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She Wants the D: 19 Signs She Wants You to Take Her Home

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You’ve been making eye contact with her all night, but is that enough? Before you chicken out, see if she wants the D – you might have a chance.

When you think about a woman wanting your “D,” most of the time you equate that to your dick. Makes sense, I mean, it’s not rocket science. However, the “D” stands for more than just that.

Let’s look at it metaphorically. What she wants isn’t necessarily your penis. I mean, it’s a bonus, but she wants your masculine energy, which is what is drawing her attention.

If she really just wanted only the “D” then you could basically stand with your pants down to your ankles and let the ladies admire what you have and decide if they want the “D” or not. But instead, you have to figure out if your masculine energy is something she’s interested in getting to know on an intimate level.

19 ways to know if she wants the D

Before you go chasing her around the club, you need to see if she’s interested in you. Women aren’t just about the physical, so even if she wants the D, you are going to have to work for it. But here are some telltale signs that she wants the D.

#1 She tells you. This is possibly the easiest and best thing that could ever happen. If she comes up to you and tells you she wants to go home, well, you don’t need to decode anything. She’s demystified everything right away. [Read: 12 obvious signs she wants you to ask her out]

#2 She asks you if you live alone. Yeah, she’s seeing if you have roommates or live at home with your mom. But why would she ask that? To see if it’s safe to go over to your place, silly – because she wants the D.

#3 She can’t look at you without smiling. If she’s constantly smiling around you, it’s a good sign that she’s feeling positive and enjoying herself. If she’s flirting with you and is all smiles, then most likely she wants the D.

#4 She suggests a place you two should go to. “We should totally try that new restaurant out.” Aww, she said “we.” That’s cute. It’s also a good sign that she’s interested in you. I mean, she wouldn’t say that unless she actually wanted to go out with you.

#5 She’s all about the physical contact. Is she stroking your arm? Touching your neck? Come on guys, people don’t touch people they don’t like. It’s called flirting, and she’s showing you she’s interested. So, try mimicking her movements and see her reaction. If she isn’t into it, then pull back. [Read: 15 body language cues a girl gives away if she likes you]

#6 She texts you at night. Women like their beauty sleep. However, if she’s texting you after midnight, she’s thinking of you in a different context. You know… a sexual context. However, don’t start sexting her. Let her open that topic up.

#7 She runs her hand through her hair. Women always flip their hair and play with it when they’re around a guy they like. They want to subconsciously expose their neck, and it also shows that they want the person they’re interested in to do the same to their hair. Humans are strange creatures.

#8 She notices the details. It’s all about the details. If she notices that your ears are pierced or that you cut your hair, that’s a good sign that she wants the D. She’s paying attention to the small things, and if she didn’t like you, she wouldn’t care. [Read: How to make a girl want you and think of you sexually]

#9 She doesn’t look at her phone. Nowadays, everyone is glued to their phone. However, if someone has their phone away and is completely into the conversation, then you know they’re interested. Unless, they keep going to the bathroom, you should know they’re texting, not going pee.

#10 She always looks her best around you. Women will put extra effort into looking good if they’re meeting with a guy they like. I never wear makeup. However, if I’m going on a date with a guy I like, I spend a couple extra minutes putting on lip gloss. [Read: How girls flirt – 15 signs she’s more than just being nice]

#11 The Triangle Gaze. This form of body language is a great way to nonverbally let her know you want to kiss her. If she doesn’t want you to kiss her, she won’t mirror you ,and she’ll probably walk away. Basically, after maintaining eye contact, you look down at her lips. She’ll look down at your lips and if you go in for it, she’ll either react positively or negatively. [Read: How to kiss a girl by subtle arousing her on a date]

#12 She’s laughing. Your jokes might actually be hilarious, or they could suck. But she’s pulling through. If she’s always laughing at your jokes, she’s interested in you. Does that mean she’ll sleep with you right away? No.

#13 She sneakily asks the girlfriend question. Ah, yes. This is a classic. I’ve used this hundreds of times. If she’s dropping some sort of, “Your girlfriend must love it!” type comment, it’s not because she cares. She wants to know your status to make sure you’re single and that she’s not wasting her time.

#14 She shares her food with you. I won’t share my food with people I don’t like. If I want to swap my saliva with you, you can have some of my food. I think it’s fair. [Read: 8 clues a girl gives if she wants you to make a move]

#15 She brings up sexual topics. Unless she’s a sex columnist, girls don’t usually bring up sexual topics unless they’re interested in seeing your opinion on the subject. And women won’t talk about sex with men that they’re not interested in, unless it’s with a male friend. So she wants the D.

#16 She compliments you. If she’s complimenting you on your hair or your cologne, she’s checking you out. I mean, if she wasn’t, she wouldn’t even notice these things. This doesn’t mean you have it in the bag, but it’s a good sign. [Read: 10 clear signs you should back off when pursuing a girl]

#17 She asks for your contact information. She wants to get to know you and possibly see you another time. Which is a great sign that she’s interested in you. What more can I say? It’s flattering when a woman asks you for your number. Doesn’t happen every day.

#18 She grabs the “D.” Well, if she literally grabs your junk and looks at you straight in the eye, I’m not sure what you’re still doing in the club. Of course, you have to confirm that this is what she wants. And if it’s consensual, then there’s no reason why you two shouldn’t get a taxi and head to your place.

#19 She kisses you. Now, this doesn’t mean that she’s going to sleep with you, but she’s testing the waters. The first kiss can either propel or eliminate the chances of you two hooking up. She’s kissing you, seeing how it is, and figuring out if she wants more. So, you better make it a good kiss.

[Read: 7 signs a girl gives away if she wants to sleep with you]

If she’s showing all these signs, there’s a good chance that she wants the “D.” However, after you look at the signs, you’re going to have to make sure that’s what she really wants. Always ask for consent.

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic
A serial dater, Natasha Ivanovic knows a thing or two about men and the dating scene. Much of her writing is inspired by her encounters with men - and for good ...
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