, you need to let her know that!

# Shy guys make better sex buddies. Girls feel powerful around shy guys. Get drunk with a girl and let her have her way with you and she’ll definitely like it. And if you’re just looking for a fling thing, you’d definitely like it too! [Read: How to get a sex buddy]

# Girls definitely like a guy who’s shy at first but opens up after a few conversations. They definitely don’t like a guy who’s shy in the first conversation and shy after that too. Now almost all the time, even the shyest of guys open up after a couple of conversations, so you don’t have to worry there.

What do girls want in a great guy?

Now shy guys have a lot of good sides to them. They’re more sensitive and caring and girls like their company. But to fall for a guy, there are three things that a girl needs in a boyfriend material. [Read: 10 traits of a good boyfriend]

#1 A guy who can protect her

#2 A guy she can depend on

#3 A guy who can pursue her

Now these three things that every girl needs may seem simple, but this is where almost every shy guy fails. Do you realistically think you have the bold presence of a guy who can protect the girl from any trouble when she’s with you? Do you think she can depend on you to sort any issue out for her? And if you’re so shy that you can’t even have a conversation with her, can you really woo her and impress her by pursuing her when she’s playing hard to get?

Well, shy guys fail miserably in all three requirements. And that’s where a perfect shy guy who is every girl’s dream loses a great girl and ends up becoming her friend instead of her boyfriend.

The bad side of a shy guy that’ll put off a girl

Girls have no problems with a shy guy. But these bad traits of a shy guy can put off anyone, not just a girl you like. [Read: 10 biggest dating turn offs for girls]

#1 The problem with shy guys is that they have no balls. They can’t make a stand for anything. They’d rather stand in the sidelines than take center stage.

#2 Shy guys are very accommodating and give in to any problem just to avoid any kind of conflict. Even if anyone insults them, they’d pretend like they’re not affected by it when in reality they’d be furious inside their shy heads.

#3 Shy guys would rather give up than fight. And they think they’re peace loving when they’re just too chicken hearted in reality.

#4 They have to be peeled back, layer by layer. It takes too much time for a girl to get to know a shy guy. When great girls can get any guy they want, would a girl really be interested in counseling you and trying to make you a better man when they can be pampered and treated like a queen by any bold guy they want?

#5 Shy guys don’t have confidence around other people, especially other guys. If another guy tried to flirt with your girlfriend, would you have the courage to make a stand and put the other guy in place? If you can’t even stand up for yourself, how can you stand up for the girl in your arms?

How to turn your shyness into an advantage

Your shyness could create a lot of difficulties for you, especially when it comes to dating a great girl. But here are a few immediate tips you could use to tilt the shyness to your advantage. [Read: How to get a girl's attention wherever you are]

#1 Become a quiet guy. Turn your shyness into confidence. Don’t let anyone think you’re shy. Instead make it appear like you’re just a quiet guy who likes his own space.

#2 Make it appear like you’re bold. Talk less, but don’t let anyone know your heart’s beating like a hummingbird inside. Avoid being nervous and jittery, instead reply in short sentences that make you appear confident.

#3 Brave up and talk to her. This is inevitable. You need to man up and talk to her at least once. Get introduced through a friend if you have to. After that, woo her through texts and messages. Pursue the girl silently by avoiding long conversations face to face at the beginning and focus all your attention on your texts and gifts. [Read: What to say to a girl you like]

#4 Walk with a purpose. Shy guys can actually come off as extremely confident as long as they move purposefully and appear composed. Walk tall, and don’t bother trying to get anyone’s attention but that one girl who matters.

#5 Don’t tell the girl that you’re a shy guy. Telling a girl that you’re shy can work against your favor. She’ll immediately get confident and behave aloof. By pretending to be a quiet guy, you can appear mysterious and more appealing to any girl.

The easy and better way out – Don’t be the shy guy

It’s not easy being a shy guy. I was a shy girl once too and I know how hard it can be to change. But the only way to have better opportunities in life is by trying hard to eliminate that shy side of yours.

All of us have been shy guys and shy girls at some point of time. Some lose that trait in their childhood while others lose it in their teens. The earlier you realize the need to change, the faster you can become a better man who can feel confident in his own shoes. [Read: How to be a better man by using a role model]

Here are five steps that can help you lose the shy guy tag with a bit of effort.

#1 Open up to people. Make an effort to open up early to people. What’s the point in waiting for a few meetings to be friendly? Shy guys are cute friends, and not cute boyfriends. A shy guy may seem cute in his teens, but anything beyond that and you’d end up being isolated by everyone.

#3 Get introduced to girls. Talk to girls even if you’re not interested in dating them. Sometimes, you need a few warm up lessons by talking to girls you’re not interested in to feel more confident about your own abilities and prepare yourself for the girl you’re going to fall in love with. [Read: How shy guys can get over their hover hands]

#3 Don’t be afraid of being judged. Make new friends. Most shy guys avoid opening up to people because they assume they have nothing important to add. Or they stay quiet because they assume they’ll appear dumb if they speak too much. Don’t be afraid to reveal who you really are. You may be shy, but you’re still a great guy who can share so much with his friends and the world.

#4 Girls are just like you. Only they have lady parts. Remember that girls are a part of the human species too. They like guys just as much as you like girls. They want to make a good impression on you just as much as you want to make an impression on them. Some girls may have more confidence, but that doesn’t mean you won’t be more confident with a few tries.

#5 Make a few mistakes and learn from it. The dumbest shy guys are the ones who know they’re shy and yet don’t do anything to open up. They’re afraid of failure and rejection and end up hiding in their own little world and bitch about how unfair the world is to them. Don’t be that guy. It’s alright to fall a few times before you start walking. It’s alright to get rejected a few times before you meet the perfect girl too!

[Read: How to ask a girl out when you're a shy guy]

So do girls like shy guys? Of course, they do, just as long as the guy can be a confident shy guy. But if you can’t be that guy, just follow these tips and you’ll definitely turn over a new leaf and get any girl you like with a little effort.

Fumbling for words while trying to talk to a girl? Find out what to say to a girl you like and warm her up to a perfect conversation with these tips. By Colin Andrews

Getting introduced or bumping into the girl can be a great start.

But unless you know what to say to a girl you like, there’s a good chance that you’ll blow the first impression.

The first few minutes of a conversation is all it takes for a girl to make an impression about you.

Get this wrong, and she may just end up remembering you as an acquaintance or a friend.

[Read: What do girls look for in a guy to fall for him?]

What to say to a girl in the first conversation

If you’re having a conversation with her for the first time, you need to play it safe and easy.

Many guys turn on their charm and flirt outrageously within a few seconds, but unless the girl’s easy to get and is only looking for a fling thing, you can’t really make a serious impression by trying that move.

The first thing you have to do is get friendly with her.

Try to get to know her better and make her feel comfortable around you.

Don’t make it obvious that you’re trying to flirt with her by asking her out immediately or by trying to hit on her.

If you want to let a girl know that you’re interested in her before talking to her, read how to talk to a girl you like for the first time to understand how to make the first move and have a perfect conversation with her.

If you’ve been introduced to her already or if you’re already in a conversation with her, then read on.

The guide to having a perfect conversation with the girl you like

If you’re wondering what to say to a girl you like while talking to her, just use these simple cues and the girl will warm up to you in no time.

#1 Ask her about herself. Casually ask her what she does, where she works or where she’s studying. It’s a regular question that she’s used to hearing. Keep the questions simple but appear to be fascinated by what she says. Responding with something like “wow, that’s sounds really interesting… tell me more…” can help her open up. And she’d definitely be comfortable talking about something she knows like the back of her hand.

#2 Make a connection. Find a way to create a connection with her. When you ask her about herself, did you find something similar about both of you? If she says she likes to paint, pretend like you’re impressed and tell her that you’ve always wanted to paint but the last time you tried meddling with colors, all you did was tip a palette of paints on your neighbor’s clothes!

Or if she says she works at a particular organization, say something like, “Aah, I’ve heard so much about that place. I hear the cafeteria has the best cappuccino!” Make anything up as long it sounds funny or makes her feel proud. Even if it’s wrong, it’ll lead to another fun conversation. [Read: How to get a girl to like you by making her laugh]

#3 Tell her about yourself. Always make a connection first and talk about yourself later. In the first few minutes of the conversation, she may not be very interested in getting to know you better. But by building a connection and making her like you by being funny or genuinely interested in her, and then telling her something about yourself, she’ll pay attention to what you have to say. And she’d be very interested to know more about you too.

#4 Appreciate her company. Tell her something friendly and yet, flattering. “I’m glad I met you here, I was getting so bored of just standing here with all the wrong people until you came along.” You’re not hitting on her, and yet, somehow you’re complimenting her for the great company she is.

#5 Talk about the place. Look around in the middle of the conversation and say something about the place or someone around you. If you’re meeting at a friend’s party, ask her how she knows the host. If you’re meeting at a coffee shop, ask her for a suggestion on the type of coffee she likes around there. Make her feel special and important and she’ll love you for it! [Read: Tips to make small talk with a girl]

#6 Compliment her. So far, you would be able to make an impression on her and make her like your company. Now this is where many guys fail. They continue to make the girl laugh and have a nice time with them, and eventually the girl starts to behave like a friend around them.

If you want a girl to like you, you need to get out of her friend zone. As soon as she starts warming up to you, let her know that you don’t consider her a friend. Let her know that you’re interested in dating her. If you want to know what to say to a girl to let her know that you’re interested in dating her, you need to understand the right way to compliment a girl sexually. Compliment a girl, but lace it with a sexual remark to get the right message across. [Read: How to compliment a girl you like]

Use these six tips on what to say to a girl you like while talking to her and you’ll definitely be able to create the right impression. And if you want a few more conversation pointers, read what to talk about with a girl you like to know more.

Things to remember while talking to her

# Be a cheerful guy. Girls feel comfortable around a guy with a cheerful attitude and a pleasant smile. While the surly bad boy who sits in the corner may attract a few girls, a great girl won’t wait forever for anyone.

# Don’t overdo it. Blend your compliments with serious talk. Don’t push your flirty talk too far all the time. Instead, play it cool and always make her wonder if you’ve got something on your mind.

# Lose yourself in her eyes. Stare deeply into her eyes and stretch your lips into a small smile while listening to her. You’ll seem like you’re in awe of her, and that’s a good thing if you’re trying to woo her. Let her know you’re mesmerized by her. It’s a secret compliment! [Read: 10 subtle eye contact flirting moves that work!]

# Remind yourself how much you like her. Think ‘I want you’ when she’s talking to you. Just tell yourself in your mind how much you like her, and by some magical vibrations, she’ll get your vibes and know what’s on your mind. And the best part, she’ll wonder if you’re truly interested in her because you haven’t told her anything about your affections just yet.

[Read: How to make a girl like you without ever asking her out]

Still wondering what to say to a girl you like? Just follow these cues and you’ll be able to make a perfect impression on her and get her interested in you too!

Want to know how to get a girl’s attention, be it on the streets or after an introduction? Find out how to get her attention and make her like you. By Kirsten Cole

When it comes to getting a girl’s attention, a lot depends on the first impression.

Guys have always been drawn to girls who look good and have a cheerful aura.

But girls aren’t far behind either.

While stunning looks may not be the sole criteria for a girl to like a guy, appearances do play a big part at the beginning.

How to get a girl’s attention

If you’re walking down a street or sitting in a coffee shop, and a girl walks past you, what are the first few things you notice about her?

[Read: 20 sexual things guys notice when they see a girl]

You’d obviously notice her face, her body, her attire and the way she behaves.

Just like you, girls notice these things too.

It’s instinctive, and considering the fact that all a girl can do initially is notice you, she’s bound to judge you based on her sight, at least at first.

So if you want to know how to get a girl’s attention, you need to make sure you’re making a good impression on her. If you can do that, she’d naturally want to see more of you or get your attention too.

How to get a girl’s attention when you don’t know her

If you like a girl and want her attention but you don’t know her yet, here are eight tips that can help you get her attention, flatter her and rouse her interest in you at the same time.

#1 Be charming. You don’t need to charm her just yet. But be charming in your behavior and the way you speak to everyone else. Know your manners, speak with grace and have a warm personality. This is not something you can build in a day, but once you perfect this, you’ll be able to draw any girl to you without even trying. [Read: How to be a better man using a role model]

#2 Don’t be dominated by anyone else. When you’re spending time out with your friends, do your friends ignore you or treat you badly? When you go out with them, do you feel low on confidence because some other guys make all the decisions? Don’t spend time with these guys.

When you’re dominated by some other guy in your group, you’ll look weaker and the girl who’s attention you’re trying to get may be more interested in your dominant friend than you.

It’s obvious. The best girl will want to be with the best guy in the room. If you’re giving another guy that power by letting him walk all over you, you’ll look like the loser while he’ll appear like the alpha male. [Read: 10 biggest dating turn offs for girls]

#3 Dress well. What’s one of the first things you notice about a girl? It’s what she’s wearing, isn’t it? Just like that, your attire is one of the first things a girl will notice about you. When you look good, all eyes are bound to turn towards you and there’s a better chance of getting a girl’s attention towards you. [Read: What girls always notice in a guy]

#4 Groom yourself. The art of grooming is the thin line separating the average guy from a great guy. Most guys dress well, but they don’t really look or feel like a million bucks. Grooming is to a man what fine tuning is to a car engine. It’s alright by itself, but a few tweaks can make a serious difference.

Use good perfume that smells great on you when you walk past a girl, use fragrant moisturizers and hair products that make you feel rich no matter where you are. Wear a good watch and accessorize your wardrobe without overdoing it. It’s the little details that always differentiate a classy man from the average joe. [Read: What do girls look for in a guy?]

#5 Laugh and smile. Girls are attracted to happy guys. After all, happy guys make great fathers and are more fun. Be cheerful and have a sense of humor. But at the same time, respect yourself and don’t ever let anyone take you for granted. No girl would like a pushover who’s taken lightly by other guys.

#6 Have a good posture. A good posture can add several inches to your height and your confidence. Good posture is a sign of confidence. And girls just love a confident young man! Walk with a naturally straight back and feel powerful from within.

#7 Try to create eye contact. Eye contact can do a lot of great things in a budding romance. It’s the easiest way to get a girl’s attention and yet, play safe without actually walking up to her. If you learn the art of eye contact flirting, you’d be able to make her like you without even saying a word to her! [Read: 10 subtle eye contact flirting tips to make a girl like you]

#8 Find a way to get to know her. As long as you’ve created a perfect first impression on her, she wouldn’t mind exchanging a few glances with you. Look at her now and then, and watch how she behaves. Is she reciprocating your moves? Once you see that she’s responding to your attention, read how to tell if a girl likes you to learn different moves to approach a girl depending on how she behaves around you.

How to get a girl’s attention when you know her already

If you already know the girl you like and want to get her attention, here are four tips you can use to get her attention and make her fall for you.

#1 Compliment her. Good compliments are the way to a girl’s heart. Girls never forget a genuine and appreciative compliment. If you want a girl to think of you, tell her something nice but lace it with a sexual remark. [Read: How to compliment a girl you like]

#2 Be chivalrous around her. Behave like a real man around her. Be dependable and make her feel protected around you. When a girl feels safe around you, she’ll love spending time with you. Just a word of caution, don’t get into her friend zone by accepting all her demands or behaving like a doormat around her. Always respect yourself. [Read: The art of modern chivalry]

#3 Make her laugh. Build your sense of humor by having a cheerful approach towards life. You don’t have to behave like a clown though. Just be yourself and bring humor out of circumstances around you. [Read: How to date a girl by making her laugh]

#4 Make her like you without asking her out. If the vibes are right, don’t ask her out or propose your love for her just yet. When you ask a girl to go out with you, you’re putting her in a spot. And once you pop the question, there is no turning back. If she’s not ready to date you for some reason, she may even end up avoiding you or feeling awkward around you. Instead, focus on making her fall in love with you first. [Read: How to tell a girl you love her without losing her]

Once you understand what really matters when it comes to making a great impression, knowing how to get a girl’s attention wherever you are will come naturally, just as long as you remember these tips.

Want to seduce a girl with words? Use these 20 dirty questions to ask a girl over text and you can make her do all the sexy, dirty talking for you! By Gerry Sanders

Girls play hard to get almost all the time.

It’s a good thing though, or you wouldn’t really think she’s worth the effort.

[Read: Why do girls want a guy to chase them?]

But sometimes, it’s easier to turn on a girl than date her.

When it comes to dating a girl, she’d instinctively know you’re hitting on her.

If you discreetly warm her up to your flirty touches, you’ll see that seducing a girl can be rather easy if she thinks you’re a great guy.

[Read: How to get a girl to have sex with you in 10 steps]

If you know how to be discreet, you can make a girl fall for you or even turn her on in just a few conversations.

But here, we’ll get to seducing a girl with just 20 simple questions, preferably via texts.

Dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet

It’s easy to ask these 20 questions when you’re sitting with her, but if she feels uncomfortable or believes you’re trying too hard or going too fast, you may end up blowing your chances. And you’ll have a hard time making her like you again.

On the other hand, by texting a few sexy questions to a girl, you can always make it seem like a joke if she doesn’t warm up to you.

It’s easy, safe and a foolproof way to turn a girl on from a distance.

Use these questions, and if you charm the girl the right way, you could charm the pants off her and make out with her by the time you reach the twentieth question! [Read: How to charm a girl the right way]

The right questions to ask a girl

Just use these questions and keep the conversation going by answering any other questions she may ask. It’ll all work out in your favor if you play it carefully and stick to these 20 questions all along the way.

And the best part, it’ll work wonders if she’s your girlfriend or even if she’s a flirty girl you have a crush on. Ask her these questions late at night for best results!

#1 Are you alone? This question is perfect to understand if she’s idle and all alone at home. You obviously can’t flirt or talk sex if her friends are around her. Say something bold like “I wish I could be there with you” when she reciprocates with an affirmative.

#2 What are you doing right now? Play it nice and slow. This can help you be certain that she’s alone and bored enough to give you her complete attention.

#3 Do you like cuddling when you lie in bed? Warm her up to a flirty conversation without overstepping the line. This can help open her up by talking about cuddling with someone else. [Read: How to tell a girl you love her without losing her]

#4 What do you wear when you go to bed? / What are you wearing? A curious question that’s perfect to ask a girl when she’s in bed already. It’s personal, and yet not too sexual. Say something like “Gosh, I can only imagine how cute you look right now” when she describes herself.

If it’s your girlfriend, ask her what’s she’s wearing and if she doesn’t mention her lingerie *which she may not without a bit of coaxing*, ask about her lingerie and also the color. A perfect start.

#5 What do you think you look sexiest in? Get her to talk sexual by talking about her sexy clothing. It’s flattering and definitely sexual. [Read: Clothes that look sexy in bed]

#6 Have you ever watched someone else make out accidentally or on purpose? This question gets both of you in the mood. And yet, by directing it at a third person, you can avoid any uncomfortable situation at the start.

#7 Has a guy even touched you or discreetly groped you while clubbing or in a crowded place? Girls have a thing about sexual groping. Even if it’s accidental, it’s something they just don’t forget. You can answer something like “I wish I could have been that guy!” after she tells you about an incident. [Read: Tips to touch a girl discreetly and arouse her]

#8 Have you ever made out with a guy just because you were horny at that time? Find out if she’s a girl who can be coaxed into having sex with a guy in the heat of the moment.

#9 If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, which part of a guy’s body *below his shoulders* would you see first? Time to get naughty. Really, how many things can a girl take a look at below a guy’s shoulders? Let her answer the question so you always make it seem like she’s the one talking dirty and not you.

#10 Do you like boxers or briefs? This is a clichéd question and even if a girl doesn’t care about it, she’d most probably say that she likes a boxer. Answer this question by telling her what you’re wearing. The whole focus here is to get her to think of your package without really making it obvious. [Read: Do girls like boxers or briefs?]

#11 What’s your secret move to turn a guy on? By asking her to visualize making out with a guy and describe it to you, you’re making her fantasize about sex. And at the same time, she may go into details just to prove how good she is sexually.

#12 If there’s one place a guy should touch you to make you horny, which is that? This goes straight to sex and arousal. And if she does answer this truthfully, in all probability, she’s already aroused. [Read: How to arouse a girl and make her want to kiss you]

#13 Does a massage make you wet? A full body massage makes almost all girls wet. You can always tell her something like “Just so you know, I came first in my masseuse class and I would love to give you a massage. And don’t worry, now that I know you get horny while getting a massage, I’ll linger in all the right places.”

#14 If I kissed your lips accidentally while kissing goodbye, would you mind it? Make her imagine your kiss. It’s a perfect question to get her to pucker up. [Read: 6 ways to kiss a friend accidentally]

#15 Do you like giving an oral or getting one? No matter what she answers, you can always answer with the opposite of what she says. If she likes giving an oral, say you like getting it. If she likes getting it, tell her you love giving it!

#16 How do you think my body would look better, shaved or natural? Isn’t it a nice thought to know that the girl you like is picturing you naked the minute you ask her this question?

#17 What should a guy do to make you wet? Get straight to the sweet spot. And when she does answer this question, talk about question #12 again and get descriptive about her pleasure spots. [Read: What turns a girl on about a guy?]

#18 If I were whispering all these questions in your ear, would you be turned on? If you’ve got the conversation going this far, she’s obviously wet already. But it always sounds a lot better hearing it from the girl you’re texting.

#19 If you didn’t have a boyfriend, do you think we would have made out with each other? / If I were with you right now, do you think we would have kissed each other? This question can actually get you into her bed, but you need to wait for the last question to get an invitation from her. [Read: 10 biggest dating turn offs for women]

#20 If a guy wants to come over to your place and make out with you right now, would you like that? Don’t talk about yourself just yet, unless you already know she wants you to come over. If she answers “yes”, go full speed ahead to her place. Otherwise, play the seduction game for a few more minutes before telling her you want to come to her place right that instant.

[Read: How to hook up with a girl and make out with her]

Just use these 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and you definitely would make her wet. And if you’re charming and lucky, you could also get into her bed!

Want to know the real difference that girls see in a sexy guy and a bore? Find out what turns a girl on sexually and otherwise with these 25 tips. By Jessica Dawson

Most guys think they’re great guys.

And somewhere along the way, they start to date girls.

Along the way, they find themselves losing the best girls to another guy.

[Read: How to steal a guy's girlfriend]

Or a great girl walks out of the relationship, simply because the guy wasn’t good enough.

Now most guys are not losers.

But they fail when it comes to understanding what turns a woman on and what keeps them buzzed.

If you want to impress a girl and turn on her interest in you whether it’s your first conversation or the tenth, there are a few things you should know and follow.

What turns a girl on more than anything else?

If you want to know what turns a girl on, you need to understand these 25 tips and use them in your daily life.

You may think you have it all already, or some traits may seem like a lot of effort.

But these are the traits that can make the real difference in your life when it comes to making any girl you want desire you back.

[Read: Top 10 biggest dating turn offs for girls]

Read these 15 traits that girls like at first sight when they see a guy, and the 10 traits that count when you’re in bed with the woman of your dreams, and you’ll know what it takes to turn any girl on with your behavior and your class act in bed.

15 things that turn a girl on about a guy

When you’re introduced to a girl or when you walk past her on the streets, you have to remember that she’ll judge you and build an opinion about you within the first few seconds.

Want to turn her on and make her fall for you immediately? Use these 15 suggestions.

#1 Dress really well. Dress like a million bucks. Improve your wardrobe and dress in clothing that enhance your assets. Girls are immediately attracted to a guy who looks good in the clothes he wears. [Read: What girls always notice in a guy on a date]

#2 Your confidence. Confidence is a huge turn on for any girl. Not cockiness, but confidence. Don’t be nervous or reveal your awkwardness when you’re around a girl and she’ll love your company.

#3 A guy who can pursue her and make her feel special. This is rather important. Girls love to be pursued and wooed by a man. Giving her a good chase when she teases you is the best way to let her know how much you want her and appreciate her. [Read: Why should guys chase a girl to impress her?]

#4 A man she’s proud to be with. Are you proud of yourself and your achievements? If you are, there’s a good chance that the girl you like will like you back too. A great girl wants to be with man who feels like an achiever because that’ll set this guy apart from the rest.

#5 A man who’s in control of his life. Are you certain about the goals in your life? Do you have a well settled job and a balanced life? Women like being in the arms of a man who’s in control of his life and his finances.

#6 Your ego matters. While an unnecessary outburst of your egoistic self can be a huge turn off, girls still appreciate a man who respects himself. Avoid getting tossed around by other men, even if they’re your friends.

#7 Your sweet and caring side. Girls love a masculine man who’s got a soft side in him. As macho as you may seem all the time, reveal a soft and comforting side to a girl when she’s trying to warm up to you. [Read: How to think like a woman and get any girl to like you]

#8 The alpha male. All girls are drawn to an alpha male. He’s the leader of the pack and a guy who’s always in control of the situation. If you want the best girl in a group of girls, you have to be the best guy around too, don’t you think?

#9 Your passion for life. Are you driven and motivated to achieve your dreams? Or are you a carefree guy who lives for the day? As much as girls may like a whimsical guy, they still prefer a guy who’s got passion and dreams burning in his eyes.

#10 Wit and charm. Be a cheerful guy who knows how to be smart at the right time. You don’t need to be a clown to be witty, you just need to be sharp and clever. [Read: How to date a girl by being a funny guy]

#11 Pay attention to her and her needs. A girl would want to be with a guy who can make her feel special and loved. Pay attention to a girl’s needs when she’s with you, and she’ll warm up to you faster than you think.

#12 A chivalrous man. Behave like a knight in shining armor and treat her like a princess when you’re with a girl you like. Learning the art of chivalry alone can take you deep into a girl’s heart. [Read: How to be chivalrous with a girl]

#13 A man she feels safe with. Be protective of a girl when she’s with you. It doesn’t matter if she’s your girlfriend or just a friend. Always focus on the girl’s safety and wants before you worry about your own.

#14 A man with wealth. Not many girls would accept this, but let’s face it. A bit of money can make a huge difference in the way you can pamper a girl. [Read: How to be successful in life]

#15 Don’t be a pushover. Don’t ever let anyone take you for granted, not even the girl you like. Demand the respect that you deserve from your family and your colleagues. Don’t let anyone make you feel less like a man, and avoid any friends who take pleasure in having a laugh at your expense. It’ll only hurt your ego and your self esteem.

[Read: Tips to hook up with a girl and make out with her]

What turns a girl on sexually about a guy?

When it comes to bedroom games, there are a few things that matter more to women than these ten tips. Want to know what turns a girl on in bed more than anything else? [Read: 10 tips to increase your sex appeal]

#1 A sex god. Work out and look good naked. It’s the easiest way to arouse any girl and turn her on. Get yourself a six pack and a body to die for, and you’ll have your work in bed cut out for you.

#2 A guy who knows to use his tongue. Most guys want a good blowjob but aren’t really interested in reciprocating the favor. Learn to work your tongue around her pleasure spots and you’ll make her moan louder. [Read: How to sound sexy in bed]

#3 A guy who can take his time. Don’t rush into the act of penetration. For a guy, it’s all about driving the car into the garage. But women love a long drive first. Take your time and penetrate her only when she can’t wait any longer.

#4 A guy who isn’t selfish. Don’t finish yourself off first. If you feel like you can’t hold on, warn her a few minutes ahead so she can climax with you.

#5 A guy who’s knowledgeable. Sex is an art that needs constant exploring. No one ever knows enough, and what works for one person may not work for someone else. Be aware of what girls like in bed and the unique things you can do to please them. [Read: Top 50 kinky ideas to try in bed]

#6 A guy who smells manly. Focus on your hygiene before you get into the sack with a girl. Have a shower if you’ve had a long day and use a good cologne that enhances the manly natural fragrances of your body.

#7 A guy who knows how to touch her. Caress her and linger on her sensitive spots. Stroke a girl gently with delicate touches and let your hands wander all over her before reaching out to the more prominent places. She’ll love the sensation.

#8 A man who can dominate her. Men like being in control in bed, and women don’t mind that as long as you allow her to hold the reins when she feels like it. But when you’re making love, don’t always play it safe and easy. Sometimes, a decent bit of pain can arouse the sexual sensation a lot more for both of you. Hold her hair, pull her close, bite her and take her hard. She’ll definitely like it.

#9 A man who keeps sex interesting and exciting. Learn a few new tricks in bed and be prepared to try it. You don’t always need to start and end sex in bed. Get innovative and unique and she’ll love you for it. [Read: 7 sexiest places to have sex]

#10 A guy who’s desired by other girls. If a few girls find you sexy and desirable, you can bet that many other girls will follow their lead too. Please a girl with your personality and your charm, and perhaps even in bed, and other girls will fight for your attention. [Read: How to get any girl to have sex with you]

To be a great guy who can turn on any girl no matter where he is, in bed or on the streets, just follow these tips on what turns a girl on and you’ll definitely leave an impression on her and make her desire you in no time.

Did a girl like you for a while before she started to ignore you? Find out how to get a girl to like you again by playing your cards right this time. By Brian Carl

Have you been exchanging glances with a girl who seems to be interested in you?

Life can seem perfect when the girl you have a crush on likes you back.

And it can feel even better when you start talking to her and see that she likes you back.

[Read: How to get a girl to like you and your personality]

But what do you do if she starts ignoring you for no apparent reason?

Or worse, what would you do if she tells you that she doesn’t like you back and never will?

Well, I’ve been there.

How to get a girl to like you again

Before we go into details, let me share an experience of mine so you know you’re not alone.

Not too long ago, I was crazy about a girl who worked with me in the same workplace.

I didn’t know her yet, but she used to catch me staring at her now and then.

Eventually, I managed to strike a conversation by becoming her friend and things were just perfect.

[Read: How to make a girl like you by being her friend]

She always knew I liked her. And she knew I loved talking to her for hours, especially when we both had some time to spare in between work. She liked talking to me too.

Soon, we were both going out for dinners and movies, and we used to feel an electric chemistry between us.

I made it rather obvious that I liked her. And each time I asked her out, she would laugh about it or slap me playfully on my cheek. It all seemed so perfect. She was playing hard to get and I loved the chase. [Read: Why do women like being chased?]

The weeks turned into months and we got closer with each other. We used to talk late into the night, and occasionally I was even able to sneak in a few kisses and cuddles after a romantic date with a bit of persuasion. [Read: How to get a girl to kiss you by arousing her the right way]

She even told me she loved me back a few times. But she never accepted my proposal to date each other. Weird, right?

One fine day, all of a sudden, things just changed. Just like that, she seemed too busy to meet me or hang out with me. She would snap at me now and then, and eventually, one eventful day, when I asked her to start dating me, she rudely told me that she could never love me back and has only ever looked at me as a friend, and nothing more. And to beat that, she asked me to stop harassing her all the time. [Read: Why are women so fickle in love?]

Well, I was heartbroken. But more than that, I was confused. I thought it was all going so well.

I thought she loved me. She did say so herself many times.

What matters here is the fact that I had to accept defeat. I knew I had lost her. She didn’t want me. It was all over as abruptly as it all began.

How to turn things around in your favor

I’m sure you’ve been there too.

And if you’re wondering how to get a girl to like you again after she’s snubbed you, well, there’s still hope if you want to take that chance.

Here are ten things you can do to get the girl to like you again. As long as you play it safe and slow, it’ll almost always work in your favor. I know it worked for me!

#1 What went wrong the first time. Understand where you went wrong the first time around. Almost always, you may have suffocated her with your love or made yourself seem too easy to get for her. There’s a thin line between pleasing the one you love and behaving like her servant. Don’t cross that line and lose any self respect you may have. [Read: 15 things women look for in a man to fall for him]

#2 Give her space. Okay, so she’s chosen to give you up. It sucks, but almost all the time, it’s because she doesn’t value you or think you deserve her respect. So stay away from her for your own good. Give her space, even ignore her for a few months so her respect for you can build up. If you pursue her now, she’ll treat you like a stray dog. [Read: 10 biggest dating turn offs for women]

#3 Impress her from a distance. Be a great guy. Let her realize what she’s missing out on. Don’t behave like you’re depressed or broken hearted. She’s not in love with you to feel sorry for you. She’ll only think you’re weak. Instead, have fun. Be the cynosure of your workplace and enjoy yourself. You’ll make her secretly want your attention and company again.

#4 Let her know you’re still interested discreetly. She knows you like her a lot, and that’s the only reason she feels so confident to throw you around. She may like you too, but she may be forced to treat you badly to get the message across that she doesn’t want to date you. So make it appear like you’re not interested in her. Look at her now and then, but look away just as she looks at you. Be very subtle and never be obvious while doing this. Make her wonder if you’re still interested in her, and never let her know for certain that you’re stealing stares. [Read: 10 subtle eye contact flirting moves]

#5 Be proud and have an ego. Don’t ever ask her out again after that conversation when she snapped at you. Don’t write sentimental love letters or emails asking for forgiveness. She’ll only take you more lightly. Respect yourself and keep your distance. Talk to her if you must on a friendly basis, but keep the conversation short and always make her want more.

#6 Don’t be sweet with her. Make her miss that guy who used to flirt with her and sweet talk her. She threw you out, so make her regret that decision. Don’t behave rudely with her, instead speak pleasantly but never flirt even if she tries to flirt with you. Remember, your objective is to make it appear like you’re completely over her so she can regret her decision.

#7 Make her miss you and want you. Eventually, both of you may get along on friendly terms. But avoid spending too much time with her. Even if you’re having a great conversation with her, excuse yourself and walk away like you’re busy. Unless she likes you again, she shouldn’t be getting the privileges of your past behavior. [Read: How to think like a woman and get the girl]

#8 Make her jealous. But don’t make it obvious. Flirt with other girls or give them a lot of attention. Even if she tries to resist, she can’t help but get annoyed with you for ignoring her. The more you ignore her, the more she’ll want your attention. Even if she flirts with other guys, don’t let it bother you. It’s her way of trying to hurt you.

#9 Is she warming up to you? Do you ever catch her staring at you? Does she seem to take an interest in you? You can’t really make a move on her unless she’s getting attracted to you. Or all these earlier steps would be worthless. Try to find out if she’s interested in you again through her behavior. If you’ve played the earlier moves right, you may see that she’d try to get closer to you or have longer conversations with you. [Read: How to compliment a girl and warm her up]

#10 Ask her out again. If you’re convinced that she may like you back, or if you feel like she’s warmed up to you after a while, see if you can get some alone time with her. Don’t cold shoulder her anymore, instead flirt with her and see if she reciprocates. At a happy moment, cross your fingers and casually ask her if she would like to go out with you after work.

If you’ve played these ten moves right, there’s a good chance she could desire you again. It’s a risky move, but it’s the best way to get a girl to like you again.

[Read: The right way to tell a girl you love her without losing her]

If you’re trying to figure out how to get a girl to like you again, this is ideally the best approach. Try it, it’s safe and you can always back away if you feel like she’s not warming up to you. And if it does work, well, I told you so!

Want to know how to hook up with a girl, be it a friend or a girl you just met? Use these tips to recognize the right girl and do the right thing. By Keith Brown

Firstly, what is a hook up?

Many people have many definitions for a hook up.

A hook up is any form of sexual interaction with another person with the sole intent of getting sexual without the obligation of a romantic relationship.

[Read: 7 sexiest types of sex ever!]

Generally, a hook up can mean many things.

To a few people, it’s a little kiss while to a few others, it’s indulging in sex or having a one night stand.

And to the rest of them, it could mean anything in between these two sexual boundaries.

How to hook up with a girl

If you want to know how to hook up with a girl, firstly you need to understand how to eliminate the sexual barrier between the both of you.

You could get sexually attracted to a friend or even a hot minx sashaying on the dance floor.

When it comes to a hook up, it’s all the same thing because all that matters here is a great excuse and a reciprocating girl who’s just as interested in making out as you are.

[Read: How to make any girl want to kiss you by arousing her]

We’ll get to ways to get a girl to hook up with you in a bit. First, you have to recognize a girl who can be a potential hook up.

HOW TO RECOGNIZE A GIRL WHO WANTS TO HOOK UP

#1 She’s sexually liberated and lets you know it. Ever met a girl who seems extremely eager to let you know that she’s on contraceptives or about how flexible she is? If you find yourself in the company of a girl who likes to show off her fascination for free love, there’s a good chance of having a hook up in an hour or so.

#2 She’s touchy feely and it doesn’t look cute. If a girl touches you a lot, and it’s a lot more lingering and forceful than just a friendly pat. [Read: The art of flirting by touch]

#3 She laughs and flirts a lot. And again, it doesn’t look cute. Instead, it just looks animalistic and sexual. Even her sexy laugh gives you an erection.

#4 She flashes skin at you. If the girl you want to hook up with finds an excuse to flash skin at you or tries to get your attention on her body parts, there’s a good chance she’s interested in a fling thing with you. [Read: 10 things girls do to seduce a man who isn't theirs]

#5 She doesn’t really play hard to get. Instead, she pounces on you or pretends like she’s drunk and gropes you. She doesn’t want your love, boy, she just wants you. If she does want to date you, she’d try to make you pursue her.

#6 She reciprocates your moves. If a girl is interested in a hook up with you, she’d reciprocate your sexual advances with her own sexual moves.

Now that you know the clear signs of a girl who’s interested in hooking up with you, keep your eyes peeled and watch out for the right girl to hook up with.

HOW TO HOOK UP WITH A GIRL IN DIFFERENT CIRCUMSTANCES

Once you know how to recognize a girl who enjoys her sexual liberation, all you need to do is find different circumstances and excuses to get her to hook up with you. Here are a few great ways to hook up with a girl given the circumstances.

#1 Scan your friends. Look for friends who seem to have an active sex life. If a friend talks about her one night stands and sexual exploits freely with everyone, she may be perfect for a hook up via the sex buddy move. [Read: How to have sex with a friend by becoming her f**k buddy]

#2 Make eye contact. Eye contact can help you get the right message across to a girl, be it in office or at a club. Look a girl who seems interested up and down during a conversation. It tells her straight out that you’re interested in sex and her body. [Read: 10 eye contact flirting moves]

#3 Initiate phone sex. Call an interested friend often, preferably late at night. Talk to her for a while about a recent sexual escapade of yours. Warm her up to make her open up with her own confessions. And before you know it, both of you will be planning a whole new sexual escapade.

#4 Lead a friend into temptation via texting. Just like phone sex, sex texts can do the same magic, although it’s a lot safer and slower than straight out phone sex. [Read: How to sex text a friend]

#5 Get drunk with friends. If you want to hook up with a girl who’s a friend, get drunk or pretend like you’re drunk when you’re having a stayover with friends and throw yourself at the girl you’ve been attracted to. Chances are, you’ll wake up in bed together.

#6 Go on a vacation with a few sexy friends. There’s a big chance of a hook up, especially if you’ll be spending a lot of time fooling around with this girl. [Read: How to convince a girl to skinny dip with you]

#7 A few sexy flashes. Discreetly flash to the girl you’re attracted to. If she’s sexually attracted to you, there’s a good chance of turning it into a hook up over a few flashes. [Read: Sexy flashing confessions]

#8 Talk sex now and then. Sometimes, the easiest way to let a girl know you’re only interested in the sex is to just be clear about it. Subtly, of course. Talk about your interest in girls with her and let her know that you’re not interested in relationships right now, but casual sex only.

#9 Just kiss her. Kiss this girl accidentally, and talk about it at night. And tell her you liked it, even though it was just an accident. Chances are, she may have liked it too. [Read: How to kiss a friend accidentally]

#10 Sexual truth or dare. Truth or dare is a great game to indulge in a lot of naughty things. All you need is a few friends, a few drinks and a lot of dirty questions to hook up with a girl you like.

#11 Send a nude picture. And say it was an accident and was meant for some other girl. You have to remember that a girl will like these pictures only if she’s already sexually attracted to you. Otherwise, you’ll be a joke!

#12 Compliment her sexually. Flirt with her and compliment her, but always border your compliments on how sexy she looks or how good she must be in bed. [Read: How to compliment a girl]

THINGS TO REMEMBER WHILE HOOKING UP WITH A GIRL

As sexy as hooking up with a girl can seem, it’s still something that comes with its own share of worries. Keep these things in mind the next time you want to try hooking up with a girl.

# If it’s a girl you just met, it’s alright to make a first move. After all, you have nothing to lose. If she doesn’t like your direct move, she’ll just blow you off or decline your advances. No big deal, there’s a lot of fish in the sea.

# If it’s a good friend, don’t push it. Be discreet and always make it look like the hook up was mutual at best. It’s even better if you can make it seem like she made the first move to make out with you. Both of you can talk about it and forget all about it the next morning, instead of losing a good friendship.

# Don’t ever force your way into making out with a girl. If the vibes aren’t reciprocated, don’t bother going ahead with it. Respect the girl and understand that she’s entitled to her wishes and you can’t really convince her to hook up with you unless she’s interested in hooking up with you.

[Read: How to make out with a girl and make her love it]

Now keep these tips on how to hook up with a girl in mind when you make a move. It’ll make it easier to find the right girl, hook up with her and feel great the next morning!

Do you think you have what it takes to impress any woman? So what do women look for in a man more than anything else? Read these 15 tips to know more. By Kirsten Cole

Ever wondered what women look for in a man?

You may think you have it all.

But if you’re still not getting the girl you want, you’re bound to wonder what you’re doing wrong and other lucky men are doing right.

Just like there are a few things about a girl that attracts you, girls too have their own wish list in a guy they meet.

[Poll: What guys find most attractive in a girl]

If you’re single and waiting for the woman of your dreams, here are a few things that can help you attract her effortlessly.

What do women look for in a man?

Men have their own sexual preferences in women.

[Read: 20 things about women that sexually excite a guy]

Likewise, women too have their own preferences when it comes to appearances.

But for everything else, there are just 15 things that separate a great guy from the mere mortals.

Understand these 15 tips and you can become a better man.

You’ll notice the difference as soon as you use these tips on what women look for in a man.

[Read: 10 biggest dating turn offs for women]

#1 Good grooming. Dress well and look good no matter where you are. You never know when you’d bump into the woman of your dreams. It’s a simple tip, but something almost all guys never focus on. Groom yourself well with quality man products and complex perfumes that smells great on you.

#2 Be assertive in your behavior. Women love a man who’s not fickle minded. Have an ego and believe in yourself and your decisions. As hard as this may seem, be the man who can put someone else in place when they overstep the line or misbehave with you.

#3 Charming personality. A charming personality is everything, but yet it’s not something most men have. In fact, meeting a man who knows to charm a girl is a hard task for any woman. Improve your body language around women and learn your manners around them. [Read: Tips to charm any girl]

#4 A good physique. Go build those biceps and those deltoids in your shoulders. When you work out, you look healthier and radiant, and clothes look oh-so-sexy on you. If you want to attract a girl at first sight, you have to remember that appearances do matter. A lot.

#5 Have a good sense of humor. It takes less than a minute for a girl to know if a guy has a good sense of humor while having a conversation with him. And that’s all you need to impress a girl.

All girls know that a guy with a great sense of humor can be a lot of fun over dates or phone calls. Have a light hearted and fun approach towards life and try to look at the bright side all the time. You’ll draw women to you like moths to a flame. [Read: How to use your sense of humor to date a girl]

#6 A man who’s not a pushover. A guy who’s a pushover is one of the worst kinds of men in the hierarchy of dating. A pushover is a guy who prefers to accept defeat just to avoid conflict with someone who’s dominating him. Don’t ever be taken for granted by anyone, be it your own friends or a colleague. Have a spine and principles in life. If you feel you’re being wronged, learn to voice your opinion instead of being implosive.

#7 A good job and a nice salary. Well, now we’re getting shallow. But it’s better to face the truth than pretend like money doesn’t matter. Of course it does! You like a sexy woman over an unattractive women. Women like a rich guy over a church mouse. Be rich and drive a great car and you’ll have a huge advantage already. Just a word though, it’s just an advantage, but it’s not enough.

#8 A man who’s respected by others. Women like to be respected by the man they like, but they also like being with a guy who’s respected by others. If someone doesn’t respect you, is it your own fault? If it is, try to get better. If it isn’t your own fault, walk away from them. Or stand up and claim the respect you deserve from them.

It all comes down to this, if you genuinely respect yourself and have an ego, would you ever allow someone to throw you around for no fault of yours? Stand up and be a man. [Read: 20 signs of attraction in the first conversation]

#9 A confident man. Confidence is a great trait to have for any man. It’s an inner strength that’s seen and envied by anyone you meet. A confident man is more attractive to women because he believes in himself and his abilities, and he doesn’t tuck tail and run when he knows he’s right.

#10 A man who looks good. Good looks always make things easier when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. But when it comes to a man, thankfully for average looking men, there’s more than just a face carved by the gods that matters. Look your best, dress well and maintain a good posture. A straight back with an air of confidence can definitely impress the girl you like. Have a happy, cheerful face and a genuinely happy smile and you’ll do wonders.

#11 A good conversationalist. Just like a good sense of humor, knowing how to speak to a woman is a trait that all women look for in a man. Be pleasant, speak smoothly in a low tone and show genuine interest in the woman while speaking to her. Create conversations around her and make her have a nice time with you. [Read: How to talk to a girl and impress her]

#12 Respectful behavior. Be respectful towards others when they deserve your respect. All good natured women like a well mannered and kind man who doesn’t treat others badly just because he can. Don’t be rude to waiters or your subordinates unless you have a reason to. Treat everyone with respect and you’ll be treated with respect.

Women see kind men as good fathers, and it’s a trait that women instinctively like. Have good etiquette and treat women chivalrously, and you’ll notice them warming up to you almost instantly. [Read: How to be chivalrous with a woman]

#13 An alpha male. The best women are always in the arms of the best men. No woman would want to date another guy’s man friday if she’s desired by all men. If your friends don’t respect you, find new friends. You may have noticed this already, but there are always just one or two guys in a big group of guys who date the sexiest women while other guys sit wide eyed and hear their success stories in awe. They’re the alpha male. Be that guy.

#14 Make her feel comfortable in her skin. Women like a man who makes them feel at ease within the first few minutes of a conversation. Be the guy who can take away the air of nervousness in a first conversation while talking to a woman and she’ll like you for it. Indulge in a pleasant conversation and ensure that she feels involved and excited to talk to you. [Read: How to compliment a girl and make her like you]

#15 A compatible personality. Here’s a downer that you have to accept when it comes to understanding what women look for in a man. You may be a great guy, but at times both of you may just be way too incompatible for each other. She may like you, but she may not be willing to date you for her own reasons of compatibility. [Read: How to think like a woman and get the girl]

If you want to avoid this, be pleasant and genuine, and most of all, focus on her interests and learn about her likes and dislikes while talking to her so you know the right things to say at the right time. If she feels compatible with you and your personality, and thinks you’ll get along with her friends and family, she’ll definitely like you.

[Read: 10 things women want in a man to get serious with him]

So what do women look for in a man? There may be many things, but these 15 biggest things women look for are all you need to make a happy impression that’ll make her fall for you in no time.

A great first date can make all the difference. Find out what to do on a date to make sure you have a perfect first date and impress your date too. By Colin Andrews

Most of us don’t spend too much time thinking about the first date.

After all, you just talk and hardly ever do anything more than that.

But have you ever thought about this?

That very first date will decide the potential fate of the relationship and the rest of your life!

Perhaps I’m being dramatic but in almost all cases, it’s the first date that tests both your compatibilities.

[Read: What girls always notice on a date]

What to do on a date to have a perfect one

If you’re wondering what to do on a first date, there are quite a few things to keep in mind to ensure that both of you have a memorable experience.

While the place you choose and the way you behave on the date might seem like the most important criteria, it’s still just a couple of many things that matter.

Here are 15 of the most important things to do on a date to ensure that you have a perfect first date.

#1 Places to go on a first date. The place you choose to go on a date has a lot of do with your age and also expectations out of the date.

Are you just trying to meet someone you may date for a while, or are you trying to find a lover? Read this poll on the best places to go on a date to make the perfect choice.

#2 Be a good date. Whether you’re the guy or the girl, try to show off your best side. Don’t embarrass your date by dressing badly or turning up late on a date. Behave well and learn to be a good date. [Read: How to be a good date all the time]

#3 Keep the date personal. If you want to know what to do on a date, stop thinking about what others think. Plan the date keeping both your interests in mind. Do both of you like a band that’s playing in your city, or would your date prefer trying a new cuisine, or would you prefer to play it safe and just go for coffee? Plan the date keeping both your intimacy levels and comfort in mind.

#4 Ask your date for suggestions. Involve your date. It’ll make her feel appreciated and more involved. You should understand that the girl would expect you to come up with all the plans. But to start with, ask your date for suggestions or places she’d be interested to go to. [Read: Tips to have a perfect movie date]

#5 Keep your date’s comfort in mind. While meeting each other at a club may seem like the perfect start to an amorous relationship, not all your dates would be too comfortable with that. The more comfortable and happy your date feels, the better the evening will be for both of you.

#6 Visualize the date beforehand. Most guys think they’ve planned the date perfectly. But if you spend a few minutes visualizing the whole date, you’d be able to see if you’ve actually planned something exciting during the entire evening.

#7 Revolve the date around her interests. This may be unfair to men, but it is a man’s chivalrous job to ensure that the woman has a great time during the date. Put your priorities aside and learn to think like a woman. [Read: How to think like a woman and impress the girl]

#8 Have plan B in place. Sometimes, a perfect date can go downhill if your plans don’t work out. If you want to have a perfect first date, keep a few options in mind just in case something goes wrong midway.

#9 Remember why you’re on a date. Always remember the focal point of a first date. You want to impress your date and make her like you. Otherwise, there’s no point going out on a date with a special someone. For every moment of the date, keep that in mind and avoid talking about anything that portrays you in bad light.

#10 Be charming. Have a pleasant conversation with your date and keep the happy conversation going. Talk about yourself and help your date know more about you without having to prod you for details. [Read: What to talk about on a first date]

#11 Test your compatibility. Sometimes, asking the right questions can make all the difference when it comes to knowing if you and your date will be compatible for the long haul. [Read: 5 perfect questions to ask on a date and test your compatibility]

#12 The rules of dating. Don’t be late on a date, and don’t ever stand your date up. If you’re the guy, behave like a gentleman and treat your date like a lady. If you’re the girl, be the damsel around your date and help him feel more like a man. It’s just a few of the most important dating rules you need to remember to have a perfect date. [Read: 12 dating rules to be a classy date]

#13 Create memories. A first date has to be memorable. You have to keep in mind that your date will definitely have a conversation about this date with her friends the next morning. The more special you make her feel that night, the more her friends will speak in your favor the next morning. Look for ways to create something memorable and happy during the date, and the date will tilt in your favor no matter what.

#14 Get some alone time at the end of the date. Getting some alone time to spend with each other after the date is the perfect way to evaluate the date and see if it has any potential of going forward. After the date, spend a while talking to each other, be it in the car or while taking a walk on a lonely street. If you’re lucky, a lot can happen right here. [Read: Easy tips to touch a girl sexually on a first date]

#15 End the date the right way. There are many things that you need to keep in mind to ensure that you know what to do on a date and end it the perfect way. Thank your date for a great time and make some plans for your next date if all goes well. [Read: When should a guy call after the first date?]

If you’re wondering what to do on a date, just keep these fifteen tips in mind while planning your next date. Get these tips right and you’ll definitely make a great impression in all the right spots.