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It’s easy to make a girl like you if you understand these 15 tips on how to text a girl you like and text her the right way at the right time. By Keith Brown

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Ever wondered what you have to say to a girl to make her like you?

When it comes to impressing a girl, timing is everything.

Unlike guys, girls rely a lot on emotions and feelings to fall for a guy.

Guys fall for a girl at first glance as long as they find her attractive.

But for a girl to like a guy, her feelings definitely play a bigger part than her eyes.

[Read: How to make a girl like you without asking her out]

Sometimes, it’s easier to text a girl and get her to fall for you rather than wooing her on dates and impressing her with gifts.

As long as you create the perfect balance of emotional connection and infatuation, you can make any girl like you back with just a few well timed texts over a few days.

How to text a girl you like

If you want to learn the right way to text a girl, just use these 15 tips on how to text a girl you like and you’ll see how easy it really can be.

But remember to take your time and make your move only after watching her reciprocation.

#1 Night time is the best time to text a girl. If the girl you like is comfortable with texting late into the night, you’ve already got the edge you need. Start by texting her late in the evening and look for ways to keep the conversation going when she slips into her bed. There’s something so sexy and romantic about a quiet night that’ll only work in your favor. [Read: How to flirt with a girl by behaving like a friend]

#2 The right time to text a girl. Avoid texting her or calling her up when you know she’s occupied or busy with her friends. She needs to feel excited to read your text, not get bugged because you’re constantly interfering with her happy time.

#3 Pick a time to text her. Don’t text a girl you like all day long. If you know her routine, text her only when you know she’s free to text you back. Within a couple of days of texting her, you’d see that she’s warmer and indulges in longer text conversations at particular times of the day.

Once you figure the happy time to text this girl, text her every day during the same time. It’ll make her expect your texts and her anticipation for your texts everyday will make her like you more.

#4 First text tip. If you want to know how to text a girl for the first time, don’t think too much of it. Just keep it casual and simple. “Hey! Just thought I’d say hi!” is simple and just one of several ways to initiate a first text with a girl you like.

There’s never a wrong way to text a girl. It’s what you do after the first text that always matters. [Read: What do girls look for in a guy to fall for him?]

#5 Always start with a very short text. If you’ve been texting each other back and forth for a few days, you really don’t need to look for reasons to text her again, nor do you need long elaborate introductions.

Start with a warm and simple line that feels good to read. It leaves the conversation open and you’ll be able to know if she’s free to chat too. “Hi”, “Hey, what are you doing?” or even just a smiley face should work perfectly to start a conversation and bring a smile on her face. If she’s busy, she’ll tell you or respond when she has the time. There’s no way you can go wrong with that.

#6 Keep it short and simple. Try to keep the texts short if you want to keep the conversation going. Your focus is to get her to keep all her attention on you when she’s texting. And to do that, you need to keep the beeping texts going back and forth as soon as you can. Long texts can leave her bored when she’s waiting for you to respond. Or worse, she may occupy herself with the television or do something else that’ll leave her distracted while waiting for your text.

#7 Be interested in her and her daily life. Ask her about her day. Be interested in her life and let her know that you’re always interested in knowing more about her while texting each other. It’ll help her open up.

#8 Give her a pet name. Pet names are very personal and unique. If you want the relationship to take the next step, you need to create a personal bond between both of you. And the best way to do just that is by giving her a pet name. Personalize the relationship both of you share and it’ll bring both of you closer. [Read: How to choose a perfect and unique nickname]

#9 Don’t flirt all the time. Even if she knows you like her already, avoid flirting with her on every single instance. It’ll just bore her if all you do is flirt with her. Text about everyday activities and let her see that you’re interested in knowing more about her and her life.

#10 But flirt when you get the opportunity. Every now and then, you’d find the perfect opportunity to flirt with her. Wait for that moment and use it to tease her or pull her leg, especially when she makes a compliment about herself or talks about how good she is at doing something. A good excuse to challenge and flirt with her will always work in your favor.

#11 Get naughty now and then. But always be vague unless you already know what she wants to hear. You can play it safe or get naughty depending on the way she texts back.

You: “I wish I was with you right now”

She: “Yeah? Why?”

You: “For a lot of reasons I can’t say right now / You did say you’re in bed, right?”

#12 Use emoticons. Unless the girl you’re texting specifically says she hates emoticons, make sure you leave a few kisses and a smile when you’re texting her goodbye. Even if she makes a big deal of it, you can always joke about it and say it was a goodbye kiss on her cheek! [Read: How to make a girl want to kiss you by arousing her]

#13 Get dirty when you can. Border on dirty texts with her now and then, and watch how she responds. If she texts you and asks you what you’re doing, tell her that you were up to something naughty. Make her think of you in the nude or give her occasions to talk naughty. A good way to initiate a naughty conversation is by telling her that you just stepped out of the shower, or by telling her that you’re trying out a few new clothes you picked up last week at the mall. [Read: 20 dirty questions to text a girl and make her wet]

#14 Create personal memories. Always look for ways to create a bond between the both of you. Tell her about your favorite song, movie or place you like. Each time she comes across something you’ve talked about, give her a reason to think of you.

#15 Get mushy before saying goodbye. Compliment her appearance, her personality or say anything that makes her feel warm and fuzzy inside. But focus on these texts a few minutes before both of you say goodbye. If you want her to fall for you, she has to get sexually excited by you and then has to feel romantically attached to you. That’s the way love and infatuation works. [Read: Tips to subtly touch a girl and turn her on]

By flirting with her, you’d be able to arouse her. And by talking about how special she is or by complimenting her for her personality at the end of your texting conversation, you can make her feel romantic. It’s the perfect balance to make a girl like you while texting her. [Read: How to compliment a girl the right way]

Keep these 15 tips on how to text a girl you like in your mind while texting her. And you’ll see how easy it can be to woo a girl through a few late night texts and well timed lines.

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  • corpzy91
    September 12, 2012 | Permalink |

    Gah it doesn’t work on this girl, I did everything here, and I did it before even looking for this site, still she doesn’t seem that interested even tho we have a lot of things in common, both hobbies and personality. And I don’t think she is out of my league lol cuz she isn’t exactly megan fox…. she said she is too busy, and can only talk once a week from now on.. now I have to sit here just waiting…waiting…waiting… waiting.. and I dunno if she just said shes busy to get rid of me :)

    Anyway I guess this would work on any girl except this one, who is just out of this world hehe

  • Ary
    October 18, 2012 | Permalink |

    This definately works, especially the pet names. Don’t make it something sophisticated, but make it short and sweet, such as apple. Good luck guys!(:

  • Greggy997
    January 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    Awesome! Works on my gf!

  • PillzHere
    January 24, 2013 | Permalink |

    Corpsy I know just how you feel bro.. The girl I’m into is always busy cause she’s soo talented! ! !
    Mostly when I text her she only replies K or G2G..
    Try to find common things that you both like. For example: me and her play minecraft together, or TF2, though she’s better than me! Don’t give up bro

  • alvin
    February 6, 2013 | Permalink |

    There this girl that i like alot. She has a low self esteem and dont really like compliment. What can i do?

  • Lauren Schath
    February 15, 2013 | Permalink |

    I love this stuff it turns me on

  • Lauren Schath
    February 15, 2013 | Permalink |

    Ya me and and my girlfriend because we are lesbians it works great on her I do the sex texts all the time and she sends me videos!! I am suprised we haven’t broken the bed yet!!!! This website helped me a lot ! Don’t forget there is always sex things u can buy at stores like handcuffs or vibrates!!! Make sure your relationship in bed and general is always warm just like a dildo should be!!!!!

  • breanna
    March 30, 2013 | Permalink |

    Be careful with being dirty. Some girls don’t like that at all and may make her feel uncomfortable.

  • Panrocks
    April 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    I had crush on a classmate.
    Previously we were chating normally.
    after some days i used to send her sms. But no reply!!
    It happen so many times. and mostly we wont talk that much in collage!!
    What can be the move??

    help!!!! :)

  • Malik
    April 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    Don’t make the message too short… If you send a short message and she doesn’t reply for a while, text again with a question or compliment
    You: lol
    You: You’re pretty funny, I’m surprised your still single.

  • Mike
    April 27, 2013 | Permalink |

    Hey guys, im having trouble, a lot… So, there’s this girl, she’s older than me, just one year, but we are 15-16 so it looks weird, but still, she was my best friend when i was about 13, i started texting her again, and on school she usually looks at me and throws me kisses, hugs me every morning, so yeah, i text her, but its too hard, she’s too reserved, so i talked to her why she was like that with me, she told me “i don’t like texting too much, i preffer calls” , but everytime i call her she’s busy or with her friends… when i text her something funny or a fact, she answers with “jajaja”, I know alot about her and she knows a lot about me, but its hard to keep a conversation with her, i don’t know what to ask… Any help? Thanks!

  • Kevin
    April 30, 2013 | Permalink |

    Hey guys,something just crazy happen to me and dont know what should i do. I was dating this girl some weeks ago, and everything was just fine. But them one day i text her she took all day without no responding and them she text me back later in the same night. She told me that she was at one party and she meet this guy that she used to date before and they talk seems like the conversation was just nice and so they decide to try to date again but she didnt saw the guy for 8 months this is just wierd because you dont wanna go back to date someone you dont see for 8 months. but i really make her know that she made the wrong choice and wanna have her back what should i do? lol hELP HAHA

  • Caryn
    June 15, 2013 | Permalink |

    Terrible advice. Nothing bores me faster than another chump who can’t carry on a conversation. DON’T text me “hi” with nothing else… it is irritating having to carry forward a chat that YOU started. Say something useful to which I can reply.

  • Gabe Goldstein
    August 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    I’m 14 and I tried this on a girl who I deeply loved. She’s my neighbor too!!! I’m shy of talking to girls I like and try to stay as far away from them as possible. So I got a Facebook when I turned 13 (I would have gotten it earlier but my parents wouldn’t let me) and it automatically downloaded her phone number into my address book on my phone. Jackpot I thought. So I started texting her using these steps and there was no response. So I tried step #12 and I finally got a response. “Keep dreaming, Gabe. Keep dreaming.” So I rate it a 1 out of 1,000,000,000!!!!

  • king_SA
    October 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    Oky this girl I supper different but then I will try to use this on her. Never liked her 1st but when time passed I started getting felling for her. Tried SMs’s she used to respond but then I stopped so go her on BBM so I’m out of options. I’m a popular kid at school so I think she doesn’t like me coz she thinks I’m a player so please help me out!!!!

  • Itstooeasy
    October 31, 2013 | Permalink |

    be short and sweet, if she’s at work, just tell her “hi, I hope your days been good”, that usually initiates conversation… trying to hard will kill it, she might think your desperate.

    basically, just be natural, women can spot even the slightest change in behavior, based on how you respond to them.

    Once you get her to the point where she’s texting and calling you at random points of the day, its in the bag.

  • brian
    December 6, 2013 | Permalink |

    i want a girl and i have found her but i don’t know how to start her

  • surya
    December 7, 2013 | Permalink |

    i asked my crush whether she had a bf, she replied that it is a secret and she doesnt want to tell anyone about it….. What does she meant by this ???? help me

  • Jordan
    January 8, 2014 | Permalink |

    okay i just dont know what i am doing wrong. there is this girl and shes a year older than me and me and her have talked on and off but i wanna be something for real with her and i have to get her to fall for me again she goes to the same school as me and always smiles at me in the hallway. i cant tell if shes just being nice but i try to text her and sometimes she does answer so i wait for her to answer and after about 3 hours i try again and i do that one more time sometimes but if she doesnt answer i try the next day. i told her i miss her at night and it worked but now but she barely answers me…. i just dont know how to get her to fall for me

    January 23, 2014 | Permalink |

    The girl I love is my friend from high school and now we are in college… I told her that I love her and now she hates me because I had gone to see her every day after coll.. someone please tell me what to do I really need help….

  • Musali Aggrey
    June 5, 2014 | Permalink |

    it worked for me

  • antonio
    June 25, 2014 | Permalink |

    Have most of you guys saying it didn’t work realize the fact that the girl isn’t interested in you? Cause if a girl is only giving you “K” and “G2G” that’s a major sign she isn’t interested just saying

  • Philip96
    September 5, 2014 | Permalink |

    Honestly this really works, I agree with what Antonio is saying ???????????? you can’t just use this on ANY GIRL. You have to see that she is interested in you first,cuz otherwise ur jst waisting ur time,effort nd most importantly your attention on her nd also age matters so don’t try this if you anywhere below 16. A good way u can find that out is to wait for he to reply to your txt NO MATTER HOW LONG IT MAY TAKE(yes I kno it may sound like torture but that’s what you gotta do) this will let u kno how much she really cares about you so you can know how to approach her, either as jst a friend or to keep trying.
    I used this to get with my girl bck like 8months ago before I saw this on this website,nd actually reading these 15 steps made me smile nd think bck wen I was jst introducing myself to her and now after 8months together we still going on strong nd I jst graduated from high school.
    Wish you guys good luck nd hope my words helped someone.?????????? And remember that if she is really worth it them keep trying nd even wen it feels like ur losing at least tell her face to face about how u truly feel about her, females love that and if you do it right she’ll fall right in your arms ????????????????

  • Alex
    September 15, 2014 | Permalink |

    There are a few decent ideas (times of day), but everything will be forever overshadowed by #6. L O L. NEVER under any circumstances expect to create attraction with a girl by sending her a feeble “hi”.. Or GOD FORBID just a wink face. Are you kidding me?!

  • Ryan
    October 28, 2014 | Permalink |

    “If you want her to fall for you, she has to get sexually excited by you and then has to feel romantically attached to you. That’s the way love and infatuation works.”

    Furthermore, I can tell you one thing for sure. If you text a girl a simple “Hi” Or just a smiley face, it’s not going to go well. The key is to say something interesting, which will get her hooked right away.

  • Olise
    November 5, 2014 | Permalink |

    I have a problem guys i am trying to keep closer to one of the gal i proposed but each time i text her she simple reply with one word or ignore at all. When meet her she only responds to my questions and always want me to start conversation. Help me

  • Julian
    November 27, 2014 | Permalink |

    ok this stuff they are saying is basically true im not calling myself a ladies man or a player but i get what there saying most of your guys problems has to do with”shes busy” or “shes got a boyfriend” i think i can help most of you guys out leave your name on here i will contact you through facebook i swear to go im not a pervert or anything im 14 and i do well so yeah i will check back tomorrow

  • gobbytown
    December 1, 2014 | Permalink |

    Hi all, I have a girl who’s always been there for me. Shes more than a friend but not girl friend. She says I made her smile. But she’s taking me as a brother. I have feelings for her and when I said it onto her face once, she got pissed and i said that was just to check how she reacts. can anybody give me any suggestion on how to make this girl fall for me? Atleast if I could have sex with her, she will fall for me for sure. Pls help. Urgent. Thanks all.

  • SmartGuy
    December 28, 2014 | Permalink |

    Lauren Schath, you’re too hot to be a lesbo…..

  • DA
    January 3, 2015 | Permalink |

    Guys this article isn’t how to “get” a girl its to help you deepen a relationship with a girl who already at the very least kinda sorta likes you

  • DA
    January 3, 2015 | Permalink |

    Gobbytown…sex is never the answer. It can backfire. And then you lose a really good friend. Give her time and space. Give her the opportunity to miss you. If you’re always around it can seem like you’re bugging her. put a little distance between you two and see if she misses you… if she doesn’t It should really tell you something and you should stop wasting your time.

  • kleeo
    January 5, 2015 | Permalink |

    Hey guys, im kinda havin the same problem with this girl I really like. I took her to homecoming and I’ve been trying to meet up to hang out or just chill and im not looking for anything serious, but I feel like she’s just another pretty face who doesn’t want to do anything. How do I make the right connection with this girl and have a good relationship with her?

  • charlie
    March 11, 2015 | Permalink |

    Ok here is the best example or what i do.

    Me. Can you keep a secret.
    She. About what.
    Me. Well i meet this really cool girl months ago. She is cute, funny and really nice but she is also very naughty always ask me to send naked pictures of myself and make me wear uniform and stuff you want to see the uniform i have to wear
    (Send a funny pic of a guy wearing some outrageous uniform or a pic of a monkey something funny)
    She. Hahahahah
    She. How are you
    She. Who is she.
    me. She is very sweet. Naughty but nice.
    Me. But you wont know her as you are nice but naughty
    she. Hmmm
    she. Are you still around.
    She. Were is she from anyway. (Like she doesnt know i am talking about her.)
    Me. Listen i forgot to ask you were are you from again i forget.
    She. Hahahahah
    she i am from the moon.
    Me. Ah really she is from the same place.
    Me. Small world is it not.
    She. hhhhhhhhhhh
    Me. Well i really need help with this naughty girl lets meet up tomorrow and you can give me your tips how to know that girl.
    2 hours.
    She. Okay

    done. Fucked. Next.

  • charlie
    March 11, 2015 | Permalink |

    Bad guy (if you are not) just somehow always works best. They live for mysterious. Cool. dont give a shit guy. You send something stupid like (how was your day or what you up to) you are automatic boring unoriginal and not what any girl looks for. Just send her something like above and if she is remotely interested she will respond to that. Even it is shit and not who you really. Are

  • Chad smith
    March 21, 2015 | Permalink |

    Before I found this website I was texting this girl and I was using step #12 like sending kissy faces to her when I told her goodnight and she sent them back. So If anyone was wondering some girls do like that. Actually most. But everytime I text her she takes a long time to reply. I have even heard some of her friends say she takes a long time to reply to them too. Idk what to do or why she does it.

  • Smitty
    March 21, 2015 | Permalink |

    Hey guys I’m hoping someone can help me out with the situation I’m in, I met this girl one night and we went back to her place stayed up for hours talking and in the morning I grabbed her number. Me and her are both 25 and she has a five-year-old daughter she works night shift and having a kid I understand she’s really busy. so I texted her in the evening and she keeps the messages short. I feel we had a good initial connection and if there is such thing as love at first sight this would be it :) I haven’t text her for a couple days now, any advice that people can give me would be appreciated

  • maxter
    March 27, 2015 | Permalink |

    how to ask a number from the girl??

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