Pussy Tease: How to Be a Charming Guy Who Seduces in Slow Motion

Pussy Tease

We’ve all heard of a cock tease, but why on earth would someone want to be a pussy tease? To build a strong and healthy relationship with “the one.”

Ever heard of a cock tease? It is a girl who leads a guy on without any intentions of ever having sex with him. There are many reasons why a girl can be a cock tease. Sometimes she does it to make a guy her personal slave, by making him feel that at some point she will have sex with him if he just goes along. While others, she is trying to make him wait for her so that he respects her more. On the other hand, if you are a guy, you just might want to consider being a pussy tease.

What is a pussy tease?

A pussy tease is a guy who makes a girl think that he is going to have sex with her, but then doesn’t. Making all sorts of sexual innuendos, she thinks that you are heading right with her and then you go totally left.

A pussy tease will leave a bar with a girl and make her think that they’re going to have a one night stand, but then will say “good night” at the front door. He is also the guy who always has the girl he wants on the hook. [Read: How to play hard to get with a girl – And do it just right]

10 reasons being a pussy tease is a good game to play

The operative word in pussy tease is “tease.” Although I am not a proponent of game playing, there are times when games can do a lot of good for a relationship, especially right up front.

If you want to have the upper hand, make her feel like you are something special, while at the same time have her feel that she is too, being a pussy tease is the way to go.

Making her work hard for you is the best way to build something strong. So, if you really like her and want to keep her, then being a pussy tease is the best way to play it up front. [Read: What you need to do when a girl’s playing hard to get]

Here’s why you might want to be a pussy tease.

#1 You will be different from the other guys she’s used to. As a female, I will tell you that sometimes it feels like we are mice being chased by cats. Conditioned to think that guys are only after one thing, she will just assume that you are like every other guy she has dated.

If she is into you, she might hold out for the third date, but once she feels like she has taken the appropriate time, she will think that you will be jumping at the chance, but you won’t be. That will make her think about who you are and how you are different from the other guys who have pursued her. [Read: The third date rule – What it is and why it works so well]

#2 It will make her work harder to get you into bed. I know, right? Have you ever had a girl work it to get into bed with you? The answer is probably no.

In fact, most guys are trying so hard to get into a girl’s pants they barely remember the things said and done before the big score. I am not blaming you – I get it.

But, if you don’t push to have sex with her, once more, you make her work hard for it by trying to turn you on. She will have to be more seductive and aggressive than she normally is. Not only will you enjoy being on the receiving end, she might discover the vixen inside she didn’t know about. Win-win. [Read: How to get any girl to like you – 18 secrets to impress]

#3 You will make her think you are something special. We are creatures of habit. What we are habitual about is that we always want what we can’t have. If something is handed to us, it doesn’t mean nearly as much as if we had to earn, wait for it, or win it.

If you make her wait for you to get on board with sex with her, then she will think that there is something worth waiting for. Yep, it works the same in reverse. If you make a girl wait to have sex with you, then she will probably respect you more in the morning, and you will build a healthier relationship for the future. [Read: How to get girls – 16 tricks that’ll make you instantly likeable]

#4 She won’t ever wonder if you are with her for the sex or for her personality. When women sleep with men too early on, they sometimes wonder if it was the sex that sealed the deal or the fact that you feel madly in love with her.

If you don’t have sex with her until she is practically begging you, then she will never have to wonder what your intentions were up front.

Or, if you wanted to be her partner and boyfriend or just have some casual sex that turned into something. She will always know that you chose her because you loved her insides, not just getting inside of her. [ArtOfManliness.com: How delaying intimacy can benefit your relationship]

#5 You can take the time to get to know her. I know that you want to act all “I don’t care about communication,” but the truth is that having a meaningful relationship with someone before having sex with them is a really cool and rare thing.

If you are her friend first with sexual tension and take the time to get to know her, then even after the lust and “gotta have hers” are over down the road, you will still have the person that you fell in love with outside of just the sexual and physical attraction. That makes for a long-lasting relationship that really means something, trust me on this one! [Read: 12 Prince Chraming traits that make all girls swoon]

#6 Foreplay is the best play. You don’t have to go sexless, just the opposite, you can take her just to the edge of ecstasy and take the time to get to know what makes her melt, and then pull away. Sexual exploration is the key to a strong sexual relationship into the future.

If you take the time to enjoy the foreplay, she will know that you aren’t all about you and the big bang, and will likely reciprocate in other ways that aren’t about the actual copulation. Sexual foreplay and teasing are allowed, just hold off on the whole enchilada until she absolutely has to have you! [Read: How to get a girl to kiss you by arousing her subtly]

#7 You hold the cards, it’s nice to be on the other side! Have you ever been on the side of a sexual relationship where you hold the cards? If you haven’t, then you have no idea the power that you have over someone.

I am not suggesting to use it to your advantage or to abuse her, but it is nice to have the upper hand every once in a while, especially if you aren’t used to it. [Read: Relationship power plays and what men really need to know]

#8 She will become obsessed with thoughts of you. When you want something and can’t have it, it consumes you. That will mean that while you are playing it cool and being a pussy tease, she is going to be thinking about you non-stop.

Not just you, she will be thinking about having sex with you. Like running around her brain nonstop, she will be so into you by the time she gets you, you will be a legend in her own mind.

#9 It will build up the sexual tension for the big bang. I know it is very rare nowadays, but can you imagine what a wedding night back in the day was like *you know, for virgins*. All that pent up sexual energy and holding back.

It must have been like seeing fireworks. It isn’t that you can’t see them right up front, but putting an extra fire power makes it that much more incredible indeed. [Read: 25 sexual questions to ask a girl and leave her instantly wet]

#10 Once it happens, it will make her feel like she is something special. When you want something, and you can’t have it, then you assume it is something special. Stated before. Follow me here. If you finally give in and you have sex with her and she “wins” you over, then that will make her feel like she is something pretty spectacular too.

An overall good feeling, withholding sex from a girl by being a pussy tease, might confuse her for a while. But, once you give in, it will be like you two were not only made for each other, but that you possess something way more amazing than any other couple out there.

[Read: How to get a girl horny and wet just by sitting next to her]

If you are a guy who really likes a girl and wants to build a strong relationship with the one that you think is potentially the real “one,” then you should be a pussy tease. It’s a win-win situation all the way around.

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Julie Keating
Julie Keating

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