7 Honest Reasons Dating a MILF is the Best Thing Ever

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Is dating a MILF meant to be funny, or a fantastic experience? We’re looking at 7 reasons why you should honestly consider dating a sexy older woman.

Should you date a MILF? This may sound like something you and your bros joke about or see as a bad pun in a movie, but the reality is that it may be the most fun, adventurous thing you do in your young relationship life.

MILF, of course, meaning a mother you’d like to f*ck, may also simply refer to a woman in her 30s, 40s or above going out with a younger man. They are also referred to as cougars. While these are supposed to be different meanings, they sometimes get melded together. Regardless, there are plenty of highlights to dating an older woman that should make the option definitely worth considering!

Why you should date a MILF

Let’s face it, dating a MILF is a fantasy for a lot of younger men. If it’s not one of your fantasies, allow us to tell you why it should be.

#1 She’s got a wild sex drive. It’s said that women reach their peak sex drive in their thirties, while men have their peak in their 20s. This makes for a perfect libido match-up when dating an older woman. Many women in their 30s and above can wholeheartedly vouch for this fact, saying that orgasms in their 30s and beyond are the most powerful ones of their lives. Ready to make your girlfriend shake and shiver? Date a MILF! [Read: Foreplay done right – the art of really turning a girl on]

#2 She’s a mom. And moms are super fun. The staple behind being with a mom you’d like to f*ck is that your girlfriend, in fact, is a mom! While it might sound a little creepy to bring up moms and motherhood when talking about your lover, the truth is moms are more patient and definitely know how to have fun. Plus, if you’re into hanging out with the younger crowd you’d better believe she’s got a ton of cool toys and even cooler kids to interact with!

#3 She’s got life experience like you won’t believe. Older women have more experience… in everything! She’s had her fair share of lovers by this point in her life, and she definitely knows what she likes and what she’s doing. She’s full of sexual gusto and life experience that will definitely teach you a thing or two.

Not only is she probably more patient and less selfish than a woman in her 20s, but she’s not afraid to tell you what she wants – and there’s nothing sexier than a woman who knows exactly what she wants. [Read: The 11 sexiest hot spots to kiss a woman and arouse her]

#4 She’s more independent. While it’s not out of the realm of possibility to get a clingy cougar, odds are she’s got her own life established, and she’s not afraid to spend her time there. While you will obviously have a special spot as her boyfriend, she also has her career and her kids to think about. Don’t be afraid of mentioning a night off with the guys when dating an older woman.

Being an independent woman also means she likely has her own source of cash flow and won’t be relying solely on you for goods and expenses.

#5 She isn’t social media obsessed. If you are sick of seeing you girlfriend checking her phone every five minutes to update her Instagram, check her Facebook, or retweet Kim Kardashian’s latest ounce of printed wisdom, then you’ll likely find solace in dating an older MILF. That’s not to say she won’t be social media savvy, but you better believe it’s not going to be her life. [Read: Why social media is ruining your relationship]

#6 She’s way less likely to play games. Because she’s no longer 19 and suffering from attention issues, your older girlfriend is less likely to play head games with you, or tempt you into tricky conversations all for the purpose of starting an argument.

Dating an older woman means she’ll be more likely to come out and tell you what she wants, as opposed to making you guess. Granted, she is still a woman, so don’t expect all the games to be completely off the table. [Read: 10 casual relationship rules to keep it casual]

#7 You’ll grow up. Another perk of dating a MILF is that she’ll whip you into mature and manly shape. As much as she loves your sex drive and passion to please her, she doesn’t like your pouty attitude. After all, she already has kids! She doesn’t need another one.

[Read: 10 essential rules of dating a cougar]

Things to consider when dating a MILF

Alright, so dating a MILF is sounding pretty awesome, right? Right! But there’s still a couple of things you should keep in mind before you jump into the dating world with an older woman.

#1 Do you want kids? If she’s older, her chances of getting pregnant are significantly diminished. If you’re not looking forward to fatherhood, then you have nothing to worry about, but if you dream of being a biological father someday and you’re finding yourself in deep with this older woman, then this may be something to consider.

If she isn’t able to get pregnant and you want kids, take solace in the fact that she already has some that she’d more than appreciate you lavishing with affection.

#2 Make sure she’s not already in a relationship/marriage. So dating a MILF has some great perks, but you should really make sure that she isn’t already married! While older women have matured, older men *like her husband, for example* will still want to kick your ass for messing with their girl. Get answers before you start something!

#3 If the kids like you, she’s going to like you. While she may not want to introduce you to the kiddies right away, just remember that while a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, the way to a mother’s heart is through her kids. So you’d better be sure to make a fantastic impression on her little ones. If you plan on pursuing a serious relationship with this woman, her kids are always going to be there, so get to know and like them now.

[Read: 9 things you can’t overlook when dating a single parent]

If you’re not into having a serious relationship, then you may be in luck, she might not either! Just like men in their 20s aren’t usually itching to settle down, a worldly wise woman in her 30s or 40s probably isn’t either. In fact, she’s probably already been there and done that. What she wants now is to have some fun with you, so enjoy!

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5 thoughts on “7 Honest Reasons Dating a MILF is the Best Thing Ever”

  1. Tom says:

    Experience can work against you too, guys. While it’s great she’ll come pre-equipped with all of that raw sexual energy that’s been finely tuned over the years, she’ll also come with expectations that you’ll need to deliver because she isn’t in a position to mess around with little boys who can’t keep up with her. If you’re expecting to land a cougar, then you’d better be at the peak of your game. That means a good job, a big social circle, great physique and wardrobe, and a lot of insider knowledge on different date spots. Fail to deliver? You’re out the door.

  2. Jermey Olsen says:

    I met this smokin hot milf at the gym and best part is she introduced herself to me. She asked for my name and we talked for a good while. I even let her spot me a couple of times in my workout. If I was single, I would totally get with her. I think she may be into me a little bit because she’s always watching me whenever I workout and that’s a good sign, right? I hope you don’t mind me telling you about my fantasies and all, don’t we all have them? If you just meet her, I’m sure you’ll do more than just comment over here about her.

  3. Martin says:

    She ISN’T social media obsessed? You could’ve fooled me. I’ve been out with two cougars recently and they were completely into Facebook and Instagram. I didn’t mind posing for Instagram shots, but when one of them was holding a text conversation with someone right in front of my eyes, that was my cue we weren’t going to be getting busy anytime soon and I made my exit. Thank God for the

  4. Craig says:

    Okay so I work at this restaurant as a server and last night I had this smoking hot older woman, and we got to talking and found out she was 41 and I’m 23. But throughout the night when i checked up on her she was really nice and all, and it was obvious she was flirting with me. Well, as we were about to close I gave her ticket to her and she asked what I was up to after work. I said nothing, heading home and she smiled and said would you want to come over to my place and chat. So I said yes,and she waited for me to get done and then I followed her to her house. We then sit there on the couch for about an hour chatting away. Then she said excuse me a second i have to use the restroom. I didn’t think much of it so it was cool. Then she came back out. My jaw i think was literally on the floor, I would of liked to see a pic of my reaction. She came out in red fishnet stockings, red lace see thru bra, red lace thong, and high heels. She smiled and I sat there speechless! She walked over bent down and said well honey I think you like it, your hard on is about to rip those pants open. Then she gave me a kiss and said lets get you in the bedroom. Went in there started making out and she took my clothes off of me and then sit me on the bed while she slowly removed her bra and thong. Then she crawled up next to me and started making out, then she rolled over on her back and spread her legs. Her shaven pussy never looked so good. She said slide that big young c*ck in me babe. So I did and it felt amazing. It was so exciting hearing her moan, dropping F bombs and the best part was she kept telling me to keep pounding her pu**Y. Then it was her to turn she rode me like I have never been rode in my life, until I was about to bust then she said shoot your hot load in me and fill my pu**y up. So I exploded and wow it felt great shooting it all up inside of her. Then I just laid there and she said did you like that baby and i said was that a dream? And she just started laughing. As i got dressed to leave she said you think you will want it again, I said f*ck yes! So I’m going over there again tomorrow night and can’t wait! It was my first time with on older woman and basically I got my world rocked! I know it wont be a long term thing but I know I’m not stopping anytime soon either. Older women just know how to be sexy and to please a younger man, they just know how to get the job done!

  5. duck says:

    Currently dating a 34 year old (I’m 25) I’ll say older women are much less drama, as long as they don’t have family/kids around. I can’t speak for women in their 40s and up, but I notice women in their 30s know what they want and really aren’t that different from 20-somethings. They don’t care about the games, you just need to be sweet, confident, and charming. Don’t try to pretend you’re older than you are, because then she might aswell date an older man. Being with older women I find I can more be myself and they tend to be attracted to positive, unique, and uplifting personalities. Everyone is really, but age and maturity starts to make the bullshit fade away. Less insecurity, they don’t need men to make them feel good about themselves, they aren’t trying to take advantage of you or social situations as much through their looks. Honestly so far, I like dating 30-somethings more than girls in their younger 20s. Way less drama. As for approaches, I find they work out so much better. Really just be yourself, be straightforward, and don’t be a dick. I don’t escalate things any quicker than they are naturally. Be confident, strong body language, smile, ask questions, show interest in her life, make her laugh and feel good about herself, find common interests, simple shit. You’re young, ambitious, and full of energy…pitch it. Now you’re making me want to go find me another cougar.

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