Do you like building up the sexual tension before doing something in person? Here are some really naughty texting games you could use to do just that. By Sarah Summer
To many, staying awake the whole of Saturday night just to text another person can seem ridiculous.
Speaking to each other is a much better option, isn’t it?
Well, in all probability, speaking is definitely a much better option.
But what do you do when you run out of things to say?
Or what if you want to talk naughty but are too scared to initiate a dirty conversation?
This is especially common in a new relationship.
And we’ve all been there.
You’ve been on a couple of dates and now both of you are crazy about each other.
And both of you want to take the next step into the seduction game, but just don’t know how to start talking dirty without making it seem like it’s all going too fast.
Dirty texting games to your rescue
Almost all the time, bringing sex into a new game of love is tricky.
And yet, the only way to bring sex into your new love life is by slipping sex into the picture when both of you spend a lot of time texting each other and speaking over the phone.
If you want to build the sexual tension and initiate sex talk into a new relationship, dirty texting games are the way to go. [Read: 10 other sexy ways to build the sexual tension when you're near someone you like]
Even if your new squeeze feels awkward about it or isn’t ready for that stage, you can just make the whole thing seem like a joke and get away with a laugh.
In more ways than one, texting games always take the pressure off your shoulders when it comes to conversations about sex.
It’s easy to initiate, it drives both of you on a crazy sexual high, and you’d be able to build the sexual tension up to such a peak that your mate would want to make out with you on your very next date.
Doesn’t that make the entry of sex into a new relationship so safe and easy?
7 naughty texting games to play with your partner
Now these games don’t just work for new couples. It can work very well for seasoned couples too, just as long as both of you are far away and missing each other. [Read: Naughty ways to make a long distance relationship work]
You can pick any game out of these, and as long as you keep sex in your mind, you’ll be able to get to know your partner better and arouse them like never before too!
After all, arousing a new lover from far away always makes us feel awesome about ourselves, doesn’t it?
Use these 7 games, bend the rules when you have to, and have a wild and sexy time even when both of you are away from each other.
Game #1 Would you rather…? This is a safe game to play when you’re trying to build the sexual tension. You can start by asking tame questions and build up to something naughty and dirty as the game progresses. Start off by asking something easy and date-like, say “would you rather watch a movie or go to a restaurant on a date?”
And as the game progresses, get intimate when you see the chance. It’s alright to drift away into conversations and ask more questions now and then as long as you constantly look for ways to turn your date on. [Read: 60 get-to-know-you questions for a new romance]
Game #2 Texting and creating stories. This is a simple game which can also help you clearly see if your date’s ready to text naughty back at you. Start a sentence and leave it halfway so your date can complete it. And when your date texts you back the sentence, say something else that’ll be a continuation of their sentence. Take this back and forth for a few minutes, and it’ll definitely start to get naughty and exciting.
Game #3 Role playing over the phone
This is a great texting game that’s safe and yet, extremely arousing if played the right way. When you’re running out of things to text or say, tell your new date that you have a story you want to share with them. But they’ll have to add to the story with every text of theirs. Start off by talking about your own story so your date can realize what you’re up to within a text or two. But remember not to use your name.
You: “A girl met a boy last week for a romantic dinner at Luigi’s restaurant…”
Your date: “…and the boy really liked the girl!”
You: “…the girl liked the boy a lot too. She’s actually missing the boy right now and is wondering when she could get to spend more time with him.”
Your date: “Well, the boy’s wishing the girl could be with him right now…”
You: “and what does the boy intend to do with the girl if she were with him right now?” [Read: 30 subtle, obvious and sexual flirting tips for girls]
You get the drift, don’t you? Can you see how easily this conversation can get naughty in no time, without really involving you and your own new date?
By playing this same, you’re hinting at getting sexual, and your new lover will reciprocate and start getting naughty with you too.
Game #4 Text sex. This works just like phone sex, but without the voices. You don’t need to talk about the game with your lover. Just ask personal questions like “what are you wearing?” which will eventually get more arousing for both of you.
Take it slow and watch your date’s text response. Push the questions more into the sexual zone with each new text and your lover will start to respond to you. [Read: How to start text flirting for the first time]
Game #5 Texting truth or dare. Truth or dare is one of the sexiest and naughtiest games to take the inhibition out of any new couple. It’s a great game to be played as a couple or with company. But in this case, text each other a question or a dare and the other person has to respond to it either by acting it out or answering the question.
To make sure both of you are actually executing the dares, you can click pictures and send it to the other person if you’d like. Just remember to delete all the pictures after you’re done with the game though! [Read: 30 dirty truth or dare tips for a sexy night]
Game #6 Text strip poker. This is a text version of the strip poker game. To start off, both of you have to mention the total number of clothing that’s on your bodies, and that includes all the little negligees.
Each person takes a turn to ask a question about the relationship. It could be about a date, what one of you ordered or wore, or even personal information both of you have shared with each other over the first few dates. [Read: 12 devious ways to see your friend naked!]
When a person answers a question wrong, that person has to take off one of their clothing. Take pictures for proof if you trust your new lover, and delete it all after the game. But in this case, we’d advise you against sexting pictures to each other, especially in a new relationship.
Both of you should be a sport about the game and really strip off the clothing for every wrong answer. Even visualizing each other naked or saying something like “what are you taking off this time?” or “so you’re just in your underwear now, aren’t you? I wish I could see you right now” can end up turning both of you for a long time. [Read: 20 dirty questions to text a guy and make him horny]
Game #7 The confessions game. One of you takes a turn to pick a topic. And both of you take turns to confess a deep secret about it. Start off easy and clean, and start turning the questions towards romance and lust after a few questions. It’ll bring both of you closer, help both of you understand each other better and make both of you really horny. Could you ask for more from a naughty text game?!
Use any of these naughty texting games and you’ll definitely have a dirty and sexy time. And the best part, you can warm up towards making out with each other on the next date without even talking about it!
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