Comments on: Premature Ejaculation – Don’t Cry over Spilt Milk http://www.lovepanky.com/men/essentials-for-men/premature-ejaculation-dont-cry-over-spilt-milk Flirt. Tease. Fall in Love. Indulge in the finest reads on love, dating, self improvement, and a lot more. Sun, 03 May 2015 07:01:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.4 By: Jack http://www.lovepanky.com/men/essentials-for-men/premature-ejaculation-dont-cry-over-spilt-milk#comment-5503474 Fri, 06 Mar 2015 02:42:34 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=1414#comment-5503474 I have to say, the phrasing here is gynocentric and pathologizing (sorry for the college words) to the point of … being a bit offensive. You do not have a disorder or problem with you, inherently, if you cum fast. That’s your perfectly amoral, neutral state of being, and, in a responsible, mature relationship, the “problem” is that both people may not end up satisfied, and in an immature relationship, the “problem” is that of the slower cummer (of either gender) and their judgmental or egocentric attitude.

I’m here cause I want to work on this for the satisfaction of my partner. If I were less considerate, I’d consider my “problem” to be keeping people interested while I cum in them, but that’s a terribly selfish attitude. I see the slower-finishing/often female version of that poor attitude exemplified in the subtle allusions to a DSM-V entry in describing men who orgasm quickly. Watch that. You guys are obviously aware that self-esteem issues surround this subject; treating like it’s objectively a problem as opposed to subjectively is… not very responsible. I doubt there’s radfem-level malicious intent, hence my even bothering to comment out of respect for the intelligence and integrity of the writers… but these could be better written with thoughts like this perspective in mind.

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By: Jay http://www.lovepanky.com/men/essentials-for-men/premature-ejaculation-dont-cry-over-spilt-milk#comment-5499387 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 07:41:42 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=1414#comment-5499387 I think I speak for many men out there when I say that none of these gimmicks work, and that sex is stuck in a zero to 60 rut which just makes it completely unenjoyable. I actually dread the moment where a relationship advances to sex and have considered just staying single permanently as a result of PE.

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By: What do Men Like in Bed? - Lovepanky http://www.lovepanky.com/men/essentials-for-men/premature-ejaculation-dont-cry-over-spilt-milk#comment-77305 Fri, 02 Mar 2012 13:14:31 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=1414#comment-77305 […] But if it happens on a regular basis, you really have to tell him the truth even if his ego may crumble to dust. [Read: How to prevent premature ejaculation] […]

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By: Robin http://www.lovepanky.com/men/essentials-for-men/premature-ejaculation-dont-cry-over-spilt-milk#comment-49436 Wed, 16 Nov 2011 03:01:19 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=1414#comment-49436 I think the first step to dealing with ED is to stop focusing so much on having an orgasm.
If people had sex to enjoy each other without so much of an “eyes on the prize” mentality, the whole issue of ED wouln’t exist. One of my ex-boyfriends had some ED but we handled it by playing more and not caring about whether or not we had an orgasm. And ladies, playing with a guy’s testicles while ignoring his ‘man’ for a while might bring an erection real quick. It’s about not loosing your patience and bringing an attitude of play to the whole thing.

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By: The Sexual Role Play Guide for Beginners - Lovepanky http://www.lovepanky.com/men/essentials-for-men/premature-ejaculation-dont-cry-over-spilt-milk#comment-17815 Sat, 21 May 2011 13:01:30 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=1414#comment-17815 […] pressure of performance or any other reason, you may just not be able to hold on long enough [Read: How to prevent premature ejaculation]. Or if you’re a girl, you might find things a bit too painful because you’re just not […]

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By: The Best Ways to Prevent Premature Ejaculation | Lovepanky | Your Guide to Better Love, Sex and Relationships http://www.lovepanky.com/men/essentials-for-men/premature-ejaculation-dont-cry-over-spilt-milk#comment-189 Mon, 21 Jun 2010 19:27:04 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=1414#comment-189 […] Click here to read the introduction: Premature Ejaculation – Don’t Cry over Spilt Milk […]

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By: Why do we suffer from Premature Ejaculation? | Lovepanky | Your Guide to Better Love, Sex and Relationships http://www.lovepanky.com/men/essentials-for-men/premature-ejaculation-dont-cry-over-spilt-milk#comment-187 Mon, 21 Jun 2010 19:11:59 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=1414#comment-187 […] Click here to read the introduction: Premature Ejaculation – Don’t Cry over Spilt Milk […]

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