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How to Flirt with a Girl the Friend Way

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Being a friend has its advantages. Find out how to flirt with a girl the friend way and make her like you without ever telling her that you like her.

Read the introduction on how to make a girl like you to use these ten tips on how to flirt with a girl the right way.

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When you try to flirt with a girl, there’s the right way and the wrong way.

But whatever way you choose, the girl immediately knows you’re hitting on her and she knows you want to go out with her.

So you’re going to have to hope that her first impression of you is a good one.

Unless the girl you like is interested in going out or looking for a potential date mate herself, there’s a good chance that she’d shut herself up for any advances as soon as she realizes you’re flirting with her.

Now you may know that you’re a great guy, but really, she still doesn’t know that for sure just yet.

Flirting on first impression is a game of chance, and however good you may be, there’s always a chance for misinterpretation and failure unless she’s already interested in flirting with you.

How to flirt with a girl the friend way

As you’ve read in the introduction, you really need to make a girl wonder about your intention and rouse her curiosity if you want to make her like you back.

Here are ten tips on how to flirt with a girl that can definitely help you leave an impression on her and make her like you at the same time. You don’t have to go out with guns blazing, play it subtle to start with and work your flirting around the way she reciprocates to your moves.

#1 Be the best man you can be

You can’t cheat your way through this step. The world is full of great guys who want to be with the best women they can find. If you want the girl you like, you need to be worth her effort. Even before you flirt with her, you need to make a real man out of yourself. Be the man who can attract attention from women and you’ll realize that wooing the best girls around you is way easier than you can imagine.

[Read: What women want in a perfect man]

[Read: How to become a better man]

#2 Compliment her the right way

Is she looking particularly good today, or has she done something with her hair? If you like a girl, odds are, you’ll notice these signs almost immediately. If you like something about her, compliment her about it, be it her dress or her hair.

But if you want to tread into the dating ground and make her remember your compliment, you need to use your words well. Don’t say the obvious statement when you’re trying to compliment her. Try to get memorable and personal with your compliments without crossing the line. Here are two ways of complimenting the same thing.

Nice tee shirt! – Gosh, you look so beautiful.

Nice perfume – You smell so good today…

You can always compliment a girl about her tee shirt or her perfume directly, but by getting personal with it, you’re creating a memory for her. The next time she uses that perfume, she’s going to remember what you said. And that’s the first step to paving your way into her heart.

Saying “your skin is so soft… does it feel the same way all over?” or “nice tee shirt… I love the way it fits your body” may seem personal, but it also borders on creepy. Save these sexual compliments for later, when she wants to hear them. [Read: How to compliment a girl]

#3 Get some alone time with her

Flirting is best indulged in when it’s just the both of you. You can show off your flirting skills around a group of girls and guys, but you won’t be able to create an impression on the girl you like, because she’ll never think it’s special. After all, if you’re going to flirt with every girl you meet, how will the girl you like ever feel like you’re treating her in a special manner?

Indulge in a bit of humorous flirting when there are people around, but save all your special compliments and “you make my day” lines when it’s just the both of you. When you’re flirting with a girl, make her feel more special than anyone else, and she’ll think about your conversation a lot longer.

#4 Girls like a funny bone

A sense of humor is a great quality to have for a conversation. If you don’t think you’re a funny or witty guy, don’t fret. Just grin for starters. Girls love a guy with whom they can have a fun time. You don’t need to memorize a thousand one liners to seem funny. Just remember an incident you came across or talk about the things around you.

If you want to get a sense of humor, start to see the lighter side in everything you do. Enjoy your life and always stay positive and cheerful. A good sense of humor always accompanies a guy who can see the bright side of everything, and shares his funny thoughts with the people around him.

#5 Tease her now and then

While flirting may seem like a lot of work, it’s all about the little details that matter. Flirting isn’t just about mouthing a few lines laced with sexuality. It’s the way you behave around each other, be it having a laugh or indulging in a bit of touchy feely flirting.

If you can have a fun conversation with her, you’re already flirting! It’s as simple as that. But to push the friendly banter into dating grounds, you need to tease her and pull her leg now and then, when she slips or does something funny.

#6 Play with dirty conversations

The first five steps are perfect for creating a flirty environment for both of you. It’s just friendly and casual. But once you get past that, both of you would be close enough to take the kiddie flirting to the next step.

Whenever you get some alone time or are speaking to her on the phone, learn to mix your conversations. By now, both of you would have warmed up to flirting with each other, so you don’t really have to be worried about crossing the line now and then. Pass a few sexual remarks or ask a few questions that border on personal space every now and then. Even if she tells you to shut it in jest, you’ll still be making a great impression. [Read: How to text flirt with a friend to get more ideas on this]

#7 Get touchy feely

No flirting is ever complete without a few sexy touches now and then. Every now and then, try to find an excuse to touch her, be it her new earrings, her strand of hair that’s caught in the wind, or while crossing a busy street. And each time you touch her, let your hands linger just a bit longer than required. She’ll sense your hand lingering and she’ll love it, just as long as you’ve been working your flirty magic on her. [Read: How to flirt by touching]

#8 Ask her out often

Once in a while, when you’re flirting with her, ask her out to a movie or lunch the next day. The best time to pop this question would be when you’re just about to say goodbye, or when you’re text flirting. You don’t have to sound serious about it at all. By ending the conversation abruptly, you’ll make her wonder if you genuinely asked her out or if you were just joking. And as always, these little details rouse curiosity and excitement.

The next day, you can remind her about your date, and again don’t sound too serious about it. If she just laughs about it, laugh along and talk about something else. She may be unsure if you’re joking or serious, or she may not be willing to take the plunge just yet.

If she actually responds in your favor and accepts, woo hoo! But if she declines, laugh it off as a joke. But make a mental note to work harder on impressing her while flirting with her.

#9 Make those late night calls

The night has a funny way of awakening our sexuality. Any two friends who indulge in long conversations with each other at this bewitching hour can assure you of this one. If you want to know how to flirt with a girl and make her like you, start calling her up or texting her late into the night and have your flirty conversations.

The relaxed late night conversations will soon evolve into a mutual attraction that will easily cross the boundaries of friendship in no time, just as long as you use these flirty conversation tips. [Read: How to talk to a girl you like]

#10 Let her see you as a dating potential

You may have created an attraction and a strong sexual chemistry between both of you, but you’re not done just yet. She may enjoy your conversations and secretly like you already, but to flirt with a girl and make her want to go out with you, you need to let her see you as a dating potential.

During a few conversations with her, drop a few hints that you’re looking out for a girlfriend or are interested in going out with someone. If she’s single or in a bad relationship, she’ll involuntarily think about both of you together, especially if it’s one of those late night calls. [Read: How to get a girl to like you]

Once you know how to flirt with a girl the right way by playing it safe and taking one little step beyond friendship each time, you’ll see that flirting with any girl you like doesn’t always have to be a game of chance and hope. Use these subtle flirting tips and flirt with any girl you want the friend way!

Now that you know how to flirt with a girl the friend way and make her like you, do you want to take it a step further into going out with each other? Find out how to date a friend here.


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  • vac
    December 9, 2012 | Permalink |

    This advice may be good for teen to under 20. Mature adults don’t beat around the bush this way and are far more direct. The older the more direct. No one wants to waste precious time guessing if a person is ready to be taken to restaurant. Just ask.

  • manc
    February 18, 2013 | Permalink |

    It’s important to remember that this strategy is a long one. It takes weeks or months most times. If you try it, don’t forget to actually live your own life, do things for yourself and don’t get hung up over this one person. It’ll also impress her that you have your own life and don’t “need” her.

  • michael
    May 27, 2013 | Permalink |

    well, i’ve got a question.
    i met a girl at my parents wedding, we didn’t really talk but only made eye contact.
    the thing is i got her phone number but i don’t feed confident about texting her, could someone help me?:)

  • CJ
    October 1, 2013 | Permalink |

    Hey, im really confused. I met these girls at a festival back in August and we instantly clicked with all of them but i took a shine to one of them more so. theres two slight problems though, one she lives 4 hours away from me and im not actually sure she feels the same way. we have since met up again and had a great time. But im confused to weather im already in the friends zone as we flirt abit then she acts cold towards me. I really like this girl just dont know where i stand

  • serious lover
    October 21, 2013 | Permalink |

    A good flirting bou shoud be well dressed, pretend to be innocent, not to be over smart but intelligent, He should not talk to other girls except his target( when that girl is present). Help her to solve any problem, offer her dinner. showing her loyalty. He should show his any special quality if he has one, like cooking, bike stunt, He must posses a motorcycle. Dress up well, but casual. Some time he should not talk to that girl and watch if she comes to talk to her. Try to scan her mentality, and at last. watching a horror movie, and suddenly hold her colsely saying “I am scared!!” If that girl takes you good activity casually. then you road is smooth and clear. often hold her tightly(but not like WWF). Look at her lips and talk closely. If her teeths are not good shift to eyes, if eys are not good turn to Himalaya mountains. if too small, go to no where. Say her good bye!

  • serious lover
    October 21, 2013 | Permalink |

    One thing serious love forgot to say, slap on girls hip, Some girls get annoyed, some may not. find her alone be close to her, too close and talk to her in low voice watching her lips(if are good). This works for all , but not for nube. Nube should not get too close, fear, is she put a great slap on his face, so be careful. nube should find expert flirting boys, and learn the practical ways as I learned from my extra advanced friends. and onten join language course, short term computer course, visit colleges and make good friends, join social functions to find my victim. My pokets works great, always full of money. hold you smiling face, do not get nervous. Always say you are very bussy person and earn lots of money, even if do nothing like me. Be helth conscious, join a gym, women do not like sumos. reduce your tummy is must, sceen care is essential. getting nervous? chew a chewing gum not beetle. Last tips, always pretend to be very honest and charming.

  • Mr. applo
    October 21, 2013 | Permalink |

    Yes, sericous lover I am agreed with you. But I want to add little more, so it get some extra flavours. Boys, to flirt with a girl, learn some street magic, numorology, future prediction, puzzles and bad jokes. Aks her what she wants to learn casually, and you learn that thing within one mounth, for example Swimming. Swimming pools is a great place to flirt seroiusly. Here you can touch her body spare parts. biking is another good option. Please do not frat when you are flirting. hold it and run to a suitable place and frat very slowly, so that it will not make sound. Buy some cakes or roasted pork and delicious thing and offer her telling, you make these things for her only at home. Tell her you can not live without her, you are so alone , even if have 100 girl friends. If that girl refuse, go to river side with her and tell her “if you not come in my life, i will jump in river and die for you.( remember you should be a good swimmer)”. if that girl still refusing, get close the edge of river and pretend to jump, at the same time eatch her. If she really wants you, she must call you by your name, Now come and kiss her lips. Again do not frat when you are flirting.

  • Victor T
    December 25, 2013 | Permalink |

    There is this girl I like but I don’t just feel confident enough to flirt with her. Can someone help me?

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