You really don’t have to constantly bombard her with questions just to avoid any blank spaces in the conversation. Relax and feel comfortable. When you’re nervous, it shows. And that would only make her feel uneasy to be around you. [Read: The 10 biggest dating turn offs for all girls]
#7 Don’t put her in a spot. Sometimes it’s easy to get carried away in a conversation. Don’t do that. The one thing you need to remember is to never put the girl in a spot. Don’t make her feel uncomfortable or nervous with your questions.
Don’t ask her stupid questions like “you were staring back at me too, right?” “You look good in this dress, where did you pick it up?” and a lot more along those lines. They’re awkward and really dumb. Avoid looking down her shirt or staring at her below her neck. Indulging in any of these activities will only make her feel uncomfortable and awkward. And when that happens, she’d only want to walk away from you. [Read: 20 conversation tips to keep in mind while talking to a girl you want to impress]
#8 Be warm and likeable. A lot of guys get very excited when a girl reciprocates their moves and starts a conversation with them. Just because a girl wants to talk back to you doesn’t mean she’s easy to get. You still have to respect her and treat her like a lady. Have a conversation with her just like you would with a girl you were introduced to. Don’t smart talk or talk dirty. Well, unless she wants to! [Read: 13 lusty signs of sexual attraction a girl may give away!]
#9 Smile often and flirt. If you really want to know what to talk about with a girl, remember the one thing that matters more than anything else. Her comfort. As long as she’s comfortable and happy, she’d be happy to talk to you and spend time with you. So more than the words you choose, focus on how you can make her feel comfortable around you. [Read: How to use the art of flirty touches to make her melt]
One of the best ways to ease a girl and make her want to be with you is through humor. You really don’t have to learn a few one-liners and jokes for this. You just need to be a happy guy. A guy who smiles and has a great laugh makes for great company. [Read: How to make a girl laugh, smile and like you instantly]
#10 Don’t talk forever. In most cases, you’d meet a great girl at a meeting or a conference, or at other times in a café or a club. Unless both of you are specifically meeting up for a date, don’t try to hog the girl for the entire evening. Remember, she has her own obligations and commitments.
If you’re just going to talk on and on, there’s a good chance she’ll get quite annoyed with you and would just want to shut you up. One of the best ways to avoid this is to ask her if she has to go somewhere, and flatter her at the same time. Saying something like “I’d really love to stay here and talk with you for a while. Would that be alright with you?” Try it, you’ll see the difference. [Read: Perfect examples to compliment a girl and make her blush]
Even if she has to go somewhere else, this line will definitely lead to more phone conversations and sweet dates!
Now that you know what to talk about with a girl and how to continue a great conversation with her, remember these tips when you come across a beauty that catches your eye. After all, great conversations aren’t just about words!
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