156 Sexy, Dirty Questions to Ask a Guy & Make Him Horny Just Listening to You

If you want to talk dirty to a guy, we have all the questions for you to ask him to nudge the conversation in a sexier direction. They will drive him wild with desire for you… so what are you waiting for? 

Sexy, Dirty Questions to Ask a Guy

Talking dirty to a guy is the key to teasing or even seducing a guy, as it can go a long way in building sexual tension. But dirty talk doesn’t come easily to everyone.

Some people feel awkward about talking dirty, and others are too scared of getting it wrong to even try. If you think that talking dirty is too far out of your comfort zone, then these dirty questions to ask a guy will help you to talk absolute smut in no time!

And the best part about these questions is you can be as sexually suggestive or friendly as you’d like, and you’ll still make him think he’s the one initiating the sexier conversations. 

First, before we get into the dirty questions, let’s talk about the benefits of talking dirty to a guy.

[Read: 50 funny questions for couples to test their true compatibility instantly]

Benefits of talking dirty to a guy

Sure, talking dirty to a guy is exciting and fun, but you probably didn’t know that there are some actual benefits to it too. Here are some reasons why you should talk dirty to a guy.

1. Gets you comfortable with talking about sex and feelings

Let’s face it – not everyone is comfortable talking about personal things. Whether it’s sex or how you feel about someone, it can be difficult for people to open up. 

But talking dirty to a guy helps you both get comfortable; it breaks the sex ice, so to speak. Then, talking about your feelings and what you like sexually will be a lot easier later down the line. [Read: How to talk about sex without sounding like a pervert]

2. Achieves higher level of satisfaction

Everyone wants to have a satisfying sex life, right? Well, you’ll never achieve that if your lover doesn’t do the things you like and you’re too afraid to speak up about it. 

So, talking dirty to a guy will help make your sex life more satisfying. It opens up a safe arena to talk about some topics that could be difficult to bring up when you are in the heat of the moment.

3. Aids in bonding

Sex is a very bonding experience, not only physically but emotionally too. It is a very intimate experience to share with another person. [Read: Emotional attachment – 25 signs of healthy and unhealthy love]

So, when you talk dirty to a guy, it bonds you even more. Whether or not you’ve had sex yet, it still builds that connection between the two of you to make your sex better and bring you closer together.

4. Stimulates the brain

These days, a lot of people don’t stimulate their brains very much. They’re too busy on social media and other things that they don’t exercise their creativity.

But when you talk dirty with a guy, you need to come up with interesting things to say. Of course, we are helping you out here with a long list of options.

But you still will have to read through them all and choose the best ones for you. [Read: 34 hand job tips, secrets, and positions to give a hand job that drives him wild]

Scientific reasons behind dirty talk stimulation

Believe it or not, the brain is the most powerful because that’s where the sex drive begins. So, the right amount of dirty talk will excite and stimulate your mind and improve your sex life tenfold.

Your sex drive originates in your limbic system, but it works differently in males and females.

There are two areas in the hypothalamus: the preoptic area and the suprachiasmatic nucleus. Each has distinct functions in male and female brains. [Read: Sexual foreplay – 20 lusty secrets to do it well and make them hot and horny]

The preoptic area is responsible for mating behavior, and it’s twice as large in men than it is in women.

The suprachiasmatic nucleus is involved with circadian rhythms and reproduction cycles. Men have a nucleus that is shaped like a sphere, and women have a more elongated shape.

Because men have a larger hypothalamus, they have more circulating testosterone, which stimulates the desire for sex.

Women have a smaller hypothalamus, so they have lower testosterone levels, which means they are more likely to experience a lower sex drive than men. [Read: Signs of high testosterone in men – the overflow of man-juice]

So, talking dirty to a guy is a whole mind and body experience. It activates all regions of your brain and also gets your body stimulated too. 

Why should you talk dirty to your man? 

Now that you know the benefits and scientific reasons to talk dirty to a guy, what are the other reasons you should talk dirty to your man?

1. To arouse him

This is pretty obvious, right? That’s the whole point of talking dirty to a guy – to get him all hot and horny for you! It will also make you feel good that you made him lust after you. [Read: What turns a guy on? 51 subtle sexual turn-ons that arouse men in seconds]

2. To make him think about you

If you’re not with each other at the moment, then talking dirty to a guy over text is a great way to get him thinking about you.

There is no way that he can forget about you and no better way to get him lusting after you when you talk dirty to him. Just make sure he’s not in the middle of an important business meeting! 

3. To tease him

Being playful and teasing your lover is always fun. It gives you the upper hand, and when you really drive him wild, you’ll have him begging to have sex with you. So, you can have a lot of fun with him until you decide to give in and give him what he wants.

4. To build sexual tension

Sexual tension is always exciting to experience. You both want each other – bad – but the time isn’t right quite yet. So, talking dirty can build anticipation and a whole lot of sexual tension between the two of you. [Read: How to create sexual tension with a guy around him and over text]

General dirty talk guidelines

If you’ve never talked dirty to a guy before, don’t worry. All you need to do is follow these general guidelines, and you’ll be fine.

1. Don’t overthink it

You might be really nervous, and so you want to do it perfectly. But don’t overthink it. Just go with the flow and have fun with it. Overthinking will just make you more uncomfortable.

2. Before sex, say what you want during sex, and say what you like

One of the great things about dirty talk is that it allows you to tell the guy what you want him to do to you in bed. [Read: What causes sexual tension – what exactly does it feel like?]

By doing it before you have sex, he will feel less threatened or defensive that he’s not “doing it right.” He won’t feel criticized because he’s not actually doing anything to you when you’re talking dirty to him.

3. Be descriptive

Talk about what you want in bed in as much detail as you can. Use a lot of adjectives, and say exactly where and how you like to be touched. Use words like “hard,” “light,” or “soft” to describe your preferences.

4. Use all of your senses

There is more to sex than just physical touch. So, when you’re talking dirty to a guy, get all of your senses involved. Talk about how you want him to smell, taste, and sound. [Read: Aphrodisiacs and food hell – a lover’s guide to eating well]

5. Don’t use too much profanity if that’s a turn-off for your partner

A lot of people like to use profanity when they’re in bed with someone because they think it’s a turn-on. Maybe it does get you excited, but make sure your lover likes it too. You don’t want them to be uncomfortable because then that will ruin the mood.

6. Don’t be degrading

Along the lines of using profanity, some people also like to degrade their partners in bed. That means calling them a bitch, slut, whore, etc. Well, try to stay away from that even if you like it – especially if you don’t know the guy that well who you are talking dirty with.

7. Push yourself and take a leap into the unknown

Talking dirty to a guy is not easy for a lot of girls. They get self-conscious and don’t think they’re doing it right.

But be brave, push yourself to do it, and take a leap into the unknown and see how it goes. What’s the worst that can happen? [Read: 41 sultry ways to turn a guy on fast and make him lust and fantasize about you]

8. Start your dirty talk via text if you’re feeling truly terrified

It’s always more difficult to say something to someone in person. Looking them in the eyes can be intimidating. So, if you’re too scared to talk dirty to a guy in person, then you can always start doing it over text. It’s more comfortable that way for a lot of people.

9. Refrain from judging

Too many girls judge themselves for no reason at all. So, don’t judge yourself, even if you think you said something stupid or cheesy. Also, don’t judge the guy for talking dirty to you too. Keep an open mind with both of you.

How to talk dirty to your man

Now that you know the general guidelines of how to talk dirty to a guy, what exactly can you do to talk dirty to your man? Here are some things you can try. [Read: 23 hot ways to sext a guy and 48 naughty examples to make him hot and hard]

1. Try role-play

It’s always fun to pretend to be someone else, so why not try some role-play? You could be a teacher-student, police officer-convict, two strangers at a bar, or whatever else sounds exciting to you.

2. Say what’s on your mind

A lot of women aren’t comfortable speaking what’s on their minds, especially if it’s dirty. But just be bold and blurt it out and tell him what you’re thinking. He will definitely like it.

3. Have an affair

Okay, not a real affair, just a pretend affair. You could even combine this with role play and pretend you don’t know each other when you are out in public.

Then pretend that you’re starting to have an affair with each other. [Read: Sexual role-play – how to try it and the 35 best role-play ideas for couples]

4. Whisper in his ear

The ol’ whisper in the ear thing is still very sexy. So why not try that when you’re with your man? Say something dirty that will turn him on, and make it soft and sensual in his ear.

5. Make noises

Guys always love it when girls make noises during sex. They don’t like it when you’re quiet and inactive. So, let loose and make as many noises as you want – it is guaranteed to turn him on.

6. Tell him what you want him to do to you

Believe it or not, most men do actually want to please a woman in bed. So, if you tell him what you want him to do to you, he will be very eager to do so.

Plus, it takes the pressure off of him to figure out what you want. [Read: How to be a dominant – steps to take control and lead in bed]

7. Tell him what you’re going to do to him

Whether this is over text or in person, telling a guy about the sexual acts you want to perform on him gets his imagination running wild. He will be begging you to do it all to him in no time.

8. Remind him of the amazing things he did last night

Let’s face it – a lot of guys like to have their egos stroked. They like to think they are a beast in bed and the best you have ever had. So, tell him how much you liked what he did to you the night before. 

9. Tell him about a dirty dream you had

If you had a dirty dream about him *or even if you haven’t*, tell him about the dream. Of course, you can’t control whether or not you actually had a dirty dream.

But if you did, make sure you share it with him. [Read: How to have a wet dream – 15 ways to hot sex dreams and sleep orgasms]

10. Tell him your fantasy

We all have fantasies, but not everyone talks about them. So, why not try doing it now? Tell him about one of your favorite fantasies, and tell him that you want him to make it a reality for you. He will definitely be up for the challenge.

11. Let him know you want to be in charge 

Society expects men to be the dominant ones, but that can get boring for both of you sometimes. So, tell him how much you want to be in charge. Tell him that he has to follow your orders and do whatever you tell him to do.

12. Tell him when you’re about to climax

Guys like it when they know that they made you have an orgasm. So, whether you’re talking dirty to a guy over text or when you’re in bed, let him know that you’re about to climax.

It will turn him on and make him want to have his orgasm too. [Read: How to turn a guy on without touching him – A guide to get him to fantasize about you]

Questions to talk dirty with a guy

Whether you’ve just met a new guy or are looking to spice things up in a relationship, these dirty questions will make any man hot, hot, HOT!

It’s great to add a little something different into the bedroom from time to time, and asking seriously dirty questions to get any man talking and all hot and bothered is certainly one way to do it!

Start off by texting something casual and try to figure out if he’s lazing and has the time to text you for an hour or so without any interruptions.

These dirty questions are open-ended, and he’ll ask you for your answers all the while too. [Read: How to make any guy really horny just by sitting next to him!]

Play coy, but let him know you’re enjoying the texts when you respond to him. And you’ll be able to work your magic and seduce him in an hour’s time with these dirty questions!

These questions are sexy, seductive, and downright dirty and may even help you discover more about each other. They are the perfect way to build up explosive sexual tension and get him thinking about you all day long.

Want to know how you can do this? Read on!

[Read: 60 fun get-to-know-you questions for a new romance]

1. Hey, I’m curious, do you ever check me out when I walk away from you?

This is a good casual question to start with. It’s innocent enough, but it can always lead to more.

2. Have you ever hooked up with a friend?

Still playing into the curiosity aspect, this question will get his mind thinking of past hookups and will get him in a horny mood.

3. Do you think you’re a good kisser?

If he thinks he is, you can’t wait to find out for yourself. If he doesn’t, then you can help him practice. It’s a win-win question! [Read: How to kiss a friend accidentally and get away with it]

4. Has anyone ever accidentally seen you naked?

This dirty question to ask a guy is funny and flirty at the same time.

5. Have you ever felt like flashing to someone?

As light-hearted as this may be, you’re now starting to get onto the topic of fantasies. No doubt, with this question, you’ll turn him on.

6. What are you wearing right now?

A classic in the dirty-questions game, but it’s a classic for a reason.

7. What’s the sexiest outfit a girl should wear to turn you on?

Now you’re explicitly getting into his fantasies, and the conversation is getting hotter and hotter. If he’s lucky, you might even wear the outfit he likes the next time you see him.

8. What kind of outfit would look best on me?

This dirty question gets him to imagine you in a sexier way.

9. Would you help me pick that outfit if I asked you to?

If you get him to picture dressing you, how could he not also imagine undressing you?

10. What’s your favorite part of a girl’s body?

Make him think about womanly body parts, and he’ll no doubt start thinking about yours. [Read: How to get a guy to sleep with you and woo him without being slutty]

11. Which part of my body do you think looks the best?

The previous question gets him to think about your body subtly, but now take charge and make him say what he’s thinking!

12. What do you wear when you go to bed?

His answer may or may not be very sexy, but your answer surely can be.

13. When was the last time a girl was in your bed?

Get him thinking about the last time he was intimate, and he’ll also start thinking about when he’ll get to be intimate with you.

14. What’s your idea of good foreplay?

Not only are you finding out for future reference what he likes in the bedroom, but you’re also making him initiate the dirty talk.

15. What’s your favorite sexual fantasy?

Ask him this dirty question, and he’ll instantly start thinking about playing out his favorite fantasy with you.

16. Do you think we’d do something funny if we get drunk together?

While this question may be funny, you can’t deny how oh-so-horny it also is. Talk about being a tease!

17. Have you ever sexted your picture to anyone?

If that is something that you want to do, then this will effectively initiate the nude swapping.

But remember, always protect yourself by cropping out your face from any picture you send.

18. Have you ever felt horny while texting on the phone?

Like, now, for instance?!

19. If I were with you right now, what would you do to me?

He’ll not only be fantasizing about all the things he can do to you, but he’ll be sharing these dirty thoughts with you. Is it getting hot in here?

20Do you want to come over to my place now?

And… he’s on his way!

21. Tell me about the sexiest dream you’ve ever had about me.

Conversations like these make for fun sexual conversations while making out with each other. It’s also a great way to get your guy to talk about his sexual fantasies while using his dream as an excuse.

22. When was the last time you dreamt about me naked?

This is yet another funny yet dirty question to ask a guy. He may feel a little embarrassed to tell you the sexy dreams he’s had of you, but it will no doubt be hot.

23. What looks hotter on me, short skirts or short shorts?

Find out what he likes while also getting his mind racing with sexy images of you. [Read: How to look sexy without trying to look sexy]

24. If I ever caught you masturbating, would you be embarrassed by it?

Let’s face it, just because your boyfriend’s having sex with you doesn’t mean he would never masturbate.

Instead of making a fuss about it or confronting him about it, just let him talk about it in a light-hearted environment. You can always ask him to give you the details as he answers this question.

25. Can you tell me what color underwear I have on today?

Who said that dirty talk had to be serious? Why not make a guessing game out of it? [Read: Unique and naughty texting games to have fun all night long!]

26. What’s the dirtiest thing you’ve done in bed?

His answer could be sexy, or it could be embarrassing. Either way, it’s still good to break the ice if talking dirty is still uncomfortable for you.

27. Which part of your body do you want me to touch?


28. Which part of your body do you want me to lick?

Or… [Read: How to master the art of the perfect blowjob]

29. Which part of your body do you want me to nibble on?

Whether you ask him or all three of these questions, he’ll no doubt be begging to see you if you spend the time to find out just how he wants to be pleasured.

30. If you could have a threesome with one other girl and me, who would you pick?

This question would help him see that you’re a real wild cat and not as coy and shy as you pretend to be on the outside! [Real-life confessions: My hot, sexy threesome experience!]

31. What’s the naughtiest thing you’ve done in your life?

This question is similar to no.26, but you could find out if he likes to take sex out of the bedroom and into the public.

32. What is your sexiest fantasy?

And when can we make it a reality?

33. Do you want to be inside me right now?

He’ll be dizzy with the thought of being inside you and pleasantly surprised by your brazenness.

34. What shall I do with all this leftover whipped cream?

Teasingly suggest that you bring food into the bedroom. Trust us, he’ll be licking his lips.

35. Have you ever been caught having sex?

A tad bit more innocent out of all of the dirty questions to ask a guy, this one will turn a casual conversation into a more dirty one.

36. If we were having sex on a vacation and you realized that someone was watching us from the next room, would you stop having sex or continue?

Find out how wild and naughty your boyfriend is when he’s horny! [Read: 30 dirty would-you-rather sex questions to ask your man]

37. Have you ever been caught masturbating?

Very similar to no.35, this question will break the ice and not so much make him lust for you. [Read: The 15 sexy benefits of masturbation]

38. Do you want to watch me masturbate?

Now, this dirty question will definitely make him lust for you! [Read: Mutual masturbation – intimate ways to connect without touching]

39. Have you used any sex toys before?

If not, then there’s a first for everything.

40. Do you think some girl has a little crush on you right now?

This question will boost his ego and help him open up to you about his own personal life beyond your relationship.

41. How old were you when you lost your virginity? Where and how did you lose it, and with whom?

A more casual dirty question to ask a guy, you’ll get to find out more about his life and his past.

42. Do you want to use a sex toy on me?

Many guys see sex toys as competition. But that’s simply not true, they can be a great addition to a couple’s sex life.

Find out just how wild his imagination can be with the addition of toys!

43. Do you prefer oral, vaginal, or anal sex?

When you’re thinking of dirty questions to ask a guy, they don’t have to just be about making him horny for you. They can also help you understand just what he wants in the bedroom.

44. Do you want to try anal sex?

[Read: The dirty truth: Is it possible to have an anal orgasm?]

45. Do you prefer a shaven or hairy pussy?

Feel free to tell him which one you’re sporting.

46. Would you help me shave my pussy?

This dirty question to ask a guy will reveal just how intimate he is willing to be. Does he want to take care of you, or does he just want a wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am? [Read: Trim, shave, or natural: The real score on the bush]

47. What’s your favorite sexual position?

Tell him your favorite position as well. If they’re the same, then you know that you’ll have amazing sex. However, if you two prefer different positions, don’t fret; that just means that there are more positions for you to try together.

48. Can you guess what I’m wearing right now?

This dirty question to ask a guy is a great way to gauge just how turned on he is. If his answer isn’t something sexy, then he clearly isn’t turned on. If his answer is sexual, then you have the green light to take it further.

49. Before we met, what was the sexiest thing you did with someone else?

Most guys pussyfoot around their past, even if their girlfriend is extremely inquisitive about it. Use this question to know how sexually adventurous your boyfriend is. [Read: 60 dirty and sexy things to say to a guy, + the magic art of dirty talking to impress him]

50. If you could sleep with a celebrity, who would it be?

You’ll find out more about his usual type with this question.

51. If you had to kiss a girl on any part of the body other than her face, which part would you kiss first?

And then where after that, and where after that. Getting him to tell you a road map of places he wants to kiss you is extremely hot!

52. Would you get jealous if you saw me flirting with another guy?

[Read: How to make a guy jealous and get his attention]

53. How would you feel if I kissed a hot girl?

Does he forget all about his jealousy when it’s “hot?”

54. Have you ever considered a threesome?

55. What’s the hottest thing I’ve ever done to you?

Ask this dirty question to ask your guy so that you can find out what you’ve done right in the past and what you should do more of in the future.

56. Before we started dating, did you ever fantasize about me or take a peek at me when I wasn’t looking?

You’ve always wanted to know just how badly he wanted to hook up with you, so why not ask?!

57. Where is the most exciting place you’ve had sex?

And just how risque was it? [Read: The best places to have sex – 41 wild and naughty places beyond the bed]

58. Are you a boobs or a butt kind of guy?

Every guy has a preference; find out his. [Read: Why do guys like breasts like crazy?]

59. Do you want me to talk dirty right now?

Whether you believe this or not, consent is very sexy. Making sure you’re both comfortable and into it is the best way to guarantee a good experience.

60. Do you like what I am doing?

Don’t be afraid to check in mid-dirty conversation. [Read: How to tell if a guy is turned on – 22 horny signs he is aroused AF!]

61. What do you think is the sexiest part of my body?

Once you know this, all you have to do is use that part of your body to arouse your guy and turn him on!

62. Do you want me to go faster?

Is he still interested in the conversation, or does he want the dirtiness to be turned up a notch?

63. Do you want me to slow down?

Similarly, find out if he’s uncomfortable with the pace of the conversation.

64. If you accidentally saw a girl undressing and she didn’t know you were looking, would you look away, or would you continue watching?

[Read: Sexual voyeurism and why it’s such a sexy rush!]

65. What do you want me to do to you?

With this bold dirty question to ask a guy, he’ll appreciate the effort you’re making to learn how to satisfy him.

66. Have you ever disturbed the neighbors because you were having really loud sex?

With this question, you’re also finding out just how good he is in bed. [Read: How to moan & look and sound even more sexy in bed]

67. Have you ever done it outside?

Are you two about to get into some exhibitionism?

68. What’s the sexiest book you’ve ever read?

69. What do you think should be our next step to make our sex life more exciting?

If your sex life is starting to get predictable, this is a great way to get your boyfriend to talk about new things he’d like to try in bed without feeling awkward. [Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas that are worth trying at least once!]

70. What’s the sexiest film you’ve ever seen?

Maybe not everyone has read a smutty book, but we have all seen a film with at least one sex scene. Which film stands out from all the rest for him and why?

71. Do you want to watch some porn together?

Many couples watch porn together to get ideas for new things to try.

72. Do you like the idea of someone watching us have sex?

Has he got a bit of voyeurism in him?

73. What kind of vacation would you prefer, the romantic mountainside where we can be locked up in our room all day or a beach party destination where we can grind and make out while clubbing?

This dirty question to ask a guy is multifaceted; it gets his dirty imagination going while also allowing you to find out more about what kind of person he is. [Read: The top 50 kinky sex ideas for a lust-fueled relationship]

74. Do you like the idea of tying me up?


75. Do you like the idea of being tied up by me?

Find out if and how much he is into BDSM.

76. Who would you prefer: a girl with a pretty face and an average body or a girl with an average face and an awesome body?

Hopefully, he’ll say that you’re the best of both worlds!

77. Do you want to try rough sex?

“Or have you already?” [Read: 15 ways to have the sexiest rough sex ever]

78. Do you want me to be dominant?

Not every guy wants to be the dominant one. Some like it when a woman takes charge in the bedroom.

79. Do you want to suck my toes?

Ask him this dirty question to ask a guy to find out whether he is into feet or not.

80. Do you like dirty talking while having sex?

A lot of men and women who enjoy dirty talking may be too embarrassed to reveal this deviant secret. 

The easiest way to get these shy people to open up is by asking them about it when they don’t feel the pressure of being judged about it. [Read: 23 tips to dirty talk and say the sexiest words to a guy]

81. Have you ever been to a strip club?

Playfully innocent, this dirty question to ask a guy will definitely get the conversation going. You could also surprise him if he asks you the same question!

82. How many fingers could you get inside me?

Don’t be afraid to tell him how many fingers you want him to use. [Read: Sexual exploration: Ever heard of the finger blowjob?]

83. Do you want to go skinny-dipping?

“Or have you ever gone skinny-dipping?

84. What’s your favorite part of my body?

Get him to go into detail to really make the conversation steamy.

85. If we ever played truth or dare with another couple, do you think you’d do something naughty in front of them?

Adult truth-or-dare can be a sexy experience for those who are brave enough. [Read: 30 dirty truth-or-dare questions for a sexy night]

86. Do you feel horny right now?

You probably already know, but it can be hot to have him describe exactly what effect you have on him.

87. Do you think I am a good kisser?

[Read: 12 foolproof kissing tips for a perfectly sexy smooch]

88. If I had to dress up in a sexy outfit, which character or attire would you want me to dress up in?

If your man is into cosplay, find out just how you can bring that into the bedroom and satisfy his wildest fantasies.

89. Where would you like me to kiss you the most?

This dirty question to ask a guy can lead to even dirtier questions about what he’d like you to do to him.

90. Have you ever slept with more than one person on the same night?

His answer to this question will reveal a lot about his sexual past and his attitude to sex. [Read: Is he a player or a gentleman? 13 clear giveaways]

91. How do you feel about group sex?

This is a step up from asking about threesomes, that’s for sure.

92. Would it turn you on to see me making out with someone else?

Maybe he’s not the jealous type, maybe your man would be excited to see you be with other people.

93. If I were to dress up like a nurse or a naughty schoolgirl, which would you prefer?

If you’ve already asked him what role-play situations he would like to play out, and he didn’t give you an answer, give him some options to help narrow down his fantasies.

94. Do you want to have phone sex with me?

Some people much prefer talking dirty over the phone than over text messages.

95. Do you want to have FaceTime sex with me?

That said, some people aren’t satisfied with just words and need to see what’s going on.

96. Do you like it when I’m coy-and-sexy or bold-and-sexy?

Some guys like it when their girl is dominating in bed and in control, while most guys love it when they’re making out with a girl who’s more shy and bashful in bed. [Read: Bad girl traits every guy craves to see in his girl!]

97. Want to play a game?

Truth-or-dare, 21 questions, “guess what kind of sexy lingerie I’m wearing,” there are many fun, flirty, and naughty games the two of you could play. Or let your imagination run wild and think of your own.

98. Want to get really drunk and have sex all night long?

With this dirty question to ask a guy, you’re not wasting your time.

99. What’s the longest you’ve lasted during sex?

[Read: 15 things you do that turn him off while having sex!]

100. What’s the most mind-blowing orgasm you’ve ever had?

His answer will give you great insights into what he likes.

101. How many times have you had sex in one night?

Just how high is his sex drive?

102. When did I look the hottest to you, and why?

If you know when you look the hottest in his eyes, then you can make sure to recreate that look for him.

103. What is your favorite underwear on me?

Aka., what underwear of mine makes you want to take it off?

104. Do you like this outfit?

Simple and innocent but an effective dirty question to ask a guy.

105. Do you want to get wild in bed tonight?

[Read: Wild ways to have sex in the shower and enjoy it!]

106. If you could do absolutely anything to me in the bedroom, what would it be?

107. If we were just friends and I got drunk with you, would you hit on me?

There’s a good chance that just asking him this question will sexually arouse him.

108. Do you prefer it fast or slow?

[Read: 40 serious questions to ask your boyfriend to form a good and deep bond]

109. Do you want me to call out your name in bed?

110. Have you ever had multiple orgasms?

Just know that this is no easy feat for a guy!

[Read: How to push the right buttons to achieve multiple orgasms]

111. Have you ever given a girl multiple orgasms?

Ask him this question to find out just how attentive a lover he is.

112. Want to try this new sex position later?

Make sure to send over a picture demonstrating this position so he knows exactly how he should picture you.

113. I’m thinking about you naked right now. Are you thinking about me?

This question allows you to not only ask him a dirty question but also tell him about your dirty thoughts.

114. Do you want to rip my clothes off right now?

Find out just how passionately he wants you.

115. What are you going to do to me when you get home tonight?

Spontaneous sex is hot, but don’t think that planning it in advance isn’t hot as well. What better way to build sexual tension throughout the day?

116. I’ve been a very naughty girl. How are you going to punish me?

[Read: 6 naughty ways to tease your man and leave him hard]

117. Which female superhero would you have sex with and why?

Let’s face it, a lot of guys like superheroes, and a lot of guys really like certain female superheroes. Find out which one he’d want to have sex with and dress up as her.

118. Do you want to stay in bed all day together?

Nothing beats dedicating an entire day to staying in bed and having sex.

119. I’m getting in the shower now. Want to join me?

[Read: Slippery when wet: Make shower sex sizzle with these tips]

120. Do you want to have a bath together later?

Don’t be fooled; this dirty question to ask a guy is also quite romantic.

121. I’m so horny right now. What are you going to do about it?

He better be a man of action! [Read: 30 hot texts that’ll turn him on and leave him obscenely horny]

122. I’m cold. Want to warm me up?

This is a great question to ask him during the colder months. [Read: 20 hot sex ideas to blow your lover’s mind in bed]

123. Tell me a secret sexual fantasy of yours that you want to try with me.

This is a great dirty question to ask your boyfriend.

124. What is the weirdest and wildest place you’ve ever had sex in?

Compare your answers to see which one of you is the most sexually daring.

125. If you were looking for movies online, would you choose porn? 

126. Do you like to be spanked or have your hair pulled? 

Or would he prefer to do that to you?

127. If you could make me wear anything while out for a date night, what would it be and why?

Essentially, what kind of outfit would he love to rip off of you?

128. If I catch you staring at me, which part of my body are you most likely to be looking at?

If you know what he’s looking at, you’ll know what to flaunt.

129. Did you ever have a crush on a hot teacher? What did she look like, and how old was she?

Not only is this a naughty question to ask, but you’ll also find out more about his childhood.

130. How often do you think about sex during a 24-hour period? What kinds of things do you think about?

Is he constantly thinking about sex, or does he go about his day without being disrupted by dirty thoughts?

131. How did you find out what sex was? Who told you, and how old were you?

Children don’t know anything, so usually if you ask him about how he found out about sex, you’ll likely receive a funny answer *not that dirty talk can’t also be funny*. [Read: 56 romantic questions to ask your boyfriend to feel instantly closer]

132. What is the naughtiest, dirtiest, sexiest dream you have ever had? 

And was it about you?

133. When we wake up in the morning, what is the first thing that comes to mind when you see my body lying next to you?

134. Where is the most public place that you have ever masturbated? Did you get caught?

This is a great dirty question to ask your boyfriend.

135. Have you ever been attracted to someone of the same sex? If so, who was it, and what did you do about it?

Sexuality is a spectrum; being attracted to someone of the same sex once doesn’t mean you’re gay. Find out comfortable your man is with his sexuality.

136. Is there anything that you would not be willing to do in the bedroom? What is it, and why does it turn you off?

When you’re thinking of dirty questions to ask your man, you don’t have to ask specifically about his turn-ons. Asking about his turn-offs will be just as beneficial to you.

137. What superhero name would you give yourself to describe your sexual ability? Captain America? Thor? The Hulk? Superman? Batman? Someone else?

[Read: 30 flirty, fun questions to ask your boyfriend and learn his secrets]

138. How many people have you slept with? Do you think it’s too much, too few, or just right?

There is no correct answer to this question, but it will reveal if you two view sex differently or not.

139. How many people do you think I have slept with? Are you weirded out by thinking I’ve had sex with other guys?

Some people think possessiveness, at a healthy level, is hot.

140. What do you think about open relationships? Would you ever be willing to try one?


141. Would you ever have a poly relationship? Why or why not?

Just how strict are his views of monogamy?

142. What do you think about trying S&M? How far would you let me go? Would you rather be dominant or submissive? Why?

This could open whole new doors for your sex life. [Read: BDSM tips and tricks for curious first-timers]

143. Would you ever want to go to a sex party? Would you participate in an orgy? Why or why not?

If he seems interested in the idea, you could ask him if he’d like to go with you.

144. What if I wanted to become a swinger with you? Would you participate or try to talk me out of it?

Not just a dirty question to ask a guy but also a question to clarify just how compatible you two are.

145. How did you figure out what you like in bed? 

Did he read your body language and what you responded best to, or did he guess and get lucky?

146. Have you ever done it in the back seat of a car or a movie theater? An airplane?

[Read: What is the mile-high club? Is it on your sexual bucket list?]

147. Are you satisfied with the size of your package? Would you like it to be bigger or smaller?

If he’s insecure about what he’s working with, reassure him by telling him just how much you love his tool.

148. Have you ever had a one-night stand? If so, when and who did you do it with? Did you like it?

That’s a great dirty question to ask your boyfriend to find out about his sexual past and interests.

149. Do you like to take naked pictures of yourself? Do you keep them or delete them?

And can you see them?

150. If you could describe my body in three words, what would they be and why?

Think of three words to describe his body as well.

151. Do you get jealous when other guys check me out? Or do you like it? Why do you like it, or why are you jealous?

[Read: 17 big signs of a jealous and possessive boyfriend]

152. Do you have a name for your penis? If not, do you mind if I name it for you?

This one is a little silly, but don’t be afraid to get playful with your dirty talk, especially if talking dirty doesn’t come naturally to you.

153. Do you like it when I make the first move on you? Or do you prefer to initiate sex?

Find out if he likes it when you play coy or confident.

154. How many times do you think you could have sex in a 24-hour period? Would you be willing to try?

Why not help him beat his personal best?

155. Do you like going down on me? If so, what are the things you like the most?

Dirty talk doesn’t have to be all about him! Ask him about how he likes to satisfy you.

156. If you had to choose blowjobs or having sex – just one or the other – for the rest of your life, which would it be and why?

[Read: Slow blowjob – how to blow a guy in slow motion and leave him quivering]

Why talking dirty does not always have to be sexual

Although all of these questions are sexually oriented, you don’t have to say outrageously sexual things to arouse him and build sexual tension. Let’s face it – guys are pretty easily aroused anyway. 

So, if you don’t want to get down and dirty talking to a guy, you can still turn him on without getting too specific. You can even be a little romantic instead of overtly sexual.

It’s all up to you and him. Just do whatever feels right. [Read: The best role-playing ideas and 35 tips to seduce your lover as someone else]

Final thoughts

Try it!

Don’t think these dirty questions to ask a guy can get him into bed with you before the end of the text conversation? Try it, you’ll be surprised. Just remember to avoid trying to sound funny; focus on feeling sexy and let him know that you’re horny!

[Read: 84 hot texts to turn a guy on, make him hard, and leave him really horny]

These awesome dirty questions to ask a guy are sure to have any guy worked up and ready to tear your clothes off! So, if you feel like you could add a little “ooh la la” to your sex life, then why not try them out and see how well they work?

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Vinod Srinivas Serai
Vin Serai
Vin Serai is the founder of LovePanky.com, and has delved deep into the working of love and relationships for almost two decades. Having dipped his feet in almo...