You probably walk by hundreds of gorgeous women a day. Sure, some may give you the eye, but for the most part, not much is happening in that department.
All men want to be able to get the attention and date gorgeous women. I mean, that’s the dream for most men. This is neither good nor bad, it just is what it is.
However, for many men, this dream stays just that, a dream. But, you know, dreams do come true. In this case, it’s completely possible to get the attention of a gorgeous woman. You just need to change your strategy, if you even have one.
How to attract the attention of gorgeous women
Remember, gorgeous women are women. They’re not some elite human being. It’s time to take them off the pedestal that you’ve placed them on and focus on getting their attention. These women are attainable, you just must learn how to attain them. [Read: Trophy wives – The truth behind why all men desire one]
You can do it, I know you can.
#1 Go for her. If she’s eyeing you at the bar or club, go for her. Gorgeous women don’t make those cues very often, but when they do, that’s your window of opportunity. You need to jump on that. If not, she won’t give you a second chance. So, if you want her, fight for her—not until death though. [Read: How to approach women – 15 tips you absolutely need to know]
#2 Remove your inner creep. Yeah, we all have that inner creep inside of us, it’s normal. But get rid of it or just hide it deep down inside of you.
#3 Know what you want. If you talk to a gorgeous woman and you snag a date, arrange the time and place. Don’t give her the option to choose. Show her you have a plan and know what you want. If she wanted to plan the first date, well, she would choose to stay home instead.
#4 You’re not desperate. You’re not desperate, you’re not desperate. Say that to yourself before you leave your house in the morning. You aren’t desperate.
Women in general, including hot women, smell a desperate man a mile away. And what do they do? They run. Women run away from desperate men. They don’t want someone who’s going to be clingy, they want a man.
#5 Be creative. Gorgeous women have a lot of guys chasing after them, don’t kid yourself. If you ask her for a coffee, well, I personally think you can do better than that. No, you don’t have to take her to Mexico for your first date, but you can be a little more creative. They want to be wowed. They have tons of other guys that can take them for coffee. [Read: How to not be boring: The art of keeping your dates exciting]
#6 Don’t be easy. If she’s hot and into you, she probably wants to sleep with you—which is awesome. I mean, that is the goal. But you don’t have to have sex with her right away.
Women routinely make men wait, so why can’t you make her wait? She’ll probably be surprised. In fact, intrigued by the fact that you’re not trying to jump in her pants right away.
#7 Be a gentleman. I know women like assholes, and it’s true, we do. But we don’t like men who are degrading and rude. The asshole factor is because they present us with trying to get something we can’t have—a relationship.
#8 Look how you feel. Looks aren’t important, but they are. They’re the first thing people see, so if you still rock the Eminem look, maybe it’s time you updated yourself a bit. You want to feel good about yourself before you go out to meet women. Have confidence in knowing that you look hot, so you won’t hesitate to approach them.
#9 Have some mystery. You need to have a little mystery, I mean, don’t tell her you just lost your job today. Save that for the third date. People tend to share themselves right away, which isn’t bad, but you don’t have to do that. Take some time and conceal a part of yourself that you’ll share later. No, I don’t mean your dick. [Read: Negging game – The philosophy of begging women and how to do it right]
#10 Focus on conversation. It doesn’t matter if you’re a male model or not—gorgeous women aren’t necessarily needing you to have a six-pack. Instead, your goal shouldn’t be to swoon her with your smile or eyes.
#11 Look like a challenge. Women don’t want something easy to obtain. Just like men, they want something that provides them with some sort of challenge. You can flirt with a woman, but you don’t necessarily have to ask her for her number right away. Not only will you provide her with a challenge, but you’ll spark some sexual tension between you two.