20 Sexy Questions To Ask a Guy and Seduce Him

20 Sexy Questions To Ask A Guy And Seduce Him

Do you like talking naughty with a guy? Here are 20 sexy questions to ask a guy that’ll turn him on instantly and get him talking dirty in no time. By Nicola Scholes

Speaking face to face is easy.

But it’s not easy if you’re trying to talk naughty with a guy for the first time.

Talking dirty face to face can be awkward, or one of you may have a hard time holding that burst of laughter inside.

[Read: How to talk dirty to a guy and sound really sexy]

If you’re looking for sexy questions to ask a guy, look no further than this.

Time your questions right and you’ll accomplish your mission of seducing him in no time.

Sexy questions to ask a guy

If you’d want to, you can ask these questions in person.

But I’d suggest you do it via a text.

Text these questions one after the other in the order I’ve mentioned and there’s a huge chance that both of you would be making out with each other within an hour or so.

[Read: 30 dirty truth or dare questions for the sexiest night ever]

Are you ready to put these 20 sexy questions that’ll get him in your bed to the test?

The right questions to ask the guy you like

There are many kinds of sexy questions you can ask a guy.

But if you want to turn him on in no time, you have to remember to start off by warming him up and eventually getting more personal and intimate with each passing question. [Read: 10 sexy tips to make any guy hard and seduce him without ever making it obvious]

Ask questions to which you already know the answers to. But hear it from him.

Don’t make it seem like you’re the only one asking all the dirty questions. By using these questions, you’ll make his answers get more and more naughty with each passing question, so it’ll always seem like he’s the one making all the moves.

Be subtle in your questions, at least at the beginning and get dirtier with each question you ask. And always remember this, avoid asking him questions that make him focus on anything other than you once you’re halfway past the 20 questions.

Text him when you know he’s all alone and has no plans for the night. Your focus is to seduce him into sleeping with you without ever appearing like the desperate one.

Trust us, stick to these 20 questions and we assure you, he’ll be in your bedroom before the night is over! [Read: 6 tips to get a guy to kiss you when you want him to]

The 20 sexy questions to make him come to you

Start off by texting something normal and try to figure out if he’s available to text you for an hour or so without any interruptions. These 20 questions are open ended questions and he’ll ask you for your answers all the time too. Play coy, but let him know you’re enjoying the texts when you respond to him. And you’ll be able to work your magic and seduce him in an hour’s time with these 20 texts! [Read: How to make a guy fall madly in love with you]

#1 Do you like talking naughty?

#2 Do you check me out when I walk away?

#3 Do you think you’re a good kisser? [Read: 6 ways to kiss a friend accidentally and get away with it]

#4 Has anyone ever accidentally seen you naked?

#5 Have you ever skinny dipped?

#6 What are you wearing right now?

#7 What’s the sexiest outfit a girl should wear to turn you on?

#8 What kind of outfit would look best on me? [Read: How to look sexy in bed with a guy]

#9 Would you help me pick that outfit if I asked you to?

#10 What’s your favorite part of a girl’s body?

#11 Which part of a girl’s body do you think tattoos look best?

#12 What do you wear when you go to bed?

#13 How do you like a good massage from a girl?

#14 What’s your idea of good foreplay?

#15 What’s your favorite sexual fantasy? [Read: Top 10 sexual fantasies for men]

#16 Do you think we’d do something funny if we get drunk together?

#17 Have you ever sexted your picture? [Read: 12 devious ways to see any friend naked]

#18 Have you ever felt horny while texting on the phone?

#19 If I was with you right now, what would you do to me?

#20 How long will it take for you to get here? [Read: How to have sex with a friend you like]

Try it! [Read: 10 fun sex games to play with a guy in bed]

Don’t think these 20 questions to ask a guy can get the guy you like into bed with you before the end of the text conversation? [Read: 30 facts about guys that can help you read his mind better]

Try it, you’ll be surprised. Just remember to avoid trying to sound funny, focus on feeling sexy and let him know that you’re horny!

[Read: 10 things girls should never ever say to guys]

Can you think of any other questions to ask a guy that can work its magic into seducing a guy and getting him in your bed in no time? Add your thoughts, it’ll definitely help a reader get a guy she wants in her bed!

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  • Happy Girl

    They work! They work!! They work!!!

    OMG, girls, you’re not going to believe how well these questions work. It just took me just half a hour to get the guy I like to come to my place!

  • sunshine

    ok girls, why would you want a guy you like to just come over for sex? If he liked you more than sex you wouldnt have to use the questions, i was looking for something to make my man want to come home cuz we are so far away from each other all the time and i wanted to let him know im always thinking about him. Girls you should never seduce a man if u like him alot its just going to end in a heartache! trust me ive been there!

  • Hastings Got It

    These pointers are amazing. I mean if you’re up for a quick shag, they work like magic. Whoever wrote these points, thank you Nicola Scholes, you’re a sexy smart one, aren’t you?!

  • Olivia

    Here’s another one to the list.

    #21 Do guys hate dildos? (because with a dildo, women don’t really need a guy anymore) He can answer the question any way he likes it, it’ll still lead to dirty talk about sex.

  • Jensen

    These questions will surely be a huge turn on for any guy. Now I’m a guy, and yes, these questions will definitely work. But more than just questions, sometimes even friendly conversation can be turned towards sex.

    When you ask questions, it may be too straightforward. But instead, by teasing the guy or by telling him a few naughty confessions about what you’re doing, like “I’m trying on a few clothes now” can be extremely sexual. Questions may work, but i believe confessions always work a lot better. You can say it in a casual manner, but the guy’s mind will start to race towards sex in no time.

  • April

    Lovepanky, you guys are the best. These 20 questions worked like a charm. I had a huge crush on this guy I’m mad about, and there was so much sexual tension in the air one could cut it with a knife. But as both of us were just friends, neither of us wanted to make the first move.

    We used to flirt on and off every other night, but it was very casual. The raciest think I’ve ever asked him was about the first time he made out. And as exciting as it felt, I felt really awkward about it.

    But these questions are so easy and simple, no one would ever realize just how arousing it is until you’re already aroused. It starts off so simple and goes so far, it’s making me laugh with excitement just thinking about my text conversation with him last night.

    I had so much fun, and all thanks to you guys! Seriously, when it comes to relationships or attracting guys, I haven’t come across a site as awesome as Lovepanky! :-)

  • Katy

    I second what April said above. :-) Lovepanky, you guys definitely know how to change relationships for the better! :-)

    I’ve read so many websites on love and relationships, but I haven’t come across a single website where the features are so beautifully written and explained so well. It’s just like sitting down with a friend and listening to advice on love and relationships. The articles are so patient and well explained, I couldn’t ask for more. I love all your articles and they’re so very helpful to girls. Seriously, Lovepanky is one of the best websites I’ve ever come across. ;-)

  • Sara

    These question work like a charm! I never thought I’d ba able to talk about sexy things with my crush, but here I am, texting him about none other than lingerie!

  • darkrenee

    holy shit! o.o These work. I asked this guy i like if he had even been accidentally seen naked and he asked if i wanted to see him naked!!!

  • http://www.lovepanky.com isha

    awww! really thats so sweet of that guy darkrenee:)

  • Princess

    These definitely work, thanks team lovepanky

  • http://www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/wild-secrets/20-sexy-questions-to-ask-a-guy california girl

    This so works! Ahhhh… I love it :-)

  • this works soooo well. i used this on a friend and then a few days later he became my bf :) .. thx … and btw we’ve been togehter for 3 weeks

  • Stelio Kontos

    Im a guy and all of these questions work but you dont really need to go the long way round with men; most of us want a woman who is open about sex or will dirty talk with us. so just do it most men want you to.

  • Matt

    I think I got these questions used on me by my now girlfriend! Lol! She asked me these questions a few weeks ago, and well, we felt the sizzle of sexual chemistry right away.

    And today, she mentioned that she used these Lovepanky dirty questions on me while texting that night. Reading these questions make me laugh now. I remember how turned on I was when she texted me first, my heart was literally pounding. But Lovepanky, this is good, you helped me and my girlfriend get together. Thank you, you’ve got yourselves a new fan!

  • http://lovepranky navita gumtie

    wow sooper cool this is swt and helpful thankzzzz for this its fun I’m happy finally i won him over i love this just keep up this interesting things ;)

  • Rushton

    I’m a guy and these will not work if the guy isn’t interested in you. He will find you creepy and shallow.

  • Corrine Peener

    I feel like some questions would make the situation awkward, they come off too silly for trying to seduce someone.

  • http://RichardShore RICHARDRICHARD

    I find submissive men very interesting. I have a long standing interest in erotica.. I am looking for white silk panties, for my G.Friend.I have a mature adult friend who is looking to be fondled. I like to wank a friend while he watches me. I also like to suck and be sucked.

  • http://yahoo.com ellisandra brielle de peralta

    hahaha.. i like those question :)

  • BandFan

    This would only work if the guy that i love wasn’t famous *sigh*

  • la principessa

    omg – these are so frickin’ funny, especially the question, “have you ever skinny dipped?” & especially, “has anyone accidentally seen you naked?”

    laugh so frickin’ hard out loud!!

  • la principessa

    ps RUSHTON from Jan 13th sounds like a real frickin’ drag.

  • RachelKayy

    This totally worked on my boyfriend. We were just sitting down stairs hanging out and he got so horny he was begging to take me upstairs. And whats funny about it is i already knew all the answers he was going to say.

  • Sarah

    Invite a guy over for muffins.
    Best case scenario: Sex
    Worst case scenario: Muffins

  • SamBam

    Some of these just seem to straight-forward and like they would make the guy uncomfortable.

  • vannessa

    Omg this totally worked to get my crush he usually talked dirty and he told me when i was talking to him, asking him these questions and it worked on him he had invited me to his apartment thanks to you 2 weeks ago I had the best day of my life.

  • Maya

    Men are so dumb lol

  • Aidan Smith

    Plus, just the kissing alone under the starlight and sleeping under the stars with her makes me so happy. If I could pick any girl to marry it would be her. She’s already 27 and I’m 27 as well. One night, Blue Moon, I met her in Central Park when nobody was around, and at exactly midnight, I kneeled down and pulled out a ring and asked her to marry me. She’s now my fiancé and we’ve decided to adopt a stray shelter dog named Bluey he’s a blue tick coonhound. We said in about a few years we will be adopting a foster child.

  • kameleon

    These are great but do these work for 40-some things? Seems these are directed toward the younger generation.

  • pams

    I was on number 14 when he gave the answer to number 18. Awesome

  • Cortney

    my man and I are both 23 yrs old. I just played the 20 questions game with him and his questions got dirty lol.. I thought it was funny because it was working and he’s not the type to take it there in general. He also replied fast to these. LovePanky these are powerful questions good job!

  • WOW!!!!!!!

    He loved it the best thing was that he was talking naughty back.

    Thank you love panky.

  • swingdancer

    Well I think that most women can get away with asking just two or three of those questions … we are “guys” after all … be real … be honest …
    #1 .. #18 … #20 … A smart guy will be there in a few seconds after you ask #1 … because well … we’ll be in the car and driving as you send us #18 and #20 … and we might get pulled over by the police unless we’re careful :-)

  • Raymond Michel Johnsonjnr

    If I was with you right now, what would you do to me? is a good one xD.